>>27366613 > Religion : buddhism, and laughing at it > Speaks : English (Fluently), Arabic(Fluently), Hindi(Fluently), Hebrew(Okay), German(Poorly) I don't know why, but I bet half the things she says are blatant lies.
I’ve been reading this blog for awhile, and discovered recently that it has positively affected my self-esteem and self-perception.
I went to a graduation dinner last month, and a woman there kept talking about how many calories were in menu items, and should she order them? What about this item that has bread, should she eat the carbs? How bad will it be? Oh boy, that item has a lot of carbs in it, how could she ever eat it!
All of her children were there, and she and they were all skinny, I was the only fat person. But instead of feeling ashamed, like I expected, I just felt bad for her and her kids. For her, that she has this kind of internal thought life that probably judges her every day, and her kids, for being raised in that kind of toxic environment. Me, I ordered several items and enjoyed them fully! It was exhilarating to realize I didn’t care what she thought. I won’t feel like this in every situation, I know….but it’s nice to know I have the ability to feel valuable and love myself sometimes.
Apparently people who are skinny aren’t free of fat shaming tactics our society pushes on us; however, thanks to you guys I *am* free of the guilt and self-hatred that comes with it, at least in this case and certainly much more free than I used to be.
So, I was just watching Extra and the hosts were complimenting Nicole Kidman on her “curvy” figure and how she looks better as a “bigger girl”.
I don’t mean any disrespect to Kidman because she is a beautiful woman with a lovely figure. But she is NOT curvy. And she certainly isn’t big!
This is why society has such a skewed view of the human body (especially the female body). When women like Nicole Kidman are being called “curvy” or “big”, then anyone who is even slightly bigger than her is deemed “overweight” or “slobby” or “not looking after herself”. It’s so frustrating.
Words like “curvy” and “big” are supposed to positive words used to describe bigger women to show the world that, yes, it’s perfectly fine to have extra kilos. That it’s perfectly fine to have curves in places that thinner women don’t have curves. That not everyone is going to fit into the very narrow Hollywood-slim box. It’s not fair that “our words” (for lack of better phrasing) are being used to describe women who are rail-thin. There are already plenty of words that positively describe bodies like Nicole Kidman.
Let us bigger women have our own body-positivity words without having the meaning skewed so that it includes thin women too.
I heard on the radio about how the local blood bank has need bone marrow donations and all it takes is a couple of cheek swabs to see if you match someone/be listed in the database. I really wanted to help and hadn’t given blood in a while (the last time was so painful with them not finding a vein and then it not giving enough so they had to stick again and again so much so that I am reluctant to donate blood again)…so I thought this was perfect thing to do.
I go in and fill out all the paperwork and let them swab my cheek.
A week later I received a letter rejecting me…apparently anyone over 5’8 can’t weight more then 266 or else you are considered too overweight and too much of a health risk to actually donate.
It's even funnier when you watch the video. Nobody interrupts these fat hens bitching for a whole hour, and then at the end the doctor says this one piece. And while he's saying it you just hear a bunch of "No" and "That's not true" in the background because the fatties can't be civilized
How, exactly, does it NOT prove our point for someone to write in about a real person’s real experiences, even if they’re lying about actually being that person?
For that matter, how does anybody know that a) it wasn’t actually the person y’all think the story is about, b) it wasn’t someone else who had very similar experiences (cuz hey, if it happened to one person, why the hell wouldn’t it happen to someone else), or c) it was a troll at all?
We’ve talked about how, actually, sending us fictional examples from tv shows or books does actually prove our point, because somebody thought this was a realistic thing to write, but how much more so when it’s an actual person’s real experience?
I’m a game developer, and a man of corpulent figure.
For years I was planning to work on a new game project. Unfortunately, due to problems of various nature, it has always been postponed to an uncertain date. It’s been years, but it seems people are still interested in my game.
How does all of this relate to thin privilege? I’ll tell you now.
While I do appreciate the patience of my fans, people tend to make fun of me because of my size, despite that being completely unrelated to the subject.
A small example: every now and then, I see fat-shaming jokes about how my game will be “worth the weight”. Get it? “weight” = “wait”… Because I’m fat! So hilarious, right?
