>when you realize that you don't need a woman to be happy >when you realize that women will come to you if you have your shit together >when you realize that every moment sitting around feeling sorry for yourself digs a deeper hole
Im 27 and I dont think I can be in love. Everything Ive ever had just amounts to a small break from being alone to "working on myself" which is just a thinly veiled way of saying Im trying to improve myself to find a girl who will love me but every time it's the same song and dance.
>>44261550 there is no such thing as mutual love. a girl loving you that you don't love is annoying and repulsive usually because you have treated them like shit and it is a disgusting reality check on the female mind. Conversely, loving a woman who doesn't love you is a waste of time and fucking pathetic. "Love" and relationships are pointless until you are rich. Women are here for sex, don't listen to liberal cultural marxist bullshit. Our role as men is to impregnate as many women as possible, all the other shit is dumb as fuck because less than 10% of women have any real morals or virtue. If you happen to run into a woman that is a decent person then great, but it is so unlikely you should just fuck as much as possible until you die like you were naturally disposed to do
Got nicely turned down by qt persian girl a few weeks ago. It wasn't that big of a deal, but I've been having a bit of an existential crises over it, which is very unexpected.
She was the first person I've had an interest in for a long time. I'm 27. It's sort of weird between us now. She keeps trying to be nice and chit chat but I'm not having much it.
I've gotten so used to being alone I can really see myself floating through life alone until I die and I'm not sure how I feel about that.
Being distant towards everyone has allowed me to quite effectively hide my extensive alcoholism. I'm in college and getting pretty good grades. I go to study sessions and people ask me to help them, and I'm hammered drunk almost all the time.
Sometimes I stop drinking for a few weeks but then sobriety freaks me out and I start up again. Cheers.
The only reason i ever had a gf was because i matured way earlier than all my peers.
I was way older, taller, bigger, masculine and smarter than my peers
My brain paralyzed by anxiety was still smarter than the average girl my age. So they couldnt really tell that i was terrified of them, i guess.
Time has since caught up with me, and having had a taste, and seeing how superficial it all is is just horrifyingly depressing. I havent even hugged a girl im not related to in 5 years, after getting my dick sucked every day in highschool.
>>44261832 GFs are overrated. I was happiest back in 2011 when I was living alone and my life revolved around drinking beer and playing Skyrim all night. I wouldn't say I'm miserable, and the sex is great, but I sometimes miss the freedom. Enjoy your hobbies and friends as much as you can now because a GF will change all that.
There was a time, though, when I had that feel when.
>>44262355 This is why it's important to find a gf who likes what you like, and who's good company elsewise, or else not bother. It's pretty certain that R7RNkUsI's gf is not taking the relationship very seriously and he's gonna get cheated on or something, and then he'll be bawwing on here, wondering what went wrong and screaming about how evil women are.
No woman has ever "loved" a man, insofar as a man would love a woman, the thing a woman feels love for, as we men understand it, is towards their ideal of a man.
If you happen to fit whatever niche some bitch likes then good for you, if not well tough shit...
Ive been in quite a few relationships since I was 16 and dont really have a hard time getting girls, yet albeit going out with very different types of girls, at 23 Ive never felt a strong connection with any of them and have found most relationships to be very superficial, more specifically, sentimentally superficial.
It seems to me that the only relationships that seem to have a spiritual bond are between really idealistic yet dominating males (also psychopaths) and extremely gullible, broken and submissive girls (also, bitches with BPD) who end up mimicking whatever her bf does, be it the die hard 14/88 /pol/tard and her formerly meth addicted Aryan princess, the annoying hippie that actually believes all his chakra bullshit and his borderline retarded gf whom actually had a pot overdose, the non socially retarded Elliot Rodgers and his supreme ladyfriend or just Charles Manson and his harem.
tl;dr: if you are a non psychopath that doesnt suffer from OCD or if you posses critical thinking skills and know what a cognitive fallacy is you will never find true love.
