Role-Reversal and Gentle Femdom General - POST PICTURES edition
>preferably recommendations that are on-topic
Previous Thread: >>6522928
>What is Role Reversal?
Old Role Reversal Map:
irc channel: irc.irchighway.net , #gfd
/rr/ and /gfd/ megapastebins:
>Garden of Words
>Kiki's delivery service
>Witch Craft Works
>Madan no Ou to Vanadis
>Morobito: Guardian of the Spirit
>Monster Musume no Iru Ichijou
>Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukushii (The world is still beautiful)
>Akame ga Kill*
>The Pet Girl of Sakurasou*
>Danna ga Nani o Itteiru ka Wakaranai Ken
>Tasogare otome x Amnesia
>Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
>Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun
>Mysterious Girlfriend X
>Kono Onee-san wa fiction desu
>Unbalance x Unbalance
>Arakawa under the bridge
>Tramps like us
*/gfd/ is not the main focus of the story. Don't read/watch it purely for the /gfd/, make sure you enjoy it first and consider the /gfd/ a bonus.
As usual, recommendations are welcome.
>The witch, the succubus and the cute apprentice
>Leave it to Kagari-san
>What did I do Kagari-san?
>Sakaki Rapes Yoshida
>Amahara's World of Reversed Gender Roles
>The serpentess never lets go (and other works by Hroz)
>Layers of White 1 & 2
>Pool De Deatta Oneesan To Ecchi Na Kankei Ni Nacchau Ohanashi
>With love, the monster café
>[po-ju] Secret Journey
>[sena youtaro] Kannou no Christmas Eve & Kannou no Christmas Eve 1st Anniversary
>[Ishigaki Takashi] Let Me Bark for You
>[Yuuki Homura] Onee-chan! Tengoku
>[Oda Non] Yuuwaku X Rouge
>Yuri Suki Kanojo wa Yuri Kanojo ga Dekinai
Yes brother, list time
Pretty good. Nanowrimo started today, so I've been working on that a bit. I'm hoping that it'll be the motivation I need to actually see a story through to completion.
>Sent a qt a text on Friday asking if she was busy on Halloween
>She hasn't even read the message (both have iPhones)
>Don't want to send her another one before talking to her in person at work and come off as obnoxious/desperate
Just fornicate thine fecal matter towards the heavens, blood-relative.
haven't wanted to kill myself yet today so I think it's been a good day.
>When I'n doubt eat her out
I remember when that was the edition for one of these threads. That was a good thread. Who else just enjoys eating a girl out? I know I'm not alone.
I fucking love office ladies, but it's said that women in positions of power are paradoxically very likely to be submissive in the bedroom.
I thought the one with the collar was another boy.
That would've been so much hotter.
captcha was pumpkins and one of them had my name carved in it. skynet pls no
Feeling kind of crap because my halloween was a disappointment. Keeping my chin up though!
Are you in contact with her?
Very nice! What are you writing about?
Have patience, anon. good things come in time.
Do you have any hobbies? I hear that painting helps with depression, and I know that Bob Ross is being streamed on twitch
>get talking to a girl from the map
>really, really hit it off
>send nudes and stuff but actually spend most of our time talking with eachother about whatever
>stops talking to me super suddenly
>doesn't block me on anything though
>four months later i beg her to talk to me...and she does
>says she's been through some shit over the summer. been hospitalized, lost a close family member, etc etc. also had some weird religious pressure that she's over now.
>but she still barely responds to me when i try to talk to her
why doesn't anything ever work
>Very nice! What are you writing about?
It's a fantasy story heavily involving magic. The setting is basically that the gods have made a brand new world, and put some magic users on it who can then populate the world how they see fit. The story will take place with the second generation of magic peeps (who are individually less powerful than the first generation, but come in pairs). From there, I'm still trying to figure out how to give my little band of main characters an adventure.
It's very common to find the opposite in a woman's sex life versus work life personalities. I dated a girl that worked at the same office as me and she loved to be a cum dump who would do anything you want. Fucked with another person who worked in retail and she wanted to put me in a choker on a leash and have me eat her out while she played league.
It could be just random chance, but when you think about it makes sense. Woman A is in a position of power/decision making and just wants to be a mindless cum drunk slut with nothing to think about but cleaning my sweaty cock that's been suffocating in my pants all day, and woman B is in a position of no power and wants to feel the thrill of commanding someone to do every thing she wants; wherever and whenever she wants. Or woman C: Just likes whatever she likes.
>she wanted to put me in a choker on a leash and have me eat her out while she played league.
