How did you do it and how hard was it to get? What do you guys work?
Or are there people who can't find jobs?
I studied media and live in a capital. I wrote a few applications so far but I fear that I might get not recognized because of missing legal name change and no perfect passing. The city is very trans accepting but still. I even might freak out if I get an invitiation to a job interview.
>>6721047 Customer service call centers and tech industry work in general are fairly welcoming. It's more about how socially adept and how much of a fit for the job you are. You'll have to be more of an obvious choice or they might overlook you due to bias, subconsciously or otherwise.
It was harder for me to get my job not exactly because I'm trans, but because I had gone to therapy for being trans. I work for Lockheed Martin, designing the various computer systems needed to fly a modern plane, and I needed to get security clearance since they work on a lot of stuff for the US Government. It was a colossal bitch for me to get my old therapist to release everything so they could be sure I wasn't suicidal or a psychopath or whatever. It sounds to me like your biggest issue is your confidence. Don't worry about it. Most employers care a hell... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Trans men of /lgbt/, I need your help. Since starting testosterone two months ago I have lost my falsetto/head voice completely. I'm a musician and the music I've recorded is designed with the vocals a lot like this:
Most cis men can hit falsetto, right? Will I be able to sing in my head voice again when my voice settles or am I fucked and have to find a new style of singing?
So im a straight cis male and i just had sex with my other straight cis male friend. It started off with us watching porn together (straight porn) and then we started jerking off together, and then jerking each other off. We both agreed that it would just be a friendly thing, not a gay thing but idk. He ended up sucking my dick a little and then he let me put it in his ass, which took a lot of prep work but after all that it was amazing. It felt a lot better than any girl and i had the most amazing orgasm ever. When we were all done, he kissed me. Is that gay??? I think the... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am a cis straight white heterosexual man but I cant stop thinking about this whole gender thing. I have no gender or body dysphoria, feel comfortable with a masculine identity, have a sweet heterosexual girlfriend. I have a mix of masculines and feminines interests to the point it's meaningless (computer programming, practicing boxing and BJJ, wilderness survival, collecting plushies, trying different shampoos, hoarding ebooks and pictures my hard-drives). I have no particular fantasy about having sex with a transgender person and if I were involved romantically with such a person I REALLY wouldn't want to bottom/suck dick. It make me uncomfortable thinking having sex with anyone which isn't my gf so it can't be a fantasy for me. Of course I wondered how it's like to be a girl but which male hasn't ? A bit the same way I wonder what it's like to be a cat or a bird. When I was a kid I had the fantasy of being a shape-shifter so I could be anything I want but it needed to be realistic so I couldn't create or shed a vast amount of matter for creating a smaller/bigger body without eating a lot or shedding organic blobs on the ground, and I was afraid of being killed by humans if I was an animal so I usually took the form of different men or women.
Now gender seems like an interest on its own, I talk a lot about it and my gf was even confused that I might be closeted transgender. Sometimes I just get really obsessed about a topic and I try to read as much as I can on the subject and gather as much data on it. Generally it is thing like animal's right, mushrooms, asymetric warfare or making alcohol at home (4 principal interests of 2016) and it's been gender for about a while now. I am mostly afraid of someone looking in my hard drive and finding all the things I saved about it.
>Am I just autistic? It could be. But it did sound a little like you're keeping some kind of issue or discomfort at a safe distance. Might not be that you're trans. I can't figure out how to word this in a non-clumsy way, but could it be that you want to be feminine and have feminine interests without becoming less masculine or less man (in your own eyes and/or those of others)?Could it be that you in general like to chip away at ideas you used to take for granted, like the gender roles/ideals you were raised with (and trans... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My transitioning has been an unmitigated disaster. It's obvious to me (now) I am an unsalvageable eternal hon so I am going back to living as a NEET shut-in since I am scared people will somehow detect any changes about me (like boobs or something) because I'll still continue taking hormones so it's for the best.
For some reason I also feel guilty for flushing my masculine potential (like me being 5'11, having noticeably wide shoulders everyone compliments me about, barrel chest, narrow hips, small firm butt, big hands and feet, handsome young man's... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I also am worried I'll somehow start looking like a girl down the road even though it's very unlikely. I am not crazy, I just don't want people to single me out as a sick faggot and beat me up. I am scared of people beating me up because I act or look slightly feminine.
I'm still on fence about my sexuality, but I've fooled around with a guy once, and I've fucked a middle age woman also. These are my only sexual experiences as a 24 year old(because I avoid people irl and find socializing with new people to be really painful, so I just try to avoid it).
Now this chubbish(he looks like he might be fat), I'm not really attracted to fatness(I used to be fat myself and I hated my body, now I enjoy jacking off tomyself in the mirror mirring my self).
