>tfw straight/bi-curious virgin
>but only capable of loving guys
>pure top (dont want to suck dick either)
>not interested in random hookup for just casual sex
I just want a boyfriend who is okay with me being all of the above. Is there hope for me?
not a deal breaker, especially for a long term relationship. part of a healthy relationship is learning to please one another. that doesn't always mean just having a huge cock. as long as you don't get jealous that I use bigger toys on myself on occasion when I masturbate/ we use toys in the bedroom, I have no problem with a smaller dick. just find somebody petite. small dick feels like average dick, average dick is like big dick, big dick actually fucking hurts.
Hmm, that's tough then. I'm not sure I'd personally be comfortable with the idea of someone putting rules on my masturbation, but I'm also not comfortable alienating my partner.
That being said I'm certain there are plenty of people that would still be fine with the relationship, so long as you made sure their sexual needs were sated. More effort, but everything comes at a cost. I do understand though, I would feel jealous if my partner constantly used some tighter fleshlight. I'd probably get over it so long as they assured me the real thing was better and we had an active sex life. But I think your feelings are completely valid.
Do you mind me asking how large you are? Would you be comfortable with your partner using dildos/vibrators the same size as you?
>with a guy and I think his cock is huge
>turns out he's just above average
not always a good thing though
>top thinks he's prying into me without tons of lube and prep work
sounds humblebraggy, but anyone can be tight so remember to do your kegels every day all the time.
Regular size condoms slide off of me. I'm very thin.
The problem if u use dildos is that you will be too loose for me to cum in or enjoy. I know from experience. I haven't found a "bottom " that feels tight or is fun to fuck.
I had a fwb before who was 5' tall weighed 90 lbs. He was a total bottom did anything I wanted and he wasn't a slut. Only had sex with 2 other people. He wasn't tight at all.
Hmmm that's tough. Unless you're using monster dildos they shouldn't make you 'loose'. The same looseness you're perceiving would probably happen even if it were just you fucking the same person on the regular.
At the end of the day you just have to work with what you got. I know it's hard. Your partner should do kegels a lot, and you unfortunately will just have to acclimate to however tight they are. Them not being able to use dildos is kind of like you not being able to jerk off, because your hand is tighter than they are. Which is an option, if you want to sensitize yourself.
Both you and your partner should get good with your hands and mouths, and explore any kinks you both share. Part of it is mental too, you have to overcome that and be comfortable with yourself and what you can give your partner.
last resort I see for you- Fuck your partner, use your hands and mouth to get them off (Not just on their genitals, really engage their entire body), then if you can't get off fucking them rip off the condom and have them finish you with hands/mouth.
>The same looseness you're perceiving would probably happen even if it were just you fucking the same person on the regular.
That's also an issue for me. I got a skinny 16yo boy whos virginity I took. He comes over to my house every Saturday to get fucked. He never puts anything in his ass but he doesn't feel tight to me. Last week I went for over a hour and I had to pull out and finish myself up. I don't use condoms ever anymore. I cant bring myself to buy the small size. How am I supposed to use my mouth if I don't like giving head? I'll rim but u can only do so much with that.
Sex sucks when ur smaller. I go out trying to hurt people when I fuck them and they usually just lay there like it's some joke. I can pretty much get whoever I want because im Goodlooking but sex just dissapointing me. I get a whole bunch of straight guys who want to experiment with me when they find out im bi.
Id rather be ugly and hung tho. The reaction I get from alot of people when I take off my pants kills me
Don't know about anyone else but good looking Masculine toned body small dick are a great combination, I am a bottom and like tops with small dicks, and they are not easy to find as many guys with small dicks assume that they have to be bottoms due to circumstance. SOOO not true
>doesn't want to suck dick
So you're selfish? Or maybe just boring.
I'm only really interested in bottoming so someone who only wants to top is very appealing to me, but really? being a top isn't an excuse to not reciprocate on all of the other sexual shit guys do together.
I hate people who define themselves as tops, and bottoms. So spooky.
Need to do more cardio. Gotten lazy about my abs
but i would literally never stick my dick in a man's ass, or a woman
i don't even use it. i never even touch it except when i shave it.
but i guess it'd be silly to call me a bottom right? lol
HELL YES, don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with a good looking guy, but damn give me a great personality first and you win every time. There are many superficial people in the world but there are plenty of people that are not, don't loose hope. Have a little more confidence in yourself, that is also very appealing.
I feel you OP. Not straight (pretty much just into dudes), and I could see myself giving oral if I was like holding a guy down and doing it aggressively, but being pure top and not into hookups seems to set me back. Most guys seem to be vers, or want vers, in some ways. I just want my 100% bottom bf to dominate and cuddle with.
Bicurious since 14
Top but love sucking dick
Meet qt twink
Living the loving relationship dream
It's possible anon, but >>5169635
Is also right, you're probably only gonna get what you seek by being 7/10 or above.
After all, if you're some fat/average/dumpy motherfucker why do you deserve someone who indulges you sexually how you desire?
What you want is fantasy bromance, not gay relationship.
Sex isnt. I've tried everything. Men women. Trans. Every position. I used to bottom before. Sex just dissapointing me or makes me feel like shit. Even when someone is completely in love with me. I just want to cause a little pain w my dick lol.
>used to be fat fuck weighing 116 kg
>fall in love with qt twink, lose a fuckton of fat and gain muscle mass
>that twinks turns out to be straight
No problem though, it can't be that bad i though, there must be other twinks around
>tfw every twink you approach is straight or already has a pleb tier boyfriend
WHY HAVE PLEBS REACHED ALL THE CUTE TWINKS FIRST