Hello people. this is my first time posting on this board so bare with me pls..
So Ive always had a feminine figure, even tho I'm a guy due to chromosomes. I'm thinking of starting a DIY mtf soon, I don't intend to do it for long, just while I get a Doctor to help me out as I know it's the most rational way to do it.
Have any of you done a DIY transition? care to share good or bad experiences? what should I expect. I'm set to do it but I'm still nervous about it.
I am a cis male sub bottom that has no interest in his dick and would much rather have a 2nd always clean fake vagina.
Yet the only way to get this is to pretend to be trans and fuck my body with shitty female hormones for like 1 entire year and get therapist letters.
Why cant we simply do that? Is some shady therapist in Thailand the only other solution? How can you find a surgeon in Thailand that is willing to do it but also has good results as long as money isnt a big issue.
Media groups gays and trans people often as annoying umblrites who drink the kool aid of political correctness. I've known a few people who challenge this, but most that I know are nutty over socjus pandering.
Is there a sizable group of you that reject gay society's "obligation" to the neo left?
>>7003301 >Is there a sizable group of you that reject gay society's "obligation" to the neo left?
Yes, but for this very reason we don't put our face on LGBT. Here is fine, its anonymous and we can discuss stuff, but irl I'd never associate with the LGBT movement, even though I get lumped in with the T by definition. This is probably why you have your specific idea of people you presume us to be, because sufficiently sane people worry about their own lives, not... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't wanna go into "muh headcanons" territory but.... I see threads about what characters we think are gay or bi. What about ones that are trans?
There are a lot of characters revealing to be lgb nowadays. I wonder if we'll soon get trans characters in the same manner. It'd probably start a huge storm but I have see it a few times like in Umineko or Moyashimon. Characters we thought were cis but are either stealth or closeted.
I can't find the OP image I wanted but it was from this manga too so whatever.
Trans people, does masturbation invoke dysphoria for you? Did you feel dysphoric when you learned about it? I have seen two different comics - Khaos Komix and Bokura No Hentai - where mtf feel grossed out at doing it. This is foreign to me as a trans guy but I have heard some guys say they also feel this way. How common, or uncommon, is it?
Personally, I don't have much bottom dysphoria. Maybe if I wasn't asexual I would have more but as I am, I only really feel dysphoria... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>7002981 >masturbate >fuck women >pee No problem, no dysphoria
My dysphoria is mostly social. Thinking about aging into a manly behemoth would of course induce dysphoria, but as far as my physical body, I'm pretty lucky to not experience much dysphoria. As far as my male form and former male life, I didn't hate my body ever so much as just didn't care about it at all
>>7002981 i never masturbated pre-t because of dysphoria, which was a problem at ages 14/15 when i knew i was trans and thus no longer thought i was asexual (mistook dysphoria for asexuality) but wasn't yet on blockers so had an intense sex drive on t i jack off several times a day and don't feel as much dysphoria as i did pre-t in general, though pre-t i had to confine myself in my room because even looking at cis guys made me want to slit my wrists so it's a relative term
I'm a 24 year old passable tranny in America, and I want to move to the UK. I have a college degree and such, but I'm not sure how easy it is to move there, what all I need to do (I have 7 months on my current lease, so I imagine I still have time to take care of paperwork, just not sure where to start). How hard is it for a tranny to get a job in the UK? I'm primarily looking at Edinburgh, Scottland, but I'm willing to look elsewhere if trannies aren't liked too much there. Essentially I'm worried being a tranny will keep me... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>7002935 Trannies are protected under the Equality Act 2010 which makes it illegal for employers to discriminate based on gender identity, disability etc. unless they can prove beyond reasonable doubt that said person's disability or whatever would render them unable to perform the job even after reasonable alterations are made to facilities and equipment. You can't not get hired on the basis of being trans or you're allowed to sue.
Anyone here consideres a "flamer"? How do you deal? Is it really looked down upon?
