Here's the story; >pass well enough >transition at job >pee in women's restroom in public, no issues ever >suddenly deadbolt on women's restroom door >me and the other two girls are confused >corporate says it was for me, to make other employees, future employees feel safe and comfortable. >in the same phonecall, I make a complaint to HR about my female name being repeatedly erased on the sign in board. >constantly bitching at male supervisors to gender me proper and they give me dirty looks >get gendered female in public, in a conservative state 100% of the time
Where can I find resources to start legal action?
I started intense therapy after a suicide attempt from all this and later, on heavy doses of antidepressants.
>>6100249 Fucked up part; The deadbolt is straight up discrimination.. Trans or not. How would the men feel if I used their bathroom and got a lock so they couldn't come I'm while I pee in one of 5 stalls. and goes against osha's mandate that I have un-restricted access to the bathroom of my gender identity. Even Google "OSHA transgender" if you don't believe.
Lastly, after reporting the name being erased thing (harassment), it's been still going on for months.
>>6100239 hm, well we've been friends for a long time, and I've been watching her transition and just really wanted to see it on a more intimate level. It's easy, comfortable, casual rolling around. She's soft and smells good and has breasts, just a dick also.
Why does this feel like its full of people with cold feet? I always have a good conversation with someone to find the next day or a few hours later they never reply to anything? Also general ignorance...
I had an accidentally gay experience when I was younger, it involved my best friend and it ended when he moved away. When looking back I have to say it has helped me tremendously throughout my youth.
I saw guys in my class just getting owned on a daily basis, getting weighed down by stuff that doesn't even matter. Barely even being able to speak to girls or boys. Just completely uncomfortable about beins straight and a guy.
I remember the exact moment I first popped a boner for a girl in class when I was 14, I was so relieved. I was like "Shit, I like girls, this is awesome!".
On the other hand, I know what being a guy really is about. I know what they're like when they're not trying to be tough for their peers. A guy can't make me uncomfortable by laying a hand on me. I've done som truly gay shit, there was this guy who though he could make me his bitch by touching my face when he talked to me, long story short: It didn't work at all. We actually ended up being great friends.
This gay stuff, god damn it, everybody should do it!
>>6099357 as limited in scope and perspective as this monologue is, i actually understand what you're saying and i think it's a useful model for coping with the insecurity issues plaguing the so-called 'cult of manhood.' good on you, op
So here's the thing. I am a 28 years old guy who always wanted to have feminine "curves" and I read that pueraria mirifica is a really strong source of estrogens. I recently found that in the UK you can get a hold of these pills that are supposed to be the real deal (tell me if there are better alternatives). Now I don't want to get to that stage where I start growing boobs but the reduced amount of facial/body hair along with the other features would be nice.
Should I do it? Should I start taking these pills or is there something that I have... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
How do I know if a guy is hitting on me or not? I don't act like a fucking fag and neither does he, but he does things that make me think that he is interested in me. How do I know for sure? I dont want to press it and look like a total faggot but at the same time he is super hot and I want to go for it.( Im a guy btw)
>>6099170 Just remember that if it has a dick, it's male. There's nothing wrong about being gay, and if you go around gendering drag queens you fuck female because it makes you more comfortable about your sexuality, you're bound to anger one of those guys and they pack a punch. So don't complain if you get you're nose broken because you're a closeted fag. And just remember the golden rule because stating it once isn't enough: if it has a dick, it's male.
I'm a late bloomer(didn't realize, or wanted to face the fact that I was gay until I was 25). Now since I've admitted it to myself that I'm not straight I've noticed that I watch gay porn a whole lot more than straight porn(mainly cuz I can imagine myself being in one of the males roles, unlike with straight porn were I would just look for well endowed hunky men to fuck sluts and I would admire their shear power and masculinity(and penis)).
When I think about hooking up with a stranger from grindr I get anxious, I really don't... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Get over it lol. There's literally nothing wrong with being gay
btw, every man straight or otherwise feels disgusting and shameful after blowing a load. It doesn't matter what you're fapping to it's called the refractory period. You're just psychologically associating your gayness with it. Stop doing that
I tried anal for the first time today. Yes, I cleaned out properly. Since I don't have anything else, I went for a hairbrush that I have. The only problem with this is that it was just a little bit...pointy on the end.
I cleaned out again since I felt like I had to, and there was definitely a bit of blood there. Not too much, but there was some. It was kind of dark, but not purple.
I Googled around a little bit, and I think it's an "anal fissure" where you get a small rip in, well, your anus. They say that it'll heal in a few weeks.
