>be brst friends with this guy for 7 years >come out to him a few days ago about being trans >immediate acceptance and support without even so much as a pause >getting together for the first time since today, don't know what to expect or what he is going to expect
>have a fuck buddy who I've developed feelings for >getting depressed coz no reciprocation >only have straight friends >we decide to drink and go clubbing one night >they start to notice my mood and be texting all night >want to know what's up >don't tell them until they corner me and force me to confess >decide fuck it I'll just tell them >theytakeitwell.jpg >be happy >get home drunk af >they want to know EVERYTHING >confess and show them Grindr and how gay secks works
I found out I got recorded by one of my closest friends. Tbh it was embarrassing as fuck and I shouldn't have been so open that way.
Told my family was while we were eating dinner. Told my twin bro when I was driving.
It never gets easier coming out. Some girls in my class asked me if I had a gf, I just told them the truth that I was dating a guy. Still awkward as fuck.
>Come out to parents late middle school >Boyfriend at the time pressured me into it, really didn't want too. >mom handles it well >dad doesn't >Lots of fighting >Parents eventually get divorced, blame myself to this day
>be 10 minutes ago >talking to mom about school >shes telling me about her Psych project >Asks about me >"well I've been meaning to tell you for ages..." >go blank and just laugh >she says spit it out >well I'm bisexual >reacts like a psych major >asks what defines my sexuality >what I'm attracted to in both genders >stumble through answers >spend the next 30 minutes discussing the origins and causes of human sexuality >"well I'm going to hit he sack" >walk up stairs >halfway up >she says "I hope you know that I love you no matter what"
Everything turned out alright >Completely regret saying anything about it even so maybe it's just since it's so recent, will report back tomorrow
Sorry about the blog post, I thought i might as well share it with somebody
>Be 18, trans since childhood, both parents have emotional problems and hate anything LGBT-related. >Dad gets super angry, yells at me, breaks some of my stuff. >Outs me to mom, she has a mental breakdown, almost kills herself, spends next few weeks at home getting high on prescription medication. >Sister blames me for the chaos, insists that I have schizophrenia. >They abuse me for the next few months. >I get a decent part time job while studying at college, manage to move out. >Few years later, no ties with old friends because I didn't want to tell them the truth. >Hardly any new friends because I'm always too burned out from study/work/dysphoria to socialize properly. >I want to get off Mr Bones' Wild Ride
Still though. >Boy makes joke >Girl laughs at joke >Someone sees her smiling at boy >Rumors spread like wildfire >OMG ARE YOU GUYS GOING OUT >"So people think we're going out. Like, should we like go out then if they already think we're are?" >"I guess so" >Do nothing for the 2 weeks we're "going out"
>>5041249 I felt weird about it too and even still do around my parents despite them being okay with it then again I feel weird about it with everyone who knows, it's probably just me
anyway >be 17 >making brownies with mom >the brownies have nuts in them >say "i like nuts" >she says "does that mean you're gay lol" >act coy and nod >gasssppp "youuu aaarrreee???" (this is how my mom reacts to literally everything) >say "ye" >brother enters room, convo dropped
>next day tells me that she told my dad and hes ok with it, everything stays normal we have barely spoken about it since, that was like 7 years ago
>>5038125 Oh man I probably wont do this justice, but here it goes anyway
>dumped boyfriend tonight >he was great for a while but extremely high maintenance, always needed money >no job, no car because DWI, expensive tastes, way to arrogant to work a shit job like normal broke people >love him anyway >teases the shit out of me, we fight a lot >starts pulling the whole "quietly act like a dick so i'll dump him first so he gets to be the victim" >kiss him and tell him: "maybe it's a bad night, it's alright, seriously"
See yah man, wish you the best. I can seriously do a lot better.
>>5041241 Hey that was perfectly justified in the context of the thread, since you really can't hide being trans and living your life the way you want to. Stop being so butthurt that this board isn't called /gay/.
>/Meanwhile in Africa
Yes we get it, nobody has the right to complain about anything because there is a paraplegic transgender ginger fat black homeless starving woman somewhere in africa. Dumbest logic ever.