Let’s say that those kind of jokes are becoming stale.
You’d think the same joke would become boring after hearing it… you know… the third time?
Sorry for the unprofessional rant, but I had to spit it out somewhere. Thank you for your solidarity.
Thin privilege is not having your body size brought up for mockery.
>>27373101 >in HS >trying to get with a qt3.14 >go to the beach with qt3.14 and some of my friends/her friends >one of her friends is a landwhale >eventually get close with qt3.14, she's sitting on my lap >we're flirting and laughing and kissing >landwhale friend of hers purposely jumps and lands ass-first on top of qt3.14 smashing my knees and balls >i yell out in pain >her friends get mad at me for fat shaming landwhale friend (they didn't have the term fat shaming at the time) >"it was okay when [qt3.14] was on your lap blah blah blah why not landwhale"
Some bitch shot him down after with bullshit and he just lost the will to live. I raged at that entire program just because of that blonde bitch saying she self harmed, just wanted to say was cutting yourself easier than eating less?
Although I know how they feel I go mental cutting unless I do keto, near suicidal lol
>>27373243 When she stops being hot, people will stop buying it and the land whales will claim its a plot by cis males when in reality fat is not attractive to anyone unless they have a mental illness on par with fecalphelia
>>27373414 >we have enough time for a random fat-acceptance bitch to spout unsupported bullshit >qualified doctor begins to respond with a professional opinion/refutation... WE HAVE TO WRAP UP WE HAVE TO WRAP UP WE HAVE TO WRAP UP
These fucking cunts are rustling my jimmies to no end.
I've always been confused about how people complain about Barbie and supermodels and such, whining that they don't represent the "real" female and her body type. THEY'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO! They represent an ideal, a pinnacle!
The Barbie thing has always been stupid. One, it's a toy. Two, I don't give a fuck what her "nigh unachievable" relative measurements are, she's basically just slender with a decent rack. If any girl ever lost sleep over that, she's weak and stupid and should be corrected in her dumbshit mentality, not catered to. Three, it's A FUCKING TOY.
It's even funnier when people bitch about real models, claiming to be body positive while calling them "unrealistic freaks." What's with the obsession of these people that want underwear models to be "average?" It's contrary to the whole fucking fantasy. Women buy lingerie to look sexier, not to fit in.
In closing, a love letter from me to the "average woman":
>My heart swells and then compresses normally distributing oxygenated blood throughout my body when I think about you. Before I'd met you, my life was unremarkable. And when I look at you, I see my life, past and present, laid out before me.
>Before I met you, my life was partly cloudy. Now, every morning I wake up to is partly sunny, because you are there. Everything about you meets and never exceeds reasonable expectation. I've never known that romance could be so adequate, that lovemaking could be so... okay.
>If you look within, I hope that you see that I am generally acceptable and you will be my wife. And if that is not to be, then with my final whisper I will thank God for just having met a woman so completely replaceable.
>>27374376 >If any girl ever lost sleep over that, she's weak and stupid and should be corrected in her dumbshit mentality, not catered to. YOU KNOW NOTHING, JON SNOW, NOTHING. http://www.tlc.com/tv-shows/toddlers-tiaras
>>27374482 Okay, I get the presence of the hamplanets. The thing I don't get is why they had that stupid blonde cunt on bitching about all that shit. Most of the cutters I've known were skinny, and afaik none of the cutters I've known was secretive in the least about it because it's all for attention. Also how the fuckity fuck fuck could you possibly think you could 'cut the fat parts off'? She says all this, after the usual 'I break the laws of thermodynamics,' and then she expects us to believe she simply wasn't informed properly by the surgeons. The truth is she treated all the waivers and disclosure forms just like most christians treat the bible, and that's like a software agreement where you don't read a word skipping to the end to check 'I agree.' Of all the outrageous shit that was said/claimed on that show hers was the worst. Close second is the dumb drinkwater bitch who doesn't eat carbs but eats lots of fruit and salad.
