Is there anything I can use for improvised lube that won't irritate the inside of my asshole or anything?
I ran out of lube two and my bf refuses to let me play with or fuck his ass without lube.
spit is ok... :/
Lotion is always good for me but he says some for them burn on the inside... :/
Vaseline! - We tried vaseline last night and he really liked not as much as a quality lube but just a little goes a long way.
Also, we've used coconut oil that works great!
I would think most cooking oils would be fine but don't take my word for that lol
Don't use petroleum based lube (Vaseline) with latex condums - it eats up the rubber. Of course don't listen to the guys who troll about Ben-gay or capsaisin pepper stuff. Crisco, or any stiff baking grease will do, as will veg oils. But, plan ahead and get some KY in stock.
Butter, margarine, lard, Crisco, olive oil, vegetable oil, Vaseline all work, but can't be used with condoms. There was time, not too long ago that lube wasn't that easy to find, now it's in walmart, target and every grocery store. What I do is buy a new tube when I first open the one I have, That way I never run out.
this question isn't directly related to OP's but I'm in need of assistance on the topic of anal. Whenever I'm with a guy and he fucks me, he loosens up my asshole and pleasure begins to tkae the place of discomfort, however, there is a point where the guy fucking me always reaches deeper inside where it feels like he's poking something inside my asshole, something EXTREMELY sensitive and painful when jabbed and it's like the top's dick can't go any further inside me without popping whatever it is, like maybe a blockage of some sort. Does anyone know what it could be/ if this is normal?
I know that my prostate is located only about a few inches inside my asshole and when I'm getting fucked the top is able to get way past that point before reaching whatever it is that is causing the pain
This actually sounds right so I'll try to be more relaxed at that point and see if the discomfort eventually fades just like before with the initial penetration because the pain makes getting fucked a complete nightmare for me.
any plant oil is fine. just maybe avoid the ones which are intended for deep-frying because of their anti-foaming ingredients, those could possibly have a chance of irritating your arse I guess.
or even butter. any plant or animal sourced fat/oil will do you no harm. the less synthetic additives the better.
you should buy yourself a toy and get used to it. Im not saying a monster dildo, but one that reaches that area. Get used to the feeling of that discomfort.
I used to have the same problem, but I realized that by worrying about it, it was causing me to tense up and make the situation worse. After buying some toys and getting used to being "poked", that discomfort became my orgasm really. Allow yourself to moan/scream/yell/etc due to the discomfort and massage your penis while practicing. You'll get used to it after a while!
Yes, it's an inner sphincter and hurts a lot more that your outer sphincter (anus) . It can take a lot more going slow to get loosened up and unfortunately you can't knead it with your fingers like you can with your asshole
Sphincter just means a muscle that clamps an anatomical tube closed. We have numerous ones. There is one T the top of your stomach which is what causes heartburn when acid leaks out (if you didn't have that, stomach acid would constantly be going up into your esophagus
I'm sure aloe vera gel would work just as well as any water based lube. Just don't get the kind that contains alcohol and artificial colors. Get the plant, cut a leaf in half, and scrape the goo out with your fingers. Always leaves my penor nice and soft.
It's never normal to bleed out of any orifice, except for vaginas on certain times. You probably didn't use enough lube or went too fast. If it's been more than two days or so since you got fucked then you should see a doctor.
both of the previous answers are wrong. That is the curve after the rectum. The prostate is not in your colon, and both anal sphincters are in your anus. That pain in the dick trying you get further in your rectum and the "popping" is your colon trying to accommodate. Don't try to pop it because it could be extremely uncomfortable and cause pain for a couple days.
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don't use hand lotion...when i was a kid i used to use hand lotion to fuck guys and found out this was really bad thing to do
also don't use cream rinse if you're in the shower as an impromptu lube, since it can also do bad things to mucous membranes
olive oil is about the safest thing to use as a natural lube, but like most oils it will probably break down latex condoms, too
This reminded me of a story
> be young, like 10 or something
> with grandparents for summer holiday at the beach in a caravan park (not trashy, I swear)
> heaps of other kids my age, and we'd all hang out together
> hanging with said kids
> a group of older (16yrs or something) kids show up
> find out they have a bad reputation
> ask why
> apparently they all have butt sex together
> use butter as lube
> I call one of them a butter butt
> he winks at me
> we all laugh at them and go somewhere else
> mfw as a 16yr old teen I would have done anything for a group of friends to have butter-lube butt sex with
> mfw upon reflection they were all hot surfer/skater dudes
Does that surprise you, trips?