1. see a cute-looking guy with boyish/feminine features who gives off a gay vibe 2. turns out he's a transman 3. i am no longer attracted to that person 4. feel bad for not being attracted to them anymore 5. repeat
>>6860934 To be able to tangibly reinforce the existing gender roles they'd have to have power, high numbers and influence. Obviously they don't have any of that. It's the majority of people that reinforce those roles. Trans people just obsessively abide by the gender roles for their desired sex because everyone dumps their sexism and expectations of what a man or woman should be onto trans people and they want to blend in as best they can to avoid that.
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>>6860934 >Caraposter making yet another sad trans antagonising thread this time directed towards trans people who literally just want to live normal lives that don't revolve around muh pronouns and smashing the patriarchy
Twinks and femboys dont exist. It's an act guys put on in order to make themselves more attractive to guys like me. No male is naturaly as effeminate as a chick, and this fact of life kills me, as I'm cis femchaser.
>>6860801 I do try to appear more feminine, but that's more because I like that side of me better than what comes naturally. I'm not really masculine either, so this was the next logical step for me after being a weak pansy all my life.
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Care to explain why? Men are just are anorexic and ugly,and their faces are really disgusting. (Have you seen anime boys? ewww.) Gays = people who like the ugliest gender for no reason other than dicks,kek.
Hey lgbt. Not sure which board is best for this, but I read the rules and it seems like this might be the right place.
I have a life long friend that recently came out as a trans-woman. We're 30 years old, and this seems pretty late in life?
I'm having sort of a difficult time coming to terms with it....
Not socially. If he wants to wear dresses and makeup and stuff I'm cool with that. It's a bit strange to see, but we've always been super close and I'm not going to let some lipstick ruin our friendship.
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I can never settle on the best way to say it, but I guess that I feel like he wants to be seen as a biological female and that my education prevents me from seeing that and it is effecting how comfortable he is around me.
I want to stay close to a really good friend, but this has just injected some tension between us and I'm not sure how best to deal with it.
tfw you live in a small balkan country and you're a kissless gay teen because every gay person in this part of the world is connected somehow and they're all the same. please tell me theres still hope for me im cute i swear :::)
Any guys express themselves in feminine ways but aren't femboys? How do people react? What do you think of guys who do their nails or wear skirts but aren't androgynous?
Personally, I'm a trans guy and I admit I am drawn to cute stuff. I like men's fashion but I also like women's fashion. I don't see why it matters what gender the clothes are for as long as they fit. I find it an unfair double standard that women can be butch but men can't be feminine without fear of danger or ostrasization. Even flamboyant men get mocked. I have heard... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
TLDR: would like to know how to ask my doctor for anti-depressants without seeming drug-seeking, because I absolutely do not want to see a therapist/counselor.
More info: I've been on hormones about three years now, and now really know myself in response to them. And I don't really know how to say this, so I'll just outright say that I'm a perfectly normal person with a totally sane and level-headed family. We're quite poor, but we are kind people who very much love and support each other.
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>>6859023 http://www.madinamerica.com/ http://www.mindfreedom.org/ 'antidepressants until you can get your life back together' kek that's not how they work i'm not going to just say 'eat better :^)' or some shit like that, i know you're experiencing a lot of anguish that you don't see a way out of, but psych drugs aren't the answer. if you have to bring in drugs, bring in nootropics or psychedelics, but even that is more of a last-ditch effort. i strongly recommend lifestyle... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6859031 I understand where you're coming from, I do eat very well anyway. :P
I've never used antidepressants in the past because I'm kinda "too proud" for them, but I've experienced bouts of depression before that I've dealt with by making lifestyle changes. That's how I picked up running, even. It just seems like it's always coming back, in harder waves too, y'know?
I will definitely check out these links tho, thank you for responding.
Hey I'm a trans guy who had top surgery like 3 years ago and I have big noticeable scars from it, do any of you have any experience with scar revision surgery? Any recommendations for surgeons or procedures?
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>>6858473 Do you enjoy other romantic, rom-com, and BAWW movies? If not, it's just because the genre inherently doesn't appeal to you. Internalised homophobia does mean something, but nowadays people use it to say "you don't like thing and I like thing therefore you're a bad person"; pay no attention to them.
>Do you enjoy other romantic, rom-com, and BAWW movies? Not really. But I do tend to find them more tolerable than gay ones. >>6858512 I liked them. Tom failed as a thriller for the most part, but I enjoyed the themes it explored. Complicated grief and weirdness that can come for it, isolation, open secrets, stuff like that. Blue I liked because of it's focus on the cultural differences above all else. It's a rarely honest portrayal of a relationship between two people from a different... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6858447 Just go to Target. The bigger the store the less likely the staff are to even notice you, let alone give a fuck what you're buying. Most service people don't care what's happening around them as long as they get paid.
>>6858447 There are two ways to get around the awkwardness of shopping for girl stuff in guy mode:
1) Pretend you're shopping for your girlfriend. Having a shopping list on hand as a prop helps to sell this story.
2) Find a woman to buy your girl-mode starter set, and instruct you in the finer points of makeup application. Then you can do your future shopping in girl mode and hopefully no one will clock you (or at least won't care).
>>6858447 One tip I learned from here is that when you're on your way to the fitting room, have the guy clothes over the womens clothes in your arm. It would just look like you're going to be trying on guy clothes. It's easy too, since guy clothes are obviously bigger in size.
i need your help. i dont know whats wrong with me. i can get sexually atracted to people but i cant engage if i dont love them. i thought i was demi but im not as i can find people attractive and can get aroused. i kissed my gf for the first time and i felt nothing at all, no sexual attraction, no good feelings, nothing. i dont love her either...
>>6858267 short answer, nothing. feeling guilty or not wanting to have sex with someone unless u actually have feelings for them is completely normal. doesn't mean u cant jack off to porn and think it hot. my advice, don't worry about it and try and find someone u care about you'll eventually find someone. also break up with your gf, unless you're getting something from it (doesn't have to be sex) its not worth your time.
It's really best "to be cruel to be kind" in this case. I mean if you stay with her she will just invest more time and energy into you. You don't love her. The least you can do is let her try to find someone who does. Keep looking for your one. I am like you. It took me a long time to find my match. I have only been with her. She is the only person that I have ever been romantically attracted to. I thought I was broken turns out I was just not with the right person. Hope this helps.
You ever seen that one tranny on the bus at 2am on a Saturday next to a shitfaced guy making small talk to all the good hard working Mexicans going to work while she goes to some strangers house that she met in the club and yea he might not be hot but you know homegirl felt him up to know he's packing and finally settled on him bcuz he's drunk enough to know she's a trap but still be able to deny it if things go sour? You know the type, she's super skinny and can kinda pass until she opens her mouth to talk? Yea. She smokes.
Look alive, it's time for our unabashed worship of the /fit/ girl master race. Chubby chasers not welcome.
See >>6824174 if you intend on drawing attention to not being lesbian.
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>yfw thinking about what it would be like to have a boyfriend edition
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>>6857707 You may have heard of 'Poz', but it's a well kept secret of our community that the preferred discrete method of conveying ones HIV+ status is by calling yourself queer. CISHET Normies have no idea lol
The same way you accepted you were regular boring human and not a wizard like Harry Potter, or a jedi, or a magical pony, or whatever faggot ass crap you wanted to be when you were a little kid playing pretend.
You grow the fuck up and get over it. Life doesn't give a single shit if you accept reality or delude yourself and make yourself miserable.
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