Girly accessories edition
▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶Makeup Tutorial: http://imgur.com/a/JO33K/
▶MTF Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/36HC6ZmT (embed)
▶Trans Info Dump: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d9KKqP9IHa5ZxU84a_Jf0vIoAh7e8nj_lCW27KbYBh0/edit?usp=sharing
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
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▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶jormy was born with a vagina
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge (embed)
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.org/web/00000000000000/http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶one anon is wonderful
▶Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶Minecraft Server: minecraft.is-so.moe
Lets do our best girls!~
b-but who here wants to be qt transbian couple :DDDDD
first for good riddance to edgar/olrapeyface
first cheska, then maki, now that autist
let's see if we can't get rid of asshole booger next
we might actually be able to turn this general around
I came out to my parents and sister today
Mom has been 100% cool and accepting, even if she doesn't really know much about being trans
Sister hasn't really shown any reaction and hasn't really women to me since
Dad is in full denial mode, claiming I have never done anything feminine ever, and that I need saving by Jesus.
here's hoping then.
the worst part is I was so happy and optimistic about my transition until today and now I just feel like shit and one of my religious friends wants to talk to me about stuff and if he says "God doesn't make mistakes" even one time I'm unfriending and blocking him
Don't let people get you down vivi, what helps to remember is that you're going through the hardest portion of transition right now, the early part. A bit of optimism is great but it's still going to he hard. What does your religious friend want to talk to you about?
only teh smartest
I guess it helps to know this is the hardest part but yea it's the hardest part. I'm usually pretty optimistic and I have some great friends but a lot has happened today and now I just feel like a failure.
He wants to talk about Planned Parenthood and that there's probably some good reasons to be against them and not to be so close-minded
which is completely and utterly ironic. He's kind of the type of guy who will get into an argument with anyone about anything.
thank you for the hug <3
and first he doesn't know I'm transitioning, cause I know he'd give me tons of shit for it.
Second I'm very passive and will just let people say stuff and do whatever and don't really put up any walls. I mean, I did a little last night (cause he wanted to talk at like 230 AM) but mostly I usually don't and just let people say shit and go along with it to make them happy. I know it's not healthy and something I need to work on but it's just how I've always been I guess
This guy at work has been hooking me up with some free foods so I was like I'm gonna hook this guy up with some food too. So I got him Chipotle with chips, soda, and guacamole. Then I gave it to him when he was off guard and he was so happy and suprised and was like "this day is amazing!" :DDD
You're not a failure even if you may feel that way, there are going to be good days and bad days. Also, your friend sounds like they're being an ass tbqh. Please don't let them get you down or push you around, it's not worth being made to feel like shit over their own hangups.
thanks. I guess I just let the hard days hit a little too hard.
And yea tbhon I might just remove him anyway cause he hasn't been helpful at all and I figured when I go fulltime since I'm gonna make a new Facebook that he wouldn't re-add me anyways so I was prepared to not talk to him again anyway
i hate posting my face :<
ohh Well... idk If I were in that situation I'd probably slowly lose contact with them and make room for people that are more supportive and try to develop a relationship where "I respect you and they respect me." Like they won't start blabbing off everytime they see me saying "It's wrong that you are trans and (insert bible verse)."
I use to be pretty passive myself, I just got annoyed one day and was like "not worth it".
I hope you feel better and everything gets sorted out soon :/
How does one go about changing their name and gender legally in the US? How do you change the name on degrees and HS diplomas?
This is one thing no one ever talks about here.
yea that's what I might plan to do. idk it's weird cause I was super Christian in high school and went to church all the time but once I stopped and started losing faith in God all my friends who were Christian stopped talking to me except him. And it's the same with my Uncle, who is VERY Christian and doesn't talk to my family because we "don't celebrate Christmas the correct Christian way." And like, I don't want to sound like neckbeard fedora man but it really makes Christianity leave a bad taste in my mouth, especially when I have Jewish and Muslim friends who are very ok and supportive with me transitioning.
And yea I know that's something I need to work on :/ Thank you very much anon for caring <3
town hall? I have a friend who recently went through with that and I think he did it at town hall
o-oh...hopefully I'll look like that after electrolysis
Honestly, sometimes people like that just need to go, you only have a limited time on this planet, and theres no sense wasting it on people that aren't kind and supportive friends. You'll probably be better off for it if you lose contact with them and surround yourself with good people.
