Redhead became pretty basic desu. I only like the ones who are naturally ginger, because nowadays every "lol so random xD" pseudo-nerdy chick is a redhead. Too bad people with natural red hair are so rare and usually ugly.
>>5162753 Did you join the cheerleading team just so you can see her in the shower? Did you ever pretend to not get the routine just so you had an excuse to meet her at the school after hours to practice privately with the team member you trust the most? Afterwards when you were changing in the locker room, alone with her, did you comment on how fit she looked while moving real close to her? Did you pin her down on the wet tile floor and confess your crush? When she was in shock and trying to figure out what to say or do did you go in for the kiss and place your hand on her tight teen stomach? Did you run your finger around her freckled belly button right before you..................hnnnnnnnnnng
This obviously isn't a lesbian exclusive issue but I'd like your guys' thoughts. I'll sound 12 years old, but I swear I am 18. I'm just a pretty late bloomer. Why haven't I orgasmed? I have once in my sleep (it had to happen when I got a roommate, hmph), it woke me up. Ever since then I've been masturbating a lot more. Before I never did because I honestly just wasn't interested. It makes me feel good, warm, relaxed and it helps me fall asleep, but I can't orgasm. Last night I felt I was so close, but it takes forever and I just can't keep going even when I want to. It might have been because the roommate was there, but I dunno, I didn't feel that anxious about it. How long does it take you guys?
>>5165033 You're gonna have to get a bit more graphic with us if you want info. Are you using a dildo or touching your clit? Do you touch your nips? Are you looking at porn? Are you thinking about your waifu?
I had trouble with my first orgasm too, I kept thinking I had but then I actually had one and it was really obvious what it was.
>>5165033 Legit the first time I orgasmed it was with a vibrating toothbrush on my clit, got the idea from some forum somewhere long long ago. And then from that I figured that I just had to have my finger really fast on my clit and I was good to go. I got better after watching a lot of porn of other girls just masturbating (which kinda led to me realizing the whole gayness).
But before that I must've tried like every night for months and nothing. It was mostly frustrating because whenever I'd feel close my hands would spaz/shake too much or cramp and I wasn't able to continue. Then I'd worry I was gonna actually pee instead of cum and so I'd run to the bathroom and that'd just ruin my mood. But I was a determined kid.
Basically try different shit, try say a finger in you and one on your clit, switch hands, get a vibe, use a shower head, poke your asshole, play with your tits first, imagine a qt girl playing with your ear, whatever. Practice makes perfect and when in doubt watch some other girls rub it out.
I kind of put my pillow pet between my legs and just start straddling/humping it while I'm laying on my side if that makes sense, it stimulates my clit well and its hands free so I can play with my nipples. Or I'll just rub my clit really hard and fast (through my panties) with my hands which feels good but not as good so I don't do that as often. I don't watch porn and I usually don't think about anything besides how it good it feels, but last night I was thinking about a waifu.
Thanks for the tips guys, I think I will try to watch other girls do it so that maybe I'll learn something, but none of you answered my question about how long it takes to orgasm after you start masturbating? Like, maybe I'm just lazy??
>>5165066 I'm in California. I really wish, but I'd be way too shy. ;_;
>>5165119 I said it took me months after trying. And other girls say that it took them a while to get the hang of it. There are straight married girls out there right now that have never orgasmed because they legit don't know they can masturbate and think sex is just for procreation.
Hell even talking with guys one dude told me for like a year he'd just scrub at his dick with a shower sponge every time it got hard and it just itched his dick to a kinda orgasm until he realized he could use his hand.
Masturbating takes a while to get right is my point.
I'd say def put your fingers on your clit directly, use some of that natural vagina lube you got in you. Like even looking at >>>/gif/7577439 you see most girls have a hand on their clit. That's why they call it "flicking the bean".