>>27374701 Courtney Act from RuPaul can be as nice and sweet and "helpful" as she wants, but in a later episode, she went on to make at least one fat joke about Darienne Lake. they were doing some skit with puppets, all the girls had to pull a mystery puppet out of a box, puppets that were based on one of the other contestants. Courtney was last to choose, and Darienne's puppet hadn't been found yet, so she said, "oh i wonder who it can be. i hope it fits through the hole." or something to that effect.
>>27374845 This. I always think about this. We now take care of everybody. Even if someone is born with no limbs, no eyes, and is deaf or mute, we go out of our way to help that person. Parents are shunned if they want to abort a sick baby. Tthen they go on to reproduce.
Wwe are fucking our world up by eliminating natural selection.
I hate people who justify fat. I hate very few things, but I hate this.
These people are fed up with having no confidence because society "can't handle curves". To build confidence they plaster "I'm beautiful" and "fat is gorgeous" all over their blog and bodies. They don't realize that confidence comes from within, that they are looking for it in the wrong place.
They also fail to realize that any individual person is not required to find you attractive. No one is obligated to drop their idea of beauty and only find you attractive. Everyone judges. And the very first thing anyone judges people on is appearance. Anyone who says they don't is bullshitting. If I leave my house with a shaved head exposing my swastika tattoo and wearing my favorite "niggers are subhuman" t-shirt, I don't expect people to think "that's his choice, I'm sure he's a really interesting person." They're going to look at me and hide their kids, or look at me in disgust, some might even attack me. Fat people need to understand that people will look at them and have their immediate opinions and that they are not specific victims. They are under the same public eye as anyone at any time. They just happen to be drawing themselves more attention by being fat.
And if ya really can't help it, though; if ya really are "just big", then realize that beauty isn't everything, you shallow prick. Stop trying to feed your vanity with meaningless degrees and lack of accomplishments. Do something amazing, and you will be seen as more than just a pile of ever-decaying carbon.
>>27375001 You make a valid point, however, every time I start to think about how much better our society could be with natural selection still taking place, I realize that I would likely have been a person that falls prey to natural selection. I have poor eyesight, if that was something that could not be corrected with glasses/contacts I would likely have been someone who died young in a less advanced society.
>>27377299 not attacked but they make little comments.
>you are so lucky to have good genetics >lel i count calories and workout all the time >well i don't like starving myself >um i eat a lot actually, i just eat right and exercise enough >muh genetics, you just have it easy >actually i have lost 76lbs in the last year and a half, it is pretty easy you just have to watch your intake and exercise. >... i like cake (they don't say this, but it must be what they are thinking since they always think of an excuse to change the conversation)
>>27377379 >Lost 100 lbs in the last year. >See family member again after awhile. >"Holy shit anon are you okay? What happen?" >Tell them I just lost weight. >Don't eat that much anymore like use to. >Everyone thinks I'm going to pas out from malnutrition any moment.
I just don't get it, at least I got my aunt motivated to lose some weight which is nice.
>>27375146 Because we've only recently transcended the need for it. If for whatever reason we as a race lost the ability to take care of those who wouldn't survive to breeding age without assistance - then they would die and survival of the fittest would once again be reinstated.
It's not something that has just up and dissipated because it's not as applicable today as it was in the past.
>>27374918 When I was a kid I used to swim 5 to 10 times this every day (I was looking for a island with a treasure, it's a long story). The only thing I had was a board of styrofoam. Swim is really easy, trust me.
I got the opposite. I used to weigh 115 lbs. I'm now at 150 lbs and look more lean and defined. Most of my family members congratulated me on getting bigger, hell I even had a weird moment where my b8 cousin said she would date me if I wasn't her cousin.
But I had few tell me that I was getting dangerously fat and unattractive. Told me the protein shakes I was drinking was unhealthy and bad for the liver and that I was "fine before"
It should support 330. People in the comments are saying they are well over 250, and can use it just fine. They think she probably got a defective unit. I'm thinking the fatty is probably lying about her weight.
