Are non binary genders real or just a delusion/mental illness?
I've always felt like a weirdo playing a role, and up until last year I though everyone else felt like me and only pretended to "feel" like a gender and actually feel comfortable in their own skin. I thought trans people and "gender people" were delusional attention whores, because people don't actually feel or identify with a certain gender, right? Long story short, I realised that I was the weird one, and later stumbled upon a comic about an agender person. It blew me away, because it described everything I've been feeling and questioning my whole life. "Oh, so I'm agender maybe? It really fits, I should look closer into this". Well that was a mistake. 99% of all non binary people seem to be under 15, mentally ill, very angry and hostile, and really fucking stupid ("Omg I went to the doctor and had to fill in a form and I could only choose male or female!! Fucking cis scum! I drew a new box and named it "MAGICAL" and checked that, I'm so cool. Fuck the binary!").
I know what I feel, and I know I've felt like this since I was a very small child, and it has been a genuine source or worry, depression and anxiety for me. But looking at other non binary people, I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm just mentally ill or have a mental disorder, because I sure as hell don't feel like I have anything in common with those people. Thoughts?
Teenagers are usually retarded and feel the need to spew out anything they are thinking about. Some years ago they were prevented from doing that with strict parental control. A few later after that a big boom of teenager culture was created. So you can draw a line from rock to punk to goth to grunge to whatever teenagers became in the naughties. These days it's not enough to wear studded leather jackets or have ripped t-shirts with anarchy or punk painted on them, it's just not original and authentic enough - now they have to go inwards and be non-binary... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6255610 Honestly unless someone takes hormones and such things, altering their body drastically, I do not feel like someone can qualify as non-binary. I feel someone needs the physical aspect of things in order to truly be non-binary. Seeing someone just say they're agender or non-binary or whatever and call it a day is like seeing a MtF say they're a girl without doing anything about it other than throwing on a dress.
I say this as a physical non-binary. I can't even tell people I'm non-binary because... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Today, I had my first appointment with a gender therapist. Although I was really scared at first, she made me feel very comfortable by using my real name, my proper pronouns… I felt like I was really honest with her and I could finally tell a specialist how I've felt deep inside. She told me how the gender correction process looks in my fucked up country, what can I do, that she needs to perform some tests to exclude some diseases and then we can start HRT. I came back so happy and excited, that I made a walk in a city I've never been to before, eventually getting lost there and dropping my phone (it no longer works) on the ground trying to open GPS maps. But I somehow reached my home, asking people for directions (it was a really good day because everyone ma'amed me… i was fucking joyful and happy like an idiot). So anyways… then I had a talk with my parents. They told me that I act differently at home than when I'm talking with other people, that I'm undeniably a man and I try to become a girl because I hadn't been accepted as a boy. My mum told me to drop all contacts with all people that know about me at least for a month (though she told me she was actually being "too generous", that a whole year would be perfect in her opinion), to try to be a boy (by going to clubs, gyms)… She told me I'll never know without doing so and she is 90% sure that she's right and it'll help me realise I am a boy though. Also she wants to meet the therapist… I'm not scared of what she's gonna say to her… I'm more scared that it may become a family crisis… that they may even forbid me from seeing the therapist. I'm a highschool student and I live with them which means I should always agree with their conditions…
I sorta feel she may be right and I don't have guts to argue with her… but I do really feel awful in my body and I want to change it if it's possible. I can't see myself as a dude, I find myself ugly, I hate my genitals, I hate my every masculine trait. I'm not misandric though – I love my boyfriend and I think he's a wonderful man. I also love my dad… I really don't find manliness worse or anything, it just doesn't much seem to fit me. But maybe it should? Maybe I'm just deluded?
>>6252643 Yeah... 4chan exposed me to porn I otherwise wouldn't have looked at before, so I started watching gay porn instead of straight porn and I pretty much lost all attraction to women. Eventually I realised this and had to accept what's been deep in the back of my head for the last 10 years - that I was gay.
I want to try sucking a dick. I even had an opportunity yesterday but I was drunk and had to be somewhere in a few hours.
I was also really insecure that I was going to fuck up or something. I guess when we were making out I did okay, except I'm sure how I kept apologizing about thinking I was awful at making out was a huge turn off, despite him still having a boner the entire time (because I couldn't keep my hand off of the crotch of his jeans).