I am so jelly right now
Why don't you go do a social activity where at least half the people involved are women? You know, out there, in real life, where most women do their socializing/dating?
Sign up for a dance class. They'll be all over you since male partners are in high demand, and you'll get plenty of practice talking with girls in an environment where body-contact is appropriate. Since you're into take-charge women focus on the ones who don't mind showing you how to do stuff, lead or who have an interest in reversing the dance pair roles (a common for-fun variation).
Are there any actual porn videos out there that follow the /gfd/ or/and /rr/ theme?
Damn I haven't seen that one before, hot af
I'm clean shaven for the first time in a while. I wanted to start No-Shave November off fresh.
I'm waiting for finances to balance out.
>tfw working 70 to 90 hours a week to get out of debt
>red riding hood Domme with a wolf pet
All of my want.
My poor, poor virgin ass never has, but it's like my favorite fucking thing.
>She will never ogle you
>She will never pick out skimpy costumes for you to strut around in
>She will never drool over your ass in tight jeans
>She will never tell you what she wants you to wear, what she thinks you look qt in
>She will never mold you to be her dream bf
I just want to be pretty for my gf
Oh goodness, I remember going through the same thing not too long ago. You'll get out of it soon, I'm sure. As long as you have a bed to sleep in everything should be okay! And maybe you'll meet a qt gf when you finally get yourself out there, who knows?
Tfw still no gf to bake cookies for and give a massage after she comes home from work.
So, ehhh, how much luck have people had with the zeemap? I just put myself up on there and yet it feels like a fruitless effort.
>tfw don't know where else to go to find assertive or dominant partners
>says she's been through some shit over the summer. been hospitalized, lost a close family member, etc etc. also had some weird religious pressure that she's over now.
>but she still barely responds to me when i try to talk to her
>why doesn't anything ever work
Gee, that must be so hard for you.
She's stressed as hell, fucker. Her mind is probably preoccupied with a ton of things more important than you right now.
The coveted gfd relationship is hard, but you could always just get with a generally assertive girl if you try hard enough (they are more plentiful than gfd gals.) Just keep your chin up and think about the future. I mean I was trapped in a very shitty apartment for three years with a very abusive landlord, I had to work those hours every week to kind of feed myself just enough to stay alive? It's a bad time but there's bound to be someone out there for you (especially if you're young.)
Yeah I read that and kinda cringed...
>Why don't you go do a social activity where at least half the people involved are women?
Not him, but to be fair if you are not social these things are a complete wash (and not to mention expensive to the point where it becomes not tenable to continue trying them all the time).
I went to a Halloween party in NY last night and talked to no one but the bartender because I don't know how to speak to people that I don't already know.
Fair point, I was too harsh and should apply what I said to myself. And think before posting, too.
>I don't know how to speak to people that I don't already know.
This is precisely why I don't go out. And college is pretty much the same thing, I barely know anybody at all.
>don't know how to talk to people I don't already know
Isn't that a vicious cycle/fail logic? If you don't talk to people you don't know how do you meet new people?
I still go out because I really like live music, but the false hope of meeting someone when I go out is starting to become too depressing.
College was a total nothing for me. I made a small group of male friends by circumstance and that was it.
At what point in your life should you start a relationship such as this? I feel that that burden of getting an education and/or work may make it nearly impossible to meet up on a weekly basis . This is a relationship of commitment and the more time you spend apart the more likely it is to fail.
I meet very few new people.
I spent probably five minutes thinking about how I should complement this guy on his Hotline Miami costume last night, and then I didn't. I'm kind of at a point where it feels like there is a wall between me and talking to anyone that I don't know in person.
> I feel guilty about it.
goodbyes, as rushed as they sometimes are, are something you're really supposed to do
else your partner/friend/paypal will feel like shit and possibly go crazy for being left alone in the dark
Yuuka is the embodiment of a perfect dom. You must be too shy to meet her
Based solely on my city's kink scene, you have a better change at getting a dominant woman if you'll budge on the "gentle" bit. I know quite a few dommes, who make up more on the munches than you guys seem to imply, but most have some interest in rougher stuff too. Finding someone who is totally dominant with no sadistic qualities is harder. Even the male doms want to spank their subs and whatnot occasionally.
>She looks like a tough and awesome onee-san type but goes full sub when she recognizes you as a "real man"
Sadly this appears to be a recurring theme in hentai. The woman at first glance appears to be a dominant tease, but the moment the girly-man's penis enters her vagina she becomes a submissive cock slave.