>get ridiculously drunk and tell my friends (this happened about 3 times to different groups) >brother found my gay porn on my external >Parents don't know officially but saw hot men in my internet history when I was 12
>Be 17 >Tell all my best friends >"Lmao yeah we knew" >Went well
>Freshman in college >Make a Facebook post on national coming out day >Love and support, blah blah blah >Went well
>Sophomore year, almost 20th birthday >Decide to tell my Catholic mom >"Mom, look, I'm gay" >"We all know, anon" >"Oh, well fuck" >Talk about sexuality for half an hour >"I wanna tell dad." >"Don't" >But I think-" >"Just don't" >"But what if-" >"It's best if he just doesn't hear it" >Resent my dad to this day because my mom said he knows but he doesn't want to know >Went pretty meh
It's a year later and I'm completely out. I say it straight up when asked, talk about it casually, and have a cute as fuck boyfriend who I love a lot.
>be me >Lose virginity to guy that turns into first boyfriend >Go home for Christmas immediately after (collegefag) >Mother sees hickey on my neck >Asks me who the lucky girl is out of the blue >I get confused and don't respond since idk about the hickey >She asks if it was a lucky guy instead >Realise what happened >Hesitates >She starts crying while making pancakes >Dad hears, asks what's wrong >"We raised a faggot" >Fuck
Parents are apparently supportive now. I don't really buy it. Asked them not to tell anyone in the family and they agreed; by the time we went to go visit my grandparents they wouldn't talk to me
>Be 17 at the time >Walking home with friend >One of my closest if not the closest >Been meaning to mention it as it was weighing on my mind >Just before the bit of the journey where we part ways >"Hey, would you judge me if I liked mans?" >Yes, those were my words, I was trying to be jokey about it >"No, why?" >"Because like mans." >"Oh, are you gay?" >"I'm bi" >"Huh. Well, see ya faggot!" >We part ways >Feeling better >He makes subtle and not-so-subtle jokes around our other friends before I came out to them >Nobody caught on >Best friend :D
I think that my only interesting coming out story is when I 'came out' to my brother:
>Brother gets in my room in the middle of the night >I was in bed with my computer >He sits on the bed, I don't even look at him >Suddenly grabs my crotch >WTF are you doing? >Can I suck your dick? >What? NO >But I need to know wether I like it or not >Well, go suck someone else's dick >But I know you like guys >Yeah, but not YOU >Why not? >Because that'd fucking disgusting. Get out of my room. >You're really brave, you know? >huh? Wait, are you high or something? >...yeah >...get out, now. Please.
We never spoke about it. I don't know if he even remembers it, he had smoked some weird shit.
I did find a lot of tranny porn in his computer once, though.
Mine is depressive and anti-climatic. >be depressed tranny >drop out of college >get fired from work >many days sit with .45 in my mouth, trigger half pulled >get committed >fast forward a couple months >home for Christmas, somehow parents get $7,000 bill for my 2 day psych ward visit >too scared to disclose why I was there >call parents about a month later and say I'm trans >move me back home >hide me from neighbors >send me to Christian psychs and shit >few months of this hell I run away to the only liberal city in my state with that little money I had left over from working
That was 7 years ago. Family is more amicable, but still not accepting. I transitioned and pass 100% (thank god, otherwise I would have an hero'd), but my life is still in shambles. I will likely never be happy due to my current path/missed opportunities, and the lack of any viable options to full actualization and complete personal development. Shit really sucks when you have no support in your life, and the few people you do know actively discourage what is best for you...
>>5049041 Was that supposed to be your coming out story or his?
>>5050202 Thanks for the well wishes anon. I really needed one tonight. And good luck yourself. I really hope you don't get decapitated. In fact, I hope you can live a big happy queer live for many long and prosperous years to come.
