Have you gotten more attention from qt's ever since you became effay?
Or have you become more ostracized?
Or has nothing changed?
Nothing has changed.
I'm still lonely, I have 0 friends, I'm judgemental about what people wear and obsess over myself constantly to the point I carry a mirror with me and go to the bathroom every break to make sure I look good.
I'm lonely and always will be by the looks of it.
pretty much this
>tfw you see your polish friend every so often
>tfw hes turned into the uni lad stereotype
>built as fuck
>tfw i'm more effay than him but it doesn't improve my chances with women
>tfw he fucks basic bitches on the daily
i mean i don't want to fuck plebs but i'm still a bit jel
More attention from gay men. No more attention from girls. I got more from lifting than clothes. Clothes are just superfluous if you're attractive.
>tfw gf is losing interest
>tfw girls are always afraid to end things
It's cool tho : ^)
I'm just going to not text again
what people don't seem to get, and it kinda sucks is that developing your own style based on /fa/ trends or clinging onto one of the niches that are at home on /fa/ only really make you appealing to other people sharing those niche interests, the vast majority of people apply a lot less judgement than you guys do to yourself to your outfits and aren't really looking for what you're putting into what you're wearing. Thats why virgincore is justified in being called that, because you're not increasing your chances with women by becoming an /fa/ trendwhore and you sure as shit shouldn't be expecting to be.
Dressing well has gotten me a ton of attention, from men and women alike. I got into fashion my senior year of high school and it was like the first time I'd ever really been noticed by anybody since I started school. A girl actually asked me to prom. I usually dressed sort of dadcore, most days I'd wear an OCBD, denim jacket, brown jeans, and boots.
im the guy you replied to.
you've got a point, normcore really serves its purpose well in that its whole idea is to have you approaching that majority of people in a way that has you looking good but not segregating yourself from them by self-alienating with trends that are seen as niche *cough* goofninja *cough*
If you're in high school, maybe, when chicks aren't afraid of the great unknown and actually feel comfortable to ask people out.
Afterwards, they need to be "uninhibited," be it either through alcohol or just being legit outgoing to actually compliment you.
They will still 'mire tho, but they'll try to make sure you're not looking.
Only since I went from a buzz cut to a HJ did I start getting more attention. But that might just be because I have a cheeky ass smile (so all the girls say) and I've started to flaunt it since my teeth got fixed.
>start to look better and attractive
>qts getting interested
>don't know how to reciprocate cause I'm still an autistic sperg
>tfw having my first date in my life in 3 hours
>with a 9/10 azn immigrant gril
>dunno what do
>she probably think im gonna turn up business casual
>nuh uh imma wear a coach jacket and with black jawns and some jordan futures gril cuz thats how i roll
>gonna bring some joints just in case she down too
>otherwise i havent idea what to do im gonna get some beers and try n fug
what to do on a date /fa/?
hm i was conventionally handsome normcore jeans, polo shirt and leather shoes dude before and got approached more than now even though i got fit and much more better looking. once i make the move its cool though but chicks say i intimidate them. they dont like guys looking better than them being the insecure shits they are
>Start getting effay
>Have more confidence
>Game is pretty good to the point that qts get interested in me
>Never make it past the first date
>Even-though the dates are fun and we are enjoying it
Feels terrible, man. I have slowly given up. Especially because I'm enjoying success in other parts of my life, but just don't seem to get it.
>get more looks from guys
I'm a brokeboi college student but I was wearing stans, skinny pants, sweater and a t-shirt and some Indian unkempt guy was checking me out and so were other guys.
I look like a twink though because of how skinny my legs are, is it bad that I let my legs speak for me somehow?
Anyway yeah, men look at me more than anything, women don't care.