>I don't know how to speak to people that I don't already know
Real talk? Try drinking or getting high. Depending on how you react it will either loosen you up.. or make you worse. Not an ideal solution, but this is what most people do.
I'm very shy too, but I break the ice by finding people who I can sincerely compliment, or by asking a question. Like, if someone has a band tee I like, I talk about the band with them. I keep it casual. Don't get too up into a girl's personal space when she's speaking.
So you'll never go out together?
Unless you're living in a place like NYC where it can be impractical to have a car, not having one is a red flag. If an adult in the suburbs has no car, I assume they've had a DUI or have some other issues. It's just not practical to not have a vehicle in most places, it limits you so much.
I live in the middle of nowhere, GA. Well, it's a very rural area. Never had a DUI since I don't drink.
I collect SSI for social/mental issues. Not crazy or anything. It would be very difficult for me to afford and maintain a car on $651 a month, even a cheap clunker.
>MFW Ill and cant go to school
>MFW noone to pat my head
I still have my hug pillow, going to have a nap.
besides rolling the dice and getting her drunk how does a guy get out of the friend zone? im starting to go crazy as we are closer than many married couples i know and all our friends and relatives think of us a couple, we travel the world together, we work together. we live together. i just don't know what to do so i will ask total strangers.
If you're that close and she doesn't want you, she never will. She's not attracted to you, or doesn't feel any romantic/sexual chemistry with you, or you don't have the attributes she wants in a mate.
Also, >using "friend zone" unironically
By friend zone do you mean "I just haven't asked her out yet because I'm scared," or do you mean you've asked her out/she's specifically said she thinks of you as a friend or pulled the old "you're like a brother to me" line?
If the former, just fucking bite the bullet and approach her about it. Whatever happens will be better than sitting on doing nothing forever.
If the latter, she isn't interested in you. Let it go. I know it sucks, bro. I've been there too. But the friend zone isn't something you break out of. If you got put there in the first place, it wasn't meant to be.
i have asked., i got a no then a yes [but i said no because i felt she needed to restructure her life] then a no again [only reason she gave is she doesn't want to have kids but i do], she is really pessimistic and can't make a decision about anything big or life altering and if she does it can be changed with peer pressure so she ends up doing things she doesn't, and doesn't want to meet new people.
if she's just afraid it wont work out what can i do to get her take a chance?
She obviously trusts you a lot. Tell her what you told us, that you two are already closer than many married couples.
Tell her she means a lot to you, that she is very special and that you enjoy every second you are with her.
Maybe tell her that her not giving you a yes or no is really eating away at you and that you just want to know how things are.
Nothing. It's up to her and you have to deal with that like a man. You've made it clear you want more, now the ball is in her court. In the meantime you should be looking elsewhere because whether or not she might give you a chance someday, she obviously doesn't have the intensity of feeling towards you that you seem to have for her. It also sounds like you want different lifestyles. If you really want kids then getting with someone who doesn't is probably a mistake.
When looking for girls
There is a certain threshold for looks, once you are over that threshold, your personality can make you range from 10/10 to 0/10
An avarage looking girl with a great personality is easily a 9 or 10, while a good looking girl who does not fit well with me is a flat out 0. I have a very low tolerance of people who don't click with me and looks cant be a redeeming value. Nice, ugly stupid people are better than mean, smart, pretty people.
Oh, drinking is a necessity, but even that seems to be not working.
Getting high doesn't work, because that just makes me incredibly anxious and confused.
The compliment method is good; that is the closest I can get to talking to someone.
As long as I have a second, these threads and the small group are both just great.
>Talk with girls
>Gets on well, everything's nice. Conversation steers to lewd things
>Casually bring up kinks/preferences to see if they like this because I'm a massive sub
>"Oh, I'm sort of submissive"
>End up domming them so they'll have fun and be happy even though 90% of it is kind of meh
>"you're so good at being a dom, anon!"
This has happened multiple times.
I just wanna be held and bossed around....
Honest question, maybe im just a bit emotionally distant, but why would you pursue girls who you know that are not compatible with you? If you skip them, your total met girls per time unit increases and thus also your chances of meeting someone good.
They're still people, I guess, and I'm bad at cutting off connections or calling things off. I've always got this sense that I'll be missing something if I don't see it through; it's probably one of my worst habits.
I don't really put a lot of worth in myself either. sometimes I don't feel like I deserve to
>I don't really put a lot of worth in myself either. sometimes I don't feel like I deserve to
Me neither but i have the habit of easily abandoning things pretty easily. True friendships take a long time to build up but the more superficial friendships/acquaintances are easily left behind for me.
