How do trans people cope with knowing they'll never date/be loved again?
I live in a place too small to have chasers, and even though I don't pass for shit, my sex drive is so low I'm only attracted to like 5% of people and even if I settled to someone who'll continuously misgender me, I wouldn't find one I could find attractive.
Stopy whining. I'm not even fulltime and found a bf who isn't even a chaser. Alnost no sex until srs but if that's what you want you might aswell go whore yourself out. And Ilive in a small town too, all I had to do is go to other places. I have to travel for 2 hours, but that's nothing if you ask me.
I'm from a small town and gay, too. Finding a bf that I could actually like as a person who doesn't continuously misgender me won't be an option, even if I found one who'd put up with zero sex.
>How do trans people cope with knowing they'll never date/be loved again?
Well, personally, I went out and had a lot of dates and fucks and then eventually settled on one hell of a good date and fuck. But you know, you can be a whiny bitch if that's what you're into.
You went on 160k dates?
I don't know where I'll be getting into school, if I will.
I've found one guy on a dating site from my town who's interested in me but he's like 6-7 years older than me and I'm honestly not attracted to him at all.
What do you want me to do?
I live on a pension. Do you want me to blow my rent money on chasing after men that I don't want, who also don't want me?
I just need to figure out a way to make the urge go away. Be content with dying alone.
I ended up convincing myself that I'm human garbage to the point that nothing hurts anymore
weight up firstly
>site filled with so many awkward betas
I'm sure plenty of posters here were just as alone before transition, it's all a matter of presentation no one is going to go out of their way for you unless you're an 11/10 or rich as fuck, trans or not
You think I don't do anything about it, just sitting on my ass and waiting for someone to ask me out?
I've asked our literally every single guy I've found attractive since I was 14. 66% have been taken. The last one just wasn't interested.
Well, it's also thursday. I have gone through four days of this week, 100% of the days so far. It is physically impossible for me to live more days in a week than there has been, and it's physically impossible for me to pursue more guys than I encounter.
>there have only been three open places for jobs I am capable of doing
>you should apply for jobs you are incapable for
You can't solve a famine by eating rocks. I can have guys I don't like. I want either one I would actually tolerate, or a way to make do without.
Is wanting to date someone I would find in any imaginable way appealing too much to ask?
I can't imagine most guys enjoying dating someone who'll make a sport out od avoiding sex by any means necessary.
>how do I be ok with dying alone
>I can't date ppl
>omg die alone
10/10 we've made it back in square one and my original question will remain unanswered because all y'all attention spans were splurged on derailing the conversation