Question for passing trans people. At what point do you tell the person you're interested in or dating that you are trans? Obviously you have to before it gets physical but if you're trying to live your life without people knowing that you're trans, you can't go entrusting that information to people you might break up with after a while. Do you test the waters first and see how they feel about lgbt stuff? How do you trust someone with that kind of information and not be worried that they might out you if the relationship doesn't work out?
Aren't you confusing me with someone? Basically, I think that all lgbt people struggle with something like that-myself included. Whether they are gay and used to be in denial or closeted, transgender(obviously), former flamers etc.
>>6908333 I've struggled but my situation is better now. I just laugh at my foolishness and struggling in the past and figure I'll just keep struggling and that's life but I'm okay with it coz it's also fun from time to time. I've felt suicidal many times but I never actually attempted suicide and I only cut myself once and it was just to leave a scar, not to cause dangerous amounts of bleeding. I don't really have a choice but to go forward. I can't go back in time. Even if I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
pretty boring, and it might have just been a miscommunication anyway
>going to movies with mom and brother >wearing slavcore track pants and nondescript fleece jacket but not really trying to dress male >go up to lady at the ticket counter >mom: ok so two adult and one child ticket... so for me, my son and my daughter >ticket lady: so...four? these three, and your daughter, and uh.. >mom:... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Wanna talk about issues that are common in lgbt people, like depression and anxiety?
I have heard studies say autism and PCOS are very common in trans men. I do have PCOS and likely undiagnosed autism (I would try for a diagnosis but I don't want a reason for my family to baby me any more than they already do). I don't know the biological reasons for this though.
>>6907951 >Wanna talk about issues that are common in lgbt people, like depression and anxiety?
I'm not depressed because LGBT. I'm depressed because reality fucking sucks. And at least partially because of a brain injury. The other disorders also have nothing to do with it, but likely are why I don't give a shit about lgbt-ness. Do what you want. Why should I care?
>>6907801 Is this like news? Most cis lesbians aside from TERFs (which are mostly either repressed ftms, or repressed chasers) don't care one way or the other about trans women. Everyone knows cis lesgen is where self-hating trannies go to hang with TERFs and the like.
PASCAGOULA, Miss. (AP) — A Navy seaman in training accused of stabbing a transgender woman to death has appeared before a Jackson County judge for a preliminary hearing. Sheriff’s Deputy Leo Allen revealed details Monday about what investigators found in the hotel room on July 23. He says autopsy results show 25-year-old Dee Whigham was stabbed 119 times. Allen says many of the wounds were to Whigham’s face, and her throat was slashed three times. WLOX-TV reports Allen said surveillance video shows 20-year-old Dwanya (DWAN-yuh) Hickerson and Whigham walking... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
AGP, Hon, attention whore needs money. Please share so I can find a sugar daddy to buy me a vag. https://www.periscope.tv/w/aql_8DFxTFFHSkRQem9yRUp8MWt2SnBWak5ncG1LRVFVDHZpfUUYwENViLlRhS4Fn6s5yJk7vw29ZkD6qEIQ
>22 >closet gay >had couple of girlfriends, never touched a guy >hate myself for not being straight >will never have children, ever >hate LGBT community >hate fags who are proud of it >will live and die alone
So I told my friend I liked him a while ago. He didn't say anything at all, so I don't know if he likes me back or not. So far its been just like normal, nothing has changed at all which is good. Im glad that nothing has changed. Anyway the point im trying to get at is that he doesn't seem to feel the same for me.
An opportunity came by recently, and ive decided to take it. I don't know if im gonna go out with this other guy but hes nice. What I want to know is if this will make my friend jealous or not cause I don't know how he feels. I don't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6906741 If he didn't let me telling him how I felt have our friendship plummet then I don't think this will. I mean it depends on how much I like this other guy, but if he ever turns around and says he likes me back, I would probably choose him over the other guy, mostly cause I know him longer.
