so i met a cute girl on tinder and we've been texting for a few days and i've been thinking about asking her to hang out with me. i suffer from minor social anxiety (it has been improving) but i still worry about small stuff like "how do i make small talk?" and "how often do i make eye contact??" I really like this girl and i want to meet her in person but not if i'm going to make myself look autistic and sit there in silence while we eat food or something. please help /r9k/
Make eye contact as much as possible unless you have shit skin tier brown eyes. Just ask her lots of questions like about her family and stuff or like if her mom has ever cheated or if her mom pussy stayed tight after she had her.
If you really like her, talking to her will be easier. Just ask her out for coffee, ask more questions than you answer and talk about things she wants to talk about. Be polite, look like you are listening and actually listen.
Do until she looks away.If she likes you and looks away it's a win, she won't find you creepy.If she likes you and keeps looking then you can make a playful conversation out of it.
Staring contest, easy to develop into some playful conversation.Either way, what can she say?Accuse you of being creepy?She's looking at you too, so she's creepy too then, it's mutual.
Anyways, women always look first away unless you are total sperg or have little control.
Do a variation of "be yourself". I would say think of it this way: she could, by all rights, be a shitty person that you don't like. By being so worried, you've forced yourself to believe that she will automatically be the best thing ever. So just admit to yourself the possibility that she may either not be for you, or may just be a shitty person. Then you do what everybody does: have fun while subtly probing to see who the person is and if you like them.
Don't overthink and just say shit off the cuff. The key to this is that when you INEVITABLY say something dumb as fuck, you KEEP going off the cuff and save yourself. Most robots fuck this up and go back into overthink mode to fix a faux pas and ruin it.
>she could suck, so give yourself some credit playboy