If you're different, you have to be realistic enough to expect to be treated like you're different. You can't expect the whole world to bend over and kiss your ass and give you special treatment. Trans people are freaks, and I mean that in the best possible way. If I tell someone that I like trans people, they tell me I'm fetishizing them. if I tell people that I don't like trans people than they tell me that I'm a bigot. if I ignore them, than they accuse me... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm dating a MtF, I sure love her, but she avoid sex altogether in name of the hormones, she doesn't even wanna talk about it. It's hard to keep a relationship like this. Can someone share experiences?
>>5638955 Junk-pop science asserts that orgasm produces excess testosterone, so should be avoided by trans women. This is partially true, in that there is a short testosterone spike (then dip), but it's largely irrelevant beside the fact that we're taking a massive dose of anti-androgens, and wasn't that major even to begin with.
>>5638955 There's a minor spike in T when she cums, but it's pretty negligible. Other than that, some of us will just never want to have sex while pre-OP. If you do love her you should sit it out, maybe opt for blowjobs or something.
>have trans gf that i love to death >she is everything i would want in a mother for my kids >i will never get to enjoy seeing the warmth of her personality in our children >ill never get to see her joy at being a mother >and she has this feeling 100x worse than me Bad feels mang
>>5638852 Maybe you just have a boring life? Maybe your a boring person? Maybe you just need someone who knows how to have fun? I know myself that a normal life is a boring life, and that no matter how attractive a girl is, if shes to boring i cant enjoy her company.
I have been with my husband for 3 years. I love him but I have been finding the intimacy very dull lately. I have been having extreme urges to hook up with a stranger (no strings). I feel as if I need to experience my sexual side more before I completely settle down. What are your thoughts?
Sounds like you can't stop being a gay male. If monogamy and dedication aren't for you, just say so and go back to doing what gay males do. Or, work out the details with the poor sap you're with to either improve the physical level of your relationship or tell them you want a fwb.
Thanks for your opinion. I don't want things to end between us. I have a feeling things have gotten boring for him too. So at least it's a level playing field (no pun). The way I see it, sex is sex and nothing more UNLESS the person you're with means something to you.
Is gay death only a thing for femmes? Cause guys age WAY better than girls.
Also, I'm 19 and still closeted, should I panic? Romance is a big thing for me, but hearing that I only have a few years left makes me panic and want to go full grindr slutmode. Though I am into older (masc) guys, so I'll still be able to keep high standards, right?
>>5638549 Not very unusual at all. A very large minority of trans people don't "get" a clear idea of their gender identity until after puberty/into adolescence, and becoming aware of transition is a big kick in the ass to give it a little thought.
My dream is to live in a small neighborhood where everything is in walking distance, there's low crime rates, and I have a white collared job while my white husband has a blue collared job. How can I go about achieving this?
>Met an MtF >Hit it off p good talked a few times about random shit. >Topic comes up about me having a job, and he can't because trans is not legally protected status. >Complains if he gets murdered the punishment is not harsh at all. >I say I don't really believe in trans people. >Fine with gays and les, you guys do what you wanna do, that's alright with me. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I am a lesbian with no physical or mental attraction to boys.
However, it brings me an enormous amount of happiness, warmth and satisfaction to have sex with boys. You know how great they feel and how wired they are to feel that way. Their orgasm is certain and absolutely means they are satisfied. I feel motherly and giving having sex with boys, and I do so very often. They want it strongly, and it is good for them.
>>5638502 This isn't very unusual. A huge percentage of lesbians eventually start sleeping with men. Lots of them watch gay male porno, or are actively bisexual. These women, although sexually attracted to men, will often continue identifying as Lesbians due to paranoia in the lesbian community that a lesbian's girlfriend/wife will eventually leave her for a man. I understand that the support of your community may be very important to you, but you need to be true to yourself.
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