>be closeted spic lesbo >"roommate" is a black girl >I mean she's qt and great >but ya know >I gotta bring home lesbian AND black to a traditional mexican family? >shit's a bit much >it's cool though cause for her it's the same >so we're both comfy in that closet from our family at least >but I do bring her around my family >as a "roommate" >they like her a lot >like damn mom actually likes her more than me >grandma thinks she's just a delight >dad thinks she's a great and polite lady >and we're just adorable best friends >couple years into living together >maybe I should get a feel of how they'd react? >try on mom first >"sooo, if I were gay...? like maybe with qt 'roommate'?" >mom "Oh that's hilarious" >laugh it all off >mom takes it further though >loudly introduces us as the lesbians >I mean we were all just sitting around drinking mexican family style >so just get drunken laughs and cheers >cause that's some shit they regularly joke about actually >cousins saying they're gay with their friends to fuck with the uncles >even gay chicken it a bit >just jokes >so me and gf laugh it off with them >but we also hold hands and act gayer to play it up >it becomes a reoccurring joke >get a bit too gay acting >with a quick full kiss >dad "Hey now that's too far" >my oh-shit face gives me away >then dad just goes "eh fuck it, it wouldn't make a difference. ya'll already act like dykes" >oh >huh >ok >most family are ok after it's out it's not a joke >some say shit >dad gets mad because how dare anyone say some shit about his black dyke daughter in law >mom thinks it's gross but >at least we aren't druggies or bring home babies >or just general trashy lazy girls >like everyone else in the family our age/generation >though now no one takes the fake gay joke as lightly
Her family was worse about it. They liked me well enough but didn't take the gay thing as a joke, instead just got extra pissed, blamed me then drugs then just stopped talking to her for a while.
>>5049117 >he was bluffing I think so to. Actually, I hope so. I mean I'd be ok with it if he was gay or whatever, but the incest thing is not that cool. >>5049135 Was that supposed to be your coming out story or his? Well, it was the first time I admitted being gay to him, even though he apparently already knew. Although he mentioned once that he had assumed I was asexual but that's because I'm bad at being a social being.
>be 16 y.o guy >attracted to 9/10 tall blonde guy >really good friends >He acts sorta gay as guys at high school do >Pool at school during summer >noshirt.jpeg >Tall blonde handsome, mirin' hard >Get sick of dropping subtle hints that I'm gay >Decide to tell him in the hopes hes gay and feels the same way >Msg him on snapchat after school that day >FUCK >tfw it was April 1st >legit thinks im joking for the next few days >eventually convince him Im gay >Hes awesome about it, discuss sexuality a bit, makes it sort of clear that hes straight >10/10 went well, would recommend telling at least one person.
If you don't even have contact with then any more...why would you care? Just tell them. If they're not happy with it then you'll just break contact with them for good, which is pretty much how it is now, so no big loss.
Friends are important tho, you need to exert yourself a bit to gain some valuable acquaintances at Uni/Work. It's neccesary (and totally worth it).
>be 14 >had crush on guy since the day I met him, don't remember how old we were when we met >muster the courage to tell him >it's really awkward >ask if he would experiment >he lets me fondle him, clothes on, no direct contact >says he's not in to it >ask him to not tell anyone else >he doesn't
>be 16 >everyone knows I'm a fag aside of my father >he's a commie so why not just tell him >he literally ignored me
I know he loves me and shit, but I'm 23 - almost 24 now - and he STILL avoids the subject. It's so stupid. I know he knows, but he pretends he doesn't even though I fucking told him, my girl friend "accidentally" (my ass) told him too and it's really fucking obvious I'm gay. Sometimes I just wish he was a homophobe so I wouldn't be stuck in this retarded awkward situation.
>>5055292 >his dad knows >is ok with it >anon would rather have dad hate him but what exactly do you want from him anyway, an award? there's literally no reason to discuss sexuality in detail with parents
>>5055368 I know I'm being silly, it's just... it'd be nice if he actually acknowledged it in some way. Or if I could tell him about my boyfriend and not feel awkward as fuck. He probably doesn't really care if I'm straight or gay tho. That'd be like him. I guess I'm just an attention whore. I feel kinda guilty now. Everyone pretty much accepted me and now I bitch because muh rich daddy doesn't give a shit if I'm gay or not.
>>5055292 >communist dad Fucking kek, my dad's also a commie and i am a /pol/tard, we loved to debate (i always won),he taught me things about peace, wich i reconsidered now, thank you dad, but regardless, never told him because i felt like i didn't need to tell him, i barely have contact with him anymore since he now lives with his bitch that hates me,i wish i could still talk to him without the bitch threatening to kick him out of the house, he's got no familly anymore, and my mother's familly hates him.... good luck dad.
