Women feel invisible to the opposite sex at the age of 51, it emerged yesterday.
A detailed study of 2,000 women revealed a large percentage felt they no longer received the level of attention they once did after hitting 51.
Many even went as far as to admit they felt ‘ignored’.
The women claimed their confidence plummeted after hitting 50 and blamed greying hair, having to to wear glasses or even struggling to find fashionable clothes.
The lifestyle study, commissioned by herbal remedies company, A.Vogel, also found more than two thirds of women over 45 had walked into a room and felt ‘completely unnoticed’ by the opposite sex.
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More than half said they felt ‘left on the shelf’ and that they’d been ‘judged negatively’ because of their age.
Health expert Eileen Durward, who provides advice and support to women through the A.Vogel website and helpline, said: ”The results show a worrying decline in confidence and self-worth in women when faced with the prospect of growing older.
”The world can feel very geared toward appreciating younger women, leaving those of a certain age to feel neglected or less worthy.
“These women are not invisible and neither are their concerns.
”They are often the driving engine behind many a family, juggling careers, looking after older relatives and bringing up children.
”All the while dealing with the ageing process and changes brought on by the menopause.
”They need to be supported, not made to feel washed up.”
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The study also found just 15 per cent of women over 45 could claim they had high or very high confidence while, sadly, nearly half described themselves as not very confident at all.
The biggest reason for a decline in self-belief was the feeling that their image had deteriorated.
A dejected four in ten said not getting attention from men like they used to was a factor, more than half had felt intimidated by the presence of younger women at a social event.
A concerned six in ten of the 2,000 studied felt modern life is geared toward a focus on younger women while 46 per cent thought that a lot of what older women go through wasn’t seen or spoken about.
The research also examined the effect the menopause has on women’s confidence as they age.
The results showed around one in five who had experienced menopausal symptoms had difficulty in finding answers to the questions they had about the changes they were facing.
In fact, only 13 per cent felt women were well supported in the lead up to the menopause.
So women don't understand men for the majority of their lives. Got it.
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The research, which also involved 500 men, showed many have a ‘head in the sand’ approach to the menopause.
Eileen Durward, who is also an expert on menopause, added: ”Women need to know they are not alone and there are things they can do to help themselves.
“Hot flushes are a good example of something that can have a real impact on confidence, especially in social situations or at work.
”Many women don’t realise that simple steps, like breathing slowly or taking a herbal remedy containing sage, can provide relief.”
> tldr: It is all men's fault
Shouldn't they be happy they aren't being objectified and eye raped anymore?
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>more than two thirds of women over 45 had walked into a room and felt ‘completely unnoticed’ by the opposite sex.
Oh my goodness, the horror...
The vaginal Jew getting BTFO.
Another win for smug Pepe.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WFm1MT3GrLk it's time for dancing, show me ya moves
>“These women are not invisible and neither are their concerns.
I could of sworn this has been studied before
Males are more attracted to females during the golden time for mating It's natural, why would anyone be physically attracted to a used and worthless female body? Besides fetishes etc
>MFW these women finally feel the feely feels I'm been feeling all my life
To all those men, please, who has ignored you, ever? If you're a woman, you have to wait until a man asks you for a date, so you are limited by who asks you out.
If you're a man, you can get a girlfriend easily -- just ask a woman on a date!
>more than two thirds of women over 45 had walked into a room and felt ‘completely unnoticed’ by the opposite sex.
This is what 51 looks like.Would you want to pay attention to that?
I felt that way for a long time. I swore to myself if I hit 35 and can't find a women I'm going to stay single. If no women wanted me when they and I are young then I sure as hell wouldn't want a woman when she's is used up and panicking.
This Chinese woman is 51.
Btw, she is Amy Chua, famed Tiger Mom. She is as disciplined with her body as she is with her children.
Don't go for MILFs (women who still have young children). Go for cougars (women whose children are in college, at least). If you're decent-looking and charming, you'll get a risk-free fuckbuddy who'll do anything you want.
>No, but you are seen as a social pariah if you do (desperate, thirsty, bold, uppity).
Yeah by other woman maybe, and if you're a woman holding your sister's opinions dead, then you dun goofed.
Literally ANY man would be flattered getting asked out on a date from a woman. Even a landwhale, validation is validation.
I'm not falling for that. Men don't know what they want.
If a woman asked a man out, then he would immediately lose interest in her because he would have lost the opportunity to chase and pursue her.
