I've always been a hetero, but there is nothing that excites me more than thinking about having an affair with a 10/10 guy (I'm at least 9/10 myself). I haven't masturbated for months, and I don't feel attracted to women any more. Sounds really weird I know, but it's true.
>>9683308 >>9683339 >>9683386 Don't kill yourself, bruh. We all hit low points in our lives. But I promise you, things do get better. You just have to stick around long enough for time to fix itself. Who cares about one bad relationship? There will be many others. Someday you will find that someone who cares for you. Relationships are also overrated. There are many other aspects of life worth living for that go beyond dating. It isn't worth giving up because of one person. You are much better than that.
At least think of the people who care about you. Your dad, the rest of your family, your friends. Please don't go, anon. You will be terribly missed.
If therapy isn't viable for you, please PLEASE talk to your parents, other family members, friends, or your school nurse/counselor if you're still in school. You are coming from a dark place right now. This is not what you really want. Trust me.
>>9683308 Stop being such an egocentric asshole. I really can't stand this shit anymore. My mother suffers from depression too. And although everyone wants to help her, its just extremely hard on us. Just think about what you'll do to the people that are close to you. Get your life together and stop whining so much. God damn
>>9683308 >>9683339 >>9683386 dude, come on. how old are you? how old is this girl? do you think you're the first person to feel this way?
if she isn't interested you just need to find new pussy. once you realize that you can feel that type of infatuation for any female, it will help you to stop being suicidal. yeah you're still gonna mope like fuck when the next girl breaks up with you, but you're not gonna be convinced that it's all over for you and it's time to end it
you did have a substantial relationship with someone this time. you liked a girl and experienced this type of longing for the first time. that isn't substantial to you? i would consider that a vital experience in life and something that you really have the opportunity to grow as a person from
how to hook up with someone and hang out a few times? go to a fucking bar, don't act like you're on the verge of checking out, and strike up a conversation with a cute girl. faking happiness will lead to actually enjoying yourself. it is very easy to stop a bar hookup from getting serious, also. if you aren't old enough for the bar, tinder
its difficult to get yourself back out there after something like that, but if you force yourself to, it will get easier. when its all said and done you will be a stronger person for having experienced and you will understand yourself better
and if you're gonna hook up with a girl before you kill yourself, don't tell her, fucking nobody is going to go for that
>>9685549 Thats the dumbest thing I read in a while. So all the professionals out there can't help a depressed person, unless they have been depressed themselves? And I can't take op seriously, cause the people who are really depressed, wouldn't even find the strength and energy to write on this board. Most of them can't kill themselves, because they have no energy, or motivation at all anymore. And if op doesn't wanna get professional help, he is an egocentric asshole, who just keeps on whining about life, and who seeks attention anywhere. For example this thread.
>>9688574 you know what's really funny about this cartoon is that, if i had seen it back in my days of severe depression i would have related to the dude and agreed that people are dumb and don't get what depression is like
and that may be true, the people around you might not understand, but their advice is actually the most honest and truthful reality of things. it's all true! it really is all in your head. i became interested in philosophy which really helped me climb up from the hole i'd dug for myself. it's incredible what the disciplined mind is capable of, you come to realize that most of your problems are trivial and can be solved with a simple reframing of the situation in your mind. this is not to imply that you delude yourself and suppress these so called problems, it's to suggest the possibility of your mode of thought being untrained and juvenile. you've most likely only been aware of a few different modes of consciousness, a few different approaches to thinking.
the mind is capable of more than you can even begin to imagine, and if you do end up offing yourself then whatever, you just weren't meant to live a meaningful life and discover the human potential.
>>9688610 >but their advice is actually the most honest and truthful reality of things. it's all true!
But it is untargeted an vague to the point of it being a platitude. Its like saying that all you have to do to be "wealthy is work hard", that the people of Greece and Spain just "need to tighten thier belts" or to look good all you have to do is lift.
Look at your own situation, none of their advice was helpful or capable of being helpful, it was only your study and exercise that you overcame it (which funnily enough you reverted to just another platitude).
Granted if people can give targeted and indepth advice then well done, but the fact is most cannot. This is one of the reasons why therapists are more effective than family members.
>>9683339 Hey anon, you've still got family don't do that to em. A girl did the same thing to me, it was perfect I thought I could finally just relax and not worry about things cause id found and amazing girl I could be happy with. She left 3 weeks later, turns out she was just using me to make her boyfriend jealous. It was the happiest 3 weeks I'd had though.
To top it all off she told me "I almost chose you over him, I really did."
Every single night I thought about what I could have done different to keep her, until I realized the answer is nothing. Because she turned out to be a fuckin slut, who's dated 3 others guys since, pulling the exact same thing on them while her cuck of a boyfriend is left crying every time. At least I'm not that bitch.
Still though, when I'm not thinking about anything she always slips back into my head, we had a great time together and just clicked, but maybe every other guy felt the same way. Maybe she's just great at manipulating people.
>>9688658 This, I hate it when some friend, clearly suffering from depression, comes to me for help because all I can give him is vague and useless advice. Like, this is your own hole, you have to figure out for yourself how to get out of it.
>>9688765 >Because she turned out to be a fuckin slut, who's dated 3 others guys since, pulling the exact same thing on them while her cuck of a boyfriend is left crying every time. At least I'm not that bitch. >At least I'm not that bitch. That's it, positive thinking anon!
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