>coworker offers me chips >turn her down, said I wasn't hungry and I didn;t like that specific flavor of chip >"I know you like to be all healthy, but perhaps you should consider eating the good things in life instead of your protein shakes"
Another person I know told me I shouldn't "fatshame" other people
Except for, according to the CDC, the average American female's stats are: >Height (inches): 63.8 >Weight (pounds): 166.2 >Waist circumference (inches): 37.5
And for our less /fa/ inclined a 37.5 inch waist is a size 18 or 19 dress size, depending on the manufacturer and how it fits onto an individual. I will go with 18, because it's more generous to the fatties. I know this number doesn't mean much to most people so I've attached >pic related This is a size 18. This is average.
>>27377978 did you flex and wink at her and be like "stay jelly, i know you mirin"
or realistically "if you think the good things in life come in prepackaged processed foodbags, there is no hope for you"
if someone offered me chips i would turn it down. if they offered me a homemade cookie or brownie, i am eating that shit. both because shits cash, but also they actually put effort into it and their offering a product of their own making makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.
Remembering that a lot of these things don't mean a lot to you guys, because I'm sure most of you don't know how dress sizes and female clothing sizes work I've attached this picture to demonstrate where the female waist is measured for clothing.
An important thing to note this is where, normally, women would be the thinnest. This is not the hip or bust measurements which often tend to be larger and may inflate the dress size even higher.
>>27366613 I was actually impressed with the beginning, it wasn't as obvious that she is sitting there with a thesaurus and seemed like she was just a poetic writer. Then it went down and went down hard. She basically started off with something that could be interpreted poetically, and then later showed that she didn't mean it poetically. Then you go back and reread it without poetic spectacles, and laugh at how absolutely horrible it all is.
>>27373468 Adam's show got cancelled today because of this. Fuck fatties. That isa cool dude from Brooklyn who got screwed by the fats. http://m.washingtonpost.com/blogs/style-blog/wp/2014/06/30/adam-richmans-new-show-pulled-from-travel-channel-in-wake-of-crude-instagram-rant/
>>27368649 Probably not philosophy major. Usually philosophy majors are male with an average IQ of 130. Statistics isn't catch all, though. >>27369054 I agree with this. I'd say she's a lit major with moderate Aspergers.
>>27373001 >The Hippocratic Oath is "First, do no harm"
I swear by Apollo, the healer, Asclepius, Hygieia, and Panacea, and I take to witness all the gods, all the goddesses, to keep according to my ability and my judgment, the following Oath and agreement:
To consider dear to me, as my parents, him who taught me this art; to live in common with him and, if necessary, to share my goods with him; To look upon his children as my own brothers, to teach them this art; and that by my teaching, I will impart a knowledge of this art to my own sons, and to my teacher's sons, and to disciples bound by an indenture and oath according to the medical laws, and no others.
I will prescribe regimens for the good of my patients according to my ability and my judgment and never do harm to anyone.
I will give no deadly medicine to any one if asked, nor suggest any such counsel; and similarly I will not give a woman a pessary to cause an abortion.
But I will preserve the purity of my life and my arts.
I will not cut for stone, even for patients in whom the disease is manifest; I will leave this operation to be performed by practitioners, specialists in this art.
In every house where I come I will enter only for the good of my patients, keeping myself far from all intentional ill-doing and all seduction and especially from the pleasures of love with women or men, be they free or slaves.
All that may come to my knowledge in the exercise of my profession or in daily commerce with men, which ought not to be spread abroad, I will keep secret and will never reveal.
If I keep this oath faithfully, may I enjoy my life and practice my art, respected by all humanity and in all times; but if I swerve from it or violate it, may the reverse be my life.
>>27377435 I know that feel bro. I started doing intermittent fasting, and the fat fucks at work staged an intervention because I wasn't eating lunch and they thought I was turning anorexic. I filed an HR complaint saying it was none of their fucking business how I eat.
>>27377737 Yeah but a small kid might be anywhere from 40-80 pounds, that's much much less effort to push through the water. When I was a kid, I used to sprint on the beach almost completely underwater tilting forward as hard as I could, like an ostrich. There's no way I can do it for nearly as long now as when I was a kid cuz I have so much more mass to push through the water.
