what do you want more? food or sex? can you actually have either?
>LETS HIT 1200 POSTS?!
j/k you cant do it :,<
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I like food more tbh. But only if it's delicious.
do you think i c ould ever be pretty like Jeannie anon?
when i was little i wanted to be just like barba eden tbh too bad im turbo gross
>i can see it... she is so ugly tho ;~; just like me...
the fugg is wrong with you?
also have you seen farscape? season 1 Claudia Black was perfection
i was always a depressed loser and a meanie, i just cared about hiding it before bye
she's old and shiveled up now
and also she was small and petite before
she also has boobs/hips/waist something i dont and will probably never have..
nah im ugly man
i've posted my body before, i just look like any typicall tall chubby man really
>don't think she's that pretty.. i guess it's because i'm gay and only into dudes?
Don't make me remind you of ricky boo
i am though i think photos or angles are just misleading. a corset wouldn't hurt i guess, but i dont really think it'd even do that much; my body is too fucked
>super broad shoulders
>super narrow hips
anyway i think im gonna go to sleep so i can have more shitty dreams. next time dont lie to me anon, it isn't nice
>Interest in anime and video games
hell i am together with a daddy
only on skype but check
>Interest in /co/ stuff
It's bad and i hate it
Soon. At least two on each ear and a septum hopefully.
I want like five fucking tattoos and i have zero fuck
>anime and games
Azarath metrion zinthos
Like all over the place
AZARATH METRION ZINTHOS
What's my score
Never! I have to much pride to trip, plus I'm not insecure and autistic tbqh.
Filter this hon!
Technically, yes, but it's dyed back to my natural color for the most part
Do getting my ears pierced count?
>Interest in anime and video games
Waaaaaaaaay too much of one
Nope. My dad is like the coolest person ever ^^
What number is considered promiscuous? I've had sex with 2 boys and 1 girl.
>Interest in /co/ stuff
I've never been to /co/
>No im too manly for transitioning tbh. When I was younger I considered it though tbh But looking back I wasnt as feminine as I felt at the time.
you are like a caricature of the type III tranny
My hairstyle is too shitty to have colors without it being weird-looking... maybe when it's longer tho..
I don't like needles but probably ears ...
>Interest in anime and video games
Yes , but not to the point of it running my life ... I watch anime once in a while but I watch like crazy when I do ... does that mean anything ?
I'd like to but not now ...
Other than the fact he thinks it was "too easy" to come out ... not really any
Nah , I like talking about -lewd- Stuff a lot (While making it seem like casual stuff ) ... but not to the point of caming ... for now x3
I tried to look it up .. couldn't understand it ... So ... I guess not ? :3
>Interest in /co/ stuff
Not much I discovered it 5 mins ago
>missed bus because my alarm didn't go off
At least I'm only missing statistical method which is my easiest class & it's only a 1 hour class too
Oi you stop that
Anyone have a song to their transition or whatever?
When i was breaking up with my ex to transition she told me this song made her think of how it must have felt for me to be trans, going through school and not feeling right. I showed her the band so i think she sorta associates them with me all the time anyways, but i took the thought to heart.
>truth in every meme
But seriously reading that shit freaked me out. This shits weird I feel weird reading shit like that.!
I'm going to bed goodnight
Im going to stop shitposting here I need tranny ideas out of my head
I had a small out of body experience that I've only had high before.
That shits weird im out. fuggin cis girls only now
hot chip's pretty cool
don't know the song, but i'm going to listen
i have a lot of songs important to me, but i guess when high school started i listened to some pretty sad stuff when it hit me again, hard that i was trans
it says nowhere in there that group threes are AGP
all it says is that they try their hardest to make themselves seem more masculine until they eventually break down
nearly everyone in this thread falls under group three unless there's someone here who transitioned at like 5
>it says nowhere in there that group threes are AGP
I never said it didn't anon. The author never really uses the word autogynephilia but she does however describe group 3 in the same way as Blanchard does for agp mtfs and she even says that they masturbate to relieve gender depression.
Nope a lot of people could fall under group one like myself. You don't have to start at age five to be in group one. She just says that usually group 1 mtfs start young, young could mean from age 5 to age 20.
>Group Three, cloistered gender dysphoric boys, often combine excessive masturbation with an increase in secret cross-dressing activity to release anxiety.
