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>does it count if I think they're good looking but I'm not attracted to them?
I would say probably not. "Probably" here because sexuality can be fluid for some people and may change for various reasons.
>they're good looking but I'm not attracted to them
I would tend to view this as "Pleasing Aesthetics vs Sexual Attraction." Acknowledging someone has an attractive look about them is not the same as saying that one wants to have sex with them. I have read somewhere (have no idea of source) that boiled down sexual attraction to the equation of
sexual attraction = aesthetically pleasing + arousal
It's an interesting way to look at it but I'm not sure if I totally buy into it.
Any single fembois here or cute shorter men? Don't need to be femmy
I'm not super good at describing sex-related things--nor do I think I'd be comfortable with going into great detail about them--but the date was fun. He seems to like using me as a pillow.
I may have embarrassed him, though. When we first met, I asked him if he shaved his legs and he got sensitive about it. It turns out the hair is just very fine and light. I commented on it when we were fooling around and he got flustered. I think he forgave me, though.
Then what are you doing here?
You're just another straight man who was born without an immunity to succubi. The greatest gift one can know!
>tfw no straight bf to convert
Only time Ive gained weight above 65kg by eating anything was when I sat down and ate a few boxes of nougat after christmas. The good nougat, the jijona one. Don't regret a single bite, would do it again.
>tfw you want to gain some weight
>tfw I gained 5 kilos over the last couple weeks
At 18.7 now, all the way from 17.
Hey man there's nothing I can do about it.
I fucking hate it but guys love it though so I can't complain. Every guy has liked the fact that when I shave I look like jailbait even though I'm 24. I even had this butch lesbian cop tell me I look 17.
I lift weights and do calisthenics like every other day, so can't slim down too far
But a couple of months ago, I got two different medication that seriously slow down my metabolism and I pudged up super quick.
I think I'm as fatty rn as I have been in a really long time.
Tbh, I'm scared to step on a scale. I don't need my esteem sinking any lower.
I really just want to look approriate for my height. And also, I feel a little less sleepy and exhausted all the time. My blood pressure is lower than before.
Overall, being a skelly is not worth the health risks. Although I do like my slim body.
>tfw 6'3 256 lb
I just can't seem to control my eating for long periods of time. I'm too beta and axioms to go to a gym and I just started SSRI's which will only make it harder to lose weight
I've been this weight for a year
>harder to lose weight
I lost a lot weight with anti depressants. which ones you are taking? i did not have much appetite before SSRIs but after I did not have any. i had to make myself eat
Because even though Im straight, sometimes I get the weirdest urges
Lord jesus help me
Yeah, I was pretty shocked by the extent of health issues that occurred when I had anorexia. There were some days that I would not be able to stay awake for more than 4 or 5 hours at a time.
Sounds silly to say, but I think I'm one of those "big boned" people. My hip to waist to chest ratio is really atypical for a man, especially one as bony as me. Hopefully that helps in getting /fit/ though.
Seriously, I gained almost 20 pounds just from being on Lexapro.
I'm currently trying to wean off it. I was on 15mg last month, now I'm on 5mg. SSRIs suck so fucking much, and getting off them is hell.
>dishonesty and delusion
I think it's more confusion. I would probably consider myself bisexual if twinks gays women and other people that im trying to sleep with didn't have a fetish for straight men. I didn't make the rules on why these bitches are crazy I just play by them.
But you're absolutely right tbqh
I've never been with a guy before or trans girl so I don't even know if id like it. I was going to be with one trans and the whole time I was thinking what if I don't get up?
Maybe I should fug a guy first than post here
What should I say to my friend who's bullying me and making me feel bad for wanting to join a gym? She says only shallow and one-dimensional people go to the gym, and that I should be ashamed of myself for even considering such a futile thing when I can improve myself in other ways.
I told her it's for health reasons, but she said that I could start jogging once a day instead of becoming part of the gym culture.
Tbh it's not for health reasons. I just want to become fit and look hot in order to get a bf. I'm so shallow. :/
To be sure, "gym" culture can get pretty toxic.
But, hey, she's projecting her experience of other assholes onto you, probably out of fear.
Just don't turn into a vain asshole, babe.
And get hot.
