I'm cis and I don't really feel like I care that nuch abut my gender. And I feel like most cis people are the same. Do you think we just take it for granted as we're in the right bodies, or genuinely feel less affinity than trans people? Like, if cis people woke up the other gender, do you think most of them would experience dysphoria, or be like meh?
Yeah, if you just woke up in a different body and suddenly had to deal with everyone treating you like the other gender, it would probably be seriously upsetting. Like, once you go through the process of transitioning, it really lays bare just how important gender is in our society and how intensely different the two genders are treated.
I have feelings for a friend of mine and I want to find out if he is gay or not. How should I go about bringing the topic up with him? I want to make it seem fairly natural, so I can gauge his reaction before proceeding. He's fairly open-minded, as far as I'm aware, but if I approach the topic wrong or come out too quickly, he might freak out and stop talking to me. Our school is celebrating "LGBT History Month" over February, so my current plan is to try to work this into a conversation.
>have feelings for best friend >tell him frequently >say rather bold things whenever i get drunk >half of all our text conversations are just me flirting >rest my head on his shoulder every opportunity >sometimes even lay my head on his lap >he puts his arm around me when i do this, sometimes plays with my hair >likes to... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So I've come to the assumption that I'm bisexual I guess.
I don't want to be bisexual. I HATE it. I wish to God that I could be one or the other. I look on here and I see a lot of distaste for bisexuals, and I'm not the kind of person to cheat, or to hurt anyone. In fact, I've been hurt in every relationship I've ever been in.
I'm afraid that I'll never find a guy because everyone hates bisexuals, and it's really hard (in my experience) to find masculine verse dominant gay guys. I've never bottomed, but I dream... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>5640402 >all the hate on here for bisexuals Lusten, /lgbt/ is not like real life. In real life most people don't hate bisexuals. There's just something about 4chan that makes all the hatred rise to the top, don't get fooled by it. Also, there's more B than L&G combined, both here and irl, but we are just the invisible majority. Don't worry, you'll find someone if you just get out there and talk to people whom you find attractive.
How can I let loose and discover myself? I see a lot of people pull off bizarre looks, lifestyles, or attitudes with confidence and comedy at their side. I have trans feelings, but I have a hard time accepting them. I can't help help but think it's a phase, but a lot of people have really shined as themselves in this new "phase".
More detailed info on my situation. >comfortable with genitalia >had feelings since elementary >out to everyone >have gf >go out dressing with her often >posts on /soc/ frequently >gets rated high often >i enjoy the compliments but it's more or less to confirm that other people see me as f when in public >similar to how I choose female accounts in chats >not to trap or attract, just be comfortable.
another piece about me from another thread
>Identity crisis >Have transgender feelings since 8 >become publicly out at 16 to my mom >get things started at around 19 (present) >mom keeps thinking it's a phase >says she doesn't really see it in me >it starts to get into my head >well, maybe i don't see it either? >i'd always liked girly things, played girl characters, drew women, etc. >but on the outside or as most people know me I was rather masculine, a confident boy >i didn't dislike being the confident boy >wonder if this is just a phase.. >could it just be AGP?
>>5640238 If you want the money and you don't mind selling your dignity, whatever. Why do you want us to tell you that you're worthless anyway and should just get the money if that's what you really want? Just do it, retard.
Is there any hope for someone like me? Even as a little child I always felt more womanly than male.. I absolutely hate my hairy fat male body and I hate being male in general. I don't have the money for surgery and I doubt I ever will as I'm uneducated at work a shit call center job with no savings.
I also have a medical problem.. I was addicted to heroin when I was a teenager and got so constipated that I pretty much destroyed my asshole. (See: bowel obstruction.) So even if I could transition over, no one is going to want to have sex with me because my only... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Since I'm on hrt I noticed that my penis sometimes leaks fluid. Its really annoying because recently I also developed a rash there and the urologist said that its probably because of my smaller prostate because of the hormones and he can't do anything about it.
>>5639787 This might be TMI. I noticed there can be a little extra that comes out after I pee which is uncomfortable, but if I press that space in between the scrotum and anus, the rest comes out so it's not dribbling after.
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