I'm in a committed relationship with a very wealthy woman
I don't understand rich people's tastes in clothes. Her walk in closet is everything Louis Vuitton and Gucci everything that has like an $8,000 price range
Her shoe collection is all high heels. What the fuck is women's obsessions with high heels they look uncomfy as fuck
It makes you taller and alters your gait in a very deliberate way. It is uncomfortable at first, but you get better with practice, as with almost anything. If you have difficulty connecting with her in terms of taste for things, I hope that you have other parts of your lives that do gel well together.
being rich just means you have more options in choice of clothes, not that your taste is any better. and yeah, high heels are extremely uncomfortable and can mess with a woman's health if she wears them too much. only women who fail to reject shitty female socialization bother with them
The only time rich people donate is to other faceless corporations to make it look like they give a fuck about poor people
I have not once seen my girlfriend give a fuck about charity
well, if you think she's wearing heels just to make you happy, and you don't want her to be uncomfortable, then i advise you try to send the message across, because i've never heard of a woman enjoying the physical sensation or health effects of high heels.
>i can't just tell her....
first off, being in a relationshit is all about mutual care, it doesn't have to be a demand etc
second off, you can wear nice shoes, boots, and shit even for women that aren't high heels, or just at a less killer angle
Wasn't saying you should and it's not like she would; it's her life and her money after all.
Only a handful of brands still do a lot of production in France, still, most notably Lanvin, which has pushed its "very French" history to the forefront of its branding ever since Albaz took over. There are some other specialty brands like Armor Lux and Repetto and Robert Clergerie that also promote their French origin pretty strongly, too.
this is a good idea. but a lot of women's identities are so tied to the performance of femninity that they're convinced they perform these rituals (makeup, shaving their legs, wearing heela, etc) for themselves and not men/society. poor str8 girls
Well, very few people (more men than women) I know buy solely based purely on country of origin. Design, fit, and material are all big factors, too. If you're curious about potential gifts, it's always helpful to look at what you know she likes and try to work off that.
Don't fucking get me started on make-up
Trust me the shit she puts on her face makes her look hot as fuck but I sniffed her lipstick
It literally smells like death. As if 100 rabbits died to make one stick
I think I might be fucking the anti-christ
yeah, and she has to deal with that sitting under her nose for the whole day. the stupid shit that society has tricked women into doing is unbelievable. but unless you just wanna date oldschool butch lesbians, you'll run into masochistic women at every turn
2 weeks should be enough time for a basic jewelry design to be made for you, but anything custom would require much more time. Perhaps a new take on something you know she loves, like a new setting or alternative gemstone variation in a style she wears a lot.
sorry if that was a bit intense, but, TRUST ME, even minor, temporary foot pain is hell, makes it hard to excercise, which makes it harder to stay calm/happy/healthy, you need to do you right when it comes to feet
oh, i definitely get that, but i feel like if she realized what the was doing to her entire body that she would care more about that
also, i know that i was raised in a situation where my family was more concerned about effort put in, and i suspect that it's even more so for her, because unless you're pretty well off too, you could spend a month's paycheck on a dress and she'd be like, "oh yeah i gots that one" but if you show you put a ton of work into that shit, she'll be happy with it
I never recommend 22K due to its softness, but I assume she knows how to properly care for her jewelry. A bracelet would easily complete the set, but I don't know how "matchy-matchy" you wanted to go with this.
maybe... but i think she'd be too self-concious about giving up heels unless she saw other stylish women doing it. and the majority of women's formal shoes have high heels (which ia why i just get mens shoes or ballet flats, but those aren't very luxe)
also, op should def take notice of the effort present thing. she isn't dating you for your money, so give her a gift that reminds her why she's dating a cute and fun peasant boy instead of a billionaire
maybe, i guess my big worry was her wearing them around outside of formal occasions.
honestly it doesn't sound terrible, but i feel that it might cheapen the birthday thing if you get her something sexual, because she might see that as you attempting to do something kinky you desire, rather than give her a special gift.
but the real big point is this: if you are a sub, she is a dom, she will get off a lot more on buying you the shit and having you wear it (or at least that is what i believe from my limited knowedge of BDSM) which is something to consider, because ignoring that could seem a bit selfish to her on analysis
bdsm is complicated. some doms like to feel like they're leading the sub into situations, and some prefer the sub asking for it. but op won't know unless he !!!asks!!!
forget expensive. think about what she likes that isn't money-related, and try to get her something in that vein. and if you draw a blank, all girls love a hitachi wand
What an odd thread. If you managed to be interesting enough to attract this woman you should be able to scrape by with showing affection in a way that doesn't involve money. As cheesy as it sounds you could make her something if you're artistic or give her something to remember you by. Its obvious at this point she has anything she could possibly want that money can buy, so giving her more clothes etc wont feel genuine, and will actually probably lead to her thinking you're not trying hard enough. If I were you I'd probably just go the sex route as a gift. Especially seeing that you're into some kinky shit.
>everything Louis Vuitton and Gucci everything
So she has no taste then? Thats easy.
Just look at whatever new money (like Yeezy lol) finds exotic or worthy of coveting. Study popular luxury items if youre into it, and how they marketed themselves to impressionable customers.
High heels force the muscle of the legs to contract a bit and give a little definition to the calves and ass. No one goes around in platform heels, generally speaking, tho.