>Be in Oregon >21 gay >have gross fat gf who is 19 >never fuck the girl but the cow just appreciates a good looking bf >she refuses to go to uni to be with me >she wastes her full ride on me >I am a dirty slut >I will be why she has aids >probably a future dike
>fucking a trans man since February >meet girl at local dog park in August >we fuck 4x a month >I fuck trans man 2x a month >casual with both of them >he gets a gf in September >"nice dude let me see!" >it's her, almost bust out laughing >"what's so funny?" Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>tonite; >him:"I gotta go in an hour I'm meeting with gf" >"oh okay" >text her to see if she wants to hook up >her:"Omg yes, I'm at home come over" >him:"oh she just cancelled...her car broke down." >trollface.jpg >"let's go pick her up, ask her where she is broken down" Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>Netflix on the couch, they are cuddling in a recliner. >eww >they start arguing about the car, he wants to help her pay for it to get fixed. >she keeps refusing >him:"why I want to help you!" >she comes clean >"because it wasn't broke down." >lift my eyebrow and cock my head at her Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>"no she's lying" >hops off my dick >him:"get the fuck out you lying slut" >trollface.zip >her:"n-n-no please I love you. Don't do this to me." >him:"GET THE FUCK OUT I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!" >slammed the door in her ugly crying face. >we had the best sex ever all night,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
i got jasper a cat tree and he seems pleased with it.
also i had to clean congealed blood and lymph fluid off my tongue this morning. they dont turn into scabs and crusts in the mouth because its moist, so you dont get the really satisfying picking sensation of crusties. its just kind of slimy instead.
anyone else here that isnt into the modern trans movement? like, hate brain sex theory, dont think people have a right to decide what pronouns should be used on them, dont think hormone therapy should be the first line of treatment for sex dysphoria... etc etc
Okay now first off I don't usually post here often, going around forums asking for help in my personal life is something that I would usually not imagine myself doing, but I guess like I am just looking for some insight.
It has taken me a long time to really get to terms with my sexuality, I mean I remember going through a lot of shit in middle school which made he hate being gay, then I just sort of had it in the back of my head throughout high school, sort of pushed it back through college just to finally open up to my close friends and win up telling them I'm gay through that, something that came by me talking about things like how I could never figure out why tits are supposed to be attractive, or women in general, how having to be intimate with a girl felt like this horrible thing that was pretty hard for me to explain... stuff like that, stuff that I guess pretty well says "well how the hell could you be straight"
Yet here I am, I mean I am 27, I have a much better idea of who I am and I finally feel like I am starting to get to the point to where I can feel comfortable with myself, but yet I still find myself holding myself back, or simply feeling held back by all this anxiety that I feel at times which feels like it could be brought on by my family since I still haven't come out to them yet.
Now this honestly feels like a big issue that I am having trouble with overcoming so maybe that is why I am finally posting this asking for... well I don't really know what but I am just tired of feeling conflicted and confused as to how to move on with my life and finally embrace a real relationship since this two life thing that I have been keeping up honestly seems to kill every chance I get at a relationship with a guy.
I mean take my most recent relationship, I pretty much just fell off the face of the earth despite the fact that I had numerous good dates with the guy and felt a genuine joy from being with him that felt new to me but I just got scared I guess.
Coming from a similar background, minus the dating there are going to be things to worry about that you didn't even know existed for you to be worried about, the more you learn the more you yearn to be back at where you are now because living in the illusion that you could have a relationship with someone is better than knowing or all the reasons for why you've fucked your life over.
I mean I wouldn't go that far, I wouldn't say my life is fucked over so much as I am just finally focusing on myself and what my needs and desires are but I am just having this anxiety hold me back from feeling comfortable with myself at times.
>>5607295 that anxiety is probably you sheltering yourself to not worry about real things, so its basically protecting you. getting rid of anxiety would take some years and that would easily land you into gay death seeing as you are so close already. It's better to just forfeit right here and now and find some other thing in life to be content with.
/lgbt/, why is it that femmes who like other femmes seem to be, like. Mythical creatures.
Every single girl who's ever been into me (which is not a lot) has been butch or at least chapstick. I've been told by more than one lesbian that my "very straight" appearance is off-putting. The fuck. mffw.
Other femmes who like femmes, if you're out there. Pls post ITT so I know I'm not alone in this world orz
Columbus here All I want is a transgirl to chill with, where are all the midwest qts everyone talks about? ;_; Being passable or 'cute' isn't even an issue for me, I mean holy shit most MTFs are just so sweet and relatable without even realizing it, how am I supposed to go back to 'regular' women after getting a taste of paradise desu?
Going by what I see, identities are constructed from sexuality, hobbies, interests, skills , peer groups, income, etc. It's hard to believe that one can come to identify as a gender without some form of influence from outisiders. I see threads all of the time on message boards where a poor, confused kid is told that he's really a girl, he then responds to rhe thread a week later, feeling severe bodily dysphoria because of her new found identity and how much one needs to change to match their body with that identity. These are just my observations on the matter of course,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I want to go through mtf transition but I am simply terrified of coming out to even my closest family and friends. Also terrified I'll become some liberal ass with a degree in gender studies also terrified of being wrong please give me guidance
I don't see any reason you couldn't wear a binder like ftm wear. HRT will cause growth, but it's hard to predict how much. Sometimes /femgen/ talks about ways to take hormones but not grow breasts, I don't know if they actually work though. Worst case, you could get breast reduction surgery, though probably you'd like to avoid making that necessary.
>>5607009 >>5607063 Binders are fucking painful and borderline dangerous, not a long term solution at all. If you wear them for longer than 8 hours at a time or buy too small a size you're at a real risk for fucking up your ribcage. I've bruised my ribs from keeping it on too long. Do not do that.
The main cause of my depression is not being able to find love easily. All of these people I meet are straight, some find gays disgusting or just uncomfortable. Some are okay with it. My uncle committed suicide in the 90s because he was gay. I guess it just depends where you live. It's harder to find that special someone. I was raised in a conservative family so that's why I'm still in the closet. I was thinking of going to a psychiatrist for my depression. I also get social anxiety in public as well so I'm just a fucking mess.
I mean would meds even work? Antidepressants or anti anxiety or whatever the fuck I'll just take anything to get out of this hole
Therapist is a good idea if you can afford it. It sounds like your situation is the problem, so I'm not sure if meds/a psychiatrist is a good idea. Pills will (at best) fix chemical imbalances in your brain, but they can't magically make your life better. Therapist on the other hand will help you get your shit together.
If you're closeted and in a horrible conservative area you just need to gtfo. It's hard to do but it's worth it. Life is so much better in a liberal area, it's night and day. If you stay there it's like living in a war... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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