But finding people you like to be around is really not hard, and this is coming from a pretty socially awkward introvert. Just look for other nerds, social outcasts and weebs.
Given, this tactic has not worked for me to find girls to far, but in my defence i do choose all the kind of activities that are sausagefests, so i meet very few girls.
Dunno. I feel like most of the doms on here fall into one of those categories though. Could just be because this thread is on 4chan to begin with. Thoughts doms?
Joining the group doesn't mean you have to talk about /gfd/ or /rr/. It can be anything you like. Tell us about your day, talk about your favorite hobby, discuss what you're doing right now, etc. Of course we'll talk about /gfd/ or /rr/ if you bring it up, but that doesn't have to be the main topic of conversation all the time.
We talked briefly about /gfd/ in animals in last thread, but it was not mentioned that female dogs hump male dogs for their entertainment.
One guy once told me his gf likes to randomly bend him over and do that. Would you like if your gf dry humped you?
This is why you should always be on top of a barasub
>tfw I go to restraunts always called ma'am
>Get hit on by guys at clubs/bars
Thankfully the guys will stop if they see I am a man, but the gay guys go crazy always hitting on me.I'm not even gay just have a feminine body and face i guess.
It's funny - when dealing with most of the population your looks are probably an annoyance to you, but to straight girls that like femme guys you're the holy grail. It's so hard to find feminine looking men who are hetero.
Someday you'll find a girl who absolutely adores you.
Clean shaven, nice hair, dresses well (as in, not in baggy bland clothing like most American men).
Some guys have subtly more feminine or androgynous mannerisms. It's just how they are. They have a feline way of moving. They may also be more sensitive and vulnerable than the average guy. Generally, guys like this get pegged as gay whether or not they are, unfortunately.
there's a bit of (pseudo)science that says we're headed in that direction because birth control makes women attracted to the sweet-looking type rather than the manly types. idk how true this is
Fuck, i have this very very rarely, but not most of the time.
I am really torn here. At one hand i don't want to look girly but on the other hand i kind of do.
Why is this shit so confusing. I guess i will start by losing my tiny amount of excess weight. Anyone know a good way to change your food pattern, I have no experience with this kind of stuff.
I'm personally not a big fan of my looks. They have caused me so much trouble in my life.
I think feminine traits are naturally attractive. Some of the gay guys i've talked to said boobs were incredibly hot. They may have been wierdos though.
I have the same problem. I want it, but I also don't.
That's somewhat true. It's because the birth control blocks ovulation, which is when the most test is produced in females. Studies say high-test females generally want high-test males.
Problem is, when women get married and go off birth control, they sometimes lose interest in their lost-test husband, some studies suggest.
That said, it's not a hard rule whatsoever. I don't use birth control because I'm an athlete and I don't want my hormones, especially my test, fucked with. Even though I have higher t-levels than the average female, I love low-test males and always have. Go figure.
>I think feminine traits are naturally attractive. Some of the gay guys i've talked to said boobs were incredibly hot. They may have been wierdos though.
Some things are just attractive. I am a straight guy but stil go dayum when looking at a hunk, i just dont like dick. Some stuff is just objectively attractive.
But yes, the female form is just naturally more attractive, hence why art is so focussed on it. The only places you find the masculine form is in areas about power and speed, such as arts about knights, dragons, in sports car designs and guns.
>hence why art is so focussed on it
Or it could be because most of the influential people in history, including those funding and guiding the artistic movements, where men, most of whom were straight. derp.
>I'm personally not a big fan of my looks. They have caused me so much trouble in my life.
Maybe this is why I am hesitant about it too.
I am always carefull with "some studies suggest" because they are often cherry picked or not yet solidified in the scientific community.
The greeks made statues of both sexes. Maybe i was too hasty, it is cultural as well. For example, fascism and art-Deco used the male form a lot.
One of my best friends is exactly like this. Credit to him, the guy's really, really hot but at first glance pretty much anybody would assume he was gay. He's the token pretty boy in the group.
I've met gay guys that have said they like boobs. They're like asses, everyone likes them.
What do you mean changing your food pattern? If you need recipes or food advice I'd genuinely advise to just lurk /ck/, hell, even /fit/ has some decent recipes.
Well, as long as it remains pseudo science I'm fine. If it quickly turns in to some cultural bandwagon I'm screwed.
