>>6221796 I'm mtf and I felt uncomfortable around cis women for a few years before I transitioned. It was because I felt jealous that they were born that way while I had to desperately reach out and was able to do nothing but wait for a long time and in the end some of them might still look better than me. I've gotten over those feelings of jealousy since I take hormones, though, knowing I'll get prettier with time.
>be me >be in closet >dad is homophobic >thinks sexuality is a choice >rants and goes on tirades about how gay people might as well be into bestiality or children >my own dad is unintentionally comparing me to a pedophile
Anybody else have to deal with this shit from loved ones?
>>6221738 It's a valid point of view tbf anon. What is the genuine difference between pedophilia and being gay? Both have been social taboos across the world for varying degrees at various points in time, all cultures have differing views on them, they are both sexual orientations that are abnormal and dangerous. They are the same thing. Understand that the same hate you no doubt feel for pedophiles is exactly the same feeling of hatred your dad and the majority of people in the US that don't support gay marriage feel towards you.
>>6221795 Pedophiles are innocent in that they cannot control whom they're attracted to, just like gay men can't help the fact that they like other men. However, a gay man fulfilling his desires is not the same as a pedophile fulfilling his. Two gay men can consent to sex and that's just fine. A child however is not capable of understanding such a decision and as a result will likely be utterly traumatized if subjected to sex with a pedophile.
Once we develop artificial wombs, what will we need women for? We shall be free to exterminate them all and finally free mankind from cunt slavery. Through genetic engineering we will then be able to make all of the population gay, hell it might even occur naturally once we won't need yeasty holes for reproduction.
>>6220493 >what was therapy like enlightening >what sort of questions did you get asked -how would you feel if you end up as a hon -why do you want to be a woman -what do you think of when i say "woman" (basically "do you just wanna wear dresses/makeup without social stigma) -when did you first feel that way -did the lack of a father figure if it that was the case influence you -do you think transition would change who you are -do... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Femgen FAQ: ▶What is a fem guy? A young, androgynous guy with soft features. Mostly gay, but not all. ▶Are fem guys trans? Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties. ▶Can I be a fem guy? Often with enough effort, yes. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard. ▶Should I go on HRT? If you can deal with the tits and infertility, you'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man. ▶Is liking fem guys considered... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6218143 No. Making them go away requires a change in cultural values. Playing along with the cissexist meme that our understandings of ourselves are just a costume, a facade, or an image, is a deeply self-hating action that affirms many of the common reasons for dismissing us, our care, and our experiences.
Why should we accept you for someone who you are not? I am not bashing gays, les, bis or anything like that I myself am bi but I am talking about transgender people. Why should we pamper towards your mental disorder and why should we help you? Wouldn't it be more productive to find a cure for your disorder then pamper towards it? My old school (I graded) wasted 40k on a washroom and 100k on a change room for trannies. 140k they could of been spent on books pencils anything better. Why should we pamper towards your disorder and your illness?
These women were all born with XY chromosomes. They were all born with testes instead of ovaries. They all have a rare disorder that causes their bodies and brains to develop like women. You would call them women anyway, wouldn't you?
Trans people have a rare condition that causes their brains to develop like the opposite gender. Is there a real difference?
Not me. I would say I'm mildly autogynephilic, because I don't quite conform to everything about the type. I wish I were trutrans so I wouldn't be associated with some of the more intensely autogynephilic.
>>6226459 Yes. We will contact you. You will get your official Gay Card, your copy of the Gay Agenda and your first assignment within 7 days. Don't worry, new-gays mostly get conversion jobs in youth centers and the easy jobs.
Gay guy here. The only reason I would ever turn into a woman is to get delicious straight men inside me.
Out of curiosity, how many of you actually fuck straight men who >Aren't ugly >Aren't giving you the time of day to feel good about themselves >Aren't fetishizing you because they've watched too much porn
>>6226007 >Out of curiosity, how many of you actually fuck straight men None of us fucks straight men, unless we trick them and are able to hide the fact that we're trannies. If you are a man and knowingly fuck a tranny, you are in no way, shape, or form straight.
There is no debating this either, because straightness only happens with sex and attraction between cis men and cis women.
>>6226031 I guess theoretically with an amazingly perfect transition and a great post-op vagina a straight guy could fuck a tranny? I don't know if medical technology is good enough yet. Virtually every trans woman fails to pass on some level. That's why they're unattractive to people who are solely attracted to women, because they have masculine features.
So... I just bought 50gm cypros. Currently taking 100mg, spiro daily. I plan to cut the cypro in half first to 25mg at the start. Do i need to ween off spiro first before going on cypro? Any advice will help, thanks!!
Spiro has a fairly short half life, feel free to just start cypro 24 hours after your last spiro pill. It will take some time for it to ramp up in effect. In the first 2-4 weeks expect some symptoms of resurge in testosterone, increased libido, etc. However as time goes on that will decrease, and your testosterone will become nuked again.
