Besides the obvious attention-whoring aspect, what's the underlying factor behind cis women pretending to be FTMs? Why do they desperately want to claim to be men and to embrace masculinity as their own?
>>6576898 "Society" tells them that being a man is a cake walk in the park handed to you on a silver spoon. I assume that's what causes the dick envy, but they usually give up by the end of college hopefully realizing they were wrong. That being said, unless a ftm transtrender apostate is lurking this thread and gives us an answer, we'll probably never know for certain.
Sooo I was looking for advice on the matter and this looked like the best place to ask for it
I've always considered myself straight, only found women attractive and even today I don't really find male bodies appealing in the least bit, even though I was reluctant at first because I've always considered myself a complete heterosexual I gave in to curiosity and ended up masturbating to a few doujins in which effeminate and girly looking guys are fucked into becoming power bottoms, shit gets me rock hard now because it's kind of like finding a new kink... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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>assume the worst of yourself so you never come off as arrogant or narcissistic >always expect the worst so you never get disappointed >look foward to death so you never get scared >intentional make your self feel worse ao you can feel comparatively good fron almost nothing >stay on bed all the time so just watching tv is exciting >stay as poor as you can so you appreciate money Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
A friend of mine has a theory: she said that looking at people in the eyes can make clocking easier. Now, we are not talking about extreme cases of orangutans with wigs or huns, we are talking about people who can pass to a certain extent but get clocked occasionally. I certainly make eye contact with people who stare.
is it possible that she mistakenly thinks that looking in the eyes you NOTICE people clocking and you have a false bias?
in other words, that if you don't look, they are still clocking, but you don't notice?
By the way, I heard... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
There's a couple of things I can think of that may be the cause of this:
Confidence, some people lack it sometimes. Being insecure always bring doubt to everyone around you since you doubt yourself already.
Exposure, maybe one barely passes or are a bit more andro leaning than they'd like to give themselves credit. The more someone stares into another's eyes and face, the more apparent the flaws or lack there of become apparent.
IIRC, all humans have that prejudice first impression... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6576394 thank you for your response. I appreciate. With all due respect, I do not think confidence matters. If you have manly facial features, no amount of confidence will change that. Or did I misunderstand you?
Hm, maybe I should have worded that better. By confidence, I mean like an aura of how sure you are about yourself. Ever see those men who have life pretty much figured out? They might not be tall or even good looking or in shape, but they have a certain swagger or class to themselves, women are the same way as well. Having something like that can help change people's impression of you greatly is kinda what I mean.
I 100% agree with you that having manly facial features, or rather too many to consider... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Also for whatever it's worth, feminism is great, even if some feminists give it a bad name. I was identifying as feminist long before I identified as a woman desu. Ask me about it if you find it controversial
22-year-old female. Sexually, I feel almost exclusively attracted to women. I can be turned on by looking at most of the women who are my age. Also, I feel attracted emotionally to women (crushes etc.)
I sometimes feel emotionally attracted to men too (in the form of crushes sometimes). However, my sexual attraction to men is very low/virtually non-existent. I can feel very faintly sexually attracted to men. Sex with men can be tolerable, but definitely not fulfilling (I find it hard to get really turned on and I could never be in a monogamous long-term relationship with... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Any ftm peps out there dealing with weight problems or anorexia? >go vegan to try to lose weight and get rid of my tits as much as possible >start gradually eating less and less w/o noticing >fuck >my stomach shrank till it was hard to keep any decent amount of food down >go to a doctor to get on a diet plan to get my weight back up >right after I discover my periods are very infrequent... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm probably gonna post this on /fit/ too, but I figured here would probably yield better results. I'm a femboy who likes to keep himself the least muscular and keep his butt round and cute. I do a little cardio to keep in shape, but I recently picked up golfing again. I really enjoy it and plan on getting a membership soon as I've been going 2-3 times a week. I'm kinda worried though because I don't want to get muscles from playing too much. Is it possible that it could replicate an upper body workout and give me muscles in my arms or will it just do... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6575825 golfing is mostly cardio. There's not really a ton of resistance so it doesn't build much muscle. If you're very very skinny it might build some, but it's probably less resistance than swimming is so it's not going to be much
Around when i had my first homosexual feelings in freshman year of highschool i kinda gived up hope of getting a GF. I inevitably did, thrice, but they never felt quite satisfiying I still felt lonley and desperate Then i meet a friend who i got interested in , we didn't do anything, and now i meet a new guy who is my bf But the idea that im gay of desperation bothers me. If i am, shouldi suppress these thoughts til i can become straight again?
