>be gay but in the closet
>really nice girl takes an interest in me
>asks me out on a date and says she's single, I agree because I'm too awkward to tell her plus she's cool
How do I handle this? She's also deep in my social circle, and nobody else knows I'm gay. I'm afraid she'll spill the beans because I haven't known her for too long.
How the fuck do I handle this? I don't want to upset her.
Do you plan on marrying her just to not make her uncomfy or come out by accident?
Just tell her you don't see her that way and don't be full autismo going out with straight grills.
Shit's gonna be worse if you lead her on.
Here's a magic trick, so powerful that even the dark arts of necromancy can't compare.
Tell her the fucking truth.
Tell her what you wrote here. If you are too busy being paranoid, i'll make a list:
>You are a cool girl, i really mean it
>Can you keep a secret? (see how she reacts)
>But i'm a closeted gay
>Sorry if i accepted, but i was too nervous/awkward to deny, plus you looked cool.
Unless she's the worst bitch on earth she'll keep her mouth shut with your other friends.
Worst case scenario sche'll be a fag-hag, but better than being outed when you aren't ready yet.
It's not leading someone on if you take them on a single date, christ.
Just tell her you see her as a friend or some shit, don't want to change things, you aren't ready for a relationship, etc.
You guys really are awesome, I think if she makes any advances I'll have to tell her openly, but for now I'll treat it like a friendship. I don't want to drop my spaghetti if she just wants to hang out.
Leading her on would be worse.
Why am I so awkward with women more so than men? It's not like I'm looking to score pussy.
>tfw smooth af with womyn
>turning them down at bars
>female friends fall for me
>total sperg around cute guys
>she's a faghag
>outs OP to all his friends and everyone she meets because "gay is so kawaii xD uWu"
>ask you to cuddle and spoon her in a purely platonic way
>deep down you know she wishes she was a gay man
>she becomes ultra possessive and no gay men will want to date you
it happened to my bf and it will happen to you OP
OP maybe you should try it.
Not even trying to troll right now, but I see it as how do you know you don't like it if you haven't tried it?
I apply this to myself to. I haven't sucked a dude off, so how do I know I won't like it?
Seriously though OP, you sound like you're young. Go out on a date with her, be at least friends of course. Try to get your dick sucked? A mouth is still a mouth, no matter what they have down there. If you don't like it, then hey! At least you can say you've tried it. And you for sure like wiener.
Again, you're young living in
, why not try sex with both sexes anyway?