Are you into BDSM, legbutts?
>Post gender, orientation and preferences and/or kinks.
If you're unsure and have the time bdsmtest.org might help. (It's fucking long)
>MtF, straight. See pic.
>>Post gender, orientation
I'm a transgirl, pansexual I guess, but I only really would have sex with someone I'm in love with anyway
>I never understood that
basically, I wish to be the little girl.
I'm a virgin so I just answered with what turns me on and what I think about, no idea if that matters.
I want to be a good partner to compensate for not being able to give somebody children.
Can't do bdsm with someone you haven't learned to trust anyway.
I've got the feeling mtfs have a strong tendency towards being bottoms going by the online contacts I had. Would love to know the psychology behind that.
>I want to be a good partner to compensate for not being able to give somebody children.
That just made me a bit depressed.
I want to be a total cunt about sex, so as to actually give him a reason to get dominant and he'll know that I love it. But I'm afraid few are gonna put up with that.
Sorry, maybe I said it a little weird. I don't have all the parts a regular girl does so I figure I owe it to my partner to be as good as I can be. Teasing somebody until they get dominant sounds fun though.
>it seems like girls like being fucked. why is that?
Degenerate transbian, I don't think the picture is too accurate, but it's pretty close.
Would love to find me a submissive bear/chub who's into toys, pup play, being given orders and then vidja /cuddling every night :D
gosh, so much kink in this thread. even answering some of these questions made me feel gross...
For the gender and sex i just put female for both don't know why biology has to be asked or is even relevant to the results.
M; straight, special snowflake; Interested in rope, medical play: needles, scalpels and sutures, electrical play, canes, bastinado, and single tail
Bondage giver, rough, physical domination, forced feminization, not so forced feminization, watersports, pet play, public play, group play
I don't even know what half of those words mean.
I'm confused if that stuff totally creeps me out or actually turns me on... Shibari does in a heartbeat, that much I know. Scalpels though?!
Boy that wants to be a girl
Into guys mostly, not opposed to being with girls
Up for just about anything as long as my partner respects the safe word without fail
Breath play and spanking are my go to fetishes, but they are pretty vanilla.
Adds a nice touch to being already immobilized and made helpless. Don't really wanna be respected as a human being while I'm being treated like a dog at best.
Suppose it's just like the pain masochists are into; it adds some spice to the whole thing, but is lame on its own.
>respects the safe word without fail
That's probably every sub's nightmare... partner leaving you with improperly tied ropes, disregarding body language when gagged and whatnot.
Ooooh, my kinda thread!
MtF, bi, leaning straight or whatever
Pretty much mostly into bondage, blood play, spanking, biting, latex, breath play, stuff like that.
thought I was vanilla outside some biting and choking
fuck that survey thing
>Kinky only in the bedroom (mostly)
i like wrestling with my partner for control. I like loosing to him. I like resisting him at every chance, and being punished for disobediance. I enjpyed being bound (ropes, cuffs, tape...etc) I enjoy receiving pain (whips, floggers, spanking, slapping, biting) I like being tickle tourtured. i like to be abused to the point of tears. I love aftercare because of cuddles
I don't get what's so great about being treated like shit. Some names and spanking don't seem so bad but getting spat on? Slapped? What the fuck?
I'm honestly curious about the psychology behind it because I know someone who's into that (virgin bi crossdresser, vanilla with girls and sub with guys). He seems like a cool person but I don't get how he can like some really extreme stuff. No, I can't ask him directly, I don't know him well enough to do that, but he's still kinda my friend. I just want to understand it so I can stop worrying about him (or maybe getting even more worried kek).
Is it about playing to do something you normally wouldn't do? Like some escapism/game?
I guess BDSM, or at least some of its aspects, is just not for me. Now you can ridicule me and call me a puritan or something if you wish.
The appeal to me is that it gives me a mechanic to completely let go of all reservations and just let myself be free for a while. Physical pain in a sexual context also seems to really help me deal with mental stuff. It feels like it's washing me clean sometimes. Plus then there's this whole sub-space thingy where you basically go into a trance. It really unwinds me. What is important to me though is decent aftercare. After being abused I really benefit from feeling reassured and loved. Not getting that can really screw up the whole BDSM dynamic for a lot of subs, myself included.
