/LGBT/ I’ve got a problem and I need your opinion. Already I can tell that this will be a disaster, but please read this. I don’t know if being transgendered is the right of an individual or if it is a mental disorder. Should trans people be allowed to get gender reassignment or are we facilitating a psychiatric condition? First my background: I am a 21 year old, cis, straight male who has lived most of his life trying it become a medical doctor. I am almost always a social liberal and I want to accept transgender rights. Along my academic path I have taken medical... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What is wrong with the trans argument? -Someone who has a belief that their body conflicts with the image of their body is widely considered to have body dysmorphic disorder. This can be non-psychiatric in many cases. I personally think I’m a twerp, but most people think I’m athletic. However there can be extremes; anorexia, body integrity identity disorder, and possibly having a transgendered identity. In these cases people can physically harm themselves to match their body to their image. The problem I have is that the medical community doesn’t amputate the limbs... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What’s wrong with calling trans a disorder? -I would argue that being gay is not a psychological disorder. If being gay isn’t a mental disorder, how is being trans a mental disorder? Gays and straights alike have the right to do what they want as long as they do not infringe upon another person’s rights. Why should there be a double standard between liking the same sex vs. feeling born of the wrong sex? Why should we stop someone else’s happiness when they know how to achieve it without hurting anyone? Also, as a doctor I would be in some deep shit if I tried referring... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Arguments I don’t like: Genetic- Fuck this argument. Chromosomally we are assigned a sex, but gender and sexuality is not assigned by an XY or an XX. Some argue epigenetic factors determine gender and sexuality, but as a scientist I find these studies incomplete. I doubt questions of why people are who they are will ever be fully answered. Psychiatric Classification- There are “soft laws” of psychology. Not everything can be categorized simply due to one factor or another. Maybe it should be a disorder, but a majority of society has accepted it so it has become... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>usually a total sub >me and my best friend took drugs >I topped her, we both enjoyed it >this is the first time I ever didn't hate topping >feel like a total AGP >tranny jesus will never forgive your sins
>>6711160 I transitioned ten years ago. There probably were websites or forums dedicated to the subject, but I didn't visit them. My personal knowledge was scarce; I happen to enjoy synthesizer music and learned about Wendy Carlos, just randomly digging up information, and it's hard not be made aware of transsexuals watching shitty daytime TV.
The process was straight forward. I found my surgeon through the eunuch archives. There was no therapy, no "real life experience." Once you're cut, any... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
This guy is the best choice for LGBT people. He and his running mate Bill Weld cared about LGBT rights way back before it was cool, in the early 90s, back before the democrats were even pretending to care; and there definitely weren't any special interest groups to push for that either. They believed in equality out of principle, not pressure.
>>6711018 To be fair he's not really for open borders, he wants to require work Visas. Everything else you said is right though, but I'd rather just have equality than be pandered too, so I dislike Jill.
>>6710475 Turns if youre both switch and some relationships you have a top/bottom so its usually almost always one tops and one bottoms in that case. Imagine a guy and girl. The guy isnt always feeling like he wants to be macho dom. Sometimes he wants the woman to be assertive and all that. Its like that but different.
>>6710475 Usually no. Tops and bottoms have thier roles, and with two vers guys it usually happens organically.
I'm vers, and it has depended on my partner a lot on what he is like whether i top or bottom more.
>>6710502 I've never taken "turns" with other vers guys. More or less it usually happens just that you're making out, foreplay, sucking cock, and you feel it out. One guy will usually make it clear what he really wants at that moment.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>I recently broke up my Ex >was mutual break up and we are still friends. >Me and this guy who lives in same town as I do gave each other oral a few weeks back. >I go get tested and find out I have chlamydia >(my ex and I were not in an open relationship, he's also not that type to cheat either) >I message this local guy to tell him I believe he gave me chlamydia (wasn't being aggressive).... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>thought that I was mostly straight, or perhaps asexual for the longest time >never been in a relationship >hkv >only really ever show sexual tendencies when being exposed to porn >never talk about it >never really had a crush on anyone >see the What's In My Bag with Will Toledo from Carseat Headrest >bemyhusbando.jpg >look at pictures of him and feel uncomfortable amount of attraction (non-sexual)
Is this just a Will Taledo thing? Am I bi-sexual? Too soon to tell? What do I do with this uncomfortable attraction? It's unfamiliar to me.
>>6709601 Well...I got nothing, I mean besides the obvious signs, such as constantly staring at you, being campy, being very touchy-feely...there's nothing that can really help you, as gym rats and gay jocks tend to be fairly straight passing, so you're gonna have to just say you're straight and not interested. If you're worried about being raped, I'd recommend self defense classes, which should be taken in general, really. Sorry, this faggot can't help ya much breeder.
>be cis male >middle school diploma exam >everyone is given paper to write on >all the girls are given pink paper and boys are given blue paper >the teacher handles me pink paper (WTF?) >high school diploma exam >same fucking thing >got referred to as maam in public 1/2 of the time, even though I always had short hair
WTF is this shit? Why does this happen?
