Alright, /lgbt/. This may have been posted on here already, but I gotta ask. Memes aside, is gender ACTUALLY a social construct? or is it the gender roles rather than the identities that are social constructs?
How do I get the courage to go to a therapist, and then tell then tell I have gender issues?
I'm extremely scared and embarrassed too, and I've kept these feelings bottled up my whole life up so far. Also I have a fear that the therapist will just make fun of me, or even worse, tell someone I know.
>>6864668 The technology will never be fully realized in your lifetime. Plus if TERFs are any indication, you bet your ass they're going to viciously oppose any attempt to create an artificial female body.
>>6864690 >The technology will never be fully realized in your lifetime. That I actually doubt. Bionic prosthetics have come a very long way. Just recently they've managed to make an arm one can move purely by intending to.
The question is how long it'll take to apply the same principles to the entire body. Plus you need to create an hospitable artificial environment for the brain. PLUS so far we haven't figured a good way to deliver most sensations through prosthetics.
>Plus if TERFs are any indication, you bet your ass they're going to viciously oppose any attempt to create an artificial female body. You're right. TERFs, fundies and probably most regressives. Hopefully these people will lose in the long run, as they always did.
So I had a question about becoming a gay club stripper. I'm a guy, 21 yo, and I crossdress and whore around for other boards like /b/ /soc/ and /r9k/. Pic related is me.
My question is, is this something that gay guys would like to see? I'm ok at pole dancing and my gf was a stripper so I know a bit about the biz. I want to dress up like a sexy trap and dance for tips. Is this a common thing? Is it a thing at all?
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>>6865049 this one? the comic is good? i don't read comics but i'm not very exigent with my fiction and having a trans character is usually a plus, specially if the trans character is woman and not straight.
I hate the homosexual lifestyle. I don't care if the guys want to fuck or whatever, but every time I meet a gay person they seem "off" and creepy. Pride parades are straight up repulsive, and gays rarely seem to want to do anything but fuck eackother. I couldnt ever see a gay dude be in a legit monogomous LTR, especially not in a heavily gay community. Then there is the issue with drugs/poppers and all that bullshit, and how Liberal they all tend to be. And I say this all with experience, I worked in a gay bar for a while, and I've spent time with a lot of... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6864442 >I have an opinion that isn't commonly shared by other gays! >Look at me! Fuck the gays! >They're all the same! >W-wait, what? >Some of them agree with my view on gay culture, drug use, and promiscuity? >No they don't! They're lying! My opinion is special! >Pay attention to me and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't really frequent this board or this site but I thought I'd ask. I've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now and she says that she's ready to get this done. For all you post op MtF trans girls, were you happy with how the surgery turned out? Do you ever find yourself missing your penis? I want her to be happy but I also dont want her to have any regrets.
>>6864240 Don't believe common misconceptions about srs. It's fairly advanced nowadays. >you can still have sex (eventually vaginally once it heals) >it can help a lot with dysphoria >It can work out quite well for a lot of people.
If she's actually going to go through with it, just assume she's already given it a lot of thought.
I've heard some transsexuals claiming that just being on hormones eased their dysphoria. Passing is not really a feasible goal for me. Is it worthwhile to go on HRT for the neurological effects (if they are real) and stay in the closet? Can I hide the effect of HRT from the outside world?
>>6863891 Right there with you anon, almost 11 months and hopelessly unpassing.
We can never be alright outside, but at least you can be a little alright inside. I don't regret starting and trying my best every day, nor should you aim to be any different.
You can hide well, but people will eventually always immediately notice there's something abnormal about you. Very aware people will gender you correctly when you're hiding and not even trying, which feels good and terrible all at the same time.
>>6863847 I made this thread because I just attained one. And I had the exact same question as you did before it happened.
And that's it. It just happened. A person stepped into my life that I'm so intoxicated by I literally can not help but thinking how wonderful it would be to just be with them Sexually, romantically and platonically. I find it hard to think straight. And it really hurts not being able to be with them, but on the other hand I've never felt so optimistic and motivated in my life.