>19 yo. >Dysphoria since 10-11. >My coming out somehow fell on me. >In the garden with mother & step father (he is doing another thing so he doesn't hear us). >My mother knew something was wrong with me since a few weeks. >Tries to guess what it is and somehow tells me "you wanna be a boy ?". >I laugh and cry at the same time, tell her she knows me too well. >We talk about it holding hands, she doesn't quite understands my decision, stepdad is doing other things in the garden, the situation is quite comic. >Later, she's crying on her bed, I join her >We talk about it for a long time >She tells me she will support me, that she still love me. >But tells me that it could be a mistake, because of my past, and her past. >And that she understands & support my decision, but first, clear all those things that happens in the past with a psy, and if the idea persist, she will accept it. >She asks me to give her some website links where she can find informations. >"It will be hard, you know, but I'll be here, I will never abandon you". >I was happy bacause (I don't know if it was on purpose) she asked me "if I was ready for all this" (but in my native language she accorded this to the masculine). >I ask her not to tell my step dad because I don't want him to change his mind about me (he's like a real father for me). >Week end with tension because step dad knows a big thing has happened.
But I'm so relieved that now she knows, it was hard to hide such feelings during all this time.
Two weeks later, she tells me she told my stepdad about this, he isn't different towards me, relieved one more time.
>dysphoric since as long as i can remember >family is weird and a bit hateful towards lgbt >10yo. discover the term transgender...EVERYTHING MAKES SENSE >quickly go into denial because i thot everyone would hate me >attempt to embrace masculinity in my teens >crossdress a lot in private >inner turmoil makes me super socially awkward and i have like 3 friends all through hs >graduate hs and move away to college >crossdress more frequently and even in public sometimes >looked pretty good even without hrt. >get more college friends because i am more true to myself plus they all know and are cool with it >19 yo finally decide to stop the denial and tell my mom >send text to mom with photo attached of me fully dressed up saying "this is your daughter" (stupid i know) >go back home for summer break >she thinks im confused or crazy and takes us to a psych >tell mom how ive always felt, she is still weird about it but is starting to understand over time. >start hrt, rest of fam still doesnt know >go back to college >new giant dorm room i share with 5 other disgusting dudes >decide not to out myself to them to avoid confrontations >get super depressed as semester goes on since i cant be me >try to an hero >survive >drop out for that semester >mom tells dad >dad takes it better than i thought and wants to make sure im ok >go back next semester and share a dorm with another trans girl i made friends with >wind up having sex with her and start a relationship with her >she breaks up with me a few monts later toward the end of the semster >her exact words were "I was horny and you were there" >have an emotional break down and feel less than human >try to an hero again >pussy out >drop out of school completely while i get my shit together >move home and tell rest of fam >moms side is cool and dads side are assholes >Finally go full time >get a bit of FFS done >pass pretty well >get a job >go back to school >get a loving supportive bf >feels good man
>>5059780 Nope, i am a national-collectivist, and heck no, i am not going back to >>>/pol/ it's hell there, it's just a shit-pack of edgelords who screams "burn da fegs and trenniz !11!1!1! RACE WUR NAW !1!1!1!!!11 XDDDD"
>>5059756 Wow anon, I related with parts of that - the whole in and out of school thing, suicide, etc. I'm happy to hear that things finally worked out for you though. You're actually one of the lucky ones
>got really drunk >realised that I really was trans despite repressing it >organised appointment with gender therapist >full blown panic attack for rest of the day >didn't know what to do, had been awake for 36 hours and still hadn't calmed down >got drunk again >decided I needed to talk about it and therapy was days away >Came out to room mate >could tell he didn't believe me >I don't think he even tried to hide his disbelief
>next day my memories started to come back since I have stress induced amnesia >realised I should tell my family
>got drunk again >came out to sister >she reacted pretty well >wanted to take me shopping
>got drunk yet again >came out to Mum >told her my memories were back >losing my memories was hard on her, so we mostly focused on that >she apologised for my childhood >then my sister put make up on me
So I always curious with my sexuality and people used to say I look girlish or twink and I always enjoyed it... fast forward to now.
I met a transexual female one night. Bring her to my place because I thought she was very interesting and fun to hang around and she started making out with me and I thought it was weird at first but ended up loving it.
I have been dating a female transexual for a while who will eventually makes the full switch to female.
Told my friend first and then my psychiatrist and no one really seemed shocked about it and even encouraged me.
We dated and it was good and it triggered something inside of me. I always either liked tomboyish girl or very effeminate man and I am no longer scared of one or the other.
Recently I have started to modify my look to be even more feminine without feeling shy or afraid of being judged. I want to keep going !
