Just learned today that a lot of people at my work are apparently gossiping about weather I am gay
Jokes on them
I'm a tranny
Sure why not.
>Be confused about sexuality (probably bi)
>Trying to figure this shit out
>be monday night, high as shit
>friend, also high as shit, mentions to other friend "oh, remember at the afterparty (2 weeks ago) how you said anon had said he was gay?"
>other friend, also very high, tries to cover up like "NOOOOOOOOO?!?!?! What are you talking about???", but it's pretty obvious that he's lying
>other friend tries to fight friend
>I have to break them up
>weird state of limbo where they know but I haven't told them shit
sorry for confusing greentext
Thats not how this works, you are retarded. People will associate being femme with being gay. If she just started out and people think shes gay well at least shes not some dorky masc guy that no one even thinks acts feminine.
it was university, and yea i got gendered as a girl sometimes, and sometimes as a boy (i was pretty andro), but once i started hrt grew some boobs and got a little curvage(plus updating my wardrobe), and fixed the way my voice sounded, i finally started to get correctly gendered.
i dont think its really that wierd
but thats what i looked like before i started hrt
not for extendend periods of time, srry if i confused you. most people could eventually figure it out if they were around me long enough, or knew my actual name (went by nickname mostly). it wasnt any suprise to any of them when i finally came out as trans tho
blame the transbians, they want people to think gender=/=sexuality so they can continue to look and act like straight men and they think that by putting on a pair of striped socks they magically become grills. kek
When i was in sophomore year of high school i told my bpd girlfriend that i was FtM, and she told everyone i was a tranny.
I spent the next two years getting harassed for being a man in a dress, and all the girls in the locker room would ask to see my penis
>the problem is I don't know what "myself" is
You are already yourself, at least I hope so, because you are not only your body, you are also what you do and how you act, how you treat others, you shouldn't stress too much about it and just go with the flow, live.
If you are not happy now, I think it's the best if you just let your feelings change naturally by experiencing all the things you can, and by finding what you really love.
As for your friends I think it's best if you don't avoid the subject if they ask, but also don't be pushy about it.
when i was young, i looked androgynous enough that with a bit of makeup and women's clothing i was always gendered female. usually all it took was wearing women's clothing or being seen from behind. my long hair was much longer than most long haired guys had. on top of that my facial features were mostly on the feminine side of androgynous.
i don't know about her, but i'm intersexual.
you have no clue. most transgenders i know just have to strip off the masculine act, and they then naturally act feminine. this includes transbians.
>you have no clue. most transgenders i know just have to strip off the masculine act, and they then naturally act feminine. this includes transbians.
Not really, that's mostly transbians who were never feminine to begin with and hide themselves like hons do.
Uh, not the guy you're responding to, but maybe there's a possibility you're intersex on the inside? If that makes sense? Since people can be intersex without knowing it.
Idk. I'm ftm and pre t and you look a bit like me in that pic but with brown eyes, and part of me doesn't want to believe you looked that great before getting on the goods
idk actually. the only thing it could be is klinefelters syndrome to go undiagnosed this long. I was born with normal appearing male parts, but idk if i was ever fertile or sterile before hrt (never got a fertility test and didnt save genetic material b4 mones). so i guess there could be a small chance of me being XXY.
now i gotta find out, cause i need to know
y u do dis to me anon?
i have one of those bodies that would be really muscley and masculine if i actually exercised
plus i have facial hair that doesnt go away
i look like a bear and i just want to be a big strong lesbian