>>6575823 Assuming this isn't bait, you should just do what makes you happy. You do you. Having had boyfriends doesn't mean you can't later have girlfriends or vice versa. Labeling your sexuality is only supposed to be a shortcut to making social relations. Trying too hard to fit in one label or an other, or making up your own special snowflake bullshit isn't what's going to help you figure your shit out. You could generally prefer females but fall in love with one special guy. Just be yourself... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6575928 Well, that's fine. So long as you enjoy being with your boyfriend, do that. If that fails, then talk to people. A cute girl might even be into you. Then you'll knpw if it's what you wanted or not.
Um so i was at my bf friends house earlier and i had to borrow his pc to check my bank account,
I decided to be a bit mischievous and check his search history on gelbooru to see what yaoi he was into, i called him over and while looking at his search history teasing him abit over what character he had searched He just turned of his pc and looked really embarresed and upset. I think i really hurt his feelings, he seemed sader after Did i fuck up?
how can you not tell this was a fucked up thing to do? you should have said you were sorry and made it clear you'd respect his boundaries in the future right then and there, now it'll be hard to bring up again.
>>6575002 >are you a boy or a girl? hmmm well your dna says you're either female or male. science doesnt change who you are neither do your clothes. you like pink and skirts? doesnt make you a fucking girl. how about accept how you were born instead of hating yourself so much you think changing will solve your problems. i can say i feel like a potato doesnt make me one.
Has anyone else encountered this? >Gorgeous guy wants to meet >You just want to do oral, but he says he can't get off to oral, just anal >Then tells you how much he hates condoms
It's happened like 3 times to me and it's always confusing. Who the fuck hates blowjobs? Do they just have super dull penises? I feel like when I talk to bottoms this never happens. They're all happy exchanging bjs and moving along.
>>6574722 I've stood guys up because I'm a top like this. Head is nice but giving anal is the most fulfilling part of sex for me. Ofc I always try to turn the other guy on and get him off but nothing beats cumming in a nice tight ass while you hold him against you imo. If a guy doesn't want that from Grindr why bother? I work too much, have friends and do other shit, when I get on Grindr to get sex that's what I want, bjs are nice but it's a grey area between foreplay and penetrative sex to me
>>6574239 well hun. . I see you have developed a creepy shemale fetish from all the porn you watched you disgusting creep. Now that thats out the way. Most >tgurls are actually HONs and are doomed to look like a man for the rest of their life
Your little fantasy about a passable tgurl cumming inside your asshole will never happen because they simply don't exist
>be me >mtf pre-hrt looking for support >find trans group chat >is literally run by a hon that's delusional as fuck >is not on hormones >goes out as "a woman" >says she doesn't have dysphoria >thinks hormones are magic pills that literally change your bone structure >uses emojis... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6573685 Transsexuality is fucking rare. Over 90% of the "T"-people in "LGBT" are not transsexual.
And after using the word "transsexuality" - fully typed out in this very post - there will for sure appear some wild hons to complain about me: "how dare you to write 'transsexuality' - how trutrans do you think you are? You are triggering me and hurt my hony feelings"
The thing is, that under the "umbrella term" 'transgender' there are crossdressers... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6573685 What I forgot to mention, OP: Do not look for support in trans group chats or in the trans community. Get yourself a good therapist you can relate to and stay as far away from the trans-community as possible!
>>6573783 oh yeah i'm always called out for being a "truscum" or whatever. and i guess one shitty support group is better than none? but yeah i guess seeing a therapist is the best bet. which i will go see soon. just didn't have the money for it now. (also 18 is a perfectly fine age for starting hrt, right?)
I'm 10 months into hrt and definitely don't pass though i was sad multiple times I'm cute...Can't really understand that beacuse for me I can't be cute when i still look like a man. Oh well xD Dunno if it helped :P
I am a late bloomer and most of the changes (forehead, brow, eye sockets) happened to me while I was waiting to be admitted into care (>European healthcare). I did everything I could to try to stop it from progressing. I ate predominately soy, no meat, even pull my hair as a way to raise my cortisol and lower my T indirectly but my T levels were exponentially rising and nothing worked. Then I was finally put on HRT but it was too late. I soon realized I don't have a snowball's chance in hell of passing flawlessly ever.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm getting ready to go out tonight to a gay bar. I just thought to my self: Why wont older guys (35+) get the hint?
I'm not accepting your drinks, because i dont want to give the impressing i want something from them. Yet they always start touching and talking about how horny they are. Even after telling them no for the fifth time, they don't seem to get it? Please, someone enlighten me here.
I'm a 24 yo solid medium, i'm sure they can try to stick their dick in something better.
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