How do you know the difference between legit bisexuality and just being desperate for affection of any kind? If so how can I get rid of these false feelings ?
Stop watching porn and miring your sexuality in lust. If you can't have passionate eye contact with whoever it is you're having sex with the entire time you're in the act, you shouldn't be having sex with that person.
im in the same situation i really think its just loneliness though
like i know the idea of fucking and cuddling a cute guy can sound appealing but come on dude
were above that
were not really gay were just super lonely but well make it so dont go off sucking that cock just yet
give it time
>I just think me feeling it to be impossible to get with women made me want to go to men. At least that way I could get some or something
yeah thats most likely it
shut up homo
just in general make it dude
we'll have that live we always dreamed of with that girl we always dreamed of
dont start sucking cock out of loneliness dude
you'll only feel worse about yourself
never hurts to try
dont fall into this dangerous pit
dont think homos are romantic or anything
just look around the board theyre sex craving lunatics
if worse comes to worst remember that these homos wont make you feel better about yourself
stay on the path youre on
dont let them sway you
youll be happy you didnt
i dont get you closet cases. you act like its the worst thing in the world to want to fuck another guy. its not like you have no options, so you aren't prison gay. and truly straight guys dont generally go around thinking about sucking cock just because they're lonely.
stop thinking about so much. try it out. at worst you fucked a guy and it wasnt that great. at best you might find yourself +1 qt boyfriend and no longer a miserable khv. you're making a mountain out of a mole hill here. its not worth killing yourself over having gay thoughts. if you think thats the worst problem you could have you must've had it pretty easy until now.
I'm just saying, if I am desperate and I had to go gay out of desperation , that would just show how much of a loser I am. I had to get w dude to feel liked .
I guess ill try to do it . But I don't think ill be getting any guys any time soon
Pic of me
>and truly straight guys dont generally go around thinking about sucking cock just because they're lonely.
maybe not sucking cock but def cuddling and kissing if super lonely
sucking a cock isnt just some minor thing for straight people and i guess that proves the person being straight at heart
a homo would jump to suck a cock
a lonely straight guy would literally only do it as a last option
op is straight dont try to fuck with him
youre lonely dude
like super lonely
what you perceive as homo or bisexuality is just an idealised version of a man being a substitute for a woman because youve reached a point where you can literally not see any woman want to be with you
this does not mean youre gay and absolutely does not mean you should go out and make things worse by trying to have sex with a gender youre obviously not attracted to
i know it sounds silly but you cant trust your feelings when youre this lonely
youre basically emotionally drunk
your emotions are all over the place and youll only end up doing something youll regret once you sober up
I'll let you in on the biggest secret about weight loss
Literally just eat less.
Take whatever you're eating now and eat smaller portions of it. If you're used to eating a 12 oz steak then eat an 8 oz instead
Also quit drinking soda
do the following thought experiment
imagine whatever you consider a good looking man/boy
then imagine whatever you consider an ugly man/boy
would you want to have sex with either of them equally?
if yes, you might just be starved for affection indeed
if no, then you're probably legit bi
there is nothing different between man breath/man musk and female breath/female musk. Both can be disgusting if the owner is not hygienic.
For a long time I thought I'm hetshit only because the men I interacted with-disgusting monstrosities-whom |I have associated with the idea of "male" were so disgusting, that they successfully scared me away from the idea for years.
>For a long time I thought I'm hetshit only because the men I interacted with-disgusting monstrosities-whom |I have associated with the idea of "male" were so disgusting, that they successfully scared me away from the idea for years.
I wish the average guy took care of himself even 1/10th as much as the average woman does
I've never tried to fuck a guy in real life, but I think this would be me too.
I mean. I get off hard to fantasies about dick, so I must be bi, right? But I also get off hard to fantasies about women castrating me. Or being sold into slavery to a mistress and permanently losing all my legal rights. But I sure as hell don't want those things to happen in real life, they're just fantasies. Could my fantasies about men be similar?
Perhaps, you never know until you try though. Like how I have a thing for femboys, but I've never actually met one, so whether or not the attraction would hold up in person is a mystery.