I don't aim to be a femboy but I am pretty feminine. I don't have a lipsy voice or call people "girlfriend~"or anything like that, but I like painting my nails, gardening, baking, having female friends, wearing light colors like pink or green, etc. Basically I act like a middle aged stereotypical gay guy. I just want a nice picket fence, two kids, and a husband.
>>7002810 It's looked down on by the gay community but loved by the straight female community. There are more straight women then all LGBT put together so you'll be fine socially, and thanks to the internet it should be easy to find a guy who also wants the same future as you.
Can you guys clock trans men without knowing they're trans? Not pre-T guys that look like butch chicks, but trans men are hormones. I always thought that the only reason no one assumes I'm trans is because ftm fly under the radar. I'm absurdly short (5'0) and pretty curvy but no one cares. People only start noticing when you tell them they're trans. Then they start noticing your height or hand size or whatever. People clock trans women all the time but what about trans men?
>>7002715 i can, but i'm ftm myself and have developed the ability to be completely neurotic about the difference in appearance between men and women it's not your height that will get you, it's your face if you transitioned post-puberty
Can you really be 'too young' to know you're gay or bi? When did you guys first start noticing?
I remember a Nick News segment with this boy who must have been under 12 and already was openly gay. I have heard of some 9 to 13 year olds who also are open but a lot of people always say kids can't know at that age. Why? Plenty of kids have crushes from as young as age 5 so why can't someone know they like boys or girls at that age? No one says kids are too young to be straight.
>>7002613 I think it varies from people to people.
For instance, I was taught that being gay was the epitome of evil long before I was taught what it even was. So I never really thought about it, because I just assumed that it was not an option.
Thinking back on it, I can see many "tells" that were there, like 6 year-old me going out of his way just to look as not-gay as possible. As in, I was actually quite concerned about others thinking I was gay, "even though I am not".
It even got... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Can we drop the T already? It's not a sexual orientation, it's body dysmorphia. Do we really need to muddy the waters and make legislative goals more difficult for ourselves by having those hysterical idiots under the same umbrella?
People would confuse me for a girl all the time, and I loved it. But as I grew older, I became more masculine looking, wide shoulders, barrel chest, my sister says from a distance, I look like I'm wearing football armor. My face, and skin are still soft, and girly, my hair is to my shoulders.
I told my Mom I was thinking of changing, she said "I figured you were going to go this way, you always loved your skirts." She is very supportive of it.
is transgenderism just a form of escapism? i've been attending my local center for meetups every wednesday, and they all seem to come from fucked up families, relationships they're not satisfied with, jobs they dont enjoy, or even poor financial status.
What does it really mean to be another gender and why does it seem to be a beacon of light for these people? Is it unconsciously rejecting your past self flaws and wishing to take on a new life with a blank slate?
It's called sample bias. You are going to a support group and surprised the people there need support and have issues. I have a great life and childhood. I'm a tranny and I'm successful. I've never been to a support group.
We change genders because gender identity is biologically hard wired and it physically hurts not to do so. If you don't experience dysphoria don't transition. That simple.
Also shit bait. Why would a tranny ever use the word transgenderism?
>>7001464 No, you faggot, if it were about escaping shitty life situations, it would only happen to people who had been through shitty life situations. Most trans people report feeling trans from about as early as they can remember. If it were about escaping shitty relationship stuff, financial status, etc, why would I know I was trans from the time I was 6 years old? Also, I come from a very good family that is well-off, loving, and available.
Ik it's internalized transphobia, but please try not to make posts here... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>7001474 >If you don't experience dysphoria don't transition.
i've felt 'dysphoria' since as early as 8. i want boobs, i've always gotten put down when people compliment how muscular my calves are, i admire my fem features, and it use to be the highlight of my days when people would mistake me for another gender.
i've been pretty satisfied with my life thus far as well, but i can't help but wonder if there's some secret underlying reason... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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