I feel through BDSM you can get even closer to your partner than you would in a vanilla relationship. All I trust would be that my partner doesn't stab me to death and isn't just with me for the sex. There's more to a relationship, sure, but it's more distant. With BDSM however you give your life away to your SO and you let him do whatever he pleases trusting he's actually afraid to harm you, mentally the same as physically, and then you just know he really loves you.
You will never get that close to another person otherwise.
pretty vanilla, but I'm willing to try stuff once I encounter someone that wants to
Ugh, I wish I could be even a little dominant to appeal to women, but I just can't imagine myself as anything other than someone's little pet.
>male, male, gay
How do people on this board want to be put in a fucking cage and live like a sex doll? Do you all have that little self worth?
Not to sound rude, but I'd still fuck your brains out. I know you like it.
67% Bondage receiver
19% Primal (Prey)
13% Bondage giver
6% Degradation receiver
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Brat tamer
0% Degradation giver
That was fun, I had never heard the term "brat" before.
I like it, that snarky little sub you can't help but love. I'd definitely like my sarcasm appreciated... I'm just so good at it.
30% Bondage giver
18% Brat tamer
18% Primal (Hunter)
12% Bondage receiver
3% Primal (Prey)
0% Degradation giver
0% Degradation receiver
Mtf, bisex and hetero-romantic. Nothing extraordinary here, I guess.
75% Bondage receiver
63% Degradation receiver
53% Primal (Prey)
32% Primal (Hunter)
18% Bondage giver
15% Degradation giver
11% Brat tamer
>Not full vanilla
Gay cis male. Test was pretty accurate and very informative. Pup play is my biggest focus atm but the ranks of all the sub related terms are all where I would expect them to be. Maybe i would have thought degradation receiver would be ranked higher than masochist though but they are so close it prob doesn't matter too much.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
71% Degradation receiver
69% Bondage receiver
51% Primal (Prey)
30% Primal (Hunter)
27% Degradation giver
22% Bondage giver
11% Brat tamer
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=788037
>71% Degradation receiver
>69% Bondage receiver
lmao... you're a little pig bottom, aren't you.
ftm edgelord coming through
i'm not even in high school
I'd like to be tied to a chair or have my arms tied to the ceiling, cockring maybe, and groped and made out with and pushed around. Maybe made fun of a little. Maybe by more than one person. Maybe blindfolded.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
89% Bondage receiver
62% Bondage giver
50% Primal (Prey)
48% Degradation receiver
28% Brat tamer
24% Degradation giver
17% Primal (Hunter)
*the snowflake indicates demi and/or bi tendencies
>confused if that stuff totally creeps me out or actually turns me on
well that's the cool thing about it thought... the mindfuckery of it all. The scalpels and sutures don't go together... as in, cut you deep enough to have to give you stitches. It's light cutting designs, words, marks just enough to make you bleed. The stitches are for binding skin... sort of like advanced clothes pins or clamps on the body. I've also watched a female dominant stitch a male sub's scrotum up around his penis... forming a sort of mangina. I've seen pictures of subs with their mouths sewn shut and females with their inner labia sewn shut and found this interesting. One of the neat things about this sort of play is that it causes pain with out impact. You are not actually hitting someone. So in that respect, you can make it very non-violent, slow, calm and mellow but all the while the submissive's body is heating up and flush and they start riding their endorphin high.
OC, you can always do cool eye candy with the needles, pic related.
I definitely am into it.
Took this test a while ago. Some things I feel get scored weirdly, like how actually caring about one's partner scores towards being a Mommy/Daddy. Overall though, I feel it's close to my preferences.
I'm a cis female lesbian.
I get what you mean, and I've written in other replies that I'd love some scars on my back, but I think I'd never be okay with getting stitched up. That sounds like a sort of pain I don't wanna experience.