What exactly is the irony? Do men start getting all the pussy once they hit 51? 30 years of being noticed by the opposite sex is still 30 more years that I'm ever likely to get.
only fat one get rejected immediately even if ugly girl would ask me out then i would go.
>Men don't know what they want.
You mean women, hon.
Again, literally no man isn't going to snap to attention over that.
Maybe you should try not being an uninteresting fart and maybe someone will stick around.
I'm sorry, the vast majority of men.
Just like the vast majority of men like thin women. There may be a chubby chaser or feeder now and then, but they're rare and the fact that they're so exceptional proves the rule.
Well to be fair, for most of their life they are complaining that they have TOO much attention. I really don't feel sorry for them if after 50 years of being the center of attention, they are finally treated like every male who has ever been average.
March 26, 2014 at 1:09 pm
Below 50 women complain about male attention, above 50 women complain about no male attention.
April 7, 2014 at 2:44 pm
It’s 50 because they don’t want to admit it before, in reality it’s 30.
>Women got blown the fuck out.
I've been using online dating since I was 18. I'm 30 now. When I was 18, I'd send out maybe 10 messages to girls my age and maybe get 1 or 2 responses. I'd get no responses from older women. Now that I'm 30 and have a good career, I get 10 messages a week from women my age and younger and don't even need to send any myself. Too bad for them. I don't date anymore. I visit 18 year old prostitutes to relieve my sexual urges. I picked up that trick in my 20s when no woman would touch me. Fuck dating. Fuck middle aged bitches. Women don't care about you as a person. They only care about how much money you make. Women don't fuck men. They fuck paychecks. Women don't fall in love with men. They fall in love with bank accounts. I'd say that all women are whores, but that would be unfair to whores. Prostitutes are at least honest about what they are. I can't wait for sex bots.
>The lifestyle study, commissioned by herbal remedies company, A.Vogel
>”Many women don’t realise that simple steps, like breathing slowly or taking a herbal remedy containing sage, can provide relief.”
No, I'm saying that ~95% of men like thin girls. You beautiful only when you're thin. If you're chubby or fat, then you have to date some mentally deviant man who thinks a fattie is attractive.
>haha, your 30 years of never, ever having to be alone is over
>I mean it's not like up until now I have... oh
I don't know if there's ever been a study on that, there must be a ceiling on that. There are studies that show that men, even to age 50, like women who are 20, but there's nothing showing that young women prefer men 40+ unilaterally.
The research shows that women like men +0 to +5 years their own age.
You reek of internet tough girl. The mere fact of you posting on /pol/ proves this. Let me guess, you have novelty SS memorabilia and a Che t-shirt you interchange for each 'clique' you slut around in IRL, right?
Party scene chew you up fast? Or you just testing the water for a new place to attetion whore trip soon, because you know, /pol/ and it's queens!
My girlfriend asked me out first, you're full of shit man.
>Women don't care about you as a person
Now i want to ask you. What kind of body did you had in your 20s. This is importnant for both sexes. Women are as shallow as men. And when i see how you cry over you pathetic life then if i was woman i would ignore you as little cockroach that you are.
When I was younger(21-24) I used to try hitting on 50 year olds at bars and they always told me I was too young looking and ignored me, maybe they just thought I was ugly or a fetishist/creeped out by me, I gave up on that pretty quick.
>would have lost the opportunity to chase her
Right, because all men are savages hell-bent on chasing and conquering women, and that is TOTALLY not a stereotype perpetrated by the Matriarchy in order to benefit women at the expense of penis-havers.
Oh no! Penis! It's elongated! It's penetrative! Scary!
I don't know what point you're trying to make. Are you advocating for the stance that we should be attracted to doughy men or that men should be attracted to tubby women? That's clearly ridiculous.
>my mum is 52
>my mum wants me and my 17 year old brother out of the house by the of the year
>shes wants to sell her house and kick us out to move to another state so she can live with her boyfriend of 6 months
>i have to join the army because for the last 3 months i've applied to alot of places and still nothing
>my brother hasn't even finished school yet
I'm fine with leaving and joining the army cause i've wanted to do it since i was 5 but i fear for my brother cause he hasn't even finished high school yet.
And it works. There is a qt 8 years younger than me where I work. I completely ignore her a lot and pretend to be Chad and for some reason I am attractive to her. However when I let it slip that I am into her she starts ignoring me slightly until I start to not show interest in her. I am still confused by this.
wrong. Black men like big butts.