>Jenna (age 43) spoke fondly of the delight she experienced as a boy when she would find something of her mom's in the dirty clothes' hamper in the bathroom. Two others in the group laughingly agreed that they too took many a trip to the bathroom for the same reason
>Cloistered (G3) gender dysphoric boys appear to others and even to themselves to be heterosexual...
>Significantly, unlike other boys, their dating motives are markedly different...
>The fantasy is not to make love to her but to actually be her.
I dunno, it sounds pretty agp
Doolface is two-faced though and not very nice in person or if you get to know her well. She's a selfish vain catty bitch tbqh. That nice appearance is fake and all she comes here for is literally to brag, get attention and have her ego stroked, and to promote her web cam business.
>The fantasy is not to make love to her but to actually be her
Agp pretty much.
I really just don't want to read that
I don't need that kind of information or thoughts in me. Its weird 3s too weird
Im out I have to focus on my goals last thing I need is tranny shit in my head fuck. Im neglecting my navy overachieving and reading that tranny shit. Too real.
The three I read was just about hiding your femininity and living in repression. That AGP stuff is retarded.
It's just that im so popular
I love it Daddy thank you so bunch <3
No that was an old picture
isnt that how a lot of mtfs are
chase/date girls and live through em
i've never dated but it doesn't seem so ridiculous to envy your partner/live through em a bit. what else would mtfs do dating a girl pretransition?
>well known and respected gender therapist who has over 20 years exp with trans people
>member of the DSM
>basically describes her lesbian/bi patients as agp
>trans people deny any of this and claim agp doesn't exist
When you think about it that way it does seem like a conspiracy to hide the truth about trans people...
she's narcisstic, and I don't agree with her, but it's her life.
I've argued with her in the past.
And she doesn't go too far unless you push her.
She doesn't have patience nor the maturity yet though.
But she has a positive attitude, and is helpful to anyone.
And she's all over lgbt, unlike circe.
Age has very little to do with it. You could be type 1 and 40 or type 3 and 15. The theory is about personality and approach to transition. Being young doesn't mean you're extreme feminine and being old doesn't mean you're extreme masculine that wants to be cured of trans. The age is only correlational but not a casual variable.
Good thing I'm straight now
>what else would mtfs do dating a girl pretransition?
I dunno, have a normal relationship like a normal person?
Agp is silly because people like to apply it to any girl who likes girls, even though theres plenty of straight girls who obviously fetishise being a woman
One day people will stop bitching at each other and learn to have constructive conversation instead of a 24/7 internet popularity contest
>Not really jormy....
Have you read some of the things kayla or feefs post?
I never understood the whole living through thing. Someone explained it to me since im a chaser I guess but I don't think chasers do that. I think MOST of them at least the ones here are just really beta.
Irl the people I've talked to that were into trans likedc dressing up as girls and was beta.
I just went off disproving my own point.
Who's next daddy?
Elf youre still one of my favorite trips. Im surprised you still like me though I can get pretty mean when people attack me
My favorite trip I don't have any. Its always who im flirting with but im not interested in anyone right now.
The guy that came on my picture is first place :^)
But really the ones I like are the plug crew. You know who you are.
In no specific order
You would think that living by a highway with a parallel rail line where trucks and trains regularly come through at full speed would make it easier to put yourself under one or the other but it doesnt
>two alleged fucked up straight trans girls = a lot
I'm not sure it works like that anon. I don't get how a straight trans would act like they have a fetish for being a woman either. That's only lesbian and bisexual trans tbqh.
kayla is so obviously a fetishist if you look at her lingerie pix and the cringe clothes she's into
you can take the girl out of cd, but you can't take the cd out of the girl
it's funny when she's critical of les trans girls
Wow I guess we'll just have to take our relationship to somewhere where it'll be appreciated huh?
No you probs are the nicest person here for real though?? I think you're nicer than me at least lol, cause I sometimes get mad at people here like maki or marathon and say mean stuff, but I've never seen you say anything like that at all to anyone
I may have hate squeezed my tinkler way too hard and now there are red spots everywhere on its foreskin and it stings. Will I die now?
etc etc etc...
You were saying?