>What do you mean changing your food pattern? If you need recipes or food advice I'd genuinely advise to just lurk /ck/, hell, even /fit/ has some decent recipes.
I was naive hoping for something like "Avoid stuff like this, instead eat some more of this". I have started following pic here >>6526828 to some extend, but i thought anything might help.
>when I started dyeing my hair and painting my nails I stopped being hit on by guys as much.
Easy there tiger, one step at the time.
Being hit on is not really part of my problems list, its more of several years of bullying and low self worth due to being told im not a real man. But on the upside, my somewhat feminine features allowed me to hit a bitch who was bullying me all year in front of the teacher and not be punished.
Things have gotten better, beating bullies up a little usually makes them stop.
>when dealing with most of the population your looks are probably an annoyance to you
>tfw somewhat feminine looks
>people will sometimes have trouble telling my gender
>have got "complaints" from older women when they identify me as a man
>"oh great, a faggot", "oh yeah he looks like a faggot", "disgusting", etc
>I just wanted to have a loving gf who would praise me for being qt
It's only two parts. I have both, so I'll upload the second. Did you mean you also want the "When in Doubt, Eat Her Out" guide as well?
Maybe i would eat my vegetables if i could cook some palatable eastern cuisine. My choice is basically: Potatoes, cabbage and carrots.
That or nasty ass spaghetti. The mantra at my place seems to be "Good medicine tastes bad".
i am trying though, i stopped eating as much potato chips and ate fruit instead, so thats a start. I will also start eating less fast food because im not making money atm.
>I am always carefull with "some studies suggest" because they are often cherry picked or not yet solidified in the scientific community.
It is objective that birth control lowers testosterone levels in females.
>I'd also flip out on anyone who talked shit about you and call them the most dire slurs I could muster.
Please go on
try refried beans, you can make a ton of them at once, they last ages and are incredibly cheap, plus they're delicious with a little cheddar
I know how you feel, I lived on nothing but beans cabbage and potatoes for almost a year
I need to show my feline moving style more often then. Been repressing it since I was a kid.
What's the female version of a bara anyway?
Couldn't help but feeling a bit warm from your post. If only I could find someone like you irl.
Oh well. Thank you.
a somewhat easy way is to incorporate roasted vegetables into your diet. make a goal, of lets say...a bowl of roast veggies with every lunch and dinner. i saw a really easy way of preparing roasted veggies online. they just cut up sweet potatoes, broccoli, zucchini, ect, threw it into a baking pan with oil and salt and baked it for like 20 mins on i forgot which temp. it seemed so easy.
My hobby in high school used to be getting into fights with people who would mess with food service / retail workers. This was after I quit my retail job because it sucked and I still had a lot of pent up insults I had wanted to lay into a few of my customers. The store I work in was over a bar so late at night it was pretty much just drunk assholes wandering in for cigs and making messes I had to clean up.
If you've never made a huge scene in a city Subway fighting with a fat Puerto Rican lady after she called the nice little subway girl stupid, I highly recommend it. If it's a middle age lady, insulting her weight and throwing in a cunt is enough to get the ball rolling into something interesting.
>be a trap at home, femboi in public
>made fun of at least once a day
I found out that I liked girl fashion more than boy fashion a while ago, but stopped wearing dresses in public once I graduated high school. Peep can be very very mean (my voice is a giveaway to my being a boy.) Thank you for doing this, I don't think people consider cashiers human 90% of the time...
I'm by no means short on cash but god damn I love me my cheap carbs. Refried beans are great.
Also, as you mentioned veg, maybe try fruit instead if you really want. Just bear in mind a lot of fruit is high in sugar (therefore, carbs). Fruit is generally a lot more expensive to eat than veg and meat - at least it is here anyway.
I flirt with cashiers a lot, male and female. I always wondered if it was annoying but I don't know any - is it? I've never worked retail but I've spent years dealing with customers, often irate and I loved it when people were grateful. Also yeah, women can wear such a huge range of clothes with different styles. I'm pretty sure that fashion for guys has basically been shirt and jeans since... well, a long time.
Girls seem to get away with "metal" clothes much more easily than guys do without being deemed as social pariahs. I already look grumpy according to some people so I dress like a normie despite being a metalhead.
Dont worry anon, those are just bitter people who resent the world and try to limit their loneliness by telling themselves that its not their fault, because people like you don't exist.
Sabaton, powerwolf, deathstars, alestorm, elyveitie, kontrust, rammstein, sonata arctica, symphony x, krusader and tyr.
I also listen to Rise against, anti flag, talco, sum41, the offspring and some system of a down and green day.