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I want to go into surgery, and I wouldn't be allowed to if I had HIV, since I could pass it on to patients. That would be my career ambitions down the drain. Not to mention, I plan on find a monogamous, long-term relationship in order to start being sexually intimate (not just because of HIV; I just like it that way), but I'm not sure what I'd do in that case. I've heard enough about people cheating and infecting their partners with HIV. Therefore, if... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I had protected sex 3 weeks ago with a transexual. I payed for it. I instantly regreted it, but whats done is done. Since then I am a wreck. I keep thinking I may have been infected. I did suck her penis for a few seconds, then she rimmed my ass, then penetrated me (using a condom) for a minute maybe. After that I penetrated her (with condom) for a few minutes only. It was my first time with a trans, I really wanted to try it out. It was a mistaque. I am really affraid.
So i'm straight dude over the past couple months I've been jerking off to the thought of my gay friend sucking me off, I don't know how it started, but I'm straight and i need to know the best way to get him to do it.
Is there away of asking for it with making it weird if he doesn't want to?
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>>6863391 I'm from Jerusalem. While Tel Aviv accepts our kind the rest of the country isn't even remotely on the same level. There are a lot of primitive fundies here, especially orthodox jews and muslims. You won't get lynched but these people hate your guts and think you to be a depraved animal. A step up from our neighbors to be sure but overall it is still far better to be gay in the West.
>>6863391 I'd never visit. Wasn't someone stabbed to death at a recent pride parade by a deranged Orthodox Jew? I think Israel likes to adopt Westernisms like gay rights as a way to contrast itself with the rest of the Middle East, when in reality the average Israeli probably loathes homos in the same way as the average Saudi or Jordanian.
Fuck everything famalams. I hate my state of being. I'm going to off myself ASAP.
I'm almost 29, and with nobody conceivably there for me, I'd already be "dead" within a year tops. So not many people will notice my death, other than potentially the neighbours for stinking up the flat. So I'm going to go an hero in a secluded woods to prevent that.
Give me some good methods. Keep in mind I can't drag a helium cylinder to an undiscoverable place. Apparently KCN is horrendously painful and hard to get, but works. Any other suggestions?
>>6863078 The best way is to hang yourself. Rope is easy to get, you can practice tying a proper noose at home so you kill yourself instantly when you take the short drop out in the woods. If I ever worked up the nerve for suicide I'd do it this way.
>>6863078 Drop a acid and think about life then try to change the way you think just kill of the self that wants to die or think it should die and make a better person and if it a situational think that makes you want to die then that also can be changed.This what I do when i start feeling like I want to off myself.
>>6862823 Dude i totally can relate. my best friend recently got a girl friend and now he spends all his time with her. a few months ago i broke down from dysphoria, and now i am on hormones in secret. I constantly fantasize about becoming a woman and having sex with him.
Hopefully i will look better than his girlfriend and be able to steal him back. its funny how things turned out like this.. i never used to like men either but now all i think about is sucking dicks.
Can we get an uplifting thread going? I'm in an incredibly good mood and I hope I can spread that joy!
>completely passing mtf >dating guy i've had a crush on since I was 12, now we are talking long term settling down >scored an amazing internship for a company i've dreamed about working for thanks to my uni & connections >parents are 100% supportive and love seeing me so happy in life
i've been dating my gf (mtf) for a year now and we were strugglin' for cash early on but now we both work in the same office and make bank... she'll be finally able to start HRT soon and get an orchiectomy and that makes me pretty happy.
i'm just dreading inevitably telling my parents that I'm technically not straight and that I'm dating and most likely marrying a trans woman. They're not going to take it well, and I love them to death.
>be me >be closeted faggot since 6th grade >never had a bf or gf >be a 4 on the Kinsey scale so most of them assume I'm straight >straight best friend sets me up with a girl >I decide why tf not >d8 for about 3 months >keep getting pressured into sex by her >refuse everytime Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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I'm a femboy who strictly wants an LTR. Not really into hookups. I'm also not attracted to other fems or men who are too "feminine" based on my standards. I like them rough, hairy, and stocky.. kinda muscley is a plus, but I just want my man to throw me around, spank me up and fuck me.
And then we'll do other shit like listen to music together and go camping and whatever. I'm sure I'm not the only one.
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