>"aren't these clothes cute? imagine what it would be like to have a big strong man fuck you in them"
That doesn't sound like agp at all tbh. That's just a female sexuality. So based on that "evidence" feefs doesn't sound agp to me.
Try again transbian, we all aren't like you guys.
You're not I think we talked like over a month ago?? Also I was on the plug a lot and I think you were there. I am the girl who prefers ATDI to TMV soooo.... IDK there is not a huge amount to remember me by I guess? I don't think you're that girl I think its more like I don't really talk about myself or just find other people more interesting I guess.
>she was mean to me and doesn't want to ride my stick, this is totally AGP
>implying feefs' ultra-basic forced fem-grade taste is somehow not fetishism
Just because I have standards doesn't mean I don't like men, swg/maki/other chaser flavor of the day
>trips supporting each other
>anons using their anon to have meta intelligent debates over a topic without including someones authority or power controlling it
Ladies. This is how it's supposed to be
>Tfw group 3 agp ladyboy femboi lover
If transbians date girls because they want to be their gf, why would they date a trans girl? They don't need to fantasize about being trans if they already are...
Omigosh, I just might ;-; Them is some harsh words jormy
>is prob a result of something
It's actually a very simple equation.
Straight beta male + anime + tfw no gf = transbian. Or in the case of transbians on mtfg they're straight men with forced feminization fetishes
>Transbians are the biggest chasers why can't they just go for cis women?
because cis lesbians see them as straight men. It's ok for a transbian to hit on a trans girl though because girls pure desu. kek
If you're straight you can be as much of a fetishist as you like. Masturbate to handbags and heels all day long. You will always be perfect and a normal woman even with your glorified bimbofication and slutty clothes.
If you're lesbian you can't even watch anime or put on a cute dress.
These laws are final.
>But if they're turning themselves into a woman already, why would they need to project their feelings onto someone else?
Because double the pleasure, duh. They now have themselves to get off to AND another trans girl. score!!
>implying any straight trans here do this
Nice try transbian, we aren't buying it though.
>mfw everything in my life lately
mtfg what nice things are going on with you lately? anything making you happy?
I'd prefer you leave
Sorry anon. Is it raifu? I've noticed she's very non responsive too, tho i figure when someone doesn't talk to me it's because they don't like me. Which is reasonable.
But seriously if you ever want to have a 1on1 where we air our grievances no anon
Just mev and you ill be down I apologize for everything I really do. I don't feel good about how everything turned out between us even though were just tripfags on 4chan
I think we both got pretty out of hand probably moreso me but I really want to end this grudge between us two legitimately
Like im serious just a one on one where you ventv and ill listen. I don't even dislike you at all tbh
I've been coming more to terms with the changes HRT is bringing. Pic related, bobs are actually worth mentioning now. Also skin has been getting softer and my face changed drastically.
>cute guy I was after hasn't been replying to my messages, worried it's because I told him I'm trans
Or he might be busy since he's moving halfway across the country (it's not like we can have a date while he's still in BC) but yeah.
Also idk, getting closer to srs and shit is a positive feel I guess.
>always posts about herself in a bragging manner
See this is why we don't like you...like cool your have everything your life is so great, do you really have to rub it in our faces everytime you come here?
So virgin media upgraded our internet speed last night. Idk...still seems to slow.
What kind of logic is that? Do you want to watch your boyfriend fuck someone else so you can get off to that too?
My speed is fine but my ISP recently added a data cap or something which really pissed me off since I'd never had one before. I should probably call them and ask about it but I'm lazy.
why can't you be accepted as the man that you are?
Do you think I like getting my cock made fun of randomly by you? Ive taken so much more shit than you this past month and im still positive.
Cmon you're not even ugly cheer up babe. If you actually killed yourself id feel really sad
I'm the only one that downloads much of anything in my house but yeah, it's awful. I think they said it was capped at like 250gb in the email they sent. North american ISP shilling is such an injustice.
I miss uni internet speeds, at least I'm the only one who uses it in this house
Should i call a suicide hotline? Will they tell me anything i haven't already heard, or will they just try in vain to get an ambulance out her to pump my stomach?
I know all your feels. I soak in them when not considering suicide.
I'd prefer you leave
>no fucking way...flatmate im totally meant to fuck lives near there
its so sad that you cucked him with your new bf
he probably posted on r9k about it
how are things going with new bf?