If 100mg spiro was working for you, 25mg cypro should be enough. I myself take 50mg cypro, but I also did 200mg spiro back when... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
When my partner and I started up, it was long distance... and a shit storm. They were feigning to be male on the internet, I was desperate to have a "safe" boyfriend because I was heckled about being a lesbo at school despite being bisexual as far more accurate.
Turns out they were female-bodied anyway, and I vehemently denied (deny) my attraction to men to try and make my partner - lets call them Andy - more comfortable. Since I just wanted them to stop accusing me of cheating on them with at least half the human population.
So time and an emotionally volatile relationship goes on... I realize I'm trans, Andy doesn't like this but Andy also insists on only having rp/phonesex in the guise of mutually male characters... they have even said vaginas are disgusting and during in-person visits wanted nothing to do with mine. One sided sex sucks.
I'm post-op now, nearly 5 years into a marriage that has not been consummated... in-school after delays from immigration and transition and unfortunately financially reliant on Andy. Andy, who was abused as a child and has severe PTSD, is verbally abusive, would sooner jab me in the ribs than hug me, who gets snappish and cruel if I look at them "wrong"... or seemingly at all.
I'm nearly 20hours drive from family, and so starved for human contact that my wires fritz out whenever someone is just a touchy-feely sort of friend. I feel like a mess...
you may be emotionally dependant on him but that's not healthy and over time (and maybe counselling too) you'll get over it and find a better partner being in an abusive relationship is never worth it, and especially if you haven't had sex in 5 years
if you're financially dependent on him, wait until you're financially stable to leave, unless you want to go to a shelter or something but i wouldn't recommend that unless you're being beaten every day or something but it doesn't sound like that
i really do recommend talking this over with a counselor, it will help you to work things out in your head
and also, couple red flags in just what you've said: >pretending to be male and not even telling you anything about being trans >andy having constant trust issues about you cheating to the extent you have to lie to shut him up >not wanting you to be happy and be yourself when you came out >emotionally... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I can't say I've never gotten this advice before, I guess I always hope I'll hear something else, you know? I care about Andy, and I want them to have the support they need to get through their own therapy and deal with their recent emotional breakdown and PTSD.
I also feel guilty because Andy pays for the house, the food... everything... my car is my own, my school loans are only me... but Andy bailed me out when I burned up 1K in credit debt because I was binge... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I guess, you hated your appareance and you hated that people think you were something you arent (or don't want to be). Kinda similar to how most trannies feel, but they are too lazy fucks to change their appareance so they rather fight for people to call them what they want. Personally i dont care if people call me a girl or a boy because i feel good with how i look now.
Funny thing is that there are certain tests to see where you are on the scale of sexuality that if you've had ANY homosexual contact it rates you as bisexual. Personally I think a one time encounter that you didn't like allows you to still be straight.
>>6224145 I started HRT a little after turning 20 and I seem to pass. While I'm not completely happy with how I look and still see more masculine traits in myself than I would a cis girl and seeing really feminine cis girls is like "triggering" I've not been misgendered in years, only in the start of transition I did.
Honestly if you start post-puberty the results are dependent on genetics and how much effort you put in. There are a few unfortunate people who start HRT at 18 or 19 and will never pass because of height, facial structure, large shoulders, etc. There are also a few lucky people who start HRT at 26 or 27 and still eventually pass.
please help me. Ive done everything I can but its getting so bad that i dont know what to do. I hate looking at myself but even if I do anything about it I hate myself because I feel like im trying to do the impossible and the unnatural. So how do I just rid myself of all of this? I dont want to be some sort of silicone freak degenerate. I know that its possible.
you literally can't. i'm sorry. it's not like most of us wanted to be freaks or degenerates.
despite whatever impression you might have, we didn't just wake up one morning and decide to be trannies. it's usually not a choice at all, it's just how we've always been and the more we repress it the more fucked up we become.
So if "you people" can get married and stuff to get a tax break, why is it that I can't file my porn account on my taxes? Same thing right? You're getting recognition for your sexual preference. I just prefer to fap. Is this what "you people" are fighting for?
>>6223789 Biggest rule for Black 4chan users: never ask White/non-black people for advice about black people, black issue or black needs.
Anyways it's the same things as everyone else. Really it's not all that different, passing is passing even then Jaye Davidison, Andre J, Miss J, Miles J, Prince, Little Richard, Sylvester, Malibu Dollface, Jaden Smith etc... Seem to be doing a good job showing black male feminine expression across a very wide range. Pick a spot, try it out and if it doesn't fit move on to the next.
>had some MtF friend when I was 16 >met once, friends for few weeks >bought her some weird shirt about some show we liked >she asked for $50 once for a concert, neve rpayed me back >eventually drifted due to me being busy >never spoke again but stayed friends on fb
>I'm 22 now >one day get random message Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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