So /fit/ at 21 years I finally lost my virginity. To a girl that I really like and I fantasized for nearly a year now. I hung out with her many many times and was always afraid to really make amove. I used to be a hardcore beta a few years ago and tbh with girls I like I still kinda am one. However I'm much farther than I was at 18. I started lifting, learning to talk to girls, dress better, everything. Got a lot of friends, male and female. However I still wasn't able to score a girl/didn't have the balls for it. Well, last night I just did it. I kissed her and expected a fiasco because I was sure I was friendzoned by her. But as soon as I did it she responded REALLY wild and we made out for hours before going to my place. You can do it, just have the balls for it!
Thanks man, this gives me hope, in a month I'll be 19 and kissless virgin I feel like I don't have the balls/don't want a gf bad enough to get one. Pretty miserable for a 19 years guy, feels bad.
I had the same thing for years man. Just put yourself out there. You don't have to do some PUA shit, simply make some moves even if you are terrified. Lifting and so really helped me be more confident, however it doesnt really matter THAT much that you have a great body.
she didnt say anything bad about it and I didn't tell her. I had luck though and found out in the first teo minutes of kissing that she has certain spots where she goes wild so I just used these. She texted me "I know this seems silly but I really enjoyed last night" so I think I didn't fuck it up.
I just want to give people some hope man. Because until this week I nearly lost it myself. I just turned 21 and started thinking "if you couldnt make it until now you'll never will"
Good job anon. I'm happy for you.
Don't be such a debby downer buddy. You're only 3 years older than the OP. And it really doesn't matter how old you are. The past is gone, all there is is now.
well, I would use pretty much the same words to describe it than I thought it would be before doing it. But it's still different/better. Also it's a great feeling that there is a willing, good looking, real woman and not just a hand or toy.