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>>6098394 You'll be fine. Unless you gouged it sideways, it's just a minor scrape on the lining that'll heal in a few days. Just do yourself a favor and either keep using your finger, or get a proper dildo and some lube. Much safer (and more enjoyable).
Ice cubes are nice too, just make sure they don't have edges.
>am straight, feel no attraction to men >yet I am not disgusted by dick >but I would never actually have sex with a man >I would probably get sexual with a trap though >am a man, but I like feminine features in myself >if I woke up a woman, I would not mind >but I don't have these feelings strong enough to want to be... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6098178 Sounds like you're pretty confused. It sounds cliche, but don't rush to put labels on yourself like that. You are the only one who knows what you truly want, so we can't really help define yourself for you. Just do what makes yourself happy.
ONE YEAR ON HRT AND I GAINED TWO CM IN HEIGHT, I AM NO LONGER 180 CM BUT 182 CM (literally 6 foot) REE
I AM TALL AS IT IS WHY CAN'T MY STUPID BODY GET THE MEMO? WHY DOES MY STUPID BODY WANT ME TO BE A MEGAHON WHO STICKS OUT? REEEEE
How's it possible to grow even taller when I am way past my puberty? Why can't I grow centimeters in hips instead? Why does the body waste resources on height when it could be used for my hips? REEEEEEE
>>6097966 Hey there! You seem to have made a bit of a mistake here. You've forgotten that your sex is male! Being a male, you will tend to have different primary and secondary sexual organs than females as well as a drastically different bone structure and skeleton! You also have a higher prevalence of testosterone in your system, contributing to growth, which would explain your height!
Remember, pretending to be a girl is okay but just remember that you're always male deep down! Thanks for your time and good... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
My girlfriend is thinking of breaking up with me, I don't understand it we are almost at our one year and we've been going great, she says a few weeks ago it started feeling different but we are both still the same as before so I don't understand it, I need help I'm not willing to lose her... Please help me
>>6097736 Welcome to the biggest problem: sometimes people change and there's nothing you did to make it happen.
Unfortunately that basically means that there's nothing you can really do to prevent it without inadvertently making something worse. Coming from someone who ended a relationship recently for that exact reason (although I hadn't been feeling it for months, and essentially I had been dragging out the relationship for my SO's sake and I knew I'd have to end it eventually), it can really... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6097819 Doing something that makes you truly happy is like takeout, once you've had it then it's gone for good. Some people with a little more maturity might say spending all their money on takeout isn't worth it. Sure it tastes great but it costs so much and the happiness quickly fades. They want to save their money for something that is really really important to them that justifies not being able to have takeout all the time. Those people have what it takes to sustain things long term because it means... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Im a straight guy and i actually was a faghag all the time. For me, gay couples were the cutes thing on this planet. However, since im browsing the internet a bit more (also /lgbt on 4chan) i only read stuff about gays who act like total undignified cum sluts who fuck strangers unprotected and under drug influence. I was supporting gay rights my whole life, but since i know how grindr and craiglists is used and how barbarous gays are acting, i dont think anymore gay couples are really able to raise a family, not to mention having a normal relationship
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"....taint rubbing, fingering, rubbing their taint through their balls, rubbing their palm on their whole area at all different speeds/motions and whatnot, soft peen laid flat on stomach, and then they take their palm and press it in, rubbing it mostly in circular motions but also up/down and sometimes more side to side type motions, all over the whole area, from the head to the shaft, to the balls, to the taint, all in one smooth motion."
Is it worth it saving yourself up for someone? Does it make sex more special?
I'm only meeting my long term bf again in the end of this year and the times we did meet, we just hung out and acted like lovebirds and there was no opportunity to have sex.
I really really really want something inside of me and to be called a little whore and to have my hair pulled and pushed around but I sorta want my first time to be with him. But what if I'm wasting time and cool experiences I could have just for a dumb ideal that doesn't change a lot?
I don't even know. He fulfills me emotionally completely even from a distance but from the way he behaves himself, he'd be an absolute bore in bed. He's completely vanilla and shy and caring and I'm a freak who wants to be fucked by a strong, mean dom.
Hey /lgbt/. I don't know if this belongs on this board but it's the only place I thought it might belong.
This pic is my problem. I am a straight guy who likes girls who could be mistaken for guys. I like girls with short hair, dress in a gender neutral fashion, and all around look androgynous.