Women metal fashion does not differ that much from male metal fashion. When people talk about "girls fashion", band shirts and cargo pants/jeans is not what i think about.
>Sabaton, powerwolf, deathstars, alestorm, elyveitie, kontrust, rammstein, sonata arctica, symphony x, krusader and tyr.
p-please be a qt female. If so you are perfect if not wouldtouchweinerswith/10
>Girls seem to get away with "metal" clothes much more easily than guys do without being deemed as social pariahs. I already look grumpy according to some people so I dress like a normie despite being a metalhead.
Hmm, i dont get that impression here. Unless "metal shirts" are those nirvana shirts that every 12 year old and their moms are wearing, because thats the closest think i can think off when i think about girls wearing metal fashion.
Sorry to disappoint you anon. I thought i heavily implied it in the post you responded to though.
By and large I don't think cashiers want you flirting with them. They're at work and therefore have no way to get away if they aren't into it. I'm sure some love it, but that's the exception not the rule. Be respectful, not flirty.
You sounds like a cool guy anyways. But yeah guys metal fashion is just a black t-shirt and black pants. Basically all I wear also.
From when I worked two jobs:
Being flirted with as a gas station cashier was cute. Less crowded and stressful environment, gave subtle compliments, brightened my day unless they were just total creepers.
Being flirted with as a supermarket cashier has never happened. I wish it did because that one was stressful as all heck and had the biggest jerks of all time.
There was a cashier at my local supermarket for a while who was taller than me (read: above 6ft) and I talked to her quite often. I wonder if she was into gfd. Haven't seen her in a while though.
For the love of fuck don't flirt with cashiers or anyone else servicing you on the job.
It's their job to smile and be polite. They can't disengage or turn you down. They have to reciprocate whether they want to or not. And if they make any kind of scene, they risk their livelihoods. And by scene I don't even mean shouting at you to fuck off. The most polite possible turn-down can set some men crazy (I'm sure you wouldn't go crazy, but she doesn't know that).
A few women will like it. Most don't. Don't do it.
UK. I'm that one UK bara enthusiast who posts like, every thread.
At least tonight I have a nice boy messaging me about his fantasies of having a domme force him to work out so he'd be all tired and she could take advantage of him. I mean, he's on another continent, but the conversation is still nice.
Tfw still no gentle gf to make cookies and give a massage to when she comes home from work.
Fucking fantastic! Where are you based? Are you just getting into lifting now?
>tfw learned to cook at a young age
>Really enjoy cooking for myself and others
>Always eat alone
why did you remind me.
Well, in my opinion guys who used to be fat make the best baras because of dat chest, so godspeed anon <3
oh yeah? try to deal with someone who in the middle of the night decides to make some food and makes kitchen all noisy and full of smells
I didn't want to talk to you because I asked to get in contact with ////UK bara guys//// and you decided to just shoehorn your ass in there. Rude af and super offputting.
but when you're alone, you're free do whatever you like, whenever you like. there's nobody there who wants to sleep
as for meals, if i'd ever like to share my food, i can always ask the neighbour granny tho she might not like my exotic cuisine
not sure were to put this, but i was matched with a poly okcupid girl who says shes into domming men. How do i ask her about it organically in conversation? Obviously, i shouldn't be creepy about it, but im a bit apprehensive about this.
I'm guessing it's on her profile? Just ask her, she's obviously pretty open about it if she's broadcasting it. Just make sure you're actually somewhat acquainted with each other before doing it.
Whatever you do, don't do like I did and get drunk beforehand and send them the message at like 3AM asking if they want to drink and watch a specific movie that I had just watched.
I just want someone to cook for.
I only wish to share my feels.
It's not because of birth control, it's natural attraction. Feminine men wouldn't exist if our female ancestors didn't actively keep choosing them thorough history before birth control was invented.
Nah, it was The Phantom Carriage. Like I said I had just watched it, and man I really like that movie.
It just came across really poorly and weirdly specific. And maybe it's weird to ask if they want to drink like in a non-public setting (because where else are we going to watch that movie) as a conversation starter. I am not good at this.
At least I assume, unless she is just trying to craft a hell of a response and is taking her time with it.
Sexual orientation is weird, isn't it? How some gay guys actually like breasts but then you occasionally find straight guys who only like flat chests, right?
I don't normally browse through threads like these because I'm gay but even though I love traps and their feminine forms I have absolutely no interest in boobs or vaginas at all. I always thought that was weird.