>i used to have a huge beard i'd rub on baby's heads to make them cry
After seeing a famous video game speedrunner go trans, its been making me think.
I've always thought of being a girl ever since I played and "roleplayed" one in Runescape back in like 04 (I'm 23 as of right now), but I thought it was more of a fetish thing. I've crossdressed before in public before and got some positive reception about it. I also felt really happy in girls clothes too and people do say I act like a girl on MMO's, (in which I usually always play a female character).
I'm so confused. I read this and each line gave me chills (http://pastebin.com/MLKYbtAD). I don't know if I actually am trans or I just want attention. How did you girls figure this out?
First link in the OP for an (incomplete) list of places.
Informed consent is a gatekeeper free model for treating trans people. You won't have to go through months of psychiatrist visits before getting hormones and bloodwork.
>2. Alternatively, if I had a magic button that you could press that would make you wake up tomorrow still as a boy, but without any of the gender issues you've been having, not questioning your gender, and able to live happily as a boy with zero dysphoria, would you press it?
>tfw i wouldn't press the button
>How did you girls figure this out?
realised i would rather kill myself than live my life out as a man
wait wait who was the speedrunner?
also i think it is likely you are trans
personally i think one of the best ways to think about it is to forget all about definitions, and whether you're "really" trans or not and just ask yourself "if I transition am I likely to be happier than if I don't?"
It varies from state to state.
Lambda Legal has some starting info.
For Iowa, UIHC LGBTQ clinic has the info on their site. Well, I thought so, here is the PDF:
For California, there is a good PDF file about that describes the whole process.
>tfw letting facial hair grow out so I can pull it out
>really want to shave it
>but then ill be stuck with stubble
>but I have to deal with having it until its long enough to grip with tweezers
no haha don't worry. I actually after you said that just went and deleted like 60 people including them from Facebook cause I realized I didn't need that right now. If they care enough they'll add me again
also in my fit of depression I decided to look for epilators to buy
should I get this one? http://www.amazon.com/Philips-HP6401-Satinelle-Epilator-White/dp/B00742JW8S/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1446587051&sr=1-1&keywords=epilator and is that too expensive for an epilator?
Damn he's butt ugly.
Why is it always "gamers"? The term has become synonymous with loser.
>if I transition, would I be happier?
I've been depressed for awhile now and usually gender identity has been at the bottom of my other reasons to be depressed. Things like social anxiety, shyness, stuff like that. I always felt like being a girl would mean those types of things would be more acceptable?
Then again, I'm still not sure if I'm just doing it for the attention or not...I haven't crossdressed in awhile because I'm a bit overweight. If I was really trans, would it matter what weight I am?
I have it, it works nicely. I'm not sure what to say about it though, it really hurts and I couldn't get myself to keep going with it.
>I always felt like being a girl would mean those types of things would be more acceptable?
Don't transition because you think problems that aren't exclusive to men would be easier as women
The Holy Garments of Femininity can not be donned unless you are in peak physical condition, both body and soul.
>I'm still not sure if I'm just doing it for the attention or not
if you were doing it for attention you'd know
that said, being a girl does not at all make those things more acceptable or easier to deal with, and transitioning cause you think it will help with those is a bad idea
transition if it'll help dysphoria and gender identity stuff, not in the hopes it'll fix your other issues
The girl, my friend, got fired and they won't tell me why. Idk how to contact her. She got me this job. She put in a good word for me and vouched for me and reminded me when positions were open and how to apply. We worked together before at the café before the library. Im pretty upset about it.
>cosmo is trans
instantly obvious when she was in that Mario Maker event
good for her, although that name is terrible
When I have to wait for it to grow back I stay at home lol. I'm not going out of there with 5 o' clock just like I don't use female restrooms.
Are you a good candidate for laser? If not, you'll need electro and you're fucking up some shit by plucking. Go to any electro and they'll tell you the same, also you are just making it worse by stimulating the follicle by plucking.
Do you want thicker hair? Just shave, deal with stubble with concealer/foundation.
Oh I am sorry to hear that. Are you sure it wasn't the usual corporate fuckery? Aren't all of you outsourced (based on those notepads you post)?
Can you get her contact info from some kind soul over at that pit of vipers HR dept.?
And are you worried that your pretty, little head might be next?