Sir Mix a Lot did an interview and said he doesn't like that his iconic song, "Baby Got Back," was used so prominently in the fat acceptance movement. He said something like, I like it when baby got back, not baby got back, side, front, and middle.
Exactly, you will be more attractive to women in their late 30s, early 40s.
Unless you strike it rich before midlife, you're not getting an early 20s trophy wife.
Why would I someone who lifts/ takes care of my health while staying around 12-16& (depending on cut/bulk) body fat want to go with a fat ass lazy slob female? Being fat is an indicator of many attitudes that I don't care for.
> Interviewer: I'm writing a story about young guys who like fat women, who prefer fat women, and your song keeps coming up.
> Sir Mix a Lot: That's funny because that's not what the song is talking about. It cracks me up. I've seen girls that look like me and been like, "Ohhhhh, I'm Baby's got Back!" And I'm like, "No, no, no, no." It wasn't "Baby Got Back and Center, and Middle, and Front." You know?
Look when will you throw tantrum like kid over some bitches that didnt like you because you was ugly fat piece of shit or was as person bitter husk of man then there is no wonder that women didnt like you. Blaming your problems on other is easy
i dont understand you a little bit let me explain for the one who are not so smart. Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response. Get it?
I'm fat, and I'm not attracted to fat people.
But I don't expect thin people to be attracted to me, so I don't go to bars or post ads on Craigslist.
It's a logically self-consistent shallowness.
No duh men are going to ignore 50+ year old women. They ignore most women over 35. 50 is stretching it by a mile.
What can a 50+ year old woman offer me?
-She can't make children from her dried up vag.
-Shes going to cost a lot of money in healthcare
-Shes not fun
-She's not pretty arm candy
-She won't raise my social status.
>Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response.
Because women don't care about you as a person they care only about your looks/money which by the way is only because it gains them social status. Are you retarded or just parroting what the other anon said?
>The research shows that women like men +0 to +5 years their own age.
Mostly out of shape women that have no choice but to be with a beta friend if they want a serious relationship
I have tried that before but I tend to take it to far and push them away. Maximum aloofness is required right now, but I must stress I need to strike when the iron is still hot but not before it's time you know.
What i just told you that women are as shallow as men. Are you fucking stupid?
WOME FUCKING LOVE GOOD BODY
MEN LOVE GOOD BODY
WOMEN LOVE MONEY
MEN LOVE MONEY
DO YOU FUCKING GET IT YOU RETARDED SHIT?
>Look when will you throw tantrum like kid over some bitches that didnt like you because you was ugly fat piece of shit or was as person bitter husk of man then there is no wonder that women didnt like you. Blaming your problems on other is easy
I'm not even mad, you moron. Fucking prostitutes is awesome. It's cheaper and funner than dating. I honestly wish I'd never dated. Women simply aren't worth being in relationships with.
>i dont understand you a little bit let me explain for the one who are not so smart. Girls love ripped guys if you are skeleton or fat then there is no wonder that you had no response. Get it?
And there's a reason fatness has left you bitter and willing to lash out at any man who has escaped your chubby clutches, girlfriend.
Men are waking up to women, and that terrifies you. I get it.
I'd honestly go for a big titted 50 y/o blonde bimbo with a big doughy ass over a skinny ugly birdfaced chick my age (27), that's all I can get though. I'm not looking to have children right now anyways.
Women don't even care about looks that much. They literally worship money. It's all they think about. They might fuck a poor built guy, but they'll marry a rich ugly skinnyfat guy in a heartbeat.
>And there's a reason fatness has left you bitter and willing to lash out at any man who has escaped your chubby clutches, girlfriend.
What the fuck are you completly fucking stupid? ARE YOU FUCKING RETARDED SO FUCKING MUCH THAT YOU CANT EVEN COMPERHEND SIMPLE SENTENCES?
I WILL EXPLAIN IN MOST EASIEST FUCKING PATTERNT THAT EXIST TO THIS FUCKING DAY
Women = love good body
Men = love good body
Women = will response to good body
Men = will response to good body
DO YOU FUCKING GET IT FOR FUCKING SAKE?
Correct me if I'm wrong but you're a fat autistic fuck who blames all her problems on things you have no control over.
Try losing some weight and maturing a bit
This shit is too complicated, I'll stick with mai waifus.
