So I'm friends with this guy, and for 2 years now Ive had a crush on him, well I wouldn't really call it a crush so much as a fantasy. the only reason why im asking how to handle it now is because the feeling is growing stronger. I don't know what to do.
I don't want to tell him because I don't want our friendship to die off in awkwardness.
I want to tell him because its killing me. In between a rock and a hard place you could say. So right now Im in a state of purgatory.
All im asking is whether I should tell him and see what... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6395578 >you didn't say if he's gay or straight >you didn't say if he's returned any of your affection at any rate, if you've been friendzoned by someone that you are attracted to, the last thing they'll want to hear from you is that you're lusting after them. Just keep it to yourself, keep them as a friend, and look for sexual partners elsewhere.
>>6395578 I have been best friends (at least I like to think so, he probably has more important people than me in his life though) with this one guy for a fairly long time, I think two or three years idk
We are roommates now and have been for about a year
I am in love with him
Our friendship already seems to be dying off in awkwardness and I never said a word to him about it
I don't know how to save a friendship, let alone deal with the unrequited attraction
But my advice to you is to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
First time here. I have a serious question that I don't want to ask IRL for fear of backlash. John Oliver taught me that being "Transgender" has nothing to do with sexual preference. If that is true than why is it LGBT? What does one thing have to do with another? I'm assuming the answer is going to be something about how both groups are oppressed. But there are plenty of oppressed people, why has this become one organization?
Do gays hate sluts like straight people do? Would you be with someone that has sucked 100 different cocks? My impression of the gay community is basically that it is one giant orgy, how far from the truth is this? Are nuclear families and monogamy common in the gay community?
What's the deal with straight guys coming to this board to beg for people to tell them that their obvious homosexual attraction to another man can somehow be twisted around into proof that they're actually heterosexual?
Like why can't they just accept that they're gay and move on with their lives? And why do they think that getting a bunch of strangers on the internet to confirm what they've already decided for themselves, while ignoring all dissenting opinions, is the same thing as being correct?
I've been straight my whole life, as far as I know; no prior homosexual urges, no notion of trying on women's clothing, all female partners. However, after a conversation with a buddy last night, a crazy idea hit me that hasn't left my head ever since: I think I want to date a trap. Not just a fuck friend, but a full, healthy relationship. That much I have figured out. My question is, is my ideal girl realistic, common?
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>>6394422 >been straight my whole life, as far as I know; no prior homosexual urges >However, after a conversation with a buddy last night, a crazy idea hit me that hasn't left my head ever since: I think I want to date a trap. We're going to need more of an explanation than that. Storytime OP, please open up to us.
>11 gay men and 1 straight man are locked in a house. The object for the gay men is to find out who isn't gay.
>Once a week someone gets outvoted, until 2 are left, or the straight man is out. If the gays manage to outvote him, they win 1 million dollars. If the straight man is among the 2 last people in the house in the end, he wins 1 million dollars.
>Now here's the twist: None of the men are actually gay, they just all think they are the one straight man.
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>>6392979 It would only work for one season which is a stupid premise for a reality TV show. It'd need to be spiced up with different types of dynamics. That would be good for one season, plus there's the added problem of if a guy gets voted off then immediately goes "Well you got me, have fun with your million."
>>6393198 If it were popular enough, it woukdn't matter. If it made its money back in that season.
Seems like something people would watch.
As for that. I think it's a good point. You'd need to somehow account for that in the elimination process. Seperate the ones being the most likely to be voted out, and after they lose you let them in on the joke and ask them to play it gay for the goodbyes.
Wouldn't it be more problematic if one of thise guys actually came out as gay during the course... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6392590 am perfectly ok with chaser so long as they are objectively attractive or have something of value for me in return, but the beta cuck uggo's that think you should give them the time of day simply because they're ok with me being trans and somehow that means my attractiveness or value is depreciated because i'm trans. nah. get out. what're you high? no. tumblrinas please go. sjw nty. if you want a tranny gf or one that passes here's how it goes: be attractive, dont be unattractive. treat them... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Let me start with a hearty I hate all of you for screwing with my life.
Ok, so I'm a robot, I'm what you would call a looser virgin weaboo or whatever and I usually stay in my board but some of you kept spamming so much the bp meme I fell for it.
But it didn't end with just fapping to traps and femboys, I started frequenting /femgen/ sorted my looks, bought anti androgens and estrogen from that qhi farmacy site (a "nice" anon gave me all that info on discord) but now I feel terrible at myself.
I live alone since my parents are paying... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Don't pretend >Not only she found out I wasn't going to class, basically I was being a NEET and using the college money to buy anime crap isn't the real cause of >Now my mom is coming and they want me to go back home and she said I need psychiatric help.
This >I have tits and dress as a girl should not have stopped you from attending college.
There's just one thing I don't understand about trannies.
If a man-to-woman trans person has never actually been a woman, then how could they know they want to be one? How could they identify with the feeling of having the opposite genitals or want the opposite body, UNLESS it's a purely social phenomenon based on seeing and idealizing the other gender? As a thought experiment, imagine a baby raised in a city populated with only men, who doesn't ever see or learn about women for his whole life. Could such a baby possibly be trans? How?
>>6391837 >noun: dysphoria >a state of unease or generalized dissatisfaction with life Gender dysphoria means being uncomfortable with your own body's sexual characteristics. It isn't always cured by transitioning, but sometimes it is. No other cure is known.