>>27377299 oh my sister finally gave me a lil comment after about 6 months (she's been super fat 300+lbs for 20+ years) of losing weight (85lbs so far)... I had a few small cubes of watermelon, melon, and cantaloupe and nothing else while visiting family, because I'm in the middle of a keto cycle. She said "Oh is that your one meal of the day?" oh ho hooo good one. She just blames her addictions (starbucks and pasta) and "muh doctor gave me steroids without telling me and I've never lost the weight bawwww"
>>27377435 haha i have lost 90 pounds and this is exactly how my grandparents and cousins reacted too. Isn't it wierd tho? You eat good and people complain, But when you used to mash ya face with crapfood nobody said shit.
>>27379509 Her mad feels so good. I mean you can imagine the fat girl on the other end of that screen just getting so fucking mad that this girl is more attractive than her. I mean fuck if it bothers you that much put down the fucking fork and go for a walk.
So much energy is being put into being mad at everyone she feels is better than her. Instead she should be using that energy to better herself instead of trying to tear others down.
>>27379595 crabs in a bucket mang same shit when I recomped, I basically weighed ~87kg and was pretty skinnyfat, turned that into 86kg of slightly under 15% BF (I can see my abs at least) suddenly my parents tell me "I'm starving myself" and "I'm too thin how much do I even weigh" then when I showed them that I lost a grand total of 1 or 2 fucking kilos "that's too low for your height (193cm, 6'4")" admittedly I have the worst lanklet arms because I'm an ape, but jesus christ the scale doesn't lie
>>27379595 not that anon but that reminds me.. I remember another anon said "THEY DIDN'T HAVE ANY CONCERN FOR MY HEALTH WHEN I WAS PLAYING TF2+LOL FOR 16 HOURS A DAY" a couple months ago. They always seem to have concern when life improvements are made because it's easier to take down instead of support and change yourself. Crabs in a bucket.
>>27379679 Every time the fatties were asked a direct question they fucking side-step it completely with "You wouldn't ask a thin person that!" When I lost a bunch of weight, people asked me what I ate all the time, and I gladly told them.
>>27379726 I do, especially the arms (lel ape genetics and successive shoulder injuries) but that's not the point when I was fatter and weighed the same everything was OK and then when I cut some fat and gained some muscle I'm suddenly too thin? I'm pretty sure I'd get accused of roiding too if I actually managed to get some decent gains.
I'm a midget and can't fit into an adult life jacket. If there are no Child's XL life jackets available, I'm fucked. Fuck fat people, thinking everything is so much easier for small people. Have you ever tried shopping for clothing when you're under 5 feet tall?
>>27380310 Some of them wouldn't be AS fat if they had say my metabolism, but the fact that they are hamplanets means they'd be very big no matter what. The huge kind of fat always tells you they're just bad people. Some guys who work out a lot but are just naturally kind of doughy often have a normal diet but just slightly slower metabolism.
>>27380310 also, followup: less time spent eating, more time to exercise. 'But exercise is really hard!' Say that to /fit/izens that put away 3000cal+ while following a rigorous lifting routine + school/work/grills/4chan... fucking fatties. I was fat for way too long but I never complained or griped to anyone about it, I knew the change was in me, and me alone.
>>27373001 >your doctor isn't providing you with the service you pay him for, because the diagnosis he gave you wasn't what you wanted to hear
I mean I'm not even fucking exaggerating that's just what it says. Fuck.
What if you're diagnosed with fucking cancer? Do you go and see 10.000 doctors till you manage to find one who's so incapable that he misdiagnoses you? Cause that makes you feel better? And then you magically stop having cancer? Man. Fat people.
I mean honestly what the fuck when everyfucking body tells you you're too fat and then you see a doctor and in his expertise he tells you just that, you're clinically overweight and it's what causes you problems then you can't seriously think "hm no I guess he's just wrong too, let's see if some other doctors have other ideas" that can no seriously be the way they think now can it
>>27380378 I'm sure anyone with an alcohol addiction could tell you intuitive eating is about as intelligent as intuitive drinking. That applies for pretty much all addictions. Just because your body wants something does not mean it's good for you.
http://mccormcorp.tumblr.com/post/43650795158/todays-fat-girl-rant "And your fun DIY project is actually your way of exercising enormous privilege, LITERALLY TAKING THE CLOTHES FROM OFF OUR BACKS?" >mfw
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