Demisexual is only being able to be attracted to people you've formed a bond with, right? Is it possible to only be that way towards one gender, but be "normally" attracted to another?
I suppose, I mean it's definitely possible to be attracted to multiple genders but have different "criteria" for attraction to each one. And it certainly is possible to be demisexual AND have a gender-based attraction (i.e. you can only be attracted to people you have a bond with, AND are of a certain gender).
demisexual is a shit word.
But yes you can have a strong sexual attraction toward one gender and still be open to the possibility of a relationship with a member of the other gender. Normally though, you don't name it because labels don't serve much use in that situation and you probably are just gonna explain yourself anyways.