The last time I tried this I ran through the text limit so I'll try to give the abridged version...
I'm 20 and I feel like I'm coming to a turning point. I've always been pretty gay but from early teens to about 15 I had myself convinced I was straight and even enjoyed straight porn, even to the point of being a homophobe. After going to all boys prep school this illusion quickly shattered, and since then I've just considered myself bi and told no one.
However lately I've really started to open up and came out to all my roomates and have begun to let my femme side out more, which feels great. I'm starting to actually feel more gay and it feels good to acknowledge. Of course, perfect timing, I've also met a sweet attractive girl who I actually feel comfortable with for once and can see being in a relationship with. It feels like I'm being pulled in two opposite directions and I don't really know what to do.
I don't think being "bi" for my whole life is really realistic because its a turn off for both sides relationship wise, and there will always be speculation its just a coverup for full gay, esp with my personality. I don't know whether to tell the girl all this or just fuck her asap to see if its any good (I have topped and bottomed for guys and enjoyed it a lot). It would destroy our friendship if I fucked her, said meh, and came out as gay, but I guess the fact that I'm worried about our friendship is pretty gay already.
tl;dr I'm a 4 on the kinsey scale, do I round up and commit to the majority interest, repressing my feelings towards girls? Or just be wishy washy biscum forever... ;-;
>>5304259 Be honest and upfront with her. Before I got into a relationship with my girl, I told her everything, and gave her a chance to back out. She loves me for who I am, and vice versa. We now live together and have animals.
Also, expressions of sexuality can be fluid, and often swing from time to time. It's normal to be attracted to woman one month, and them feel a sudden urge to beat the meat to twink pron.
>>5303964 They've also been able to grow penises in tissue scaffolds, so hopefully you've got good things on the horizon.
Plus they've already been able to use RNAi gene therapy to turn ovary tissue into testis at the cellular level. It's mammals with the same genetic system so it wouldn't be hard to adapt. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20005806
Ummm the number 1 thing for me at least and I think most bi's is personality.like more of a caring subby kind of person. Physically I'm attracted to different things between gender obviously. But male, female, trans whatever the person its not really by gender but just by who the person is.
>>5303713 I'm more attracted to females because they seem to be more passionate lovers and kissers. I'm more attracted to the female body and since I know it more (I'm cis female) I am more comfortable with them. With men, I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing.
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Trannies who don't put they're trans on their profiles >Eternal rest, grant unto them O Lord, >and let perpetual light shine upon them. >May the souls of the faithful departed >through the mercy of God rest in peace. >Amen.
things are more complicated than just chromosomes, since there's people with both sets and other shit along those lines... and with transpeople it's more complicated than that...
and gender roles are stupid in the sense that not everyone is gonna fit and they're essentially pushing people into a box based on one small aspect of who they are... they do however work for some people, and some people are gonna fit them, but they shouldn't be pushed on anyone...
but that's totally different than being trans or anything to do with anyone on a genetic level...
>Used to hear about transgender women getting beaten/raped/killed >Initially feel bad about it >Actually read up on what happened >They usually spent time with scumbags, drug dealers, normalfags, fratboys, etc
And like that, any empathy I had for them was gone
If they had just stayed at home with a boyfriend like me, none of that stuff would happen, but they had to chase an alpha like a moth to a flame.
While I experienced many positive changes from HRT there are also more annoying ones that worry me like - I can't sleep 8 hours anymore - I have to pee a lot (not on spiro) - I get weird itchy bumps that appear out of nowhere on arms and thighs that over time diminish in size but never go away and resemble washed out freckles after some time - hair on my head grows much slower now - healing takes forever
Will all this ever go away? What other adverse effects you had?
>>5303154 >What other adverse effects you had? - crying over nothing and being a slave to emotions - developed BDD - developed anorexia - developed severe dry eyes and might need surgery - developed more social anxiety issues - developed more depression - bruise easier - tire easier - weaker - alcohol tolerance decreased - get cold a lot more
>be born a girl >tfw when you will never be a handsome man >tfw no matter what you do, you will never command the respect and pussy slaying awe that a handsome man will >tfw you will never be pic related
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