Some few days I do feel like it, but those are rare...
I'm too scared about lasting marks and my pain threshold isn't that high.
You know, some people just don't want to throw their life away COMPLETELY. Complete and irrevocable submission is a thing, so is TPE, but most people in the scene do neither. People are different and if you can't accept that, you should look into treatments for autism.
wtf why is "non-monogamy" considered kink??? ew fuck i dont want to be in this community over that
also laughing cause tiny percentage on ageplayer despite that being one of my biggest kinks. and only one question touched on rape fantasy and vore. maybe i got low scores cause so many questions where written as "would you do" or "do you have interest", and i have 0% interest in engaging any of my kinks, pretending or otherwise.
if you think that people have to accept everyone then you need to be locked up. i will never accept violent psychopaths that have no respect for other people and i will never respect kink communities that shelter them.
See pic (especially prey) plus chastity, outdoor and domestic servitude
No I don't. I for one don't accept autists cause they're frustrating to deal with and too often offensive and worse than my adhd ex in terms of attention. So please go.
Psychopaths are psychopaths. Kinksters are kinksters. Both wear clothes, one of them commits crimes. Ban clothes? Go fix your logic and get some meds.
i love me some kinky sex but i agree some of these questions are worded in really shitty ways...
ex: "I enjoy people seeing me being naked or having sex, even (or especially) when they didn't intend to do so."
like, i can be an exhibitionist but i wouldn't MAKE anyone look at me if they didn't want to, that's fucked....
I love being a good boy for a daddy. ;)
Gay man here.
Apparently I am extremely vanilla (74%) followed by Switch, Girl/Boy, and Dominant (59 - 53%). I am the very least Primal, Exhibitionist, Slave, Non-monogamous (2 - 0%).
tl;dr I am extremely vanilla, monogamous, and enjoy being treated with respect and equality.
Doing this survey made me realize I'm exclusively primal (hunter) with girls. Didn't even know it was a thing, thought I was just weird. Are there seriously girls into being prey?
All the other submissive stuff is what I like to be with guys, pretty spot on. Never realized how ok I am with pet play tho. [spoiler]Wish there was AGP/sissy/feminization stuff on this test because that's my favorite fetish[/spoiler]
MtF bi/pan. I could descend into tumblrisms. More into other transfolk but others are ok.
I expected to score higher on dominant/sadist etc, I guess that comes under switch though.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
78% Bondage giver
37% Primal (Prey)
26% Primal (Hunter)
17% Brat tamer
6% Degradation giver
1% Bondage receiver
0% Degradation receiver
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=790655
Pic sums it up pretty well. I'm usually sub with guys and almost always dominant with girls. I tend to enjoy being submissive much more, but I have to really love and know and trust my partner.
My kinks are all submissive, I like being called demeaning names and being objectified, as well as being struck, cut, choked, and forced to submit. Bonus points if I'm sobbing by the end of it all.
(Slightly related, I had my boyfriend take this test and his results complimented mine pretty much perfectly.)
That was a neat test. I didn't like how they just asked the same question but in reverse though. Wasn't that long either. Kinda disappointed me since I like the quizzes that take hours.
Male but have not connection to it. Male female however you want to refer to me. Bisexual with a strong female leaning. Most men are just complete turnoffs. But I do like that dick though.
As for kinks I have the picture here. While I can tell you I am most defiantly a hardcore sub I have very little experience due to the fact I cant find a dominate girl. I'll try anything once though because hey you never know what clicks with you. One big thing though I am not looking for anything bedroom only. I'm looking for a girl that will enjoy me cleaning the house and making dinner. The relationship has to be total. You cant strap me down in the bed room than turn into a perfect trophy wife outside the bed room.
This is the biggest reason why I am so inexperienced. The sex part means very little to me. The sex is just a way for me to please you and show my love for you. I need a fully dominate girl I can connect to before we get to that point. Sex is just meaningless if there is no love if there is no connection.
