so i'm going on a date in a bit but im a kissless virgin and i dont know what to do with this girl who really likes me
help me out fashionable friends
if this is against the rules, please don't ban me cause i will want to post about fashion soon
Talk to her. She is a human being you dolt.
Be polite and nice but just act natural and dont be nervous about it. Also dont force anything sexual if she doesnt give you a green light.
Now on topic, you should wear nice clothes but stay appropriate to the location. Dont wear a blazer to the cinema etc.
Dude, just realize that you're better than her in every single way. You're smarter, taller, faster, stronger, and you have better taste. Being intimidated by women is crazy. They're inferior beings. Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you she can fuck off. That's how I do. All you do with women on dates is ask them where they're from, what they like, about their friends (they won't shut the fuck up once you open that can of worms), about their job and school. Then you just listen and relate to them and since you're smarter and more worldly you can probably tell her things about what she likes that she doesn't even know. Then at the end you kiss them- I like to hug her then keep her there. Then she'll look up and then you kiss her. It's the easiest way to make it not awkward. Especially if you're tall. Kissing is just going from soft open lips to pursed tight ones over and over again. I like to lick under their lips and bite the lower one occasionally. Also just dress your normal style, you don't want to look like you're trying to impress her because that is putting her above you.
This is true to some extent. Dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable and powerful and use that to boost your confidence. If she likes you she will like you for being yourself.
Also remember that indifference is attractive, don't be a dick but also don't make it obvious that you really like her. This will make her work to try and impress you.
I feel like there's a "nice date" bell curve. When you first start dating, dates should be very informal because you're still finding out if you actually like the person. Don't wanna be dropping a bill on dinner and the other person ends up being annoying as fuck or something.
Nicer and nicer dates as you get to know them.
And then, after that honeymoon stage, when you're practically best friends that also fuck, slowly back to informal until you get married and don't go on dates at all and are depressed and want a divorce.
you do realize that girls see that message you're sending there and leave, right?
if you ask a girl you think is cute "to just hang out" and fart around, they'll pick up on that. They'll know you're not serious, and that you don't give a shit.
Any girl worth her salt won't put up with that and won't waste her time.
It's certainly a judgement call about what's the appropriate time and place for a date, but whatever the answer is, make it be known that it's a date, that you think the girl is special and interesting, that you want to treat her special, and you do interesting things.
you misunderstood me dude
I never said wait on them hand and foot.
If anything, I agree that it's best to reinforce that behavior of acceptance seeking.
the difference is that, you up the ante and challenge them to the point where they really feel like they've got to keep it together and stay on their A game.
all while still treating them special and letting them know the attention you give them is intentional.
get better at reading people, lil nigga.
just as you're saying, if you can't tell when a girl's worth it, then chances are high that she's actually just sucky.
if you think she's sucky, don't waste your time, her time, or any money on the whole fiasco.
but if you do make the judgement call that a girl's worth your time, and that she might be a winner, imagine what impression she gets when she see's how confident you are that she might actually be worth a shit. Not that you expect anything from her, but that she might actually be a valuable person.
Because dates are actually fun
Start going out with girls to have fun rather than some creepy cult-esque grooming session
Have fun and even if you dont end up in a relationship with her you will probably still fuck and have a good night to remember
I cant find girls worth asking out in the first place. Finding a cute, smart, and tasteful girl is hard. Add to that emotionally mature and it's impossible. My last gf was the first three, but had trust issues. Add to that a preference for girls who are blonde and don't have brown eyes and I'm fucked. I don't date girls who listen to pop. I don't date girls with bad style. I don't date girls who are even remotely chubby. I don't date christian girls.
I was gonna wear a uniqlo black tee, a pair of uniqlo black skinnies and some stan smiths cause thats what i got on already and its hot af but should i change into a button up or some shit
also i do talk to her shes my coworker
i been on a couple dates with her i just didnt make a move or nothin, yeah i know i try to be like that in front of her, ima take an adderall too thanks for tha kissing advice tho
shes offered to pay for her half of the meal before when i said i was broke but we're gonna see a movie, also should i invite her back to my place and say oh its a mess and have my ikea futon stretched out like i forgot to make it so we can have sex
>tfw you will never know this feel
>tfw ugly so you can't play games with women
>tfw so unattractive you don't even try because you'd creep them out
>all this fashion shit is just so i like what i look like because nobody else would give any fucks
>tfw no one is even going to read this
I'm attractive and I'm tall. I'm also very charismatic. I just said the last girl I dated was smart, cute, and had good taste didn't I? She was also blonde with green eyes. And she gave me her number without me even asking for it.
don't try to have sex with her
"come to the dinner table, but don't ask what's being served"
just leave everything in your room exactly as you would normally, if she makes it back to your place, just own it and be proud of your slob pile.
you better hold her hand and get touchy before the movies, otherwise that's going to be 2 hours of tension.
get a drink after the movie, and after you order her drink, but before the bartender brings it back, lean over and kiss her. Maybe grab her arm as you do it, if it makes it any easier.
literally i been dressing better for like 2 getting more and more fashionable and i guess better looking, also the older i get the more girls give me attention even tho i still look young for my age
i invited her back before but i got really high and she got high and passed out on my couch so i took her home cause i didnt know what else to do
she was on my couch with her ass in view and she asked for a blanket and i know i should have done something
you fucking faggot
after the movie, invite her back to get high and offer to make some simple food or something.
smoke a bowl, get cozy on the couch, eat your ramen, then lean over and land one on her.
she wants the D
My family is christian. I don't want to date someone who believes magic is real. It's nice to have religion as a moral compass in your population, but actually believing a book of myths about gods and angels is sad.
you just do it
guess what, girls don't ever make the first move, so they have no idea what it's like. For the most part, they don't know how difficult it is or weather you were smooth or klumsy.
She'll be too excited you are cool enough and comfortable enough to touch her, and that you actually managed to land a kiss on her instead of farting around.
I can't give you advices because when I date, I don't make plans and I don't play game. I am too old and experimented for that.
But I get every girl I want. meh. Tonight I am going out with a 9/10 girl. She is begging me for weeks to go out with her on a date. She made a reservation in a bar, took a private room and planned the whole evening. She will probably ask me to fuck her. But I am a bit tired today, so I am not sure I will accept.
Just become someone they will dream of.
True. I am not from an English country. But I am white and rich, so it's good enough.
And I am not a bad person, or a douche. I will get married this year with my long time girlfriend to start building my family.
Hmm not that much to say really. We were just at this bar chatting, we hit it off pretty well, all of a sudden we were making out, which was great, after a little while the place was closing so we went home and it just kind of happened. I dont know if she knew, I just went with it and had fun and it worked out just fine, seeing her again on friday so I guess I wasn't all that awful at least.
another kissless sort-of-virgin here
does kissing really happen like that
is it really that easy
i feel like i'd mess up
everyone says it feels natural and you just go with it
but i don't find putting my mouth on someone else's mouth natural
I have this friend who is a kissless virgin. If he were to ask out a girl, should he tell her about his lack of experience?
I mean, it would probably be obvious anyway right? I feel like just telling her would actually be better than me kissing her like a weirdo/cumming in 10 seconds flat.
i think you should tell her before anything happens
i'm a girl and it wouldn't bother me, i'd probably prefer you told me. and a lot of girls love honest virgins
i've had the "i've never done this before" card pulled on me and it worked, even though it became obvious he was experienced