Don't mind your friend for now. I'm sure she's got reasons, ya. And you've got yours. So like, whatever, right?
>tfw four inches
>realize that the most powerful men were smaller and crazy
>use that to fuel my success and ambition
Its almost a benefit mentally to be the underdog. I wrote like a three paragraph post on a different board about how being the weakest makes you the strongest in a way.
I wonder if I can find it.
Gay gen, what dildo(s) should I get to train my b-hole? It's wayyy too tight for a dick at the moment, so I want to start small, but I also want to train myself to fit a normal-sized penis.
Should I get a set like this http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-VE801B-Anal-Trainer/dp/B003JI4Q50/ref=sr_1_6?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1446751266&sr=1-6&keywords=dildo
or just one small dildo like this http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Starter-Purple-Jellie/dp/B002X78F00/ref=sr_1_5?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1446751266&sr=1-5&keywords=dildo ?
>I bought this because my girlfriend enjoys anal sex, but finds it uncomfortable at first because of my size. I assumed we could use this to "warm her up" first... To our surprise, the 1st plug is the diameter of my finger, and doesn't even have enough flare to stay in without holding it. The second one is the diameter of a standard toilet paper roll which is about my size, so she can use it, but defeats the entire purpose of trying to transition for her comfort. The third one is literally the diameter of a beer bottle. For her and I would assume most people it is an interesting paperweight and nothing more. In my opinion, this "trainer set" would have been better designed with the smallest plug slightly larger and more flared than before, the new largest plug slightly smaller than the actual middle plug, and the new middle plug sized exactly between the new smallest and new largest.
Just buy various vegetables from the supermarket, Anon.
>Go to grocer
>Realize my whole shopping basket is full of dick-shaped vegetables and some lotion
>Buy some bread and milk to mix things up
Not being able to maintain an erection is sexual dysfunction. Your penis not being as big when it's erect but you still have normal function is not really sexual dysfunction. I doubt ppl really care about flaccid size or would notice any change in flaccid size. It effectively gets smaller because it's irreversible. There is nothing you can do about it but have a smaller penis when it is erect.
I think it's cute. I don't really have the urge to ever have things up my ass, but for Maki I'd make an exception.
Seeing a cute, little guy with an inferiority complex trying to dominate me would be super kawaii O///O.
Fierce, but dishonest.
>Ex breaks up with me cause I'm a twinkish skelly
>start bulking, going to the gym
>2 years later I've turned builtfat
>also gained a shit down of body hair
>I finally feel like I love my body way more now and feel less insecure overall
>talking to a qt bearish guy online for two weeks lately
>He tells me he prefers twinks
It would be nice to actually be wanted for once for both my personality and body but it only seems like I can get one or the other
I didn't like being a twink to be honest with you and I hated my own body. Everyday I'd look at myself in the mirror and just get upset especially after my breakup I had zero self esteem. My ex never called me attractive because of my body he always just said I had a cute face. I was lanky and boney. I'm so much stronger than I was 2 years ago there's no way I'd want to go back to being a toothpick now
Gay dating is incredibly fucked. I don't know if you anons have seen that one image floating around about how gay men love their doppelgangers but that shit is absolutely true.
One thing I always hear from places like /lgbt/, /hm/ and 4chan is that big burly men attracted to twinks and such. I've never actually seen this in real life at all. If that was the case I'd be with a daddybear I want to be with. Instead the only people that ever hit me up are old men and most of the guys are just straight up uggos.
I dont even know what this thread is about...
but I am 5'7, 150lbs...moderately hairy- except for hairless ass and my super smooth babyface that makes me look 10yrs younger...only shave once maybe twice week...
I am fit with a nice bod and big dick...girls think I am masculine and handsome...men think I am cute and boyish if not fem...and I certainly feel fem when on my knees in panties and fat cock in my mouth...
So..I dont know- I just float around in between my moving target of sexuality...and I really love the dichotomy.
I'm honestly so turned off by men who look similar to me or people in my family.
>Perfect, caters to my fetishes etc..
>Wait, he kind of looks like my dad/brother
>Boner killed, porn deleted, go fap to some qt blonds instead
my dads really attractive
like, im not attracted TO him obvs, but I can recognise that hes attractive AF.