My understanding was the ideal partner (if you're a man) is half your age plus seven.
Nigga, Gollum does not do the smug smirk even one tenth as well as my Tiger Mom waifu.
Robots don't age.
And you can replace the parts that wear out.
By this logic you couldnt date. How woman know if you have fuckload of money when she meets you at bar,street? I agree with height but having great body when you are manlet helps 100x.
> I'm a Yale law professor, 51 and still hot
> My husband is also in his 50s, rich, well-connected, and good-looking Jew
> My half-white children are daughters, thank goodness
> and my family is so important they were invited to a Time magazine party!
>How woman know if you have fuckload of money when she meets you at bar,street?
Clothes. Car. Speech patterns. Facial expressions. Eye contact. Skin condition. Grooming. All these things are social signifiers of wealth. Even muscles signify a high protein diet that costs money to maintain.
Rich people can spot each other at a glance.
When a woman says she wants "confidence" what she really means is "high social standing" which unless the society she's referring to is ghetto hood rats means having money.
Money is the woman's god. They are Mammonists.
He assumes you are fat, because why the actual fuck would a girl with a nice body and face be ferociously debating folks on pol? For fuck's sake.
If you're not fat, then you must be ugly in some other way like have an ugly face. Not trying to be rude but just honest here.
Sorry, but you have male sexual attraction completely wrong. Men fuck whatever looks visually appealing to them, they have no interest in "chasing" anything.
Unless your point is that men don't form relationships with "easy" women, in which case, they're not "losing interest", they just don't want to be with a slut outside of a one night stand. This is because sluts don't make good mates and will easily betray them when it benefits them or just spread their legs for the next guy to come along.
I like a healthy partner. Someone who is fat is undisciplined and lacks genuine self respect. Why would I trust a woman like that to bear and help raise my children and achieve financial goals. Fatty rack disiprine
The women can be convinced of power (which is the basis of loving money). This is based on social status and what the woman holds to be powerful. This is also why wiggers can nail white trash -- white trash women are taught, via social interaction and media, that nigger culture is sought after, thus they seek aspects of it they cannot innately understand. As they age, money becomes the immediate catalyst of power. Thus it becomes apparent the woman simply seeks a mate with powerful influence, relative to her station in life and peers. Women are basically instinct driven morons, for the most part.
similar boat anon. i met some older chick at a biker bar, she kept hinting that we could have fun if i "gave her something". I treated her nice, when she realized i was a decent man, she fucked me for free. i didnt even use a condom, and im completely STD free.
I'm not bitter, cow. I dated in my 20s. I simply get far more female interest now that I have a good career. What don't you understand about this, you vapid cunt?
You're not worth the effort it would take to grab my phone. Also it's hard to take a picture of myself ten years ago with a timestamp, unless you've got a time machine I can borrow, you fucking submoronic retard.
>She also doesn't shitpost on 4chan.
Take a fucking note anon.
Two of my longest relationships (3 years and 7 years respectively) came as the result of women asking me out.
PROTIP: If you like a guy, try asking him out; we all know that women are masters at reading body language, so try asking men out when you know for sure they're interested, for fuck's sake.
And feminists claim to want equality.
Are you fucking stupid im not woman you retarded shit im telling you that you are fucking shit if you cant date woman now i see that you can so shut the fuck up and stop crying over internet.
girls can go on /pol too if we like the content. There is a dearth of conservative news sources that don't constantly harp on cultural side issues like Fox News or the Daily Mail
> muh abortion
> Obama the evil Kenyan Muslim
No, they just like partners that appear to be healthy. A women can still be on the chubby side and pretty healthy, you can tell this visually by her hip to waist ratio.
Why would anyone want to fuck something that looks unhealthy? If they did, that would be a biological abnormality, like being a fag.
What is the fucking point of your argument anyway? Do you just want something to bitch about?
Thanks to the jews, they can simply leech off their husbands to do pic related.
oh well everyone gets older every day. besides old ladies are sometimes cool. grandma was cool. she called out niggers on the street and sandniggers at the gas station. she could cook for 20 people by herself and genuinely enjoyed it. my grandma was wise too and could really put things into perspective. I have a photo of my grandparents, after 50 years of marriage and they were looking at each other like they were both 18. sadly you don't see that kind of relationship much now. maybe women should stop seeing themselves as sex objects and more of nurturers then they wouldn't feel ignored anymore. youth is wasted on the young they say.