>Then again, I'm still not sure if I'm just doing it for the attention or not
lol that's literally what I thought when I was still questioning but honestly if you've felt this way for years do you really think you're just doing it for attention?
Also it doesn't necessarily matter what weight you are, but it does help to be a lower weight because of the way fat is distributed depending on gender, so most of your fat is in "male" areas, and will make you look more male
for the prospect of looking pretty and womanly I'll deal with the pain. I've been plucking up until now but it's just getting too tedious
Alright, I think I'm starting to realize things. Maybe I'm not trans and it was just a phase? I haven't put on make up or actively tried to crossdress in about 2 years. Sometimes I do imagine what my life would've been like if I was a cute girl but it does center around having the attention...
Also this is the second time this has happened. Im losing all of my allies. Idk why it's policy that we can't talk about why people just disappear.
Those were the only two people who I know were okay with me being trans. Everyone else I have no idea. I guess my two supervisors since they hired me and probably know my legal name.
Outsourced? Idk what you mean. Well supervisor assured me I was doing well. Since I couldn't ask about her (which I did) I just asked if I was doing anything wrong I didn't realize and I asked him to please correct me because I'm still relatively new here and don't realize it if I'm doing something wrong. I didn't think she did anything wrong so yes I'm worried. He tried to console me and just said he would tell me, and that he was glad to see was more confident at work which was my only issue in the beginning. I feel like the first only thing I bring to the table is a good attitude. He said that's not something you can train, but everything else I can learn so he's glad I was hired.
Part of me doesn't believe him
>You have no idea how much of a problem stuttering is.
I stutter IRL, to the point I didn't talk a lot till I was 18 and I don't get butthurt about it online though
Take a grill pill and chill.
I don't want to jinx it but I might have destroyed some hair follicles on my upper lip by plucking.
Adri was right.
it's really interesting learning about stutters.
We watched this TED Talk in one of my classes and it's amazing, cause she stutters really badly but doesn't stutter at all when she sings. Curious
Closet MTF TG here.
I have a fairly feminine figure from certain angles, but from other angles no so much. Cycling and hiking hill country have given me monster quadriceps, that stand out like throbbing Arnie Schwartzeneger thighs.
What the hell can I do for this apart from dressing to cover them up? I don't want to try to drop my activity level and diet, to waste away much muscle mass, which probably wouldn't work very well anyway.
I wish I was on HRT so they would calm down, but that's not an option. :/
I was under the impression you workplace was handled by some outsourcing company.
And this might be different where you are but they will never tell you that you are about to be let go (for whatever reason). I wouldn't put too much stock in what your supervisor says, him being just a cog. It's a lot easier to supervise someone who isn't planning to take home his or hers weight in office supplies.
Also I had no idea there's so much employee churn at public libraries.
You might get the full story from a friend of a friend.
Muscles, being so metabolically expensive, are the first to go when not exercised. So either ease up on cycling/hiking, cut calories or take up weight lifting so your upper body catches up with you nutcracker thighs.
they switched the g and d around to become 'egdar' as if that actually helped at all
i wish y'all didn't bully poor 'egdar' away but the name thing was ridiculous and i was getting really frustrated about that
Its honestly for their own good though. The way eggie behaved suggests that they have something else wrong with them, and not GD. I don't like to see people potentially ruin their lives, eggie needs a shrink before going any further than this.
Idk, I've tried to be gentle and eggie didn't respond, so anons bullying them just sort of had to happen
>holy shit your parents named you edgar ?
That's what they said too lol
yeah, I'm Mexican, it's not uncommon to them. it just brings back bad memories especially being teased for having a big forehead, they called me "head"gar
That was my only problem, just the stupid name, I didn't really care much after that, even filtering still leaves the stub...
Meh, they had no real connection to the name yet refused to actually change it instead of modifying it.
If they do come back as Noelle, I hope they're ready to ignore some shitposters but have some self-awareness which includes not having a dumb guy name.
He came here hoping for some understanding regarding his social ineptitude and general stupidity and instead got himself under attack by people dropping their trips just so they can take a swing at him as anon.
but i don't think the bullying made them stop hormones and go to a shrink
so i don't know if that was the right thing
yeah, that's pretty shitty
i have to say i don't really hate my name that much in the short version since it's gender neutral
i wouldn't want the female version to be my girlname though
Thank you for doing the dirty deed, I couldn't bring myself to do it desu
You men with tits hate yourselves so much you literally always need a boogeyman to shit on. It's just a couple small cliques who bully the fuck out of anyone who shows up.
