I just want to find a decent guy who actually has some morals and isn't a whore or a drug addict to homestead and abandon the world with.
But you're all shit, so I'll do it myself.
Where would you go if you could? My ex boyfriend and I used to talk about this...building a house somewhere remote, growing our own food, maybe raising some puppies. It was a cool dream.
>you will never live in a big old house in the country somewhere where it's always raining
>you will never paint a big old sunny room in overalls with your bf while the portable radio plays crackly old opera recordings
>you will never have a big garden with a veggie patch and ducks that you and your bf rescued from foie gras farms
>you will never cuddle on the couch in front of a fireplace and talk about your childhood while there's a storm outside and there's nobody else around for miles
why even live
So romantic gays exist.
There should be a romance general or smth.
Where we can talk about this in greater detail.
I don't really want all that sex stuff central either. I want to share experiences, have an s/o and have it be true to the name.
>tfw no musician bf to sing songs by a campfire with.
Right, forgot it's unmanly to be romantic.
>tfw I want to live in the epoch of decadence to fuck all the qt artists of that time.
errr what would I be...?
>Have immense morals due to family upbringing
>Haven't done anything besides weed (which I did a few times in HS)
>Virgin by choice (saving it for a serious relationship)
Only thing I don't like is being a pure bottom while everyone at college here is Vers, as well as my friends telling me to just give it up already.
I will agree with you tho that the vast majority of gays do not seem to have morals. Everyone here at Uni doesn't care for anything serious and fucks around, which is partly why I wanna give it to someone serious.
Not necessarily looking, but prefer someone not really into hookups.
And I prefer that. I'm top only, and that doesn't seem to work for a lot of vers guys. So pure bottom is what I need.
>tfw no qt /k/ bf to get drunk in the woods with and be spotter for
>So pure bottom is what I need.
>looking for a bottom virgin
you're better off getting a loyal gf, kek. A loyal bottom only fag does not exist. Too many big ass dicks to stimulate boi pussy. A fag can't resist.
>I disagree since I'm pure bottom and feel happier being really loyal and monogamous to one person.
that's what the last bottom boi I hooked up with told me about him and his bf. I changed his mind when I stimulated dat prostate.
It caused issues for the first guy I dated. I took a really shitty attempt at letting him take charge once or twice, though never bottomed (just not my thing), but it didn't work. My natural aggressiveness put him off.
After that, I mostly picked guts who were submissive somehow or responded to my being aggressive. Seems a lot of guys prefer submissive. But it only seems long term sustainable with a pure bottom and unfortunately so many are just unstable, into hookups, or super entitled. Hard to find a down to earth guy who is pure bottom.
oh man lmao I'm super down to earth and monogamous. Unfortunately I can't find a chill pure top at Uni to have something special with. I've resorted to looking on okc and match but a lot of them are just interested in hooking up on first date, and then it gets awkward when that gets shut down and they're too apathetic or shy to continue the interactions after that.
That's pretty much been my exact experience with okc, shit drops off after I don't wanna hook up, or they're just super self entitled as bottoms. Or they're vers and not up for it either way.
haha, well that's socal for you. norcal is best cal.
Nahhh uh, I have a bunch of friends from down south, they're great.
Yeah? Do you find it romantic? ;)
I lived in the mountains briefly as a kid and it became kind of a hassle, but it seems nice at first.
But I love the weather here in general because it's so moderate.
I find walking in the snow holding hands super romantic hahaha. I think Minnesota has the best weather tbqh, We actually have all the seasons super defined. A brisk spring that has blooming, A mild-warm summer that isnt scorching but is super sunny, An actual autumn, and a chilling snowy winter. Yo we should prob continue this in email format tho since we're the only two in the thread. Throwawaydududu@gmail.com is my non personal gmail :p
Thing is, I always thought I was that kind of guy you know?
I had morals, I had dreams and determination, I had passion for some things I loved my friends.
And then all this slowly disappeared, I don't know if that's because I grew tired of my life or just frustrated with being gay, but... everything sorta gone.
Started doing some drugs after, hookups I feel like shit everytimes and I don't know how.
maybe gays can't be really happy.
They're out there anon. Just avoid the big city scenes.
>>tfw got mine in college from small town
I hear you OP. I'm trying to survive my schooling, get a good job after that, and start saving for some land in the woods.
The dream is a house with a moat and a fence and a sign that says 'if you can read this, you're in range'. And a pack of vicious dachshunds.
Yeah same pretty much. Not full-on homesteading but enough to have a garden to live off of, a dog or two, a bunch of books, sketchpads, stuff like that.
I've got a million weird fetishes though so that complicates things. Woohoo, degeneracy