Girl just said to me I give a very non-threatening vibe and that made her want to be my friend more than my gf.
So.. They need to feel threatened?
She's telling you that you're not attractive in a nice way. She'll praise any of Chad's personality traits and use any of yours as a reason to not date you.
You just don't measure up to the checklist that she thinks she's entitled to.
You fucking shithead. I just heard it literally out of the mouth of a chick and you're gonna bullshit me here with your stupid little unaware normie wisdom about how not all people are like that, while you're probably the biggest dick to people in daily life, confusing it for 'banter'.
Fuck you and your "not all women", "not all muslims" and other semi-profound crap.
Women like thinking they're so irresistible that you are restraining yourself from raping her but when you get her home alone you're going to start ripping her clothes off and kissing her without any provocation.
The catch being you're not so rapey or creepy that she avoids being alone with you. Basically you have to understand that women are narcissistic little girls at heart with adult bodies and rights.
How can you not understand this yet? It's literally about how attractive you are. If you're a bitch and unattractive you're non-threataning friend material, if you were attractive you be sensitive an emotional. If you are not expressive about emotions and unnatractive you'd be unable to cater to her emotional needs, the attractive counterpart is strong silent type.
For some reason girls don't like to just say that they aren't into you because you look like shit and have to come up with bullshit reasons.