I'm looking for any suggestions for transitioning in the Army (US type)? I know I'm supposed to get diagnosed with GD/GID, but it has to be through a military hospital of some kind. Problem is, I'm stuck in medical BFE (Okinawa, Japan).
I'd like to start self-medding if I can't get it legit from here, but idk where to get them (inhouse doesn't deliver to Japan). I also don't know if estrogen and AA will cause me to piss hot on a urinalysis.
The worst part of the... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6906692 Fuck off The military is not a piggy bank to fund your snowflake bullshit You're there to protect and serve your nation, do your duty and then sort out your transition when you are discharged The military is for men, so while you are in it, be a fucking man
This is exactly the sort of shit that makes people hate transgenders
>>6906217 I dream to not need to autistically count calories to maintain a healthy weight. Unfortunately that will never happen cause I'm an impulsive eater riddled with bad habits. This is the point where someone should kill me.
I have a question/problem/worry. But here's the background first. >first year at university >living in dorm since a week >4 beds/room >barely know room mates yet, never seen 2 out of 3 as they start uni next week only >put the sentence "i'm gaaay" by iDubbbz here
I am not planning on coming out or anything or at least not in the first few months before knowing them well enough, I just want... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6906189 I don't think they would care, I think if you brought home a guy/girl they would be fine. Honestly its not that big of a deal. Let it come up in a conversation. >Hey anon see any girls/guys you like. >Nah im interested in guys/girls Btw I don't know your gender thats why it seems like im being cryptic.
>>6906544 >>6906718 As I said, I won't just spill it and tell them before they even know me. It's just not gonna happen, I don't want to come out yet. Also I'm a guy. But you know what I'm talking about, being around in just underwear, showering etc. Do people ever get used to something like this and start acting like it didn't happen?
Do you live alone? With roommates? With a gf? Or are you one of those well off people with an actual house?
Please see: >>6902188 or >>6824174 if you intend on drawing attention to not being lesbian.
Add these to your filter list: http://pastebin.com/hmZKdbmE And keep updating your filters with every thread. Some advice to keep this general decent: Recognize the ability to hide posts... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Are there any other intersex people here? Are intersex people even a part of the lgbt community?
I think we should be. We are similar to trans people in our not fitting into the gender/sex binary. Some people even think transgender is a form of intersexuality. Yet we get virtually no visibility or representation. What do you all think?
I do think intersex people belong in the lgbt community, and I also agree that trans issues and intersex issues are often very similar and these groups are natural allies. I personally wish I could do more for my intersex comrades.
>Have friend for long time >Be really into him but though it would never happen. Give up long ago >2 weeks ago he makes a move out of the blue >we've been fooling around and stuff but he is recently out as bi >Been doing cutsie shit like bringing me to parties, goodbye kisses ect >He's still a bit confused about what he wants Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6905202 Probably bi on some level if you really wanted to get down to the nitty gritty with it. But does any of that really matter at this point in history? Just like who and what you like. Fuck labels.
Over the years I have seen more and more interest in Traps and tranny porn. Seemingly heterosexual men are head over heels for trans women. And when I ask about it they never talk about the penis being a turn on for them. Instead they talk about the fact that traps are not women. They claim that as men they like video games, sports, having sex. Basically it seem that women have become so insufferable that these straight men would rather have sex with "other men" than has sex with women.
So can someone explain to me what the heterosexual appeal of traps is.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6905141 >And say it is for a reason other than the penis. Sometimes you just think someone is attractive, but I'm bi-scum so it's not the something, but trust me when i say the sex wont be like its with a girl or with a guy, its a another realm in its self.
>>6904233 Realise that transitioning almost never results in passing, realise that post and pre SRS suicide rates are identical. Remind yourself that you'll never be a real women who can have children. Accept this and make the best of it as a man.
>>6904280 Get T shots or something then. Or come to terms with the fact that your 'trans' feelings are likely the result of either child abuse, being brought up by a single mother, or AGP sex fetishism.
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