Once I find my soul mate I will belong to them body mind and soul. They can do whatever they want to me and with me. and you know what? That turns me on so fucking much. If they wanted me to transition for them I would do it in a heartbeat. If they wanted to brand me I would let them.
im still confused about the primal stuff. like sure, i def like treating sex like a hunting game, but i domt like.... just let myself be "wild" in bed or growl and shit like the test describes
I think a couple are a bit off but overall I'm not surprised. I thought exhibitionist would be higher.
>cis male, homo
Mostly a filthy homosexual, but I could go straight for traps
Only other kinks I can think to add are huge tits and forced fem
>Hey, I'm sure you could actually be in high demand in some circles, like a dominant MtF would be. If there were any in this thread. Which there aren't.
Ugh, I just have no idea to find a guy who's at least slightly attractive, smarter then me, and willing to ravage my front hole. Like there's probably one guy on the planet compatible with me and I'm never going to find him. Seems like most bi guys are subs with men.
Switchy bi guy, I'm basically only submissive to guys who are taller than me so unless you're over 6' we'd probably work pretty well. The problem, as always, is that I'm in New Zealand.
cis male, heterosexual
Just met a girl into DDlg and pet play whom I am attracted to. I've never really considered BDSM at all, but after looking into it a bit, I've realized there's more to it than ropes and chains type stuff. Could someone here give me any tips on maybe getting into this, specifically the DD side of DDlg?
homo leaning bi
I'm submissive toward women and dominant toward men.
>Tfw will never be the wicked son of a sultry woman
its really the only hetero relationship I could see myself in.
with a dude I don't mind switching, prefer more playful fraternal 'domming' though.
the whole primal thing sounds sexy and I've never heard of it... Never considered the fantasy of just going deep into some park, and one of you getting like a 30 second head start before the other started 'hunting'. being shoved into the dirt and ravaged like a wild animal sounds pretty hot tbh
100% of my experience is domming because irl i have a pretty dom personality. sometimes I wonder if I'm just so sub if domming is what it takes to please people I do it.
Did the test, not sure if it completely covers everything.
- Fetish wear ( corsetry, crazy heels )
- some forced fem
Just looking for that Mistress/Love of my life.
You'd be surprised. I'm the kind of Master who wants a fairly serious full-time slave, not some fetishist who just likes it in the bedroom. Additionally, I only take female slaves, I don't use men or mtfs as full-time slaves.
It's surprisingly difficult.
I have to admit I'm kind of surprised Vanilla isn't at the top, and even more surprised that Dominant is so up there
ehh i've never considered myself very kinky. there are a few things i'd like to try, but idk.
Well yeah, most females won't want to do it full time, more likely you'd have better luck with a mtf as they're all mentally ill and require validation.
Hell, you'd probably have better luck with a guy.
mtf presenting/living as male, 22 years old
right now my favorite fantasy is presenting as older person and being dominated, tortured and humiliated by childlike sub of preferably female or femalesque gender
>like working out
>shaved smooth up to the head
>7.5 inch dick
>Will never find a guy to play all my kinks with
It's not as good as it seems
>be straight dom
>find submissive guys intriguing
>want to experiment with domming guys, just some mild/tame stuff
>try finding submissive gay guy on any network
>they all go from 0 to 1,000,000 in 0.1 seconds and want to be dommed in hyperspecific ways
>try to find some on 4chan
>impenetrable culture of yaoi cuteposting
>try posting an ad
>receive 65,000 pictures of penises from people who can't type more than three words
I am just more attracted to submissive women. Dominating them just feels better.
Regardless of if mtfs would be easier (an arguable fact), I simply don't want them. As for guys, I can dominate guys easily enough, but I don't want them as slaves. I'm actually not entirely sure why I don't, but I have never wanted a male slave. I'd probably be interested in trying it though.
Mostly, I take guys as fucktoys, not full time slaves.
How do i be less hard of a sub?
I swear if someone grabs my hair and pulls my head i instantly melt internally and lose motor control
But people like subs who put up resistance. How do i do that?
I think part of it is definitely doing the opposite of what you normally do. Like, I'm usually quite a powerful, strong figure in day to day life, so going to the bedroom and not being in control for once is actually really nice.