Also, a related side question: what does this mean?: >psychiatrist who follows me up for mood disorder makes jokes about prescribing me hormones >also brought up a story of a patient whom he follows up who got prescribed hormones (Why did he bring it up?) >did that more than once
I never spoke about anything other than mood issues. Why would he bring stuff like this up and make me uncomfortable?
Hey ! So my question is not a troll at all. It's pure curiousity.
>Im french and agender, im male an i use male social, ok for me. >It could be kind of strange for non french initiated, but french has not official neutral gender.
There is not equivalent for it. We have only she and he equivalent. Resulting in the fact all objects has gender, mostly because of language flow, but sometimes very random. For exemple : >US tables and computers has no sex : "it" >FR tables are gendered female and FR computers are gendered male.
Lgbt people milits here to obtain an official neutral gender pronoumn.
I would like to know if your neutral gender is naturally used when someone hesitate about your gender ?
Im sorry for this question because i immagine it can be rude for u to be miss gendered : but :
Would you prefer to be potentially missgendered with the wrong gender or not gendered at all (it). Thanks in advance.
Ho, and, Arhem... Sorry for my approximative english. I hope this is understandable at it is a complicated question.
There isn't really a good answer to this on the short term. On the long term I imagine that language will adapt. English dropped Thee and Thou because people were lazy. Today's English is basically broken according to the formal rules of yore. As the need for a gender neutral way to refer to people arises I imagine that something similar will happen in languages which formerly had no such way to talk about people.
>>6709459 Mostly. There's the singular They, which is now considered to be the polite way to refer to a person whose gender you do not know. "It" is never used for people. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they
>serious gayface >disgusting shrill faggot voice >caveman's forehead >long midface (think Sarah Jessica Parker's horseface) >okay jaw but an alpha male's squareish chin >extremely tall (at least too tall for a woman) (5'10) >wide shoulders (18") >narrow hips (15") >ugly... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6709374 >>extremely tall (at least too tall for a woman) (5'10) Where in the world do you live where 5'10" is extremely tall? Southern china?
>wide shoulders (18") Holy shit though, that's pretty big, im 5'11" and my shoulders are 13 ". Are you sure your measuring it right >narrow hips (15") You have got to be measuring wrong, there is no way anyone that height has hips... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
The only relationship I've been in was with a catholic girl, so it never came to any sex.
I feel almost no sexual attraction to either men or women when it comes to porn. Straight/Lesbian porn doesn't do anything. I can only get off to shemale/trap/gay porn.
I feel no sexual or emotional attraction to men (I've kissed some in dares or similar situations). I do feel sexual and emotional attraction to women, but it feels very different from when I (this is going to sound weird, sorry) watch my usual porn.
I come from a pentecostal... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6708321 Real or the weeb stuff? If it's the weeb stuff, you better find someone that fits your porn interest and have sex with that person. If you don't get an attraction to them anyways... I don't know if I can help, OP
>>6708296 They are not married, so there isn't any property to split. They have no children so there is no kids to stick together for. Entire family isn't likely to be invested in their relationships, so there is no family to disappoint. Society thinks you're a degenerate anyway, so it's not there encouraginf you to stay together.
It's less a question of why gays break up faster and more a question of why wouldn't they? Straights have a societal framework propping up their... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
It seems like a big part of the culture is all about drinking, drugs, and promescuity. There's a lot of psychological trauma in the gay community and the culture encourages people to cover it up rather than deal with it. It's hard to form stable relationships with so much bad shit going on in your head. A lot if older guys grow out of the hookup culture and form lasting bonds.
Ok, so I'm trans (or at least want to) and I wanted the people i cared about to know. So i tell my friends like its no big deal all like "Hey Ally, I'm trans now, so refer to me as Ms. Anon and use female pronouns, i guess" but i cant tell my parents to save my life. Like i hint at the fact I want to be trans but they think its a joke or something.
>can tell friends im trans, but not family
Why am I like this and how can I change? does anyone else have the same problem?
I don't like females so,i guess im gay. I tried with a guy...and it was boring as shit...i was trying to get erected touching him...but it didn't work and we didn't had sex at all because i wasn't exited. I tried with other guy that's considered hot,and nothing...i touched him,touched his dick...i got a little exited a the first seconds, but not erections at all...i didn't really got turned on by his body,i was good looking i guess? but i touched his muscles and nothing...i was like "this is boring" Why i don't get erected... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm going to try and write short sentences so there's less for you to read. I'm gay, 18 years old, and single/virgin. For about a year and a half, I've had a feeling which is becoming more and more intense in recent months. I feel like my body on the outside doesn't match how I feel on the inside. My body is fairly - but not overtly - masculine (broad shoulders, pretty hairy legs, masc face). The thing is is that on the inside, my image of myself is a lot more feminine or at least "effeminate". I love boys and love being a boy, and I'm... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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