Why are doing this because of a small dick chaser that flirts with trannies all day?
Please get help if you're serious
Tell me where you live and ill call right now.
Or tell booger orv something
i hope oddish does die given that she actually had a pretty good chance of making it but was one of those idiots that dismissed any positive comments as "hugboxing"
fuck you cunts that actually have a chance but throw it away. die and rot, i'm glad of it
Even though you annoy the fucking piss out of me I hope you're not actually committing suicide. I was recently researching death by sleeping pills (if that's what you're trying) and apparently they make them much safer nowadays so, like, vomit or start driving to a hospital now so you don't die, you'll probably be fine.
mtfg what do you do when you go see a guy friend you crush hard on, make him stuff, give him presents, go out to dinner, he lets you wear his hoodie because it's cold, cuddle, but he gets weirded out when he catches you smelling his man smell when hugging and when you leave it's kinda awkward. i'm pretty sure he doesn't like me the way i like him.
>tfw crying on the train home
>tfw it feels like teenage heartbreak but i'm 26 and not a cute girl but a mannish freak
>tfw stupid bitch
only becoming a cocksleeve fucktoy will kill these feels
Please don't commit suicide, my sister attempted suicide and the call I got from her when she told me she was going to die was the hardest thing that's happened to me, dysphoria and all. Don't do that to the people around you.
so I met with a trans girl Ive been talking to via okc today. She's real nice and we had a great chat.
she did say I was really cute and asked if I might be more romantically interested as well. I said yes I may be but I'll just have to see how it goes.
The thing is though she was genuinely a really nice person and it would be great to have someone to talk to who can really understand all the trans things and what goes with it. I think she has an Italian background (or something similar) and I've never really been attracted to people like that before. She isn't ugly or anything and passes fine.
So yeah she would make a really good friend but im a bit unsure if I should try for more then that. I have been really lonely for a long time and a relationship with her could work well for a while but not long term I think.
and finally I get to the million dollar question. Do I take the chance knowing I might end up hurting her even if its not intentionally or just become good friends that may have a bit of tension present?
and yes while trans girl + trans girl = gay in anyway you think about it I am open to trying, I have no idea what sexuality I will end up with.
I hate when my mom tries to be polite and use female pronouns because I know she doesn't see me that way
I've preemptively given up on my parents accepting me, which is why I still plan to move way away
:c still that's exciting for u!! brassard does good work
trust me guys think it's weird even when they do like you. like every guy i've ever dated was like o..ok... lmao
if he doesn't like you he doesn't deserve you imo
if you're prepared for it to end badly then why not? gl fam
I'd just be ok with them referring to my boy name b/c that's how they've always known me
I prefer they be honest with me rather then pretend
hopefully with time, they'll accept me
my mom accepts me...
but i don't think she REALLY thinks that i'm a girl.
and like it fucks my shit up when people who knew me before transitioning use female pronouns because i know they don't think i'm a girl no matter how openminded they may be.
i wish people just called me whatever.
i have older family members that call me heather but use male pronouns. i have people who still call me my birth name. i think it's fine.
getting called my birth name never makes me cringe...
For once im happy to see you
You do know that when you actually commit suicide nobody is going to take you seriously
I want to be brutally mean to you right now but naw glad you're safe ill be nice
Legit can we talk about how batman returns is tim burtons best movie? That said, this scene didnt need a cutaway.to the exterior shot every other line. But it's better when you've watched the entire movie, its part of the build up.
How egotistical can you actually get
I'm trying to kill myself because living us miserable. You're just annoying and you make mtfg worse.
>Who knows, maybe I'll still die
it's a real possibility :(
If you drink bleach, it oxidizes or burns tissues in your mouth, esophagus, and stomach. According to the NIH (National Institutes of Health), it can cause nausea, chest pain, lowered blood pressure, delirium, coma, and potentially death.
What Should You Do If Someone Drinks Bleach?
If you suspect someone has ingested bleach, you should contact Poison Control immediately. One possible effect from drinking bleach is vomiting, but it is not advisable to induce vomiting because this can cause additional irritation and damage to tissue and may put the person at risk of aspirating bleach into the lungs. First aid (from the Arizona Poison and Drug Information Center) typically includes giving the affecting person water or milk to dilute the chemical.