Seriously, you're all fucking disappointments to your families. You're just playing dressup for another year or two before you realize there's no way out and you finally kill yourself.
Maybe I'm being hopelessly optimistic they would. Idk if it's the right thing, but having them continue to post here isn't going to help either. I've tried to reach them and say to find a shrink.
Hey has anyone bought anything from J list? Are they a legit site?
I want my own pair of cute chopsticks, some candy, and a little figurine of this girl, she is my power animal
Most who have been on estro for literally 4 days are hons. He certainly wasnt genetically gifted in any way but picking on him was like playing 1v1 basketball with a 5 year old, dunking and yelling "IN YOUR FACE FAGGOT". Could just filter and move on to be h.
I just have a hard time finding stuff I wanted to see. Like there was one show where a guy had to hide from a debt collector as a highschool girl and eventually transitions. Which one is that? She is bullied too btw.
Does anyone else hear the electronic security gates they have at like retail stores or the library to make sure no one steals?
Not like, have you heard the alarm, but do you hear the sound they make all the time?
You should lift heavy and get gains.
No reason to avoid building on your solid foundation.
This place is a shithole of NEET hons whose entire life's ambition revolves around looking good enough in a wig to shove things up their asshole for closeted faggots on the internet.
>tfw you were getting close to getting your letter from an online doctor
>have to push back an appointment
>something else comes back and you have to push it back again
>she stops responding for months
th-thanks, y-you too
i wish you were better than the same
dude it started snowing today. i took my dog nina out and she tried eating the snow. she was really excited. snow was not meant for her. she got super cold and had to go in pretty soon. i'm gonna take her out for another trip in a few. i'm glad she likes it. she likes fetching snowballs.
I wasnt making any reference to Edgars mental problems with that analogy actually. I was referencing how needless it is to bully someone who already feels like absolute shit when you could just filter and move on. Might wanna calm down there. Maybe its time to schedule an orchi steve austin.
i'm in a similar boat to you. cycling and stuff like that isn't that big a deal though, muscle comes from lifting heavy things. go vegan/vegetarian for awhile to get rid of protein in your diet if you want to be really serious. calorie deficit, cardio
What the fuck is wrong with you people? Edgar was pretty annoying and whined a lot but so did 95% of you when you were just starting out and in shitty situations, just look at how Kayla used to be until recently. She obviously has other issues but if she believes transitioning will make her happier, and has felt this way for most of her life, then what's the problem? It's not like she was rushing into it pretending it could fix all of her problems, like that questioning anon in the last thread. Sure, the thing with her trip was frustrating, but a lot of people here seemed to be pushing her to move faster than necessary making real-life changes. You don't have to go fulltime, come out and get your documents changed 4 weeks into hormones. At worst you could have at least just filtered her and carried on as usual.
Gosh, I must never let myself forget why this website has the reputation it does.
Very different training from road cycling though.
>want to make an appointment with shrink to start official transition
>i have strong social anxiety and hate calling people
>he only takes calls from 11.30 to 12 am
>don't have the courage to call
>wait a week until i have late shift again
>still don't have the courage
>procrastinate till wednesday
>actually have the courage to call
>it says someone else is in the line
>wait 10 minutes
>let's try it tommorrow
>try it 3 times the next day, noone answers
>4th time i hear a voice
>we're on vacation till next week, please call then
now i have to call him next week
Chill the fuck out, you realise the person you're defending actually has admitted to having ASD and several other things wrong with them that could very easily be mistaken for GD right? They don't need encouragement, they need therapy.
it is the fucking worst, i wish everywhere would let you just manage everything online
though i am getting over it a lot more due to having to make tons of calls recently. being gendered a gril definitely helps too even though the details they have say 'mr'
>are you speaking on behalf of mr anon
>n-no this is anon
>just look at how Kayla used to be until recently
Let's be honest, she still goes off on anyone who vaguely tries to help.
As for Noelle, there was a lot more going on than just the trip. The fetishy wardrobe wasn't helping, the bullshit with shaving.
The constant insistence that they're somehow this barrel chested monstrosity rather than some borderline scrawny skinnyfat kid. Reposting the same shitty, untrained vocaroo, the same shitty, obviously posed pics deliberately made to look the worst, the older trip.