Hi /lgbt/. I don't frequent this board but I have a question for all you gays and straights: I'm bisexual and would like to know what it's like to be attracted to only one gender. Do you see unattractive people of the sex you are attracted to similarly to people of the sex you aren't attracted to? For example, if you are gay, do you see an ugly man the same as a woman from a sexual perspective? Would sex with a disgusting man still be better than sex with any woman? Pic not related
> if you are gay, do you see an ugly man the same as a woman from a sexual perspective? after some i'm a homosexual man i'm not attracted to women >Would sex with a disgusting man still be better than sex with any woman? same as above
"Would sex with a disgusting man be the same as sex with any woman"
No, I'd rather some hot college Stacy ride my dick any day before some fat gross 60 year old man or something. I'm gay, that doesn't mean I find women disgusting. An attractive woman is still attractive and it would gross me out far less to do something with them than with a disgusting man
I've been thinking about it a lot recently, but don't want to commit to it just yet. People always bitch about 'it gets better' but I've yet to find that to be the case. I've moved out of home, have a good group of friends and I'm financially independent. The problem is the suicidal thoughts and anxiety wont go away. I just don't want to deal with it anymore. Whenever I see news of someone killing them self and failing all I can think is 'wow what an attention seeker' so... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Had proper rope all set up and everything. Just couldn't jump. Tried multiple times. Closest ever gotten was to a door-knob and leaning sideways, passing out and waking up with the knot all undone from poor knotting. Used a belt, probably why, I was THAT desperate, but it somewhat worked anyways. Might try again soon if I can overcome the anxiety that comes with... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Having been with many men and many women on a sexual/romantic level, I must say that men bring a whole lot more to the table than women do.
With men you can have true connection. True, deep, reciprocated love. They can be your very best friend by day, and an amazingly romantic lover by night. You can be on the same level as them, truly being close, and fully knowing each other inside and out.
With women, there is always this divide. There is always this inequality. They don't view you as an equal, and in the relationship, you are never equals. You have to work for it with them, and even when you succeed, you will never have that true deep connection you can have with a man. You will always be at odds at some level. They will never love you in the same way that you love them. They are incapable of loving you as hard as a man can, and on top of it they require things from you. They have to be provided for, and if you aren't meeting their desires, poof, you're gone, and they move on to the next schmuck right away.
Women are horrible lovers. They are for having some fun sex and then chucking to the side like the trash that they are. Men are the true lovers. Boy love is best love.
Who is with me? Anyone else have similar experiences or feelings on the matter?
>"Anon, I don't care if you turn out to be a drug addicted, homeless loser. Just promise me you'll never be gay."
He said this to me when I was 9. I think he knows being gay isn't choice now but back then it was different. I think he had a feeling I wasn't straight. I think dad was just scared of people hurting me for my 'choice'.
>This semester in college >Meet Nigerian guy who's studying to be a doctor >Muscualr >Smart >Very sweet >He likes me back >Have to go back home for the summer >When I come back for fall next semester he has to move away to go to another hospital probably in a different country
Why does it hurt so much /lgbt/?... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Virgins only, normalfag sluts who feel lonely inbetween their hookups or just broke up with their latest fuckbuddy >>/out/ >tfw too /pol/ to ever get a bf >tfw will never have pure virgin bf >tfw my only options are reformed sluts
>>6221417 >FOR HOW LONG WILL THIS CONTINUE, I have recurrent dreams where I go on dates and just cuddle and spoon with someone
I wish I did, I usually collect images of qts from Tumblr blogs and imagine myself in a relationship with them. I want to stay as far away as possible from the hookup scene, but it seems to be the only way gays get to meet each other. There is no way to meet that one special someone without first becoming a slut thanks to the toxic lgbt culture promoting promiscuity
I'm truly considering suicide. I'm serious, this is not an attention thing, so let me just get right to it. I'm 22 right now, and got in to being hypnotized by mistresses when I was 16 years old. It quickly escalated to feminization/sissy hypno and has been going on for 6 years now. I'm so extremely confused, I have no opinions of my owns, I don't know what I want out of life or what I truly love, I don't even ahve control of my urges. I'm like an empty shell filled with this extreme hatred towards myself. I lost all my friends and my ability... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Okay so, is it weird that I'm not gay, but I think being gay is really beautiful and I want to fuck a guy to see what it's like to be gay? I don't pay attention to females I only pay attention to naked guys btw.
>be me, cis lesbian >every day pass the most beautiful redhead in flannel on my way home from picking up my sister >fall in love from day 1 >want to talk to her >feel like pulling over the car one day and just telling her she is beautiful what do
>>6256630 What if I want a genuine life partner instead of an one-night-stand? I can't go through with sex, especially with strangers. You can't drag someone home into a foreign city and just go "oh and btw I don't put out".
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