>Meet a girl
>Ends up transgender, passes effortlessly
>Still turned off by the idea of a penis
She's pretty great otherwise. Don't want to break up over something like that.
Is there a way to become okay with the penis before she gets surgery? It's a very small one. Asian + hormones must have shrunk it a bit.
Is that her? don't post her picture to 4chan, das rude
As for actual advice, I dunno, fuck her with panties on that hide her dick? Another option is to look at a lot of tranny porn and penises in general to desensitize yourself to it, that sounds pretty degenerate but there it is
>Still turned off by the idea of a penis
So is she, most likely. Trans women are as uncomfortable with their penises as the men that date them should be. She'll get rid of it eventually. You just have to be patient.
imagine that you are in the matrix...there is no penis
but in all seriousness, thumbs up to to you for not dumping her for being trans. I was worried my current bf would be turned off of me since im pre-op, and our sex life would be terrible. He was very uneasy at first, but he really gets off on pleasuring me and making me feel amazing. So he gradually warmed up to it, because he loves what him playing with it does for me.
so if you like her, and want to have fun sex just experiment with eachother. make sure you are open and communicate about anything that you want to try, or makes you feel uncomfortable. Just keep an open mind and hopefully you and your gf can have some super awesome sex.
She wants me to do nothing with it. Most of the time she's more okay doing doggy or back towards me positions but yesterday I turned her around and fucked her missionary. It was pretty hot, minus the penis flopping around. Ah well it seems to be more mind over matter.
Have her look up info on how to tuck her penis inside her body (actual thing), then have anal sex with her while wearing a thong. You might as well get use to having anal sex 'cause even after she has surgery she's going to prefer it some times. A lot of transwomen do.
Also, she can always suck your dick.
>tuck her penis inside her body
Dafuq am i reading?
>don't post her picture to 4chan
New here, friendo?
>Implying you can change sexuality
>Implying dating a ftm tranny would be considered straight.
Nope, still straight. If it looks like a girl, feel like a girl, walks and talks like a girl it's a girl.
You didn't know about it? With proper technique you can completely hide a penis by pushing it inside. It is kind of like a sock pretty much. You flip it inside out as you push it in. You need to use proper technique or else the bulk of the penis will want to stick to the skin sock.
I don't know how to describe it. You just have to feel around as you push it in. Be careful, specially if you have long or sharp nails since you can easily hurt yourself.
Back when I used to masturbate I would always press and rub with my fingers on it while it was pushed in. I didn't even know there were other ways to do it for the longest time.
>Back when I used to masturbate I would always press and rub with my fingers on it while it was pushed in. I didn't even know there were other ways to do it for the longest time.
Same here, didn't realize that wasn't how you were "supposed" to do it for a while. However
>when I used to masturbate
do you just not masturbate at all what the fuck
Ages ago I had a male partner that totally ignored what was in my crotch area. He knew there was a dick there, but we still had a 3.5 year long relationship that included sex from before we officially started dating. It was helpful that breast, ear, and foot stimulation could bring me to orgasm. As for his being straight, some doubted it, partly because of me, but also from other incidents in his past. Thing is I was reasonably OK with my dick being used sexually. I just can't thrust unless I want to court mild depression. So he could easily have gone down on me orally, but never did. I know he did with his wife. We had many three ways, and some 4 ways when her lover also joined. Also he never did anal sex. I think his objection was religious. I had done anal before, but I had stopped doing it during the previous year. I likely would have been OK with doing it with him. I really really liked him.
>greasy traumatized feeling
I've felt that way up to days later. I likened it to feeling violated as in raped. Sucks. I used it as a topic at the start of an EMDR session. Good riddance.