>>32148473 nope the first month depending if u get laid or not. wondering is she even real. checking ur phone doing sets hope whatever austimo thing u texted her didn't turn her off. the minute she starts texting less you will presume she found somebody else.
no matter how far you've gone dating her thx to /fit/ you will always assume u never made it
Fuck you OP. Fuck the cunts who told you loneliness ends when you get a wife / gf / fit /
The loneliness ends when you find out your destiny in life. I've been married twice, loneliest fucking phase in my entire life. Fuck I was never happy during my marriage. Convinced that she is the one, but it was all an illusion. Had 3 children, and 1 died during labour. 2 are in college now, couldn't be more proud of them but at the same time I know they wouldn't come back once they leave.
The loneliness will never end, you can hide from it temporarily with whatever you convince will make you less lonely but someday you will understand that no matter what choices you made in life the loneliness always comes back.
I was fit, WAS, played rugby and almost went pro, but a career ending knee injury made me rethink my life decision.
Went on to college and majored in Finance, worked in an auditing firm(not the big 4 obv), and now looking to start my own.
Life has become impersonal, life has always been impersonal, people don't interact with you unless you are a mean to certain end. YOU WILL DIE ALONE.
>>32148473 Nope. It never ends. In fact, once you get a gf the ride just starts, cos that relationship will end, wether it oficially does, or you loose interest in eachother and just keep on it cos "at least i have a gf".
Oldfag here btw.
My advice, find a hobby, something you fucking love, thats the only way to keep you floating.
>>32148985 Iktf. Lurk more. Try mountaineering. Lot of fit qts and chances are you are gonna meet someone that is a little less superficial than the average. But always keep in mind that you are on your own. Its is what it is.
No having a gf is nice but if your obsessed with her being the "one"you will always be disappointed true love does exist but only for the select few. Immerse yourself with a hobby you like and go deep into it and know it inside out. Could be something as simple as collecting items/electronics or becoming shredded in a specifc body part .
Realise that even great guys who have made it like tiger woods for example still cheat on their wives. Because he still felt lonely and horny as fuck
Nope. After years of being with her, you'll be sleeping together and realize that you really don't love her. You'll have a panic attack and you won't be able to do anything about it, because she's asleep, and you wouldn't want to let her down by telling her how you truly feel. You then suppress this feeling for the rest of your life, but it's still nagging you in the back of your mind. You get married, have children, but you will always have that empty, lonely feeling inside.
>>32148473 Loneliness isn't something you solve with another person, it's something you solve with yourself. Until you can enjoy your own company, you will be unable to enjoy the company of others. Because if you're this upset over someone not being there, imagine how you'll feel when someone gets there and then leaves. Also, chances are your desire to be with them will end up being what pushes them away.
There are plenty of people in relationships who still feel alone.
tl;dr: Appreciate your own company or no one else will.
>>32148985 >It's hard doing my hobby. You must not enjoy it that much. Get a new hobby.
When I was young (middle school) I played football, wrestling, and baseball. Freshman year of high school I couldn't do any contact sports due to medical conditions. What did I do? I decided to pick up throwing the javelin and discus. Which led me into weight training.
After high school, I went to college and only had time to lift, study, sleep, eat, and go to work. This was a terrible time of my life. No hobbies, but lifting.
After college I decided I would find something better to do. I relearned how to play the piano, cello, and the ocorina. All of which I quit playing my 7th grade year.
I got into collecting books, of which I have a mini library in my house now. I do origami. I love to do service for others and helping those in need.
What kept me to do these things? Nothing. I did them because I had nothing for some time and used that to my advantage.
Oh, something fun I saw from another anon. Start to watch movies in chronological order from the 1900's to present day. I plan to do this some time soon.
>>32149165 Sorry you're unhappy man. There's an outlook on life that will change how you experience things. Affects your quality of life. Denying yourself a label like happiness is a serious hindrance on your quality of life
>>32148517>>32148473 Everything moves in cycles. Loneliness will come no matter what you attain, just like happiness may only be achieved through constant struggle. This is how neurotransmitters force us into action. We are happy one minute, cold the next, disgusted with what we have in another fleeting moment, but the cycle continues. Know this and conquer.
>>32149982 Honestly, what I said is based on my own experience, i.e. it's pseudoscience, subjective, etc. It has vague justification with evolutionary biology, circadian rhythms, things like that, but I have no source or direct proofs.
I've had a qt3,14 for over a year, I've always been in good shape from running but this year hit the weights and watched my intake hard, yesterday she said she likes feeling my abs when we hug.
On the other hand a year ago I had a good group of friends, but some have moved and I've realised others like the taste of their own shit too much to see past it. I'm changing jobs so a bit stressed, gf has exams so supporting her and planning holidays, and I'm pretty stoked about my fitness yet they get butthurt I won't watch them play vidya and eat pizza every night.
Just find what makes you happy, and know some days you'll think you're going wrong but stick with it.
>>32152693 You will find more things that bring you joy by doing so. Take an interest in a certain hobby or reading a certain genre. Things that make you personally happy doing so. Stuff that doesn't require, or always have to require an SO to do it with you.
>>32152746 Because when you wrap yourself up in something you love doing, you won't worry about company at all. It won't be on your mind. You will be focused on that something and doing so will just overall make you happy.
>>32152759 I don't think that arguments carry a lot of weight to be honest. There are plenty of people who get lonely regardless of their hobby, or their level of autism for it (chrischan for example.) You can catch glimpses of this on pretty much any board.
I think what you're saying though is to ignore that feeling and continue focusing on your favorite activity and to delude yourself into contentedness.
I know this girl who watches Scrubs alone during her free time. Gone through all seasons over +20 times. Watches it too when we're hanging comfortably doing nothing. She describes it as like listening to a podcast.
I'm pretty sure that's her form of coping with loneliness. Comparable to watching SOL anime.
>>32148473 Since I've started lifting, i have gone from 1 to 5plaete daedlife and LMA0.5plaete squat to 3.5 plate squat. It has been hard.
Since I have started lifting, I haven't touched or seen any boobs, save for the ones on the internet. That is a 100% reduction in boobs since starting lifting. Haven't had a date since I touched a barbell.
I am absolutely irrefutable anecdotal proof that getting stronger doesn't guarantee a gf.
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