I'm the /fit/ guy that you quoted, and yeah, I feel you. I still feel the need for companionship every now and then but besides the social aspect I'm pretty successful. On my way to bateman-mode
>tfw my clothes cover my skin, but not my feels for a qt gf
>tfw clothes cover your skin, but not the shitty skin on your face
>tfw the clothes you wear are too good for your face
I've gotten less attention from qts. Barely anyone tries to start a conversation with me tbh. Unless I'm drunk then I get a crazy amount of attention from qts. I'm pretty sure it's because my anxiety and depression show easily when I'm sober, sometimes to the point of facial tics and trembling, so I'm very unapproachable. At the same time I'm not that attractive though but people have told me I look like a mix between James Franco and Jay Baruchel. My fav was when I was eating in california pizza kitchen and the old lady asked me if anyone has told me i look like james franco
Nothing has changed, really. I've gotten more /fa/ and /fit/, but qts don't give a shit. Have always been skinny with decent taste so the improvement has been pretty unnoticeable. Thanks to my shitty skeletal structure I look dyel anyway.
I'm more aggressive towards other men now, though, because I'm not afraid of physical confrontation as much anymore. The only bonus. Some people also look at me weird since I look like I listen to techno.
Are you me? I did get past the first date with one girl, but she had started seeing some guy before me and we didn't really have that much in common really, so I wasn't interested in "fighting" for her. They are still together and I'm happy for her. I'm too autistic for her.
If some guy gives me the look, I look back. I tackle guys lightly when I go past them in the club. Don't back off when someone else is aggressive towards me.
Basically don't let anyone walk over me.
Unless they're much bigger than me and things are escalating.
>tfw became p racist but instead of complaining it I just shitpost stuff like "getting an 18 inch BBC to ram my asshole ~justgirlythings"
idk if this is even worse but I started having too much fun with it
What is wrong with you people? You can dress perfectly "normal" wearing monochrome. Are you all idiots and think monochrome is only what you see on the runway?
Is this girl is really ostracizing herself because she's wearing monochrome? Don't give me that hurr durr its because shes a model shit either.
if you were a woman you could pull that off. No one is gonna care if you wear monochrome clothes, the worst you'll get is 'hey anon, why do you always wear black? your so emo lol xD'
Girls like that make me feel glad for being only an average looking young man, I probably couldn't stand a conventionally beautiful woman's attitude.
You must touch her only in a certain way. Talk to her only in a certain way. Be aware of anything you do or say.
She would overwhelm you with her femininity. Like it's something to preserve, something to look up to, something which stands out and makes anything else - anything else but her - less important, less relevant.
Thanks god for conventionally average women.
I got a kiss from a qt3.14 korean girl on my 18th birthday out on my first date. Then she told me she had family issues and that she's sorry that she rushed into it ;_;
I still think of her and want to contact her, but it will only hurt more
I started receiving less attention from girls when I moved to a big city and started dressing accordingly
whenever I return to that smaller hometown of mine I get female attention 24/7, from giggling teen girls to blushing cashiers
basically, city people suck
I get shitload more attention from girls than before but it never leads to anything. For instance,
>go to a small underground-ish music event (some guys were playing dream pop and then techno)
>40 something people gathered there at most, only the "cool kids" and people who into the local scene
>go inside, stand in the back of the crowd to watch the guys play
>a girl starts talking to me with an excuse that she saw me somewhere
>we happen to have common friends (I live in a pretty small place so nothing unusual about that)
>she giggles a bit every phrase I say, never breaks eye contact for a moment when we talk while smiling like I'm Zyzz himself or something
>practically undresses me with her eyes and biting lower lip a bit
>keep talking to her a bit awkwardly for some time
>she finds some excuse to leave me
>sits together with another guy and spends most of the evening with him
>looks away from me when we all go home after the gig ends
>See her in town next day, try to talk casually about some shit but she doesn't seem to be interested
What the fuck did I do wrong? I couldn't just start talking dirty and caressing her there after 5 minutes of conversation, could I?
Wow, youre a huge fag. Its funny how the insecure guys with no actual fighting experience feel like they have the most to prove.
You're gunna end up doing this to some innocent dude keeping to himself who'll rock your fucking world when you find out that hes a competitive kickboxer or something.