>>5165705 I'm literally talking about my straight married friend that's been married for half a decade and was like that. She said she'd never orgasmed and thinks it's just impossible for her or a lie over exaggerated by the media. I tried to explain masturbation but she said she wasn't gonna bother looking around her vagina for the clit or anything because she's not obsessed like me and other lesbians. She also has 3 babies and says her sex life is fine since her and her hub fuck at least once a couple times a month otherwise she just gives head or anal since fuck bc.
btw texas so wutchu gonna do
Man now that I think about it she really fucked up my idea of sex when we were in high school. Like I had all these gay thoughts and she always made sex with guys seem like something you didn't want/enjoy but something you did to get shit from guys. She also told me I wasn't a virgin cause I wore tampons but she was even though she gave head. Thank god I had a decent biology teacher and the internet.
>>5166004 Nah I feel like she's def attracted to guys (or at least she def isn't attracted to girls). She just liked to act like a hard ass bitch about it. Plus christianity.
I just think she doesn't know how to enjoy sex and doesn't wanna learn. So asex? Or low sex drive. Whatever.
But her shit did pour over to me for a bit in high school. Except I didn't fuck around and just used guys without the sex. Like I could make r9k cry with how bitchy I was. Until I was reformed by girl love.
Funny how being a lesbian made me empathize with and be nicer to guys than trying to be straight.
>>5166073 >you have to do this thing you hate that does nothing for you forever vs. >you actually don't have to do this at all and can date people you are actually attracted to kinda makes sense desu senpai
>go to gym >qt weightlifter there >try to talk to her >sperg out and lose my nerve >she asks me if I'm using a set of hand weights >say no and spill spaghetti >realize I'm actually using them >shit the fuck do I do now? >spaghetti intensifies >start doing a fuck ton of curls because I panicked and couldn't think of anything else >get the weights and finish what I was going to do >go to do cable crossovers >she's doing them >panic and start doing curls again until the machine is free >lather, rinse repeat
I should just give up, get a body pillow and make my transition to social recluse complete.
>>5166741 Mine is a fuckboy like our older brothers. He literally just hurt himself today after falling down a ditch trying to flirt with some ms girl.
I really do find some truth in that gay gene theory that gay dudes come from families of women that like a lot of dick and gay girls come from families of guys that like a lot of pussy and shit just gets crossed but the gay gene carries on recessive in our whore siblings.. Cause goddamn all my brothers, my dad, and all my uncles are just man whores.
>>5166473 Mine is really cool but she's 15 years older. Still the best since she was the most accepting and has great fashion sense. Plus I'm told I look like her and have most of her features, def her hair and skin. So by observing how she ages I can figure if I'll age badly or not and so far I'll probably do pretty good.
>>5166335 lmao when I thought I was into men I was just like "yeah I guess I don't like sex much" and I almost never fapped and nothing got me going and then I realized I was fucking gay as shit and now I'm masturbating so frequently that my fucking bicep is sore and gets schlicking knots in it.
Fucking multi-hour-long fap sessions. I need to get laid, like, immediately.
I'm going on a date with qt this weekend and I want to give her a mind-blowing kiss which she will never forget. Sadly, I have only kissed like four times in my whole life and I have no idea if I am good at it or not.
>>5168275 We're going to see a band play in a local pub. Also, it is important for me to mention that she is not into beer, so I think we shall have some wine. Fact is that she gets dizzy from it very fast, she is conscious but dizzy after a glass.
>>5168311 Go somewhere secluded after she gets a little buzz. Make certain you make plenty of physical contact beforehand. Don't just go for broke and try sticking your tongue in her mouth at first. Make her want it. Give her a very soft kiss first to see what she does.
>>5168350 i was in that situation. i hung out with a girl i fancied a lot and she got pretty drunk while i was sober. i couldn't hold it in much longer cause i really wanted to kiss her so i just asked. she said yes and when we talked about it some time later she said that nobody has ever asked her if they can kiss her and it was really surprising and nice.
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