I had my first gf/lay just before I turned 19. It was worth being picky all those years, although my situation consisted heavily of turning girls down and not the other way around. I think I got rejected like twice (or once?) and shook off like 4 or 5 girls who liked me (I didn't like them)
>be me >ugly, insecure creepy fuck >no friends >almost zero social interaction outside of classes >only things that make me feel good are going /out/ and browisng /fa/ to be dickridden in the waywt threads >go /out/ >suicidal ideas come to my mind while i'm alone hiking >go back home >go on /fa/ >see this thread
>>9790834 The thing is you've probably shown interest for girls since you said you were picky. I just kinda stopped trying and dgaf anymore but this kind of threads are a daily reminder I'm still a virgin.
I almost wish I was still the ugly fat kid I was a teen. At least then I could believe that my loneliness was based on something rational like attraction rather than simply missing some indescribable feature or property.
im 18 now but exactly same situation. though I just be a fucking dork with poor overall appearance I massively improved myself and now girls do kind of flock. since I've never had this before I sometimes think it's all a cruel joke they're trying to play on me.
>was an emo lost soul w no girlfriend until grade 12 >found nice qt who likes cool shit, like fashion, art, film photography, neat music like death grips n shit >basically made her my bitch >6 months later, i live w her
.... then, we drove eachother insane....
now i never ever want a girlfriend again and i will probably always hate girls a bit
girls are genuinely pretty disgusting with their living habits. they are like lil kids or some shit. make sure ur girlfriend is independent as hell, u both got ur lifestyle on fleek n you ain't broke or both of your style is gonna sink real quick
anyways ok sorry i got kinda sidetracked
but boys n girls, develop yourself and make yourself cool as hell. get cultured. so that when U do meet the cutie of your life, you are cool as hell and ready for it all. u might meet that person tomorrow so don't get too emo
the relationship went downhill quick because we were too young, but i genuinely can say i have experienced love and that was the coolest shit ever.
>Tfw gfless virgin at 22 >Weary of women >Have commitment issues >Legitimately cannot understand women logic when it comes to dating >They are completely falling for me, only to suddenly lose interest in me from one day to another >This fuels my paranoia and causes self-esteem issues, even though I am achieving more than I ever thought was possible >Have good game and decent looks, but am not able to seal the deal on a long-term basis, nor for one night stands >Stuck in this perpetual cycle of failing I just don't get it. Like I missed a vital part of my upbringing whereby this shit gets explained to you. Anyways, I hope to make improvements in this area soon. Otherwise I am a young Constanza, and I ain't going down like that.
>>9790972 i used to really hate on you a lot, and i still think you have awful personal hygiene (trim those fingernails before you cut someone with them!), but i've grown to like you, even if you do wear the same pair of pants everyday
>19 >work in fast food >can't get another job >not currently studying but relatively skilled >wish I was fat and ugly and unskilled so I could blame my lack of employment and lack of success with females and life in general on something else besides myself
>>9789964 tfw housemates look to you for fashion advice. specifically girl asks if she should return 300 quid leather jacket to allsaints. >so what's the conclusion in the jacket anon? >yeah yeah i see what you mean >look ill just put it on and see what you think >yeah maybe it is a little big >hmm yeah i dont like that about it either >yeah i think ill return it
you'll regret it if you don't go. and if you just have a whole posse of goons and run into her (whether she's alone or with friends) you/them will just look weird and awkward. A solo encounter is better.
>broke up with gf of 6 months 3 weeks ago >it was for the best, but still hurts >having a hard time sleeping alone >gone on a couple dates >almost fuck this qt from tinder (but she had no future/was a degenerate) >was expecting to meet up with her again to seal the deal >never replies to my texts >gg >becoming despondent, need something to bang to validate myself >get despo, message the absolutely most annoying girl in existence that has wanted my d for fucking years >she's pretty qt, but I swear to fuck the most ugly because of her personality >pose a business proposition to her >"harmless question, how opposed are you to friends with benefits" >"not 100% opposed" >still haven't banged her, but meeting up with her tomorrow >feelsonlyokayman.jpg >i wonder if I can get passed how annoying she is for the pussy >still miss having a girl I cared for and loved that doesn't annoy the shit out of me.
>>9791232 >Otherwise I am a young Constanza, and I ain't going down like that. do realize that despite sometimes being unemployed and living at his parents, and always short, stocky, and balding, George always had a steady string of girlfriends?
>>9792099 lol, implying people on this site ever get a gf to begin with. just be happy you had the experiences you did , because as anyone on here will tell you, it might be literally years before you get another gf. your sense of self entitlement is most troubling. pic related. something you wont have for a long ass time
I try to kick the idea of girls out of my head and focus on myself right now. Gym, work, classes. The gym is the new thing for me.
But after walking out the theater I saw a couple walking and they were holding hands and being lovey and shit. I felt really sick, not that I hated them, but I was so sick at myself because I really wanted that and couldn't have it. There was this couple sitting next to me and they couldn't keep their hands off each other and fuck it was annoying but I really want that too.
>>9792331 Except shit went sideways for him every time. Whether he turned a woman into a lesbian or inadvertently killed one due to a glue allergy. My point is that shit goes sideways from one moment to another.
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