(And kind of annoying. I actually find bara women really hot but I just can't like vaginas.)
I've been told by a lot of people that I have very feminine mannerisms even compared to most girls, and on top of that I look very feminine as well. People actually assume I'm trans rather than gay.
Fucking this. Please do not hit on me while I'm working. I will under no circumstances pursue a relationship with a living reminder that service workers like me are not considered human.
I didn't know there was one of those. but I want to see it to now
Sarcasm is hard to convey through text alone
Waar kom je vandaan eiegnlijk? m/v? (kan morgen lezen moet nu slapen ben ziek enzo)
Nice to hear. Might tell another one later, but still very insecure. Femanon did finally call, turns out her uncle got hurt on a construction job and got hospitalized. He lives relatively far away. Doesn't know if she will be home tomorrow or Wednesday. Anyone know of something cute I can do to surprise her? I'm pretty bad at surprises.
Wish I could commission this artist to draw more sheep boy + wolf girl stuff. It's just so freaking adorable
i guess it's safe to assume that she'll come home tired, so if you can time it right getting a warm bath ready (with a nice massage session on top) would probably be a good idea, no?
Please do tell. Cooking a meal for when she gets home would likely be good.
By the way, does anyone here know enough moon to translate one of these comics? That would be really helpful.
The thing that pisses me off is it seems like you're more worried you won't be able to be with her romantically rather than worried about her and her situation.
That'a why something like pair dancing classes are so great. They're structured for you, no dance lasts long enough for you to run out of things to say, the barrier for small talk goes out the window when you're both amateurishly learning to dance, you know you're wanted there, and if you encounter someone who you don't mesh well with you can just focus on the dancing. Rinse and repeat for 20+ different girls in an hour. It's the perfect social training/speed-dating scheme. Fun too.
I have kind of wanted to learn how to dance for a bit. I have a very good center of balance and I think I can be graceful.
I'll have to think about it. Maybe should have taken dance in college for instead of racquetball or tennis.
A little bit scary to have to make physical contact with a bunch of people (women, no less) that I don't know, though, and by scary I mean terrifying.
>tfw you will have no cute octopus girl to sit on your lap and ride you in such an innocent yet dominating way
I did it during university. It does seem pretty scary, but if anything I can promise that like ripping off a band-aid you'll get over the fear quickly this way. It does seem like jumping into the deep end, and I guess it kind of is, but it beats making agonizingly slow progress at parties and clubs and shit.
>eat her out
>smells like fish
>brushed my teeth smell wont go away
>soap to face + mouth
Beware the pussy. It SMELLS.
There are ways to prevent this.
Doms here, please pay attention.
You like oral, we like performing it. But it your vag is like a two day old dead fish you'll find we don't like it nearly as much as you like receiving it.
So to improve this try eating pineapple, yogurt or both. Avoid eating a lot of processed sweeties like candy bars and little Debbie baked treats.
If this doesn't help you may need to practice better higine or it may just be harder to clean. If you already do have good vaginal hygene try fragrence free wet wipes.
The bad taste/smell is usually due to an imbalance in vaginal bacteria. If these don't help you may need a doctor.
How do I tell my brain to stop fucking falling in love with her just because she gives me attention?
In all likelihood she just wants a good friendship which we can have since we have a lot in common. Why do I want more than just a good friend? I don't want to get my hopes up and be that guy who falls in love with the first girl who gives him attention. I know I wouldn't be right for her anyway.
Try meeting more people, and set aside time to be away from her.
I have a similar problem. Whenever someone gives me any attention I start getting too attached, but the few times it has actually gone into a relationship it burns out really quick. And I figure part of the problem is not having people to talk or do stuff with. However, that attachment tends to calm down if I stay away for a bit.
You could also try just asking her out if that "what if" keeps popping in your head too often, so at least you get your feet on the ground after getting an answer.
Panel 1: Darling, did you know? 2 AM is the hour when ghosts appear.
Panel2: O-oh, is that so? B-... but I'm fine with ghosts? I'm not scared of them or anything.
Panel 3: [That night] nn? Darling! It's so late, what happened?!
Panel 4: Well I... I was thinking... We could sleep together, tonight.
Panel 5: "DARLING!" (so cute!) [The wife thought that from then on, she should tell ghost stories before going to bed.]
Thanks for the reply. I should probably take a break from talking to her and find more friends of my own. The only problem is, I tend to only have male friends so I'm still not used to female attention. But definitely don't want to ask her out or anything like that (not unless she asked me out first, or expressed interest in me or something) because I know it'd make the friendship awkward and it would look like the only reason I got involved with her was because I was expecting a relationship.
