Guys who describe themselves as "total tops", why must you make such a concerted effort to appear masculine and "alpha." We all know that the only reason that you refuse to take it in the butt is because you're a pussy beta bitch who's not man enough to put down their purse and take a throbbing 8 inch benis.
Thread for those who feel unwelcome among the younger and more successful transitioners who have turned hongen into an ironic thread.
Rules: >height must be at least 5'10 >shoulder to hip ratio must be at least 1.2 >underbust to hip ratio must be at least 1.05 >shoe size must be at least 10M >if you have not been on hormones for at least two years, you must be at least age 24
i'm a transbian... and i go swimming and dudes stare at me... i get too much attention from them, and i really hate guys. if i were a real female woman i would be smiling and looking at girls in the shower... hehehe... but because i know what it's like to have guys you don't want looking at your looking at you, i don't. wish i could, but i can't because i look too male and i'm non-op so... i don't want to make them uncomfortable like guys make me. they should have a place where they can get away from that. i always divert my eyes to the ceiling. i would love to go to the shower and check out the wet naked girls. real lesbians are so lucky.
So believe me, I get it. You get to grope yourself and steal a peak in the chicks bathroom. But bro. Have you considered that it makes you look like a GIRL? What's more, men might get the wrong idea and try to date you, which is hella gay. My bro Brad did this, at first it was all fun and games, we'd grope him and laugh and it was sweet, but then we started getting attracted to him and that's FUCKED UP. Here's the kicker though, we told brad to stop doing the pills and he CRIED, brad would never cry before, he had the least emotions of us all, like... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Your partner wants to kill themselves really badly. You're the only thing preventing them, multiple times daily stopping them from walking out and offing themselves. They are constantly going back into depressive states, every single day, and it has become extremely tiring and is wearing you out. Literally anything will, for lack of a better word, trigger them into such states, there is no predicting it. They'll also just randomly do it themselves, all the time. If you broke up with them and kicked... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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See >>6824174 if you intend on drawing attention to not being lesbian.
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Just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months guys, it wasn't long but it felt like a lot and I loved her a lot + she was my first real girlfriend, how do you get over someone? I'm not really keen in giving many details but I think to say that lately I had been feeling like she wasn't what I wanted and I was just with her to have someone to support me and talk to me and love me and not be alone, not because I truly loved her for who she was.
I identify as a gay male, I am 24. but I have started to get off to straight porn. mainly orgasm compilations where slutty women get intense orgasms from very manly men and rough sex. What does this mean? Do I put myself in the position of the female? Or am I a closeted bi/straight guy? I am very confused! Maybe it is the rough, slutty thing that gets me off...
>>6887178 >Or am I a closeted bi/straight guy? I had the same from the opposite side. If that helps, now it's almost 3 years later and I know I'm bisexual. Seriously though, other than for coming out or "finding yourself" why do you need labels?
I am a closeted tranny. This year i broke down and started jumping through the hoops for hrt. I started self medding 3 weeks ago. I am completely in the closet, no irl one knows about it outside of a few doctors, a psychologist, and a psychiatrist. I lied to the psychiatrist and told him that I had talked to my family about it. In reality, people on here are my only suport network. I have made about 30 threads on /lgbt/ over the past 3 months With out you guys i wouldn't be on hormones right now, i would probably be a depressed mess or dead, but i know you are just anons, we are not real people in each other’s lives
Should I come out to someone irl ?
I am really scared T_T. I feel I have to tell someone… but I can’t. I can’t predict what will happen. I am ashamed to be a degenerate tranny scum, I don’t want my family to disown me. I live with my older brother and his girlfriend, I don’t want him to kick me out. Is it possible to keep this from him?
I want to tell my older sister. When I was like 10yo, my older sister caught me cross dressing and said she would accept me if I wanted to become a woman, but I denied it and brushed it off, and then repressed for over a decade….i don’t know if she would still accept me, what are my chances?
My best friend knows something is up with me. I know he likes tranny porn and anime too so I think he would be ok with it, I want to tell him.. but I can’t risk it. I don’t want him to see me as some unstable freak. Should I risk it anyway? Fuck…
A few hours ago i was going to ask on facebook a lesbian family member how my sister reacted when she came out to her, but I got scared, and i kind of revealed that I was hiding something important. Am I fucked? Should I try and ask her again?
>>6885229 >being a degenerate I feel bad about this sometimes but it helps to remember that it's just another way of saying "stop wanting/liking what I don't want/like".
I think your friend, older sister and the lesbian family member all sound like good people to talk about this. If you're afraid of your brother throwing you out, maybe choose the person most least likely to talk with your brother about this to minimize your risk? From my experience, people who... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6884230 I think they might be real, but they don't seem to be very innate, unlike sexual attraction, which seems heavily focused on physical femininity, masculinity, androgyny, or any combination of those three, and rarely can be changed with effort.
Romantic attraction seems to be based on gender roles, be they purely societal or those few parts of gender performance that are based off of innate biological tendencies.
>>6883525 >we've kissed before but it was more in a jokey way i think How exactly does that work? Like were you drunk and someone else dared you to do it? Because I can't see any other situation where a kiss can be jokey.
I am just so alone and horny but also socially retarded, a little crazy and distrustful of people.
