/lgbt/, I'm having a real problem here. This is my first /lgbt/ post >be me >know 8/10 qt 3.14 for a few years >had a little bit of a "thing" for a while >mfw I find out shes a transgender >mfw she is female to male For the sake of anonymity on an "anonymous" board we will call him Carl >stop talking for about 3 or 4 months Fast Forward to yesterday... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5389420 >Friend is in Carls sisters room painting >Carl and I are just talking, messing around in the kitchen, innocent fun >laughing so hard I'm on the verge of tears >20 or so minutes it's time to go >friend is already out the door >Carl sees me out >Carl wraps his arms around me and kiss a little... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5389420 >Text Carl this morning >I say "I'm really feeling, attracted towards you. More than I ever have before." >pic related happens after I say that Sorry that text got cut off. What does this mean /lgbt/? I'm having trouble swallowing that Carl came out as a trans guy. What can I do to not fuck up and refer to Carl with her/she pronouns?
So I am gay and I was molested by a male when I was 10. I know that being molested by same sex doesn't neccessarily mean one will become gay, but I wonder if there are any studies which show that it might have some correlation to homosexuality and if anyone else on /lgbt/ was molested by same or opposite sex and what your sexual preference is now.
I used to meet up with a guy who had been molested by a priest when he was 12. He said he had no sexual inclination before that point but knew homosexuality was "wrong".
He had told his therapist that he actually liked the sexual contact even though he knew it was wrong (sort of like someone telling you parachuting is dangerous and you can get killed but once you try it you feel great about doing it).
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so I have a friend who is transgender (genderfluid between male and neutral, biologically female) and while I respect it, am totally fine with using preferred pronouns, etc., I don't understand it. For the same reason I don't necessarily understand plenty of other trans men: he/they still wears skirts, dresses and other feminine clothing, makeup, engages in historically "feminine" activities, basically embraces all the trappings of what society views as "female". So why identify in society with the male gender if you perform and display all female... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Respect their decision to be a nuisance to actual trans people and don't give them a reason to gripe. Eventually they'll either transition to male or grow tired of identifying into a medical condition.
>"genderfluid" >he thinks he has to include that she's a bio woman
lmao the only reason someone is trans is because they feel uncomfortable in their physical body. if she's letting other people assume she has a female body, and not even trying to look male for her own mental health, it's bullshit. she's looking for attention and an identity. either she'll go deeper and deeper into tumblr things like this, or grow out of the phase.
Whenever I sleep over my friends house we end up spooning. Which leads to me sporking him. We are both straight, but just like how it feels. Anyone else ever spooned or sporked their friend at a sleepover. It's not just this one friend either, whenever I hang out with a lot of my friends and we sleep together we end up spooning. I have spooned with at least 6 other guys. I also don't think the odds are that high that we are all gay and we just donk know it. Any other straight dudes spoon with their guy friends?
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So I'm thinking of using The Danish Girl to come out to my socially conservative parents. I was originally planning on coming out after I would start failing boy mode because I think successfully appearing as female increases your chances of being accepted over looking like a straight up man. But since I hinted (probably too vaguely for them to figure it out) at what was bothering me to my parents after my mom asked me what's bothering me as she usually does, I figured I may as well go all the way soon. The trailer feels oddly relatable to me, and the reviews seem to indicate it's really sentimental and sympathetic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTbUMMigo_E With that, I can avoid having to answer some questions, as they will already have a primer from watching the film and the emotion of the film may make them a bit more open to the idea. Now I can't do it soon because family will be visiting until the 3rd of January. But that's fine, because I'll use that time to practice on my voice a bit more.
>>5389185 >Any problems with my plan? yeah, it's stupid. if your parents don't like trans, they don't like trans. no amount of straight cis actors with makeup on is going to change that. have fun getting kicked out.
They don't like trans people, but they know I've been miserable for a while, they seem to love me to some degree though they ineptitude in applying it would be hilarious if it weren't so harmful, and the film should allow them to view things from the other side instead of -to- the other side.
But I do need to think about this more deeply and give myself more time to think. Especially for when I'm not up later than I should be and breathing polyurethane fumes from redone floors.
Is transgender dysphoria fundamentally different from other forms of dysphoria people feel and demand that they have their bodies altered to fit what they think it should be in their mind? A woman who blinds herself because she feels blind inside, a woman who wants to be crippled because she feels like a wheelchairbound person, the boy who wants to be korean because he feels korean on the inside.
Shouldn't these people all be grouped together? It seems like at their core their mental issues and needs are the same as trans ones. Do you think these people should be... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
If you read some of the conclusions of studies regarding biid and sex dysphoria, there is an overlap with the idea of an incorrectly integrated neurological body map. The primary difference is that while dysphoria diminishes significantly with hormones and surgery, biid sufferers, as those with dysmorphia, tend to merely shift the focus of their discomfort to another aspect of their body, and so biid is comparatively less successfully mitigated with surgical intervention.
Yeah, it's the same shit. Also, many of those limb dysphoric people end up self-inflicting wounds upon themselves, forcing their docs to amputate the limbs.
The question is, if one believes they will lead a happier life presenting as another gender or losing a certain limb, is it really that bad to cater to it? Sure, it's fucked up pumping hormones into your body and getting your dick chopped off but really, do you realize how little we know about the human mind compared to what we know about the body?
You could say that since we don't know shit... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Don't hide behind your masculine face because there are so many cis women out there with faces just as masculine as yours.
What Makes you a hon?
It doesn't take much for the world to see you as a girl trust me, I'm not the prettiest girl in the world but I pass and am stealth.
>Terrible hair cuts, go to a stylist and for the love of god take care of your hair! >Poor Makeup, look up tutorials if you have to just get better at makeup if you want to be a more beautiful woman. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is there any way someone could get hormones off the internet while under 18? My "friend" has conservative parents who won't ever let them get hormones, so they are going to have to get spiro and estrogen by themselves, but they only have a paypal account. What website will accept paypal?
>be me, mtf >everyone on dad's side is skinny, white trash and possibly suffering from thyroid problems >tallest in the family >bony chest of a holocaust survivor >belly of a beer-chugging deadbeat dude >no hips >monstrous feet and monstrous veiny hands >hormones virtually do nothing with my body kill me
Kinda gross, but I'm in need of some advice. (question for gay dudes, but really anybody with a butthole I suppose)
So, I came into possession of some hemorrhoids at the beginning of the semester that really, really, sucked. - Hurt so bad I stopped pooping, which made me constipated, which made me go to the doctor even more. After a colonoscopy to make sure I was all good (I'm 22 btw, fucking shoot me), I'm finally starting to get back to normal.
The only thing is, I have a "skin tag" on my butt where the vein... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5388922 Surgery? No, never been so unlucky. It's normal for doctors to avoid surgery, even minor surgery, if possible - it's needless cost and risk (sometimes minor, but still). If you don't feel comfortable explaining to this doctor that the skin growth makes you uncomfortable and interferes with your sex life, you may think about going to a doctor in a more cosmopolitan area.
>>5388774 Sorta. I'm attracted to both men and women, and only really dated women growing up, but am in a relationship now with this terrific guy that I am head over heels in love with. I feel more gay than bi now.. I dunno.
>>5388774 thought i was bi, but i realized whenever i had a crush on a woman, i would see them in person and the feeling would be gone. being too close to a woman physically makes me anxious and uncomfortable. whenever men get close, makes me so comfortable.
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