Been noticing some odd things lately, and I'm worrying I might have dysphoria
>Often feel depressed
>Kinda want to be a girl sometimes, not sure
>Remembered that as a kid I always fantasised about becoming a girl
>Pretty gay already
>I like feminine clothes - never had the guts to crossdress but have considered it
>in fact I had a thing for genderswap stories back then, always secretly wanted it to happen to me.
>Been disliking that I'm getting thicker (combo of fat and muscle, it's odd), really want to be slim in a feminine way since I hate looking at my reflection and seeing that age into a more masculine look
>Real desire to grow my hair long and dye it purple even though I worry it won't look good on me
>Been wanting boobs, not even for sexual stuff I just want some for myself.
So what would you guys say? Just a bit of a femboy or dysphoria?
Well personally I think it's more important to ask "could I tolerate being a man for my entire life?" rather than "do I want to be a girl?"
Should probably work through stuff with a therapist though if you're having any sort of doubts regarding gender identity
>I dislike the fact that I am ageing in a masculine way
>I want to be more like a biological female and it isn't for sexual reasons
>For much of my life I have thought about wanting to be a girl, something that most cis males don't think about
congratulations, you are
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Talk to your GP, get referred to a gender therapist, talk it out with them to be sure, transition if necessary.
Most kids do go through that "I wish I was a boy/girl phase". It doesn't mean they're trans. I remember my little sister being super tomboyish as a kid, she always wanted to be the hero in plays and mimicked our dad when he was getting ready for work and so on. If she was a kid now she'd probably get forced to think she really is a boy but she's now very feminine woman.
Children don't really have the whole gender thing down too well. There's hardly any differences (biologically) between a boy and a girl pre-puberty aside from genitals.
If you keep thinking like that past like 13 you're probably a tranny though
I see your point but it's a big change, needs to be thought over a fair bit before I head off to get a transition I'd say.
Cool to see I'm not the only one with that worry, hope you get yourself help too.
Suppose you two are right, although I remember thinking when I was around 15 that if I was a girl things would be better, although that might have been due to a few unrelated factors.