To any trans people here: did your sexual orientation change after transition? Do you think it was hormones that caused your orientation to change, or something else?
Only liked girls before transitioning but didn't have much of a sex drive. Still dating my girlfriend from before transition. Now I'm bi though... I still don't like guys mentally, my body just heavily reacts to them.
I hate it.
i had repressed liking guys a lot, but once i had accepted it all, and allowed myself to think about guys, i realized i liked them way more than girls. i guess i'm like 95% straight, but can still appreciate a hot girl.
started off bi, still bi. attracted to more feminine people emotionally. most masculine dudes i've dated have the emotional depth of a damp paper towel, which is a shame because they're so fucking hot.
This more or less. I think what happened is I got so used to trying my hardest to repress anything "feminine" during my teen years, including attraction to guys. I never really got the big deal about girls sexually, I had to keep up a bit of an act when my guy friends would go on about which girls they liked. I had a crush on one of my friends and sometimes I'd catch myself fantasizing about random guys in my class and then feel really ashamed about it. After transitioning I'm comfortable admitting to myself I'm mostly into guys
I felt like I was a straight guy for 16 years, until I realized I was trans and at that point I was like 95% straight but identified as bi. After about 5 months of hormones I started figuring out that I really, REALLY liked guys. So I identify as straight now, after a year, three months on hormones. Only recently have I started considering my attraction to girls again but it's so fleeting I still feel straight. I can't see myself in a romantic relationship with a girl, and a sexual one would only be possible after srs. Even then, the chance of me enjoying it and not feeling dysphoric is slim.
Yea a lot.
Before when I had t running through my veins there's nothing more that I wanted than to plow a chick.
Also I wanted dicks in me. This was mostly just a fantasy I'd masterbate to.
Fast foward now 7 months on hrt. I have very little to almost no sexual interest in girls.
Now I find guys attractive. Especially masculine guys. I'm 5'5.
I'm not as horny.
Like I'd only let a guy plow me if I've spent enough time getting to know him.
Also I jack off like times a month now.
And when I do it's cause I really have to try.
>did your sexual orientation change after transition?
>Do you think it was hormones that caused your orientation to change, or something else?
Hormones. There's no other explanation. I was perfectly content in being bi before transition and ended up gay. Social norms and peer pressure can't explain that.
Used to be only into girls and attracted to big tits and big butts and wanted to fuck all the time.
Then I tried feminine guys but it was terrible.
Then after some months on hormones, I'm now mostly into tomboy girls. Dicks feel disgusting and a turn on at the same time, feels weird.
MtF here. Always been into guys/girls, but since HRT I find guys much more appealing. Possibly due to my submissive nature and wanting my gender to be recognised/affirmed.
I honestly feel most females would expect me to be the giver/dominant in the relationship due to being born with a penis :/ I find the assertive nature of some guys to be incredibly attractive and desirable (same goes for girls, but it's much rarer to experience imo).
My current girlfriend is trans (MtF) and super happy with her genitals and it works out brilliantly. Before HrT I'd be okay with forcing myself to perform for the other (i.e. a genetic girl), but now I seriously can't even imagine it.
Take from that what you will.
I used to be into females exclusively.
Now Im bisexual leaning on males.
It might have been the lifestyle changes, maybe living as a woman causes you to desire cock- but I'm pretty sure it was hormones.
mtf, was into girls exclusively but that changed pretty quickly on hormones. I still generally prefer women buy in large, but I'm in a relationship with a guy right now and I love it.
FTM. Started with a preference for guys and a minor, lurking appreciation for girls. Started T and for about 2 weeks I wanted to fuck everything and anything. Now I've settled in after like two years or so and I'm pretty 60/40 when it comes to masculine/feminine.
Started out liking girls exclusively, now that my libido has settled I don't have any cocklust, but I can find a very low percentage of guys cute, but I have no idea what I'd be doing in a relationship with them.
It's probably because I have huge mommy issues and want a girl to fill that void for me.
i'm feeling this on some levels, i haven't yet started mones but once i came to terms with being trans, i've thought about guys a bit more.
haven't had sex in over a year though and probably won't before srs so sexuality and sex doesn't bother me that much anyway.
it's just a shame that it's damn hard to find a person to kiss & cuddle with without needing to have sex
MtF, exclusively into guys before, now not sure. I find girls mildly appealing. Also, I have been trying to shove my finger up my bf's ass. find it hot for some reason. hormones enhanced my degeneracy
I was bi before but now I don't know how accurate that is. I don't like women very much sexually unless I really focus on it. And my feelings there are always clouded by jealousy. Men though have become perfect in my eyes.
It's just weird, being completely hetereo for so many years then the slow transition of noticing/picking up male scents more then the first banging a male dream happens and its all downhill
I was slightly bi for girls but never fantsized about fucking a girl, i just found their curves appealing at times. I never ended up doing anything beyond mild kissing. I also liked ts girls more than cis. Mostly I was attracted to older dominat men (like 35+). Now I dont think about girls sexually at all and I am more attracted to men in late 20s. My first time getting fucked by a guy was amazing and I came all over myself without even touching it. A good fuck is pretty much ecstasy... esp with muscles involved
I used to like girls but I was always super submissive, caused a few problems in one relationship.
Before I started HRT I just found I wasn't into girls on a physical intimate level, unless they were super dominating and liked pegging. I found it harder to be aroused by girls.
I think it was my submissive nature that lead to my change in orientation rather than HRT.