Why do you feel the need to come out? I don't understand it, but I want to know because I usually dismiss it as attention-seeking but I want to know why you feel the need because I don't wanna be no bigut
>>5072923 it makes perfect sense not to come out to everyone, because very few people need to know about your sexual preference however, when it comes to close friends and family, whenever i pretend to be something i'm not, a heterosexual male, it kind of just feels bad, like i'm lying. That said, it shouldn't be made into a big deal.
>>5072923 I strongly agree with you, but sometimes its just the easiest way to explain things. For example in my case I'm going to need to when my ldr bf gets here next month. I've already flown to his place, but my parents are going to want to know why I'm suddenly flying to California every other month
>be dysphoric for all my life >earliest memories are of wanting to be grill when i was little >dad divorces mom >years later dad comes out as gay >finally decide I should come out too >tell my sister she accepts right away >tell mom she gets depressed and cries for a week >asks what she did wrong >finally breakdown in front of her >she finally realizes how bad it is and helps me get on mones >come out to dad >this should be fine he'll be accepting >dad: you want to be a grill? >dad: its just a phase >well fuck that shit
just now is he starting to finally come around is still a jerk about some stuff though. how can someone whose gay ever begin to do that shit like ur in no fucking place to talk
>trans >hanging out with friends >best friend knows I've been thinking about it for a while and want to tell people >"Go on, tell them!" >"Tell us what?" >get teased since I'm being shy and avoidant >they push harder >try to say something but fail because of anxiety >"Don't worry, whatever it is, we won't think differently of you" >start fucking bawling and head off to the bathroom to wipe my eyes and calm down >having trouble calming down >realize that I'm actually having an anxiety attack >feel stupid over all of this which makes it worse >don't end up coming out but everyone pretty much knows anyway >spend the last couple of days in a depressed slump
>be cross dresser from early age >experiment a lot growing up >SUPPRESS SEXUALITY, no one must ever know, feel so much shame and depression >decide that I have to tell someone >tell friend on wow, instantly accepts me and says hell still be my friend no matter who I am, cause he thinks Im awesome >tell some of my rl friends, they dont really talk about it, but its out there >tell parents >"Its a phase, but you can talk to your doctor I guess" >doctor recommends I go to some shitty clinic 2 hours away that has a policy you must live 1 year as desired gender before you can start transitioning >lol fuck that shit >suppress again >depression is tearing me apart, move out of my parents house >its never brought up again >get referral to talk therapy type doctor from family doctor >dude is straight up bro african guy >he knows about my past trans history, says he cant do anything unless I decide I want to move forward with it >nov 3rd my next appointment, going to spill and start figuring it out, get a recommendation to somewhere other than the butcher shop my family doctor tried to send me too
My parents love the shit out of me, probably trying to atone for being abusive dicks. They'll eventually accept my identity, but for now I stealth and go behind their backs. I will seek out mones without them knowing until I'm closer. I intend to get all the surgeries too. I'm done hiding who I am from myself.
>>5038125 >yesterday >with crowd of friends, i am the only one being dressed like an edgelord >they're dressed like normies (tracksuits, northern France) >lad shows phone to me >a pic of two grills >"yo bruv, tell me wich one would you fuck ?" >"i don't know mate, i am gay" >a grill gives me a smile >i expect the "you wunna B mai gay best friend ? XDD" >surprisingly it was just a smile >phew >another grill gives a disgusted face >lads looks at her funny >we make the "if homos were the majority" trick >she gets in the house and never comes back >gay jokes comes in >i take them good and go with it >mfw my lads are the best
>middle of summer >meet cute talented boy through /v/ >he gives me his number, says he likes talking to me >hit on him a bit, he says he likes it >we start sexting >he sends me dick pics >realize he wants to see mine >ohshit.png >"uhh, I don't have a dick" >"I'm trans" >send him pussy pics >he asks me how I want to be fucked >end up getting really close >he's my boyfriend now
Feels real good I can be an idiot with problems and I tend to feel like I must be bothering him, but he keeps being awesome and I love him
Mom didn't go so well though >two years ago >pull mom aside >"hey mom I feel like I'm a guy" >"ok anon that's your business, don't flaunt it, don't buy men's clothes or other shit, it will be hard for people to love you if you're weird like that" >she then decides to ignore it and still pretends I'm a girly girl
>>5073346 >who also have the brain patterns of said gender I know evidence supports the concept of trans having a different brain chemistry, but to just go out and say they have the brain patterns of the opposite gender is misleading.
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