Its the welsh blood- diamondcutting jaw and nice facial hair suits him well.
UGH why do i have to explain this every thread
Think about it.
Say I find people with orange mohawks and painted nails attractive (just an example).
As far as I am concerned, the sexiest peopel are those with orange mohawks and painted nails.
I want to be as sexy as possible so people date me
Therefore I will give myself an orange mohawk and painted nails.
When I eventually find someone who i like because of their orange mohawk and painted nails, I will try and go out with them.
If I succeed, tada - you get the "gaytwins" phenomena.
I think my dad was good looking when he was younger, but I could never feel sexual attraction to someone who even slightly resembles him.
Ruins most dark haired, dark eyed, south European men for me.
I'm gonna try to do Perder El Arte De La Razon Sin Mover Ni Un Solo Dedo by Omar and Ximena.
I don't even know how to respond to this
Something in your native language?
Or your parents' native language.
Or your parents' parents'
As far back 'till it ain't english.
Wut were you singing?
>No science fans, no math fans, no Coq fans...
It feels so lonely.
I mean, bc straight guys tend to like their opposite. It would certainly be easier.
Also my dad just told me the reason everyone's letting off fireworks is because it's bonfire night, which means he either thinks I'm so deep into NEETdom that I'm just conked out beyond all reason, or that I have severe learning disabilities.
ugh, welsh is a shitty singing language though
>Thank goodness I barely have any male relatives
I have two brothers, no sisters, and all my first cousins are males.
Must be some problem where men in my family are almost incapable of having girls. I do have an Aunt, but she never had kids.
I'm almost exclusively attracted to Germanic/Scandinavian men and some Slavs. Anglo is okay, most of the time.
He did cut it, but he got a stupid style.
I personally like long hair, but I don't expect most people here to find that guy attractive. I was just pointing out my preferences.
There wont be any half asian qts either if everyone is mixed with black though. The idea that everyone will be everything is a scary thought really. The idea that there wont be any uniqueness in society is as scary as the Cybermen from Doctor Who.
That stare.. Ive seen in before
He half-sleeps at night and gouges Japs out of holes all day. Two-thirds of his company has been killed or wounded. He will return to attack this morning. How much can a human being endure?
On the downside of having almost no male relatives is that I have nobody to relate to.
Then again I'm almost a recluse to my family.
Thus far only my mother knows that I'm gay, and that was only because I was having a dark time with my best friend/crush.
Does it scare you that everyone in our (Asian) countries looks the same?
Not everyone is going to be the exact same mix of ethnicities, so I highly doubt everyone is going to look the same.
When whites mix with us, they ruin our purity. That's what I'm not looking forward to.
>tfw waiting for new episodes of series and anime
>tfw video games are boring
>tfw waiting for fallout 4
>tfw just wanna sleep till i watch series or play new games
The tought of being put in an artifical coma arouses me
>Does it scare you that everyone in our (Asian) countries looks the same?
No because they don't. Koreans have flat faces and South East Asians look nothing like Japanese people.
>tfw ate an entire bag of little debbie mini-crunch donuts in 24 hours
This lack of motivation, apathy for everything and the underlining depression is hell. Plus I got an exam later tonight.
Shit son I'll take either but damn if flips ain't qt as fug.
>you will never hug kevin
Because I will still be able to play a game a year from now. However if I fuck up in school I won't get into university so I wont get a degree so I wont get a job so I'll be a failure like you.
I'm a socially disabled person from a homophobic country, so it can't be helped. But, well, I do feel lonely sometimes.
It made me a bit happy that there are gay people with similar interests. I'll return to reading about logic though.
>ill return to reading about logic
jesus talk about tryharding. Who even specifies what theyre doing for no reason like that?
ill return to scratching my balls and eating a burger now though.
>I'm glad I spent most of my younger years with other males, it's probably the only reason I didn't turn into a disgusting femme.
I also had mostly guy friends, still have as far as friends go.
