Can someone tell me why people are so promiiscuous? So I was in gaygen tinychat with people yesterday, they were all talking about the people they've fucked, pulling out their dating apps and stuff. I just can't believe that someone would have sex with someone they don't even know. Am I alone here in thinking that sounds sort of fucked up? I mean I have been wondering about what that scenario would even be like. I feel like I would even get hard, because it would be so uncomfortable trying to fuck someone I don't know.
It really sucks. It grosses me out that these people are having sex with a bunch of people they don't know. For me I find the idea of having sex with a stranger disgusting. At the same time though, it's really difficult to find someone to even talk to me to have a date. I'm not unattractive, it's just that no one is interested in dating. It sucks because I want to have sex, yet all these people are having sex with total strangers and I'm not getting any.
You must live a sheltered life. Straight men are like this. They hook up and talk about girls in the same way. Straight people have started to use Tindr as a hook up app too.
Idk you just sound judgmental. What people do in their private lives has no effect on you. If you're going to pass judgment on gay men, you might as well pass judgment on men as a whole
>I find the idea of having sex with a stranger disgusting.
I know that feel.
It's just so rooted in the community that it's gonna require surgery to get out.
Then again with the whole gay history it's to be expected that dating isn't that popular.
I mean it's only 14 years ago since gay marriage, and in the majority of the world it's still seen as a disgusting thing, and hiding your relationship from the world also isn't really worth it.
Hot people are hot
You have male needs
So does the other man
You fuck, it feels nice, it's over
If you've had sexual experience before, there is nothing wrong with this as long as you aren't a nymph freak or hookin up like four+ times a week
I've never had any sexual experience and I'm 21. I look at gay porn all the time and I go to gay chat rooms and this gay forum all the time and I'm still not sure if I'm gay. I've also taken two guys out for coffee, I still still still still don't know if I'm gay. It's really frustrating. I tell everyone that I'm not gay and I'm straight because I don't want to actually get to having gay sex and then realize that it's not for me. That would be the most awkward thing in the world to go around saying you're gay then realizing you're not. That would be so fucked up, worse than being outed as gay.
Not gonna read your dumb blog post but:
Just forget about these people, op. If having a sweet monogamous relationship with someone you love is your ideal, as opposed to being a freaky slut like most gays, then go for it. That's what I did and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
two things you can do:
look for a male partner
or maybe give women a try
I got into my first relationship this year (18) and I was worrying about this too. What if we start fooling around and I'm limp af, what if I'm not super attracted to him, etcetera. But in the end I was fine and functional. I've never tried women, I dunno what would happen if I did, but I don't want to deal with women anyway really.
So if you want to be straight, give women a try. If you are straight up and confident, a girl will like that. Seriously, I'm really gay but it would be so easy to pick up a girl 'round here. Just say you wanna hang out and let things go from there.
Humans are disgusting, sex-addicted animals. The internet and social media just make that more apparent, that's all.
[spoiler]I feel the same as you do, except I'm borderline afraid of sex.[/spoiler]
Well I guess what they say about gays being degenerate. I kinda still don't want to believe it.