>>44262279 >>44262355 I have a gf of 3 years and I ignore her almost all the time. She doesn't even seem to care much. Just likes the sound of her voice going over what groceries we need or the meal plans (this is seriously mostly what she talks about). She even knows I don't listen because sometimes she'll tell me something important and then say "well I told you 3 times but you never listen to me".
>>44262450 >No woman has ever "loved" a man, insofar as a man would love a woman, the thing a woman feels love for, as we men understand it, is towards their ideal of a man.
So you realize that women seriously do bawwing that reads like a rule 63 of this?
>It seems to me that the only relationships that seem to have a spiritual bond are between really idealistic yet dominating males (also psychopaths) and extremely gullible, broken and submissive girls (also, bitches with BPD) who end up mimicking whatever her bf does, be it the die hard 14/88 /pol/tard and her formerly meth addicted Aryan princess, the annoying hippie that actually believes all his chakra bullshit and his borderline retarded gf whom actually had a pot overdose, the non socially retarded Elliot Rodgers and his supreme ladyfriend or just Charles Manson and his harem.
>tl;dr: if you are a non psychopath that doesnt suffer from OCD or if you posses critical thinking skills and know what a cognitive fallacy is you will never find true love.
You seem to be bitterly overexaggerating the insanity of those who truly to develop a deep emotional and spiritual bond with the person they're in a relationship with, but you're onto something, and it truly is special when true love happens.
>>44261550 Let me tell you a story. I was a virgin when I was twenty-five. I was miserable. I'd suffered from depression and social anxiety from high school to college, and girl-shy from an abusive upbringing. I had been committed to an institution because of a mental breakdown I had in May. I lost my virginity that December. Let me tell you- single-handedly cured my depression. I immediately thought, 'this is sex? Why the hell did I ever care about doing this? Shit, I coulda learned to code' and it stops being a big deal and you can enjoy life because life is funny. BRIGHT SIDE: you are still capable of forming deep, emotional bonds. There is powerful biochemistry that modifies behavior, but the formation of trust bonds is a powerful factor. In humans, this diminishes after about 5 sex partners. Many, many men have already lost the power to love, but you still might. I lucked into a 1-night stand off eharmony, dated a redhead a few months, but I got 3 strikes left. y'all just need to get out is all. Do something with your life, jeez. THIS IS YOUR ONLY LIFE. NO DO-OVERS. WILL THE FUTURE BE WORTH THE WAIT. 3DPD. GB2R9K UGH
I'm 28, virgin, no friends, no job, depressed, aspergers, WMAF hapa-boy.
I've pretty much come to accept that the chances of me ever marrying an American woman are low, as in very low. I view American women as heartless materialistic bastards. They want the Chads, Bubbas, Tyrones, and Cletuses of the world, not me.
Even if I somehow did manage to get a girlfriend, I don't believe in American marriage. I don't believe in putting half my money on the line, I don't believe in a family court that can make me a lifelong slave.
I care more about money than people, sad but true. All I care about is my stock portfolio. Sociopaths like me make some pretty good investors.
OP love doesn't actually exist. That's just some Christian faggotry. "Love" is a euphemism for sex. What people really want is sex, but you can't just say that. We invented an entire courting process to eventually get to sex.
I, myself, have chosen to live the life of a bachelor. It's great once you get a bit older than 25 you can have sex with single moms.
>>44264163 The basic stock tip is buy low sell high. From 2014 to the start of 2015 I basically experimented on finding what works for me in the stock market. Even though I lost like $3000 in that time period, I still gained an idea of how good investing works.
I only really invest in restaurant stocks because I have a good idea of what good restaurant concepts are and what Americans will want to eat.
>>44264137 I actually have relatives in Japan, I could actually stay at their house whenever I want to. But I don't want to go there and just hemorrhage money. I need a job. I can't speak Japanese. I might be able to get a job teaching English though. I've thought of moving to Hawaii a lot where I'd be more accepted for being a hapa.
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