Note that highly diluted bleach can be another matter entirely. It is common practice to add a small amount of bleach to water to make it potable.
The concentration is enough that the water has a slight chlorine (swimming pool) smell and taste and it may lead to a slightly upset stomach, but it should not cause burning or difficulty swallowing. If it does, the concentration of bleach very likely is too high.
If immediate first aid is administered, most people recover from drinking bleach (sodium hypochlorite poisoning). However, the risk of chemical burns, permanent damage, and even death is present.
Maybe I should
Getting someone to drink bleach is pretty awesome tho tbh
Ive already bullied one other person where they did the same exact thing as you. Just a cheap bitch way to get sympathy
Maybe ill leave
Everyone was having fun today though
I don't want a death on my hands and you should still call the ambulance
oddish wtf... i'm sorry but i have no respect for people who want to throw their lives away like that. whatever happen to being sisters and making movies? wtf fam??? you're going to kill yourself and never be apart of that?
have you even tried meds yet?
do you not see how fucked up this all is?
>being this autistic
I was going to call you a psychopath but that would be disrespectful to them given that they at least follow through with their vile impulses. You just hide behind a computer shit-posting.
I told you I'm weak. If i thought there was anyway i ever get my chance to make movies things would be different. But I've failed in life at everything I've ever tried. I'm tired. I don't wanna try so hard anymore, or pretend to be optimistic about everything when it's plain to see I've got nowhere to go but down.
I didnt drink a lot. I had to dilute it just to get it down. I feel shit but i dont think I'm dying.
that's the mental illness talking. get on some pills and come back here when you're better.
you'll look back and cringe at these posts. believe me. i told mtfg i was going to kill myself once too.
There's a reason I have nobody in my life.
But whatever oddish said it had absolutely nothing to do with me whatsoever so she's right. It had nothing to do with me so I have no reason to feel guilty if anything bad happens to her.
I probably have a mental illness also but I don't give a shit tbh fuck this planet maybe ill try to be Christian again.
Im not going to post here though again unless to check in with people and maybe a random anon shitpost here and there.
Oddish your bleach washed away my sins and cleansed this board of the Maki charicature. If you don't die just know that killed the most important part of this board...Maki.
The Maki character is dead.
Goodnight everyone :^)
Jade please help yourself!
I wish so so much that there was something I could do to help, just anything at all
Is there anything I or anyone else here can do?? Even just to make you feel a bit better right now
Omg I didn't realize heathen was you, dang
I feel rly dumb now
And I'm really sorry you went through all that but I'm so glad you're still here cause I never would've been able to be your friend otherwise
Honestly does it matter
Either it was less than a fourth and I'll live, or it was more and I'll cya. Either way you're in a position if helplesness. So lets just talk about movies.
I think batman returns is better than all the nolan movies, because it perfectly balances that amount of melodrama that made the comics so great. It's also just got awesome set pieces and all that gothic shit is perfect and devito was born to be the penquin. I still don't like the catwoman suit tho.
Now this is cringey.
>I like, totally dont even care dood, fuck the world man, i dont even like feel empathy, im too hardcore for it!
you're literally a walking fedora
are you fucking 15 years old?
Grow up, it's not cute or funny to be an edgy faggot. In the real world acting like that will likely end up in someone snapping your neck.
The worst is the endless face-to-faces with relatives as people hear about it.
>Either way you're in a position if helplesness.
You will end up calling an ambulance assuming you're telling the truth.
It's generally a terrible genre that numbs you too quickly by piling on more and more horror until all subtlety is lost. Batman Returns keeps it on a personal level but goes a bit too heavy handed at times. Like half of Tim Burton's stuff it gets a bit cringey.
Um excuse me, I vote for myself, not based on appearance.
have you dyed your hair black yet so you are completely moko?
I have to leave for great falls in two hours anyways, and then its two hours to get there. Calling an ambulance at this point is wasteful.
Tim burton usually sucks imo i only like a handful of his movies. But batman returns is the only live action batman movie that feels like batman to me. Everything else is some hollywood adaptation thats sorta batman.