I met him on grindr, he's horny, I'd like to get some... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Man, I'm unabashedly gay and even *I* wouldn't let a fat dude suck me off. Whether or not you're gay, if you're giving these fantasies this level of thought then you're not entirely straight and thus should stop worrying about the stigma attached to same sex relations. If you're not entirely attracted to him as you say, and can fap just to the idea of going to meet him, then it's not *him* that is getting you off, but most likely the excitement of a viable gay hookup with a dude you can *actually* meet irl and fuck around with. Which leads... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Sup anons, I'm here to open up to strangers because they can be actually genuine on the internet. So, since I was little I felt different from everyone else and ostracized by my peers, like as far back as I can remember. And for all the hate and pain I received, I developed a bad case of chuunibyou syndrome, and I believed I was some demi-god sent to earth to reign over the mortal scum, like I actually thought my essence was supremely better than everyone else's and I was special. So I lived like that my entire life, (I'm 22) I had no friends and devoted myself... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is there tension between passing trans-women and non-passing ones? All the right wing, anti SJW trans-women seem to look passable. I wonder, if Blaire White didn't pass, would she side with the right? Would she not demand to use women's bathrooms if people reacted to her using them?
>>6719058 >All the right wing, anti SJW trans-women seem to look passable. Most are unpassable and lash at women out of jealousy, the biggest anti SJW trans women I know of are old hons. I know plenty of SJW trans women who are way way hotter than Blair will eer be.
>>6719029 Hot, i wish he spilled the ice cream on my shirt while we were sitting in my car. Then I make him lick it off my shirt. Then make him hold the ice cream while I suck his dick, tell him not to get any of it on the car.
I'm not sure I've seen a thread like this on here before. But /adv/ has regular 'ask the opposite gender anything' threads (>>>/adv/17449767) and I thought the concept could usefully be extended here for little non-threadworthy curiosities everyone has for LGBT+ groups they don't belong to, rather than having to make threads or intrude on people's generals.
Let's see how far we can go before derailing into a shitstorm.
It just hit me, /lgbt/. We're the gutter. We're the waste. We're the birds that should have broken their necks after jumping out of the nest. I'm a tranny. I'm a transsexual. I chopped my dick off because I like little boys and barbie dolls so much. I looked weird as a man and now I look repulsive as a "woman". Should I just kill myself?
I'm in an awkward spot, two weeks ago I found out I have cancer, it's pretty much guaranteed to kill me unless a miracle happens, we have no money, and treatment wouldn't actually save my life anyway, I'm going to kill myself, what I'm asking is should I try to break things off with my bf first, or just off myself while we're still a pair? I know there isn't really a good answer to this, he doesn't know about my diagnosis yet, it's just for lack of a better way of saying it, I'll paraphrase deadpool, cancer is a shit show, and... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I will go first >pill splitter/cutter >Dried squid snack >4 X Korean Exfoliating Golves >Stridex maximum strength pads >Laboratory Chemical Splash Safety Goggles >bruan silk epil 9 epilator >84 X 2mg Estrofem >50X 50mg Procur >2X 9pack of Chocolate covered Pocky >Japanese... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6718260 Its the opposite really, there are a lot of cis men, and very very few trans girls (particularly those that are cute). You could say something like "not all cis men are chasers" which is true, the majority are not. But even if only 1% of cis men are chasers (and I think the number is probably closer to 3-4%), they still outnumber the entire trans population, not to mention the subset of that population which is cute girls. Money might be an issue, but even poor men can be cucked out of it.
The bigger... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
/lgbt/ I need your help with figuring out if my crush is gay
>he likes a lot of male characters and the few female characters he likes tend to be pretty "masculine" >one of my friends was talking about how good looking another guy was and he agreed >he doesn't seem uncomfortable when I lowkey flirt with him >has no wayfoos >doesn't give a straightforward answer when we talk about who is gay but he isn't homophobic
I'm too nervous to ask him myself. If he's straight I might collapse internally
>>6717778 Best way to approach it is for you to tell him you are gay/bi whatever. Then do 1 of 2 things A) ask if he is willing to date/hookup/whatever you intend (mind if i suck your dick? even straight guys might be tempted by that)
B) ask him about his sexuality first then do A assuming he says he is gay/bi
Sup, /lgbt/. So my university is going to cover SRS and I was wanting some info on good surgeons in the US. They'll cover the surgery for any US surgeon. Also, do I need genital electrolosis before getting surgery..? Or is that sort of part of the deal. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.
I identify as asexual, so here's a little qualification. I would say the second definition is the most accurate in my case. Everything down there works just fine, I just have no compulsion to use it. I do enjoy intimacy, but sexual acts aren't any more enjoyable than making out, for example.
I got 55 10mg of Adderall for the price of letting him fuck me in the ass. He's a chill dude and he knew I was bi so he made the suggestion. His only additional stipulation was that I had to dress like a girl (which I do from time to time anyway). Its not like I didn't have the money, I just got turned on by the idea of being a whore for drugs. We even fucked in the alleyway behind my building. It was hot. Anyone have any stories like this?
Anyway: I have 27mg Concerta. Should I mix that with the 10mg IR Adderall or nah?
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