should i just go join the military /r9k/?
i'm good at nothing and am a drain on my family, never had a job or a girlfriend
i graduated from highschool last spring, and ever since then every time i've come out of my room i've gotten snide looks and mean remarks from my mom and sister
i really don't think i'd fit in with the chads in the military, but at the same time it seems like the only way to make something of myself
Not OP, but how exactly does getting accepted work? I mean, if I'm a weak manlet, will they train me in bootcamp and I'm good? Or will I be rejected even before that for being too weak, and will have to get stronger then reapply?
Don't be so impatient in life, you've made time your enemy. Stop. Go with the flow and things will be fine.
Military wouldn't be a horrible career choice as it aligns with your natural leadership qualities and general toughness and how resilient you are. But this decision you are making might be due to stagnation and boredom and it might not be the smartest choice. Military is a binding commitment. There is no wiggle room and way to weasel out of, so think very very carefully if this is the path you wish to pursue. Are you doing it because you really want to or purely because its something to do that might be beneficial...or doing it simply because you are dissatisfied with how your life currently is.
Here are some careers that play to your strengths:
software, mechanics, architecture, real estate agent. Its says you don't have great social skills and in the work place you hate having to rely on others, since you'll outperform them and the incompetence of others will just frustrate you. You are a super worker, you'll be great whatever career you choose, but whether you will be happy is another story, so think carefully.
Since you are still young don't be scared to trial and error things out because remember time is not your enemy. Take it easy fam.
>natural leadership qualities and general toughness and how resilient you are
I think it's cool that you took the time to write this, but that's not me at all. I'm pretty much just a beta with horrible social skills who's useless at everything.
I don't think you've lived enough to make that assessment about yourself, you might be surprised to discover what you are capable of. You are a tough nut, once you get out there you'll be okay.
It says here you are very critical about yourself and life, don't be so hard on yourself. Your family loves and support you.
Hey I do appreciate the feedback btw.