The problem is that these girls are generally lesbian and the ones that aren't are the crazy tumblr chicks who think that mayonnaise is a gender. Two of them ended up being pre-op transmen who wanted pussy not dick. Either way, none of these girls or technical... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm sure there are bisexual butch girls out there. I've certainly known a few. Most of them are probably at least a little bit gay but not necessarily completely.
I used to consider myself bisexual and whilst I kind of lost interest in vaginas since then I still find butch girls damn hot, and it's really frustrating because I end up crushing on them and yet I know I'd be disappointed if I had to fuck someone with a pussy because that crotch-arrangement is just not sexy to me.
>>6097130 sounds to me like you got off to it specifically because the guy put you down and you find verbal abuse sexually gratifying, but you're attempting to frame it in a way that reflects some kind of perceived poetic justice
>>6095879 Because trannies have become a hot topic lately. Partly because of so many fucking trannies wanting to let the whole world know they're trannies (though to be fair, this was necessary in order to help people have better access to therapy, hormones, etc.). Those sorts of people are the only ones non-transsexuals have seen so they assume all transsexuals "identify as trans" and want everyone to know this.
Remember, it's totally acceptance if you say someone is a he-she who doesn't fit... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6095879 Well I think each transsexual approaches their identity differently. There's a trans boy that goes to my school. At first nobody knew he was trans but for some reason he opened up and eventually everyone knew he was trans. I don't know why he would tell people he was trans but like I said. Different individuals approach it differently
>>6095913 I was able to get HRT before this whole trans media craze you are full of shit. It's because of all the butthurt hons bitching about how fucked their life is so they attention whore to the media.
This is a general for passing MtF transgirls. Unpassable MtFs please search for mthg in the catalog: >>6077722 ▶Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf ▶Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV ▶Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860 ▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php ▶Transition... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't really masturbate to it but I get some satisfaction from looking at it, but men getting raped by other men. And not the half-hearted faggy "rape" porn you see where the dude isn't really struggling, but clips from movies and shit where the dude is legit screaming, fighting, trying to get away and is likely traumatized for life afterward.
But yeah, I hate it if it's "too gay" meaning no kissing, touching, licking or any of that fag shit, just shoving your cock down his throat or forcing it up his ass and watching... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6093031 Tell them that they aren't trans or genderfluid if they aren't taking hormones. Even then, genderfluid is cringey and snowflakey as fuck. They will regret that shit when they get older.
The only way they get extra points is by being on hormones to look more like something inbetween the sexes. If you're not on hormones or planning on taking them, you obviously are very comfortable with whatever gender/level of masculinity/femininity you were born with.
I'm a femboy who takes hormones to remain a femboy, I'd be more qualified than any of those fucks to call myself "genderqueer" yet I don't because that shit is cringey as fuck and only something a retarded teenager would want to do.
I watched brent corrgian top in one of his older movies and it was funny because the way he was thrusting looked like he was dancing or had a dick in his ass. I mean every bodytype looks ridiculous when fucking but that looked especially silly
Why are there so few? Politics aside every gay guy I've met has been a quintessential faggot. Sure, I like dick too but I don't need to blare it from the rooftops and wave around huge rainbow dildos. Not only that but they are all incredibly feminine. Non of them like strenuous fitness like lifting, manual labor is the plague incarnate and they sure as fuck can't take a joke as everything is offensive.
What is the cause for such behavior? I want a homosexual boyfriend, not a faggot.
For the past 2 1/2 years I've been convinced I was a woman and had to transition. I was jerking off to AGP porno on AD/HD meds and these feelings just came flowing out causing me intense mental anguish and neurological pain in my head. Since that time I sometimes embraced it and at other times I tried to run away from it, suppress it or "change" myself. But for the longest time, these feelings have hung over me like a storm cloud accompanied by intense headsplitting headaches which have acted like a constant reminder of my situation. Now I feel... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>6089312 >that I'm truly different from a woman and most important of all that all of this is okay... Feel more "intersex" than ever before. In terms of not having to transition, I feel like I can just be a dude and that it will all be okay. Femgen fag here, I kinda understood the part above. Wanting to be cute doesn't mean you have to become a girl. Getting meds shouldn't mean you have to scrub out your personality. Don't like cross dressing either.
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>>6089524 >Sounds honestly weird to me desu My hair and body used to give me dysphoria at varying points. Now I'm like meh which is very wierd. I kind of wax and wane about breasts too. On one hand I like the idea of erect nipples and sensitive breasts, on the other I kind of am like nah and want to work on my pecs and get a six pack. I have slight gynemastia and it used to give me distress before I 'figured out' I was trans.
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