Which ones of these are your ideal, doms?
Which one you look like the most, subs?
Well, someone in this thread recommended taking dancing lessons, so maybe you could try that. Overall, try something that could have more interaction with women so you get more used to it.
>tfw d3 from being g1-2
>tfw still so far from being F7-8 dream
I would say I look like a mix between d2 and d3 with a thinner waist
i love this girl
why can't we ever find a girl like natsuki?
>you will never be a cute goat boy with a wolf waifu
Do you mind doing this one please?
E7/D8 6'3 switch sub here.
Is there an equivalent for females?
>tfw no short cute dom to act like your big spoon to your bara ass.
sub here, something close to f1, sadly. I'm gathering info on eating right so I can get rid of my gut and hopefully make my thighs smaller
I want to be small and incapable of escaping my future doms hold
I hate to sound like a broken record, but I'm still curious why Skype is so preferable to IRC? The IRC chat is stable and not reliant on a single point of failure to keep functional.
If you really want to know what to eat, it's most important to worry about total caloric intake, as opposed to anything else. You need to look into the amount of calories you should eat per day to maintain, then scale down from that.
You might not like this, but online is the worst way to learn. Talk to your doctor or a nutritionist.
Skype is equally reliable. The only time you have issues is if someone is hosting a voice/video call and said host starts having internet problems. And even then, it still doesn't disrupt the text chat.
/fit/ taught me some great tips on that, but i'm trying to find out what and how much fruits and veggies to consume daily. and what ratio of fruits, veggies, milk, and grain to get in me. i'm almost there tho
D5-D7 are perfect to me.
on a side note, it's finally getting colder where I am and that seasonal loneliness is kicking in. no qt to cuddle and drink hot chocolate with.
No, that's a lie paid for by the dairy industry. If you miss the taste, try an alternative milk like hemp or soy milk. There really is no need for milk; all that stuff about calcium is bull, it's not like the only source of calcium is cow juice.
Yeah if you eat well then you will be getting all the calcium you need calcium from vegetables as well as strontium which also helps a lot with bone strength. I'm lactose sensitive (like being lactose intolerant but less severe) and my doc says I have very strong bones
A-1 through D-6 are all fine by me. I don't really like much fat on guys and especially not a ton of muscle
Guys im really bad at time management and handling responsibilites. I didn't use to be as lazy but i moved far away and i haven't had any friends or non-internet hobbies in nearly two years now.
What should i do? I feel unworthy of being loved because im a lazy fuckwit, and i know i could do better for myself, but it's really hard when i have no external motivation besides "if you don't get your work done your family will finally give up, stop loving you, and kick you out to go live with your poor dad"
Im stuck in a vicious cycle
Sub here,I'm like a mixture between B1 and D1. I have very little muscle. Also pale as fuck...
Tfw my first skoshbox is coming in soon.
Tfw no gf to open my skoshbox with
I'm an E3 sub. I should try to get rid of this belly fat.
Sub. Somewhere between B1-B2. Though I've been starting to gain a bit of fat from not having much activity.
Maybe I should look into doing some exercise. But I'm scared of having my shoulders get wide, I like having a feminine build.
Your shoulders won't get wide unless you do heavy shoulder exercises and eat a sufficient calorie surplus. You're also limited by your genetics.
Exercise, anon. Skinnyfat is terrible.
I'm pretty much skinny all around except for my stomach fat. I've been going to the gym for the past 2 months but I guess I don't know what exactly I'm supposed to do to get rid of that belly. That's like my main goal.
All you can do is reduce over all body fat until your belly disappears. You can't spot treat an area because your body decides where it wants to store and eliminate fat on your behalf. Lift heavy, do HIIT cardio, and take a look at your diet. Don't eat carbs in the evening, and try to eat clean nutritious foods. Building muscle mass will help get rid of the fat; if you don't like the way muscle looks, get rid of it after your belly is gone by reducing your lifting regiment.
Protein and veggies. Or, an early dinner with a light healthy snack later. Look up good carbs and bad carbs if you haven't already.
Carbs are like the fuel for your body. Carbs eaten in the evening that aren't burned up as fuel for your activities turn to sugar. Thus, you get fat overnight. Eating more carbs than you need as energy is a no-no.
This is why I love my lifestyle.
Get up, eat a sandwich, go out for my run, play vidya until I need to go to work. Go to work, eat dinner at work, work out at work, go home eat an egg and go to bed.