Noelle has been very dedicated to this bullshit for the past six months. So here's the secret: even femboys make some effort.
The only thing that needs therapy is your dad-butt hon
I needlessly delayed the first appointment with my vocal therapist for 4 months because I had to book it by phone...such shame.
im stuffed, I wouldn't mind some cookies though but sadly I don't have any. Also that meal was only 900 calories so that was the only calories I had today. I am going for a run now so see ya later grills.
About to come out to my best friend @_@ only the second person ever for me to tell
>tfw butterflies in stomach
ur disrupting my thread
i came out two people until now and i was always so fucking drunk i can be happy to even remember i came out to them
i actually don't know much about the talk i had with a friend after i came out to her
body building is what you shouldn't be doing
I don't dislike you, you've just been annoying lately. Your posts are so inconsistent and feel like you're being too defensive.
Even playful banter gets to you butt fuck it, I guess I won't even play with you anymore.
Did someone say /dinner/?
>grill up two fresh cut porter house steaks on the grill
>seasoned and grilled to medium rare aka perfection
>also make two baked potatoes on the grill wrapped in foil with all the toppings (butter, sour cream, bacon bits, and cheddar cheese)
>small side of steamed broccoli
I'm so stuffed right now but I'm eating some after dinner chocolates.
Does anime have better portrayal of trannies than western media?
>small side of steamed broccoli
>main course isn't the broccoli
reminder that western media doesn't have cute traps
n-no (he's hella uggs and nearly obese desu)
>I love broccoli
To be honest I eat one then gave the rest to my dog.
>mfw trying to eat broccoli
if you live in the north like me you might be able to see the northern lights tonight
>its called dyke love u fucking REtard
This is the only funny thing I have ever seen you post.
So this qt FtM I'm interested in just told me today that they're actually non-binary and prefer they/them pronouns. I'm not really sure what to think because they present entirely masculine and have been on T for a while, so I don't think they are a tumblr-tier transtrender or anything.
According to my mom, who is a cosmetologist, you lose, like, 100 hairs a day normally (I think is what she had said way back when), so once it's long you start noticing just how much you are losing on a day-to-day basis.
Shit, I don't know, google it.
Hello I went to the mtfgen minecraft server today
Nobody there was trans and they were actually extremely rude to me about my transition and my life. Actions need to be taken against those people
Honestly, I'm actually totally fine with that part of my body being the way it is.
>request trans propaganda
>library actually orders it
THE ABSOLUTE MADMAN
Again, I'm OK with my butt, and with my hobbies. You should find something that I'm actually self conscious about desu.
>tfw gonna go to the cinema on my own for the first time ever to see The Danish Girl
Where did it all go wrong?
yesss yessssss we will make all of the children into degenerates ehehehe
Soo I just came out to all my friends <_<; it went extremely well and they're all supportive. This is the weirdest flippin feel ever. I'm still full boy mode and yet they are so nice to me. oh well happy day!
Why do I smell like tuna down there? Is my gt eaten up by cooties?
its because your tinkler is smaller and urine and smega stuff gets trapped in there easier and because your urine smells different and your girljuice is different texture and smell it all makes for a different aroma wafting from your genitals that smells more girlish even though its not
I ask them if they sincerely think there's magical wards stopping men from entering the women's restrooms that somehow letting trans women in will mess up.
And why a man who would just have to push a door would go to the ridiculous bother of crossdressing while very likely not passing in public to act like a creep when he can already do that perfectly fine in his normal clothes.
Here's the thing. In the high school I went to, there's this whole debate over this transgirl (albeit non-passing, but oh well) and whether they feel safe with her there. That's the reason why those posters have been posted outside the washrooms.
idk, at least she's not like another bruce jenner but I can't say that I'll like the increase of shit we're going to get from gamer autists because of this.
It must be hard transitioning when you have such a large online following. If I were in her position I'd have abandoned my online persona completely but I guess that's her job.
>anons keep picking on elanna
>elanna posts smooth panty shot again
>implying all of us want to get rid of peen
>I need to get a vajayjay quick otherwise i'm not a woman!!
If you want a bagina, you're AGP
If you don't want a bagina, you're AGP
If you just want to slice off your gt, you're AGP
If you're into men, you're AGP
If you're into women, you're AGP
If you're asexual, you're AGP
If you post here, you're AGP