Then again the majority of "friends" are just people I interact with a lot. I have trouble deciding when someoe's a friend or just someone I occasionally speak to.
no im trying to say what if you die? like in few months, you will die without enjoying life just studying without having fun you will die in vain, wihtout being able to play fallout 4 because you will be dead
also actually caring about society and trying to fit in
sorry to say that but you are bigger failure than me
yeah nice reading comprehension dude
>likes video games
I don't see how they're worse than dindus desu
I get what you mean. I think that accurately describes most of my uni "friends".
They all live too far away from me to spend any time with outside of class, and I always feel awkward about furthering friendships with straight men in case they think I'm hitting on them.
wtf are you talking about? im not that anon from afghanistan or whereever
also im Bi so no one cares
NICE FUCKING READING COMPREHESION DUDE
SCHOOL IS GOING FINE RIGHT?
why b8? do you really belive people can live happy wiht the boundries of a society who will judge you for the dumbest reasons? to trying to fit in such a shitty society is fucking sad and the biggest failure a living/thinking being can do
you poeple are like sheep just following an order not trying to think about it just trying to fit in thats your biggest downfall
Plenty of dindus like vidya too. There are heaps of black weebs and fighting game fans.
At least some blacks have that primitive masculine quality that attracts some people, can't say I'm into it at all though. Flips just look like annoying fish monkeys.
dildo'd myself yesterday for the first time
woke up today and had shat my pants
>Expressing a range of emotions
Rest of the song because y'all are making me feel ungrateful
Also WOW, you're voice is really nice to listen to. <3
Well ok then mr sissy faggot
stay true to yourself.
Just why do you wanna get a degree then if you could have joy and a cutie bf to chill with and just enjoy life but instead you chose to be a sheep who follows orders and thinks hes indivdual just because hes a fucking faggot also sorry but you were talking to 2 different anony and thought we were both one person even tho our form of writing if different its that basic, actually I can tell you that im fucking more intelligent than you because I can tell wich anon is who just by there art of writing. fucking idiot instead of memorising things that are "important" for school you could just use your fucking brain but that would be too much right? just keep doing what you do. memorise everything without even questioning a fucking thing
have fun in the future baby boi
Cringing? Even though you think it's good?
WHAT DOES THAT
Omg don't do this to me holy shit if I feel any more mortified right now I might melt pls no
Maybe I should've have done this
I can't concentrate on working now like this
I hope so. These threads have become too politically correct, you know, with Cluckcé promoting her degeneracy all over the place.
Anon, why the fuck are you so angry?
Don't know you that people go to school for different reasons? Don't know you know that people can still have lives while attending school? For that matter, why are you assuming school is not but "memorization"? Do you think those who got a university only study piss easy shit like liberal arts or social sciences/humanities, etc.?
Distance isn't really a problem for me, but I live in a tiny country anyway.
>I always feel awkward about furthering friendships with straight men in case they think I'm hitting on them.
I'd make them squirm if I could.
My issue with straight people is that to me they're either hateful homophobes eager to stone me, or they're lying.
One of the reasons I'm not exactly out.
To a few people, but even around them I'm paranoid.
>5'2" and 100 pounds
is your nickname chunky?
I can't sing very long if I go lower, my voice gets all sore feeling and wobbles even worse than it already does
Is this better
You guys are just
Bullying me aren't you
You guys are jerks
Why even try, I'm just trying to get over my mortification, I'm already a puddle of flaming embarassment
I came out a of a sexless relationship with my girlfriend after she keked me with a carpet licker a few months ago. Ever since then I've really only focused on my guy tendencies because girls just disgust me now, I can't get off to them anymore, but anal sex looks like it would hurt really bad and I don't know if I ever want to ;_;
Can some grand wizard gayfriends hep me out?
But look at how qt he is. This is my ideal kind of bf.
nah, guys only look good with long hair if they look like ..
I'm not in pure math but in engineering.
Some people go because they have no other options for a future. I mean, that previous anon was a fucking retard. College is no guarantee of anything but unfortunately it's the only place you go if you want a career in technical, science or medicinal fields. I mean what other options do you have? A B.A. is needed even for the most remedial jobs nowadays, unless you want to work at a McJob forever. I know getting the degree isn't the end-all, be-all answer but unfortunately it's the only option those of us have. I don't come from money, and we don't have any. What else do I have?
Do you honestly think that people or myself enjoy the stress, financial, emotional and overall life drain that this shit is?