I can date women now. I just choose not to because I prefer prostitution, because it's cheaper, more exciting, offers more variety, kinkier, funner, less emotionally taxing, and more convenient. Also, western women are shit. I don't respect them. I would never willingly attach my life to one. Reading and thinking aren't your strong suit, eh?
The only real value a woman has is her womb. The production of an heir is the only thing she really has to offer a man. Her cunt is a smokescreen.
In ten years or so when I want to produce a child, I'll probably import a young wife from Russia and marry her with the sole purpose of filling her womb with my seed.
>women start being treated like the average man when they hit 51
Forgive me for not caring about these cunts. Also, isn't this what the feminists want? For men to ignore women and leave them alone?
Did the thread just turn into a "I'm a bigger victim" contest?
Let me educate you all.
Bitches don't have to work much in order to attract a guy. We're one of the many species on this planet where the males put in most of the effort and compete against other males.
Guys have low impulse control, it seems.
"If we could harness the collective energy men have spent trying to get pussy, we could have colonies on Mars by now."
Guys get desperate for a release, and females falsely assume that they're chasing after THEM because guys are into them.
No, we just want a release. Most people aren't interesting to each other, hardly anyone is interested in dating you.
Women are emotionally unstable and likely rationally inept.
You have your own strengths. Work on them.
Stop trying to be like us.
Stop ruining our fun shit.
Estrogen sucks, deal with it.
PIC FUCKING RELATED. READ IT.
I don't think I'm unduly vindictive. Lots of young men are upset because they receive "no attention" from girls, but in reality, they have nearly all the power.
Assuming they do the generic things that make all people attractive (eat right, exercise, practice good hygiene, wear flattering clothes, get a haircut), they stand a very good chance of getting lots of attention from girls.
They have additional power - they can choose which girls they want, because they have the power to ask girls out. They're the true gatekeepers to relationships. Yes, yes, girls can theoretically ask guys out, but for a variety of reasons, it's not going to happen.
Of course, if a guy chooses to eat too much and become a human hippo, then well, obviously he should be ignored.
I'm 28 and I literally have to beat the 18 - 20 year old girls off of me because they're immature and insane. I get far more attention from women of all ages now that I'm older, oddly enough.
>Bitches don't have to work
Move to Australia. Guys don't have to work either.
>Come over here.
>Cause I wanna talk to you?
>You're really cute
>I have a boyfriend
>I don't care
>Come back to my place for a cone, yeah?
To make a point to a neet, trying-to-come-out-of-his-shell frind of mine on Saturday, I picked up a 6/10 girl in under 10 minutes, with no effort (she was more like a 4/10, but one of those alt bitches who is really good with hair, make-up and clothes).
No, they want control over everything. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
They would never want women to actually be treated equally. If they did, then they wouldn't push for things like affirmative action.
>She's actually 52
>7 years older than Paulley Perrette
>looks 20 years older
>"disciplined with her body"
Not in Sydney.
Don't know where you live, but it's slut central every weekend.
The only difference between guys and girls is that guys will have to drop the standards if they want to get laid as easily as girls. I have an 8/10 female friend. She can pick up a 9/10 guy with the click of a finger.
If I want to get laid easily, I'll have to throw it to some hamplanets, old hags or generally ugly bitches once in awhile.
That's just life. But still, if you're willing to hang around Star Bar at 2 in the morning, you'll not have to put in much effort to pull.
Unless you're fat or ugly.
>Don't know where you live, but it's slut central every weekend.
That's why I said, Australian women are becoming more like American women.
Sluts only to the top 30-40$ of the males.
> I have an 8/10 female friend. She can pick up a 9/10 guy with the click of a finger.
No shit, it's everywhere.
>mfw looking at older women on okc and reading their fucking standards.
lady you are past breeding age: what do you think you are good for?
maybe you shouldn't have shit-canned the father of your children ten years ago.
if you old birds just want a guy to come over and give you the d i can do this for you: but you are clearly looking for a provider.
you want to find a man with his own house so one of you can sell their house and you can piss away the money traveling.
19. A KV. Went to an all boys school so missed the boat on dealing with girls.
Gym fit, martial artist, been rated a 7/10, can dress alright.
Don't have a great personality.
Don't go out to clubs and shit as I don't really like them. So the struggle is really trying to meet girls in the first place.
I also have no idea how to talk to them