I attempted suicide in 2012 and kept it secret despite me being hospitalised and going to a mental hospital for a few days and having daily in-home visits from mental health people for weeks afterwards. my parents were out of the country and never knew. I ended up telling my mother a few weeks ago when talking about other stuff, she knew something happened, i told her and I've never seen anyone cry like that. i feel so terribly guilty about it. it's heartbreaking.
Oddish you're an idiot and you fucked up bad
But from your attitude, you're going to be approximately alright, so don't do it again
That's not how drinking bleach works unless you had like a teaspoon of it.
Oddish, you're obviously quite damaged, please go seek help. People here tolerate you because you're mtf but some of us can tell fakers a mile away.
Which doesn't mean you don't need or deserve help, but fake internet suicides get old fast.
I'm not surprised though honestly, I'm still new
Also good morning all! Got a busy day today. Gonna be helping my FtM friend get over to Planned Parenthood for gender therapy! TRANSITION BUDDIES!
>tfw you had a ftm transition buddy but you don't really talk anymore
look in mirror this morning
"maybe I could pass in a moonfaced kirsten dunst sort of wa-" nope
tfw started transition too late
>tfw if you'd started transition in 2012 and not pussied out you'd have a ftm transition buddy
he has a sweet beard like i grew when i was 18 after i had my T shots, he's so gorgeous ugh kill me
>tfw drank too much tequila and passed out ~6 hours early
>have no idea what to do being awake so early
I wish I had a transition buddy. Even tho they're probably progress way faster than me.
>tfw started transition too late
Although I think you'll be fine, even if you can't see it. Your face reminds me a lot of one of my teachers from school.
>tfw meet cute boy at work
>tfw he goes out of his way to talk to me
>tfw I find out he likes animu
>that horribly depressing feel when I realize that if I were to get with him, I would have to tell him I'm trans and I don't want to risk being outed at work
I like my new job and have met so many nice people there and I don't want to ruin what I have going by outing myself, potentially fucking everything up. It's not fair ;_;
holy fuck i just saw the picture of when i started cypro and had had had one laser session the day i took it (so my chin is a bit swoillen but w/e), and compared it to now when i've been on e for 5 weeks and cypro two and a half months, and had 3 laser sessions. fucking hell.
are things meant to be this drastic?
Unfortunately, no matter how well you pass or how young you start, you will always be trans. Yeah, passing is important, but that doesn't encompass the entirety of trans issues, which is why it bugs me when people think that "passers" have no right to complain or be upset.
meh, we're in different departments anyway, and the only time I see him is if we are both on the same break schedule or if they send him to our department. My department is all women anyway, so I wouldn't want to date any of them.
Though the manager who is in charge of our department (and others) is a real qt and he's jacked as shit. I want him to crush me with his muscles. There's also this HR guy that kind of looks like a slightly shorter Patrick Dempsey that I would let do horrible things to me.
I like my new job.
Yeah that's true. I'm in a real pickle here. I don't like it.
Different angles and lighting. There looks like a difference but its probably not as dramatic as these two pictures suggest.
I've just heard enough stories from my Dad (former manager) about office romances to scare me off them. But if you're in a different department... :3
Also that would do it. Phone cameras tend to have more flattering lenses in them.
>I can't change my name at uni
Have you tried to talk it out with profs and your department? Central admin in unis tends to be shit but I've had luck with the people who I actually interact with.
Well different cameras can change the way you look pretty drastically
The official policy is that you have to put your former name in brackets on all your work, I tried emailing the lgbt centre at my uni if there was a policy for trans people but they took 3 months to respond and just said "i dunno lol"
If you need to change your name at uni there's generally a procedure for that (for people getting married and stuff). Talk to the registrar's office, they'll likely ask for documentation to support a legal name change.
Getting your old name stricken from your transcript is more complicated. I had to go to student services, they asked me to write up a letter, and they had to have the registrar himself sign off and approve it.