Male, man, bi (strong on hetero end of spectrum).
That kinda proves my theory. That guy who crossdresses I was talking about seems fairly confident and "traditionally masculine" personality-wise, and I've seen him holding his own against some people just fine. I guess he just needs some of that escapism when dressing up. And I know he definitely doesn't want to transition.
Likewise, it might be the opposite with at least some doms, in that they're fairly meek people IRL but just like to take on that role in bed.
Sex is fascinating, isn't it.
Nice test OP
Male, Bi leaning towards gay.
basically all i need is someone smaller than myself, preferably skeletal.
Fuck filling out that survey. I'm a nonbinary (tiddies and vagoo variety) dom with a straight cis male pet. I'm on the hunt for a female pet and a male slave, preferably into impact play. I've got no qualms with someone being FtM or MtF or whatever, my gay ass can handle it.
My skype is anonmooselord and my kik is turniphead96 if anyone here is interested at all.
Basically I want a big tall bearded daddy dom who treats me like his precious little angel/princess/waifu that he likes to tie up and then violently deflower and unleash his beastly urges upon (biting, scratching, hair pulling, etc.) while wearing a black SS uniform, but who will also reward me every so often for being a good girl by switching roles and being a good doggy for me who I can walk around on a leash with and feed treats and rub his belly and tie him up and have my way with his manly body.
81% Bondage receiver
53% Bondage giver
51% Primal (Prey)
44% Degradation receiver
32% Primal (Hunter)
31% Degradation giver
24% Brat tamer
Meh, interesting little test, may as well post
Mtf and bi btw
mtf / androgynous
pan but prefer the spectrum of people with dicks
into bondage, pet play (collars, leashes, cage), group sex, spanking, biting, name calling, size difference (primarily dominant guys who are bigger than me). conversely, i like dominating other mtf or skinny feminine guys. don't really feel comfortable dominating cis girls or ftm.
never heard brat before. realize its spot on.
>get angry fucked
>tfw partner is undecided ftm on/off t few years ago bondage sub
I wonder why receiving permanent damage turns some people on. Seems really extreme to me.
>mostly lesbian, I dated a ftm so I guess I'm not fully lesbian
>whoa boy, too many to think of
Off the top of my head
Submission, some public stuff, some pain play, asphyxiation and breath play, age play (although I haven't met a mommy Dom who wasn't straight) possessiveness and light degradation.
This test was far too fucking long, and considering most of my favourite porns are so degenerate that they don't actually exist, I'm boring in this test.
My sadistic, violent urges are non-sexual.
Gay male. The less limits you have, the more I'll like you.
Dominant, submissive, master, slave (really depends on the guy/day), possible sadist, definitely into bondage.
Disclaimer: I've only had normal--if rough--sex so far.
Good lord this took forever.
Bisexual male with a thing for blonde, blue eyed femboys
>am i sick /lgbt/?
i used to have delusional fantasies about getting into a fight with some guy that resembles me, emotionally, mentally etc, and everything plays out raw and emotional like something youd see on late night tv, id be all like "what-- so i never meant anything to you?" and he would be like "you're being stupid. how could you even say that after ______". but the fantasy presupposes some long unelaborated relationship prior to that moment.
irl i can't stand emotional people and don't think i would really want a relationship like that. id hope id be his friend before i got to know him emotionally? (i have a lot of repressed emotions)
>Post gender, orientation and preferences and/or kinks.
Male, straight. Like being submissive to women sometimes, and fulltime dominant/active with MTF's. Because i do.
I'd like to have nice big guy to own as a pet. I'd leave for work in the mornings come back to a nice dinner, I'd reward them for their duty. Play with them a bit and tease him sexually until he can't take it and he fucks me till I can't walk. Then I'd pet him on the couch until we pass out.
i really wanna fuck and get fucked by another vers guy as we roll around in maple syrup, whipped cream and glazed cherries like two pancakes high on ecstasy being watched by all our mutual friends, with bewildered and mixed expressions
i want to fuck so badly