/pol/, why do men understand women so much better than women understand us?
Trans-men are living proof of this, that women will never understand the male psyche. Transmen are women trying to pass as men, but the problem is, women don't know HOW to be men. Because women don't understand how men think. The one trans “man” I've met usedt he word 'bro' in this really forced way when talking to me, as if he were impersonating a Chad or something. Likewise, he said 'chick' way too often when talking about girls, failing to pick up on the fact that no guy in the modern day walks around going, “Bro, look at alla deez chicks ova here!” They're a laughable caricature at best.
As another example:
I was talking with my girlfriend once about sexual fantasies, and I realized that all of hers were these elaborate scenarios: Getting rescued by a strong hero, Being taken somewhere extremely fancy for dinner, Being a princess, etc. I asked her what she thought my fantasies were, and I could see the gears turning in her head. From what I can gather, her rationale was, "Ok, so male fantasies must have to do with more masculine scenarios, like roleplaying as a famous athlete with a hot wife."
But that’s the thing. What guy has roleplaying-based fantasies? What guy’s sexual fantasy involves him being a strong war hero and sweeping some fair maiden off his horse? This girl couldn't think outside the box enough to realize that my fantasies have nothing to do with roleplaying, and that maybe I just want to bust a nut on her face, or something simple but inexplicably arousing like that.
No that's false anon, they do have simple ones, they are either too embarrassed to say them, or they haven't really thought of it, so they just say the default stuff.
You have to dig in there to get to the real ones.
I mean, I get that girls have fantasies like that too. Being choked is a pretty common one. But it's more just the total inability to understand how the male brain works. They think it's like a counterpoint to theirs, as opposed to being different entirely.
Seems like a pretty half-assed explanation but maybe there's some truth to it.
I've had a similar conversation with a woman recently. It was me, her and two other guys. She said that women have sick fetishes too and that we'd be surprised to know what hers were. We were drinking at the time and she got drunk enough to tell us. We weren't surprised. We told her some of the stuff we we into and she was in this mindframe that everything had to be because men wanted to display their power over women. If I had told her
>I just want to bust a nut on her face
then she would have come up with some completely wrong psychological BS to explain it.
Women are complex and harder to understand than men, but with enough intelligence and ability to think logically and rationally you can start to understand the biology that makes women tick. So men while some can be stupid, are generally capable with enough time and insight able to crack that box.
Women's absurd and quite frankly laughable inability to use even basic logic over emotion stops them from being able to understand anything rational. The laughable thing is that men are generally pretty easy to understand, we have only a few core biological drives and imperatives.
i work with a hardcore butch lesbian in her late 20s i believe, and she acts like a retarded caracature of a dude. she says yolo, she makes crude sex jokes towards other women and plays with nerf guns in the office.
I think women tend to have a pretty good grasp on the male psyche, especially on a gut level. They might not know much about your fantasies and inner world, but they can intuit which buttons to push if they want something. It's a thousand times more effective, than intellectual analysis, so why bother with the latter.