>I tried emailing the lgbt centre at my uni if there was a policy for trans people but they took 3 months to respond and just said "i dunno lol"
my uni website literally links to a page saying "not sure? this website provides more information" and then links to a transgender website from Vancouver for some reason? (even though I'm in perth australia?) o.o
Honestly I'm more worried about my ID, it looks nothing like me now, and you have to show them in exams. New ones are expensive though ;~;
My uni literally only has information for people who want to be a "lgbt ally", nothing for people who are actually lgbt. Like they had a ~diversity week~ last month and had a meeting and a stall for allies, but nothing for us =/
Often trans students are enough of an edge case that there's no official policy. Most issues however can be resolved by asking around, being persistent, and climbing up the chain of authority until you find a person with the ability to have records changed, purged etc.
ahah yeah that's exactly the same. there are like 10 pages of being an "ally" or joining the ally program, and then this one page that is pretty much like "oh you're actually lgbt... umm here go to this site"
really weird I have no idea where to go from here
It might even be worth it just for the resemblance since they'll probably notice that more than the rest.
Also god, this is the kind of shit that led to the trans students fucking off from the lgbt org at my school and creating their own.
hey elanna! i'm cool atm though cause I'm not planning on changing my name since it's already kinda fem (at least for now). I just found it strange cause I was trying to find like a lgbt guild or something and all we have is like... this weird ally program.
hope all is well with you btw
My uni had a tranny as the president of the student council a year or two ago, they should have some sort of policy
i was told selfie camera modes tend to distort the face and make it seem longer/thinner because selfies were invented to make fat girls feel better about themselves but idk
a lot of my chin is swollen puffy flesh, the first laser session was cruel. my chin is quite round, but either side of it is soft tissue that developed around the time i was 18 after i had my second t shot to help along my fucky puberty, and it squares out the chin and jaw a lot. i guess it's a masculine thing to protect the face from getting punched in. it swelled up like crazy after my first laser. i guess some is the camera and lighting, but my face shape has changed a lot. maybe its an xxy thing.
They should but sometimes policy is spotty. My uni had a policy on name changes, and a policy on legal gender reassignment, but no official forms for purging or suppressing old names on official documents. How expensive is a new student id? That went a long way for me, it's probably more important than suppressing old records tbh.
Hi kit! ^^
Yeah it's mostly just for future reference. Sometimes things aren't made entirely obvious just because the number of trans students makes up such a small fraction of the student body. A bit of persistence goes a long way.
And I'm good, just sleepy ;~; how's life?
They might, but it's often such a rare case that there might be no info available anywhere.
FWIW it took years to get things sorted out in one of the local unis and I think their student council and the lgbt org has had trans students for years (although like half are stealth ish)
>tfw you wake up from a dream with your ex where you're still together
>tfw you start thinking about everything you could have done differently
>tfw considering suicide again because no one will ever replace her
>tfw you don't suit any of the clothes you want because you have the body of an out-of-shape construction worker
well I guess it's a good job I still have two slices of pizza left
>ex friend in group of friends is now trans
>she still occasionally talks to the group
>constantly goes on about how much of a lesbian she is despite hitting on any guy she finds cute in a non-masculine way like me
>have told her to stop hitting on me because i'm gay and it makes me uncomfortable
>has even asked me out before
>has asked me if i crossdress when i've said i don't several times
>constantly belittles transmen in front of me even though my ex was one when i've told her to stop
Why are trans lesbians such horribly obnoxious people?
>had a meeting and a stall for allies, but nothing for us =/
>your friend just sounds like a tit.
She is and everyone wishes she'd snap out of this tumblr shit and stop pissing people off. She's a good example of "Nobody hates you because you're black/gay/trans/etc it's because you're an asshole."
Oddish, ilu bby >:
<3 <3 <3
Yeah, he's the raddest.
He's a social worker, kind of, working through an agency. He takes care of mental special needs people.
The other day he was telling me how one of the younger kids imprinted on him and he's been kind of struggling not to imprint back and he was having, like, big brother feels and my heart just absolutely meeeelted.
Also yeah, uh.. kind of?
I'm femme but have been aware of my own non-femaleness for a awhile although have always kind of suspected I was just ok with being a really tomboyish lady?
Although last wednesday I had an experience that really shook me and cemented my non-mtf feelings into my identity so, uh, yeah!
>Pretty little liars
>Fairly realistic show, though the "technological" stuff is a bit unrealistic
>Turns out the villain is a mtf with super strength
Basically ended up going out of character, and throwing in super hero stuff, just to put mtfs in a bad light.
[insert "it's never too late for transition" maymay here]
You'll get diminished effects and your skeleton is already masculinized, but you should still take hormones for the effects that they actually will have.