>Be me >Been gay my whole life >(non lgbt) friends invite me to a non lgbt party >notinterested.jpg >still went nyway. might be able to meet a cutie or two there >friends introduce me to their other friends >"guys, meet anon. he's gay..." blah blah blah > tfw friend introduces you to a cute twink ;) Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm a lifelong conservative in my late 20's, and have never been to this board before. I'm hetero, not bad-looking at all, and have never had a problem finding a woman. But recently, I noticed something:
I met someone whom I believed was a total female, and found out later she was a trap, and still found myself attracted. Now, the notion has entered my mind that if one looked as convincingly female as that one did, a dick wouldn't matter and I could still fall in love with a trap, easily. What on earth is going on? Am I asking... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>During the standoff, Parker says the shooter, Omar Mateen, asked if there were any black people in the stall where she and her friends were hiding >'I don't have a problem with black people,' Mateen reportedly said. 'This is about my country. You guys suffered enough'
Well at least... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6390032 >The notion that he 'didn't have a problem with blacks' is, however, contradicted by the fact that he had already shot a number of them that night and statements from ex-colleagues who said he was openly racist and continually making derogatory remarks about blacks and hispanics
I'm met some sadly unpassing mtf in college and working as a cashier. They had really manly builds. I'm bi, but i wouldn't date them, i'd rather just date a guy or a woman. I stay hetero though because my outer family is critical of sexuality, and they wouldn't understand bisexuality.
Femgen FAQ: ▶What is a fem guy? A young, androgynous guy with soft features. Mostly gay, but not all. ▶Are fem guys trans? Most inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties. ▶Can I be a fem guy? Often with enough effort, yes. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard. ▶Should I go on HRT? If you can deal with the tits and infertility, you'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. ▶Is liking fem guys considered gay or straight? Gay.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
While some scholars such as Abu bakr [the first Rightly-Guided Caliph] and Ali [Muhammad's son-in-law and the fourth Rightly-Guided Caliph ] were of the view that such a person should be beheaded and set on fire thereafter, Umar [the second Rightly-Guided Caliph] and Uthman [the third Rightly-Guided Caliph] thought the wall should be fell on him. To Ibn Abbas [Muhammad's cousin], he should be taken to the tallest building in the town, thrown upside down while some men stand on the ground waiting to meet him with stone in replication of the destruction done to the people... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6387522 >>6387512 Do you hear yourself talking? >"""Peace be upon him""" >the prophet >allah Shut the fuck up you medieval shitbag, get off my board immediately with this Islamic bullshit and end your life.
I feel you man. When you like all forms of hot consensual genital on genital friction it is hard to respect the gender-obsession of society. But that's the fault of the capitalist establishment, not the transfolk themselves. We live in a world that is crazy obsessed about gender lines, that isn't the fault of transpeople.
So last night a friend of mine posted this on his tumblr (Yeah, I know).
This is the post he was replying to. http://thexfiles.tumblr.com/post/145868572535/thexfiles-i-would-lay-down-and-die-for-my-lit
Hes been getting like this for a few months now. Hes gay but he has been expressing growing resentment towards the LGBTQ+ community for reasons Im not really sure of. He says he wouldn't even have a boyfriend if he was part of the community or a "Giant faggy ponce".
How do I explain to him that the things he says are offensive to both me... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
This is the Trans Help General thread. We'll try to help you here with everything related to being transgender. This includes questioning, appearance, daily trans problems, medical info, general info and other interesting stuff to name a few.
MTF, FTM and questioning people are all welcome here to help eachother and discuss possible solutions.
You can also share your transgender related stories here. Just came out? Or you just need to get something off your chest? Maybe something wonderful happened today! We'll be glad to hear it, it's always... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6346396 alright homos. I'de appreciate some insight please. So, first - i don't really know when i started questioning my gender or whatever, but its only been getting worse (probably because all the time i spend on this board as of late). I want to say that as being born a male, i've never actually had the thought "Im a female trapped in a males body". I've identified with females more than men in the past and all that jazz, but havn't actually thought that i should have been born a girl... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6346634 I've gotten the friends, ive gotten some money, i actually going to get a house soon. But even though i had attraction to girls early on in life, i just don't desire a relationship with one. Not that I prefer guys, i just don't feel comfortable being in a relationship for some reason. I feel extremely disconected from people. I came to this board because i thought i was bi and was bored, but then I ran into the trannies. Now, in the past i have watched an anime about a guy who turned into a gal, but i never masturbated to it or anything, just fantasized about being a pretty girl and stuff. I thought i was just currupted by the show and pushed those thoughts away thinking they were degrading my mental health and that i should think of reality and not these silly fantasies. But they kept coming up and shit so i started a thread to understand how mtf thought. You were mostly hostile and thought i was trolling or talking shit or something, but i was just legit curious. Now my memory of the last few months is a little foggy, but it goes something like this. I started browsing different generals like femgen or mtfg, and realized that I have always wanted to be fem and hate my masc features. But then some other guy posted some shit that sounded alot like me, so i started questioning myself, and a girl from here gave me her skype so we could talk about it. She is absolutly convinced that based off of some of my odd thoughts and stuff that im mtf (like pushing my penis inside out as a kid and wearing my moms hills ect.), but i still cant say the words "I am a female trapped in a male body". I know now that i wish i was a girl, and wish i was never a guy, and that i would have enjoyed life alot more as a girl despite my unrelated struggle like acne and an abusive step father, but, it still feels like a lie to call myself a girl. I have a weird obsession with not lying. I just can't do it anymore.
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