Gf recently bought this online and wants to wear it to clubs and such. Would you allow your gf?
It's kinda lose lose. You can say you don't want her to wear it but shes gonna feel like youre oppressing her sexuality and cheat on you or some shit.
Basically you can deal with it and use it as a reason to flirt with other girls at the club to make her jealous or break up.
Either way, you gotta fuck the shit out of her.
start looking for a new gf. Accept that its over.
You know she is testing you, you know she is pulling some bullshit off now.
She is not his property, but acts like that is a violation of the contract, or their agreement. There is nothing wrong with him denying her that or telling thats a breach of contract and if she breaks it then boom contract over.
You know whats being a shitty person? Doing shit thats obviously meant to either upset the partner or potentially cheat or look for an upgrade. You know whats being a shitty person? Not honestly saying what one thinks and holding boundaries.
don't invest anything more into this girl
she is casual sex material only
if you're a relationship guy, cut contact and move on.
p sure u guys are just playing dumb, but just in case
ofc she's not his property. the question isn't whether or not to let her wear the dress; it's whether or not to let her wear the dress and continue being op's gf
to which the answer is, obviously, no
it depends on what kind of person your gf is, idk why you expect us to judge her based on some ugly dress she bought
ppl wanna dress comfortably at a club, they're going to sweat but they still want to look good, so I think something like op's pic matches the criteria. I don't think it necessarily means she's trying to impress the opposite sex, if anything she's trying to impress everyone and feel good about herself.
if she's that untrustworthy that you're worried about her going to the club dressed like that then why are you dating someone like her?
This. Just play along with it.
If your girl is sexy, with the low cut dress and all, show her off.
One thing that strokes my ego is having total strangers give me the thumbs up while I'm on a date with a hot chick.
It's her choice. Sure, he can express his opinion, but to think he can "allow" or "not allow" her to do something is silly.
Yes, he can break up with her over some shit she does he doesn't like. Though breaking up over a dress is laughable.
the male equivalent of women wearing skimpy clothes to show off her body is not only to dress dapper as fuck, but also to spend money on other women.
women dress like that to show off their value as a healthy mate, men spend money to show off their value as a healthy mate.
>Though breaking up over a dress is laughable.
It's not. I would never date someone that wanted to wear a dress like that seriously. I'd understand if my gf wore it as a joke once, but if she actually wanted to dress like a slut I'd leave her.
So here's my take on this from my exp with my current 5 yr girlfriend who's not dumb.
1) tell her that you don't want her to wear the dress and explain calmly why you don't like it. "you're too sexy for that dress" "don't want all the dudes staring at you" say it jokingly and with a smile.
2) she will probably continue with your joke but still wear the dress for the night, in order to assert her self in the relationship and not to waste the money ect...
3)tell her it's ok and that you trust her to make the right decisions (use the words)
4) go out and have fun. don't be over protective
at the end of the night you have some options:
1) hide the dress
2) find some pictures of the night and point out some faults "the blue dress that you wore last time made you look slimmer than this dress"
3)let it go
>2) find some pictures of the night and point out some faults "the blue dress that you wore last time made you look slimmer than this dress"
"Sweetie, I think you look gorgeous/sexy in that dress, but I honestly think it sends out the wrong vibe. Obviously I know you're not one of 'those' girls that only go out for attention from guys, I just don't want you to get harassed by guys while we're trying to have fun. Of course it's up to you, I just want you to know how I feel."
Try someting like that?
>2014 + 11 months + 21 days
>a basic bitch
cmon you knew it would come to this bra
Yeah it's fine nowadays. My wife often goes to the clubs in Atlanta like this. She doesn't cheat on me ever, she dances with black guys and all that but everyone does that at the club she's loyal.
Stop being a over controlling beta op.
i would date a basic bitch
i just want someone to help me socialize
Just let her go to the club. God you're so pathetic she just wants to have some fun. Sure she might dance on some guys but I promise you that's as far as it will go and before you know it she'll be back home kissing you on the mouth and riding your face
fuck yeah that would be pretty hot
my gf is asian with a nice body, id be all over it
why wouldn't you guys want your gf to wear this out clubbing with you? she's your girlfriend she's going to dance with you and fuck you at the end of the night
>in a relationship
>but still going to clubs
>while dressed as a whore
I've got bad news for you OP
>she's going to dance with you and fuck you at the end of the night
>implying she would take her boyfriend to the club
OP obviously wouldn't be worried if that were the case. you might as well dump her now OP, she's on the prowl for someone else and she's just keeping you until she finds someone else
Don't be insecure dude she's just having a good time at the club
>implying fashion and clothing isn't a form of communication
>implying that dress doesn't say "I live an easy life, full of luxury. I think my youthful body is my most important asset, and am available for sex with any alpha male willing to pay my way."
good luck OP
Its just an ugly dress anyway. Relationships are about compromise; you dont do lame stupid shit she doesnt like, and she tries not to embarrass or neuter you. If this is one of the terms that should be agreed to, and she doesnt want to cooperate, then just slowly end it. Either way, in my opinion, the best, most beautiful girls, the ones that challenge and inspire and motivate you, would never be caught dead wearing a trash rag like that.
I'm so damn tired of "the club"
Clubs are no longer my thing. After 22, I just stopped caring about that stuff. If I had a girl that wanted to go clubbing or some shit, then that's just a conflict of interests. I would absolutely go to parties or other social events, but I'm not going to bother with shitty music, overpriced drinks, and obnoxious people.
As for the dress, if she looks sexy in it why not. I mean, why not, those skimpy cocktail dresses are fun to peel off. Ayyy.
Depends on how long you've been dating this girl. If you've been with her for less than a year, BTFO and kill yourself. This slut is going to fuck everyone you know and there's nothing you can about it.
If you're pretty invested in this girl then tell her that you really aren't ok with her being dressed like that. If she does not respect about how you feel about this matter then she cares more about her self image than she does about your emotions (no homo) and your relationship still has a long way to go.
This. I'd say let her wear it, but don't be super encouraging. Go once and observe her behavior, if she's getting too flirty pull her aside and talk about it. If she gets mad or cheats just walk out and leave her there. If you're alpha enough then take a girl with you.
I love when the girl I'm with dresses like a sexy slut. As long as she ends up going home with me I don't give a fuck. Whatever makes her feel happy and sexy means more happiness and sexiness for me.