I wish I could just hook up with anybody but I don't want to catch anybody's STDs. I can't even mention I'm a tranny anywhere on dating sites because that's literally asking for trouble and I am speaking from experience because as soon as I mentioned that, some 43yo BDSM daddy wanted to make me his """"wife"""" which could be p fun but with someone I can trust, not some crusty old grandpa who just wants to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm getting really pissed and hopeless that i can't get rid of my tummy or hip fat. There's barely any there but it's squishy and pudgy. Ive been trying to fix it for months. Literally no results. I'm building muscle in all parts of my body, yet the areas I'm trying to fix arent getting muscly or going away.
>>6881508 Vanity, tell the femboy that he won't stay cute for much longer used he meds. He'll start one one, then the other then the other and become so dependent on them that he'll get inconsolable without his HRT pills
>>6880022 >>6 ft+ Tall >>Attention-whore Colored Hair >>Being 30+ Years of Age Prior to Transitioning >>Cake-face Makeup >>Comically manly voice, like are you even trying lmao >>Piercings >>Poor Hygiene >>Plaid >>Shitty... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>Links • Informed Consent Providers: https://itmb.co/r1uo5 (PDF) • Makeup Tutorial: http://imgur.com/a/JO33K/ • MTF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/36HC6ZmT (embed) • Size charts: Just google women's size chart • Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv • Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge (embed) • Articles, Studies and General information about Questioning, Transitioning and other stuff: http://pastebin.com/CyW1dXV8 (embed) • Useful links about/for transgender people:... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Reposting my strange morning here. >tfw wake up in dream >K is sitting next to my bed >she's caressing my arm >my arm is very thin and emaciated >she smiles and says "welcome back", "We thought we lost you." >she leans over and kisses me on my lips >I can't lift my other arm. >it won't move Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6881565 Yeah, it was a weird dream and a bit scary. After this line: >slowly waking up for real are events of the beginning of my day.
It's scary because ME/CFS can make a person bedridden and even cause death. Post Exertional Malaise is a better name for it. It is a failure of the aerobic energy production system to produce enough energy (ATP) for normal activities. I'm unfortunately at the point where I can't even do a normal day's work. I can maybe work an hour... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Femgen FAQ: ▶What is a femguy/femboy? An androgynous male with feminine and soft features. Mostly gay, but not all. ▶Are fem guys trans? Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties. ▶Can I be a femguy? Often with enough effort, yes. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard. ▶Should I go on HRT? If you can deal with the tits and infertility, you'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. ▶Is liking femguys considered gay or straight? Gay.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6846985 >tfw starting the second year of not speaking aloud to people for months at a time sometimes you're so alone that you forget that just being around people in public by yourself doesn't count as not being alone.
>>6846985 I just don't know where to find friends or people to accept me. I know where they exist, but so too do the kids in Darfur know of Hollywood. I always love when the "kid that lives at home(TM) on reddit all day" archetypes just tell me "so move there :)". Why so I can be forced homeless to hsve survival sex on the streets and become a junky? The ones who tell me to just "get a job there ;3" don't understand the world.
Anyone here /scared of going fulltime/? Wearing boy clothes makes me feel like I am in control and that there is nothing to be scared of while andro/girl clothes makes me feel anxious someone will recognize me and laugh at me. I feel like I can't go fulltime ever.
>>6893059 Have you tried slowly incorporating girls clothes into your everyday outfits. It took me a while, but now I wear womens pants and for the most part t-shirts too. Still no make up or anything, but a little progess is better than none at all. Try maybe wearing one pear of pants that are womens once a week, then a couple times a week, then only wear womens pants. Idk just a thought. God speed anon
▶ Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing ▶ MtF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV ▶ Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860 ▶ Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php ▶ Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv ▶ Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge ▶tfw no pure husband ▶ Trans girls are qt... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm a pretty effimate male (almost everyone I meet asks if I'm gay, if that gives you an idea) with wide interests both typically masculine and feminine, for example I love lolita and fancy dresses and I like wearing cute puffy girl clothes. On the other hand one of my biggest hobbies is lifting. I'm 18 and I'm pretty comfortable with my body and being male in general. I don't feel an especially strong connection to either gender, I feel like I would be just as comfortable if I were a.woman as I am now. As a kid, until i was like 9 or 10 probably if I was playing pretend with kids I was close with or something similar I would always say "I want to be a girl, I'm named Chloe" or something along those lines, even though it was usually playing shop and other things where the other kids would just be themselves, in the world where I could I chose to be a girl. My family blamed it on me being surrounded by girls as a kid (sister cousins etc were all female) which might not be entirely wrong.
l don't think I'm trans, but the fact that it's even a question for me is a little concerning. Furthermore I know how hard it is as a trans person and how hard transitioning is so I wouldn't want to go through that but maybe subconsiously that's why I have the viewpoint of prefering to stay male? Maybe I'm subconciously denying myself? Would that be a rabbithole worth going down?
In short, how can I know if I'm trans or just a guy who likes girly stuff and crossdressing?
Maybe I'm genderfluid or agender? Will those ever be legitimate outside of tumblr?
sorry this is so long theres probably a lot that isnt necessary im just tired and cant formulate well
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